I was thinking about this. I went to university, and I worked in tech for decades. I met many assholes but I didn't meet anyone that would fit on the left half of the bell curve (less than 100 iq).

Since I've been living in that bubble my entire life, I'm curious of your stories. Have you met someone who was actually quite dumb (not just having opinions you don't agree with) and do you have an example situation you remember you can share?

Hopefully this becomes more funny than hateful since intelligence is not the value of a person, but it can be funny to read the stories.

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[–] 79 points 5 months ago (2 children)

It's incredible how easy it is to remain in a bubble. Family, friends, neighbors, college, work colleagues - all are going to be closer to you than the average person.

Anyone who has worked retail, customer service, or otherwise general public-facing jobs will have this put in perspective pretty quickly.

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  • [–] 31 points 5 months ago

    Indeed, contact with the public will do it quickly.

    I work with a long list of clients at my work who seem to lack any type of critical thinking skills whatsoever, a significant fraction of them are apparently functionally illiterate, and a shocking number of them are actually incapable of understanding abstract concepts. These people cruise through life just as happy as you please, at least until they run up against some frustration that they can't understand at which point their default response is typically to get violently angry, and as an outside observer it's equal parts fascinating and deeply troubling. I can't imagine existing that way. Being unable even to read, and with every new concept or technology being an inscrutable puzzle box so terrifying that your only recourse is to scream and tantrum and threaten until someone else comes along and makes it go away.

    And yet, most of these same stupid people are highly derisive of smart people. This notwithstanding that without these purported nerds, geeks, Poindexters, and wimps they'd be freezing in the dark as they starved to death. Somehow they've managed to get jobs, afford cars and mortgages, and they're allowed to vote, procreate, and even buy guns. It's enough to make me never want to leave my IT dungeon or, perhaps, never return from the mountains. But I have to, so here I am.

    I interact with truly stupid people on a daily basis. I could tell you all some whoppers from my time in the trenches.

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    [–] 42 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    I didn't meet anyone that would fit on the left half of the bell curve (less than 100 iq).

    I promise you that you have. I don't care what industry you worked in. You were vastly overestimating a lot of people.

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    I’ve mostly moved in the same sort of bubbles as OP (I think) and while it wasn’t super common, I definitely met people in that bubble, who had to be on the other side of the curve. I don’t have many funny stories about it; people struggling to keep up with their peers in competitive environments are more often sad or frustrating.

    OK, there was one kinda funny thing where a PM at a household name tech company cornered me (an engineer with a math degree) to emphatically detail his “system” for craps. I tried so hard to explain why it’s impossible to have a “system” for predicting the outcome of dice rolls, he just wouldn’t hear it. I later told a friend about the encounter who replied “that ought to be a fireable offense”.

    That wasn’t the dumbest thing that dude ever said nor the reason l flipped the bozo bit but it was the funniest.

    To clarify , he was talking about playing in a casino and wasn’t talking about using altered dice or doing slight of hand where you’re not really throwing the dice.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    To be fair, there is a way to bet in craps that minimizes the house odds and gets it to a roughly 52% chance the house will win. This is very simple and pretty boring, i.e. not much of a system. As it turns out, these are the lowest house odds for any game found in a casino.

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  • [–] 85 points 5 months ago* (1 child)

    I can't get away from the idiot. I have to see him in the mirror every morning.

    As far as a funny story: My friends brother isn't very bright sometimes. My friends computer chair broke, one of the 5 metal supports that lead out to the plastic wheels snapped. My friends brother was learning how to weld so he tried to fix the support and in trying to test the strength of the weld he started bashing the seat against the floor and broke every plastic wheel... lol

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  • [–] 36 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    I spent 20 minutes (I timed it) on the phone diagnosing a tech support issue and instructing the user on how to fix it. It took about 10 seconds for me to realise that number lock was turned off.

    The rest of the 20 minutes was trying to get the user to find and press "Num lock" on the keyboard.

    About 10 minutes in, they actually found and pressed it. Apon noticing that nothing had appeared on the screen, they tried pressing it again, then announced it didn't work.

    Somehow, just getting them to press the button one more time was not simple, as they now had to begin their logical left-to-right scan of the keyboard again to find this mysterious new "Num lock" button they'd never heard of before.

    This person (on another call) would say the name of each key as they pressed it. They would say "Caps lock, A, Caps lock, Enter" when typing a single "A" on a line, but didn't know what "Caps lock" was and couldn't find it on the keyboard when asked to press it immediately after having said and pressed it.

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  • [–] 8 points 5 months ago*

    Man this reminds me. I was helping an engineer support my company remotely and after a month or so of everything working fine, he emails frantically and says "THE SCREEN IS BROKEN!"

    After some time, I finally figured out that he means he can't log on to the VPN. Probably two hours of testing in and we didn't figure it out, so we left it. The third fucking day of this I eventually was annoyed and wanted a coffee break, so i told him to reboot again. He actually rebooted this time and it works.

    Caps lock had been on for like 3 days. Everything he typed was yelling because he just didn't notice.

    I later met someone in IT at his company who said that this is a fairly regular occurrence from him

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    I used to do phone tech support for a device that hooked up to TVs to filter out profanity.

    I would give very explicit instructions on what to plug where. It was really common for me to have people unplug everything and start over because they did something wrong, and I had no way of knowing what because they were all unreliable narrators.

    On a second, third, fourth attempt I'd often hear a "OH! You said to plug that into the TOP ROW! I've been plugging it in to the bottom row." Or something like that.

    A call less than 30 minutes was a good call. Calls over an hour were not uncommon. If I had someone who could follow instructions, it could be as quick as a handful of minutes.

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  • [–] 31 points 5 months ago

    I don't think we've met yet.

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  • [–] 30 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Yes bro. I work a customer facing job and drive in traffic. I encounter morons every day.

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  • [–] 27 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    If you haven't met a dumb person, you are the dumb person.

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  • [–] 26 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (3 children)

    TIL that dumb is defined as having scored less than 100 IQ.

    Anyway, I've worked enough customer service to say with some confidence that I've met at least a few people who truly just exist and let the world happen to them with zero curiosity.

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  • [–] 11 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

    I've worked enough customer service.

    I feel this so hard. Nothing like working with the general public to realize how fucking dumb so many are. Critical thinking skills are scarce on this planet.

    I did both fast food and big box retail, and holy shit people are dumb. For anyone here who wants to say that's mean or I don't understand, I counter with you've never had a cheeseburger thrown at you because apparently they wanted a cheeseburger with no cheese and how dare you not know that.

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  • [–] [S] -1 points 5 months ago

    Yeah you are right. It's not dumb to be on the left side, unless it's quite far on the left side. And even then, it's not at all the most important human quality at all.

    I meant that I have lived in a bubble a bit, with friends, colleagues, girls all being university students. I have never worked customer service or been in the military.

    Many of the examples in this thread are experiences I haven't had. So I just wanted to ask people about their experiences.

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  • [–] 24 points 5 months ago (5 children)

    Yes, I knew someone when I worked in retail who was quite dumb, she was a super sweet person though.

    I realized how dumb she was when we encountered a mouse in the back stocking area. It crawled under the door and out to the back of the building. She turned to me and said “I heard the reason mice can crawl under doors like that is because they don’t have any bones”

    Me being a biology major with a big interest in all things animals and insects that loves to educate people tried to correct her. I told her about how all mammals have bones and that mice were just very flexible to be able to fit under the gap in the door. I told her about how we used to dissect owl pellets when I was in 3rd grade and put the little skeletons back together. She did not believe me and still thought mice just don’t have bones.

    I do sometimes wonder if she ever finished nursing school.

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  • [–] [S] 5 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    It would be amazing if they didn't have any bones. Just a big blob of flesh. :)

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    Yeah, like I said, she was a really sweet gal. She cared about people, her family, and coworkers. She was a hard worker and I enjoyed having her as a colleague. I really liked her, she just wasn’t very smart.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    My brother-in-law heard and believed that cats could squeeze into tight places because they have "collapsible skeletons." Like, they could sense a tight place and detach their bones on demand and pop them back in later.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    Now that’s an interesting one. I don’t get where people get this kind of stuff. Like, do you not pay any attention in science class? It’s some of the most basic of basic biology. But I was also the kid who used to read biology textbooks for fun lol

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  • [–] 23 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Ive known several MAGA people.

    One in particular stands out, she was in charge of processing bills for our company, and she basically got all her propaganda from fox news. The company is/was a civil engineering firm (I no longer work there), we specialized partly in large municipal water projects, dams, water infrastructure, injection wells, large scale stormwater percolation, reservoirs etc.

    During the big California wildfires (when firefighters kept not getting water out of the hydrants), the head engineer and the lead technical engineer held one of their once-a-month training lunches, and they decided to go over the California wildfires and the effects on the water infrastructure.

    This lady stands up, and interrupts the lead technical engineer (who was going over flow/pressure/friction equations to show why hydrants ran dry when there was so much demand), to insist that the reason California is running out of water is that "Newsom drained the reservoir to protect some stupid fish" and other fox news idiocy. Spent a solid 5 minutes trying to tell a bunch of civil engineers a bunch of "information" about water systems that was so hilariously wrong that it was actually impressive.

    That was a very awkward few minutes while HR tried to tell this lady that she needs to let the engineers actually learn how to do the job.

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  • [–] [S] 6 points 5 months ago

    Yeah I have seen examples of this behavior on YouTube. People become very convinced about something and it warps their entire view of reality. And yeah, some people don't realize that other people can be much, much better at something than they are, and they should listen, not talk in that situation. :)

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  • [–] 20 points 5 months ago* (3 children)
  • But of course! One I know well. He's a very friendly and likable person, and never judges anyone. He has a large social circle, a steady job doing manual tasks. He has a delightful longtime girlfriend. But he can't grasp abstract concepts, or any but the simplest logical concepts. He hides any lack of understanding with a quick joke, but is highly susceptible to propaganda.

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  • [–] 19 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (6 children)

    I got some for you.

    I used to work in the computer lab of a public library. I've met so many people carrying such a profound lack of basic understanding or reasoning skills, that the most terrifying thought was realizing "They drove here."

    I put up with that job way too long... It was... So deeply soul sucking I'm still recovering years later. I wish I were joking.

    A lot of people who simply didn't read anything presented to them on a screen, couldn't handle the concept of email, and had no idea how to open Microsoft Word, much less type a resume. That was kinda the bread and butter there, unfortunately, but we did our best.

    It was a whole lot of "That sounds hard. Do it for me?" And they found all sorts of weasle ways to need constant babysitting without crossing the line of my job description.

    Few wanted to actually learn anything. (If they did, I went above and beyond.) They mostly wanted a free butler to do their homework assigned by the government or a lawyer or their job or whatever.

    These people are dumb by choice, because they are intellectually lazy.

    "Monke, stop being mean to the 85 year olds!" You might be thinking. No. These were like 40 and 50 year olds who would tell me "I'm old school, I don't do computers." Computers were around since way before me! Where the heck were you!?!? (I'm now convinced whenever people say "old school" they mean "no school.")

    Some examples:

    We used to put big obvious "Out of Order" signs over the screens if a machine wasn't working correctly. I watched a young lady in like her 20s, sit down at that machine, make eye contact with me, see the sign, flip it over, attempt to sign in, then walk up to me to say (yes, in fluent English) it wasn't working.

    I had a regular patron always looking for pastry chef jobs. We had to keep her resume, email address, and password on our work machine because she'd show up every week having forgotten all of it. She ended up with one pastry job only to get fired for eating one from a tray on shift.

    So she applied to a grocery chain I think (with significant hand holding by a number of staff), and they had one of those basic competency tests like giving correct change and "Click the picture that shows how many apples are left if we had 5 and take 2 away."

    I explained the nature of the question but that I couldn't do the thinking for her, and I shit you not this woman in like her early 50's broke down upset that it was all too much to handle. Like, first grade math. She was one who drove there, by the way. In a car.

    I had a dude get grouchy with me because I told him he couldn't edit videos with PowerPoint (there was no video editing software on those machines.)

    I had people more than once try to get me to help them use Paint or GIMP to alter a scan of a pay stub. (FAT CHANCE!)

    They would often try to call customer service reps and hand us the phone. Another huge no.

    And these people all showed up to blame their struggles...On me.

    ...Yeah, I've met people that have made me weep for the species. They have zero curiosity, zero intrinsic understanding or critical thinking or pattern recognition, and they are seemingly content only knowing how to just complain and buy things.

    A mind is a terrible thing to waste. And I have seen quite a few wasted minds. It really does break my heart.

    Edit: Still work for the library, but in a MUCH better position now. I'm still sad the the weirdest most unhinged people I meet usually want the computer lab though, and I hurt for my colleagues over there...

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    I've spent lots of time at the public library and I've never seen this, though, I'm not surprised. For better or worse, the public library brings refuge to the the most vulnerable people in our population.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago* (1 child)

    Yeah, the library is definitely a wonderful institution for everyone! I did get a chance to support some wonderful people who wouldn't have had any support otherwise.

    I don't wanna sound like I lacked any compassion or understanding. I wouldn't have survived many years doing that job otherwise. I was just focusing on the prompt. But the "carer's fatigue" was REAL.

    It wasn't all bad though! For example: While I couldn't/wouldn't personally touch anybody's computers, I did help two people with really old laptops switch to Linux Mint, and they LOVED IT. So that was really cool! (I kept wanting to run a clinic for this and admin just kinda ignored me to shut me down)

    But at the same time, it's clear in the U.S at least, the library is often positioned as an ill-equipped bandaid to cover a gaping wound in a decayed and eviscerated social system. Libraries would be more pleasant for all with a working social safety net and more "third places" that were free to all to enioy.

    Clearly in this case, libraries are expected to make up where underfunded schools utterly failed their students.

    Employees trained to help with information are also called upon to be social workers, teachers, employment specialists, and even crisis management personnel in the most extreme cases, and are paid to be none of these things.

    Of course private interests and their pet politicians are keen on destroying libraries like they did everything else, because free access to knowledge is dangerous to them. :)

    So yeah, support your local library: The last place you can be without paying admission. ❤️

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago*

    Exactly, I go to libraries because sometimes I need a place to sit down and do work and it's kind of sad what I have to see in the library. I see so many homeless people and it's all a result of the conditions we live in right now. There really is no other free 3rd place like the library.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    I'm 50 and I worked in tech until very recently, so yeah, age is not the problem there. It's just that they have no interest at all in it.

    I guess its like me trying to learn a language, something I find very frustrating. I would take any shortcut I could to avoid any struggle, because I just want the end result, not the journey. :)

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago* (1 child)

    I mean maybe? But even if it's frustrating it sounded like you tried and that's the key point I'm trying to make about intelligence.

    I've been there too, and I think finding shortcuts to communicate is part of the process, right? Also I notice people tend to LOVE helping new people learn their language here and there. People love it when others are trying their best even if they're awful at it. I wouldn't call that dumb, for sure. :)

    My experience with these folks felt more like those stereotypical cringey tourists or expats, who would move somewhere foreign to them and just get louder and more indignant at everybody: "WHY ISN'T EVERYTHING IN ENGLISH?! CAN'T YOU SPEAK ENGLISH?! I WANT TO TALK ONLY IN ENGLISH ABOUT HOW ANNOYING YOUR LANGUAGE IS AND HOW FRUSTRATED THAT MAKES ME. ABSORB MY NEGATIVE EMOTIONS!!"

    It struck me as demoralizing and sad how often the first words someone would utter in my presence were "I hate computers."

    I guess I just realized something about computers makes stupid people very mean. 🤔

    So I'm happy to help people learn computers, who actually want to learn something new.

    Computers are for anyone! But it was a mistake to push them on everyone. Especially if the school systems weren't going to bother with teaching them.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    Certain types of stupid people get mean around computers because they are frustrating to use if you don't understand what you are doing.

    Computers are complex machines with a lot of options and no understanding of intent. When dealing with simple machines, someone can just poke random things until they get the outcome they want, limited understanding required. When talking to a person, the other person can recognize their question makes no sense and try to find their misunderstanding or explain in simpler terms.

    A computer responds to these things with an error message they don't understand or don't care to understand. It won't use simpler language if they seemed confused. It won't try to calm them down if they start showing frustration. It will just keep doing what it's doing and make them feel stupid, leading to frustration and anger.

    On the flip side, a lot of stupid people love LLMs because they will accept any insane input and will output a reasonable looking answer(correct or not) while showering them in validation.

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  • [–] 18 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    I once worked with a guy who did not know the sun was a star and didn't know what planets were. This was when I was in the military. I had a an unlabeled world map in my office and whenever someone new(to Germany) came in to be introduced I'd point to the map and say, "I'll buy you a beer if you can point out our location on the map". It was just an icebreaker so pointing at Europe was good enough. It was shocking how many people couldn't locate Germany on a world map and quite a few couldn't locate their home state on that world map.

    I worked with another guy(a computer programmer) who thought the earth was 6000 years old. He also once told me that vertigo is when you feel like you're standing still and the earth is spinning and indigo is when it feels like you're spinning and the earth is still.

    I work with and interact with professionals and am often reminded of something Richard Feynman said, "Never confuse education with intelligence, you can have a PhD and still be an idiot."

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 5 months ago*

    I think many people in Europe could not point out the American states either. It's one of those things you learn in school once and never do again. :)

    I guess most people would know Florida and California maybe. But just guessing here.

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  • [–] 18 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    Well I'm surrounded by religious magas so, yes.

    "Earth is 2000 years old. Gay is wrong and unnatural. Dinosaurs didnt exist. Democrats want to turn the US into Russia. Trump should take over Canada"

    All actual things said by real life people to me.

    Its baffling how stupid most Americans are.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    There's a difference between intelligence and poor upbringing though. 500 years ago even the smartest person alive probably believed the first three of them, because anyone who said otherwise was crazy, and all the authority figures were saying it was objective fact. If you raise someone today from childhood, cut off from a lot of external influence, then regardless of how smart they are they'll probably still lean towards believing them. Brains are weird, and the ability to process information, solve problems, remember things, and question things don't necessarily correlate as well as you'd expect.

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  • [–] 17 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    Yeah, about a decade back. A friend of my roommate was not very bright. She said stuff like "why would anyone do a PhD, didn't we already research all there is?”.

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago

    You're gonna give me a small crisis with that one.

    I've racked my brain trying to figure out how anyone could be so culturally and politically regressive when the world is chock full of stuff that didn't exist a decade or two ago. And then your post shows a very plausible anecdote that kind of explains it. To think that anyone would observe the outside world and see a fixed and solved existence with no forward trajectory, despite recent history clearly illustrating the opposite, just baffles me. Yet, that really happens.

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    I had a friend in elementary school that was a little slow sometimes. One day we were walking home from school, and out of nowhere, he asks, "Why don't they just make the Playstation 9?"

    It took me a minute to figure out what he even meant by that. The Playstation 2 had just came out. Did he think that companies already have the schematics for all of their products decades into the future, but they're just rolling them out one at a time anyway? Does he think that they already know what the PS 3 through 8 are going to be, and they can just...decide to skip those?

    It was only about a year ago, right here in a fedi thread, that someone shared this PS2 commercial and I had a giant AH-HAH! moment that was decades in the making.

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    I promise it's not! It really is about hearing funny stories.

    I just think we tend to hang out with people of the same social class and may actually never encounter someone a bit dumb. Like I said, I really haven't.

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  • [–] 10 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    They say if you don’t know who the sucker is at a card table…

    Anyway yeah you’ve probably just never ever ever met anyone who was even slightly below average intelligence. Statisticians might want to study your story

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  • [–] 8 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    As someone who also went to a good university and worked in tech, it boggles my mind that someone with that experience could claim not to have met a dumb person. I have to question OP's ability to judge intelligence. People from those social environments do at least have to develop the patina of not being a knuckle-dragger which some might be fooled by, but I've seen many cases of deep stupidity lurking behind that.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago*

    imagine you never went to school and work in septic system maintenance, and spend your entire life in one small suburban town, never really leaving unless you go on vacation once a year or so for a week.

    can you imagine this person never meeting a dumb person? or maybe it's that they wonder why people are so ignorant of septic systems and keep flushing weird shit down their toilets and fucking up their plumbing?

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  • [–] 13 points 5 months ago

    Wait haven’t you ever had to go to like, the DMV or a Walmart, or a CVS at 11pm? I’m not saying the professions are filled with dummies but the cross section of public you encounter there is sure to have a few dummies.

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    I literally met someone who called 911 for a broken artificial fingernail.

    Spend sometime in the emergency Department and you'll meet plenty.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    how do these people not go bankrupt!!!

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    I'm not sure I understand the question.

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

    I was in a conscription army. Everyone fit for duty gets called up. I think we can assume that the very extremes wouldn't be fit. But anyone 80+ from the lower side of that bell curve would be there. It's a good mix of the whole country.

    I think in most cases you wouldn't realise that someone was on the side of the bell curve unless they had serious problems with social cues.

    This one guy didn't know how to shower. He'd strip down, cover himself in soap and then shower it off. I knew this guy from school, and he was bullied a lot. He'd rage out about any little thing, so bullies got a kick out of it. I guess it was a chicken and egg problem.

    One guy was nervous about getting drafted, so he showed up shitfaced on the bus that rolled in. As the rest went to stand in line to get signed in and get their gear, he ran and hid in a bush until the MP:s came to get him. Nice enough guy. He hung himself in the forest a few years after conscription.

    Another guy really tried to get out of serving by complaining about his knees, hoping to get deemed unfit for service. He got assigned lighter duties, which were to service the fleet of bicycles the army has. When time came around to use them, they all had issues.

    Another had been driving trucks before conscription. He claimed he hit 110km/h due to having the sun in his back. He was quite the mythomaniac in general. He didn't make any friends, didn't pick up on social queues and could not clean up his dialect enough to be understood by half of the people there. He came by my bunks asking about a helmet and shovel his friend had borrowed from him, and was supposed to leave with us when friend was discharged. Turns out his "friend" broke into his locker to "borrow" the gear to return for his discharging. I got called in as a witness in that incident, but I hadn't heard anything about it until dumb guy came along for his stuff.

    Edit: i just remembered movie night with that last guy. We had a classroom with a TV up front and a microwave on the windowsill for heating snacks. He was sitting by the microwave and his sergeant passed a pack of microwave popcorn down the row to be microwaved. Dumb guy asks for instructions - "just toss it in and set it for three minutes". Three minutes in it starts smelling burnt in the whole room. Turns out dumb guy left the plastic wrapping on.

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 5 months ago* (1 child)

    Thats actually a good place where this sort of thing would happen. Conscription army... I guess in a war we would meet all kinds.

    I felt sorry reading about the guy who hung himself. Some people should be excused from service in my opinion.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago*

    I don't think the hanging was related to his time in service. As I recall, love trouble was the trigger and alcohol abuse the catalyst.

    You can get dismissed for psychological reasons, it's not hard if you want out. They do a test to screen that you're not a liability. And you have the option to do civil service instead.. which if pretty much free labor at some municipal place.

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  • [–] 42 points 5 months ago (6 children)

    Education and employment level do not preclude stupidity. I too work in stem. I have had antivax colleagues.

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    I don't think antivax requires stupidity. Some people just don't trust the health system, and often for good reason. Black people, for example, have faced some horrible things due to the government, in the name of "science".

    I think there are two types of antivax. There's the distrusting kind, which I think is pretty reasonable honestly. There's a lot of history behind it. Then there's the "I've done my own research" kind, which are stupid and will buy anything someone else says if it agrees with their preconceived ideas.

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  • [–] 9 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    I guess it depends on how you define stupidity.

    Distrusting governments and distrusting vaccines are totally different things. There is vast scientific consensus that vaccines work, if you're antivax you've made a conscious decision to ignore that, which is stupid in my book. Distrusting government advice on vaccines, depending on where you are, may be totally justified.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Well, again, many groups have has the scientific establishment lie to them in order to experiment on them. I can't really blame people who have that in their cultural memory for being skeptical of the current scientific establishment too. I can't view that as stupid. For example, even if the Nazis have the scientific establishment backing them up (they did in some cases), I don't want people trusting them. I don't think that's wrong. It's often hard to impossible to separate science and the state.

    I don't think that's happening today though, at least not to a large extent. I think science is a lot more open now, and there's too many people watching for the same things to happen without us knowing. There are probably some pretty fucked up small experiments happening today, but not on the scale of vaccines. However, I feel it's important to see where people are coming from, especially if you want to convince them of something. If you want to convince marginalized groups to trust the concensus on vaccines, you need to understand why they'd be skeptical so you can overcome that skepticism.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    Doubting an experimental vaccine is different to being antivax.

    There no ambiguity on vaccines, the science is settled, and anyone who doubts vaccines as a concept because of localised corruption isn't harbouring a healthy amount of caution. I call it stupidity, but others might say brainwashed.

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  • [–] 11 points 5 months ago

    I've met plenty of 'dumb' people that function just fine in a familiar environment. You would never know in normal circumstances. The problem comes when something out of the ordinary happens. For instance, we had a shop worker with a learning disability. She dealt with all the common problems just fine, but if someone asked for something out of the ordinary, or for directions (this was pre-smartphone) it quickly becomes apparent.

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  • [–] 11 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    i had someone assigned under me at work. this person was old enough to have a teenager, yet she could not function. we were painting the halls, she kept setting the paint tray into puddles of paint that she spilled, then kept setting it down on the bare floor. she could not understand how to scrape tape off the tabletops. she could not tell me what her job duties were after 4 months of doing the same shit every day (take trash out, clean bathrooms, sweep, wipe down tables. she could not list that off to me. any time i was giving her direction, she would stare bankly at me slackjawed, like there was no intelligence in her eyes, then 5 minutes later  i would find her on her phone because she couldnt remember what she was supposed to do and didnt even think of asking me to remind her.

    she lived a couple houses away from where we work and her mother (who she lives with) would walk over to check on her sometimes. weird.

    the last straw came when after 2 hours of work, i came out of the bathroom and all the lights were off and alarm code set, and she was gone. i texted her and asked where she went and she said she thought we were done for the day bc she finished her task and couldnt find me (I WAS IN THE BATHROOM.)

    when i got management involved, i was told i didnt try hard enough with her. lol

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  • We used to have an employee like that too. You could give him exactly one task at a time. Any more than that, and he would get overloaded and nothing would get done. And even then, the one task usually had to be double-checked, because there was a good chance he would do it wrong. Even when it was something we did every day, and that he had been shown multiple times.

    He was the embodiment of “the lights are on but nobody is home.” He was awake and seemingly alert… But holy shit, that is a very big sliding scale. Oftentimes when talking to him, you legitimately got the impression that he was zoned out like a driver turning their brain off during their commute.

    He quit to become a middle school teacher. No clue how he is doing now, but we made lots of jokes about his middle schoolers being smarter than him when he left.

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  • [–] 11 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    I wait tables and deal with the public every day. So, yes.

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  • [–] 11 points 5 months ago* (2 children)

    I work in mental health and I’ve definitely met patients who have low IQ scores. However, even without getting into clinically significant low IQ ranges, I can virtually guarantee you that you’ve met people who have sub-100 IQs. 100 is the average human IQ score. You haven’t gone through life this far without meeting people who fall a few points below it, just as you haven’t failed to meet people who score above it. A person with a 95 IQ is not going to be able to be distinguished from a person with a score of 105 by someone who doesn’t have substantial training in assessing IQ (and even then, most experts would have to formally test people to detect subtle differences like that).

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  • [–] 10 points 5 months ago

    My old roommate. He would make like 20 chicken drumsticks in the night/evening, eat one or two of them, and then leave them to sit out all night only to throw them away in the morning. It did not just happen once, he did it like at least 4 times. Huge waste of food.
    He also once cooked [my!] ground beef with 0 seasoning, literally just in a pan. And while he has that plain ground beef sitting in a container in the fridge, he started defrosting another pound of MY beef. What are you going to use it for?? You already have plain ground beef that you cooked literally yesterday!?!?
    He also had this ancient and suffering blind & deaf chihuahua who wore diapers, and he would leave the dirty diapers in the most random places including on top of the electricity utility box in front of the house where everybody can see it.

    I did not even believe in idiots/stupid people until I met this guy. He was also a big fan of Charlie Kirk, by the way.

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  • [–] 10 points 5 months ago* (3 children)

    A particular fellow student comes to mind who was slow to understand things, made a comparative lot of programming mistakes and so he took more time, but he also worked hard, stuck to a problem until it was solved, coordinated tasks well, and additionally brought positive spirits to any project group. I assume he'd score under 100 but I'd love to have him on my team if he applied with us today.

    It's hard to know for sure though, since 100 is the average by definition and most people will be relatively close to it. Not like 97 or 103 makes a big difference. It's half the people you meet in public, like, (by and large) we all go to the same primary schools and supermarkets etc. Outside of those (so tertiary education, workplaces, online bubbles perhaps, etc.), there's still a substantial fraction who learned a lot and/or have a good work attitude and go very far in life amidst people who didn't have to work hard to get anywhere

    It frankly seems strange to assume you basically never met anyone who is slightly below the average. From a statistics point of view, one might wonder if that's a dumb thing to say ;) (jk)

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 5 months ago* (2 children)

    Some people have understood what I meant. We tend to live in our own bubbles with people from the same social class. Everyone around us went to university, all the colleagues, our friends and so on.

    And I meant that I have never seen anyone act in a very dumb way. There are stories in this thread about conscripts, where you see examples of what I mean. Or customer service jobs, where you meet all kinds. I have never had any job like that.

    Perhaps I could have explained it better.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago (1 child)

    The person I was talking about in the first paragraph was in a school that's internationally considered a university! People in "we all went to university" bubbles may not all be that type of smart, although - yes - many of them will be. Degrees primarily show whether someone thrives in a structured school setting, and most people not acting very dumb is not surprising when they're near (but below) the average

    I've completed the highest and the lowest mainstream education levels in my country. Long story how that came to be, but what that taught me is that while university students frequently have an easier time memorising facts on paper than those who "work with their hands" (not sure if that's how you say it in English), it's not a given. There were kids smarter than me at the lowest level: they just couldn't be bothered to do homework and wanted to skip class to buy or sell drugs. Some others in that school sounded really dumb whenever they asked a question, but when this came up with a teacher once, the teacher asked if I knew what grades the student in question ended up scoring (I didn't) and that this is just their way of learning the subject matter effectively. Okay, at least for some of them :P. Meanwhile, not everyone whom I know with a university degree can hold a job

    Btw, what I also found interesting is that people score differently on IQ tests through the ages, way too short timescales for brains to evolve at a population level so our actual smartness as a species isn't what changed. I wrote some stuff here but then checked my facts and actually this is a better article so I'll just link the Wikipedia instead :) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flynn_effect. But that's not what you're talking about since you don't mean IQ scores literally but just how people act around you, if I understand correctly now. Just thought it interesting as an aside

    I'd say that attitude, mental health, learning styles, social skills... lots of things play a role in how we perceive people's wits besides their actual wits. People are hard to capture by one metric. Which is also why I'd call many of the examples in this thread into question btw: service workers often interact with someone only on a single topic, often even only during a single session (support call for example). It could sometimes also just be some neurons not making the right connection in that moment, rather than the person's intellect. Or regarding the attitude they gain towards the general public: who needs support most frequently? Surely not the people that are particularly resourceful and make smart decisions. There's a massive selection bias there

    Okay, last anecdote. Two people with a university degree (one of them has even two university degrees in IT) are put in front of an Apple device which is of course super intuitive and needs no manual. It's so easy that neither of us can figure out how to complete the unskippable device setup wizard. We call Apple support. The solution? Scrolling down. I tried that, but the part of the screen that I touched wasn't a scrollable element and so I concluded there was nothing to scroll to, which of course the support person couldn't know. The person receiving that call would fit right in in this thread with a story about someone not realising in 2026 that there is such a thing as scrolling down to find the 'continue' button below the form. Nobody (afaik) considers either of us dumb and yet there's plenty of ways to end up as one of the service job examples in a thread like this xD

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 5 months ago

    I agree with you actually about everything. It is very hard to capture a person's intelligence with a single number like we do in the tests, and I think we all know it's not actually accurate. But we do it anyway because it has a certain amount of likelihood of being close to the truth, and it's useful for hiring people.

    I know that a human being is so much more than that and I dont personally care about intelligence when I pick friends. I just care about how they make me feel and how we feel together. Having a good time is the most important thing and to me, that's not solving puzzles together. :)

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  • [–] 10 points 5 months ago

    I was in this friend group (many many years ago) were one girl who always amazed me with her conclusions sometimes joined up. She was very kind so you can not dislike her but she didn't understand very simple concepts and were often lost in conversations that were a bit deeper than small talk. Everyone who met her for the first time always had at least one silent movement where they were thinking "why did she ask/say that?" and were unsure how to proceed (to not hurt her).

    At my old workplace did I work with one woman that I think is "dumb" but I am very unsure in what way. I always had this weird feeling when talking to her, it felt like she didn't really get it but she didn't say much that would indicate it. Even tho she is older than I did it feel like talking to a child. It was a very weird experience. I didn't really talk much with her so I heard most things second hand but she could come to some weird conclusions about how to do her job. For example I often came earlier so I could leave earlier, so she did the same except I was actually working she did not, she were just sitting there for 1 hour doing nothing and assumed that was ok, as if we got payed to be there not actually work. When her boss told her off did she get stressful like a child and you saw she felt ashamed. She did this for many things and how she reacted made it seem like a child. I am unsure if she just tested us or if she actually thought it would be ok.

    Otherwise do I not really meet "dumb" ppl. It is more about not having the knowledge or experience to know how to proceed or understand something. And some ppl are often in flight or fight mode when stressful problems arrive, so they do not think and come up with a solution that may be called "dumb".

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  • [–] 9 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    Yeah, me neither but someone once told me that If you never met a dumb person, you're the dumb person. And then I was like "oh".

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