What made you choose your Fediverse Instance?Why did you choose your Fediverse Instance, does it have a bigger meaning than it was a bigger instance or was it for a certain reason? Did you have to be on your instance you chose?---@asklemmy@lemmy.world @asklemmy@lemmy.ml @asklemmy@sh.itjust.works#AskMastodon #AskFedi #AskFediverse #Fediverse #Instance #Question #FediQuestion

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[–] 33 points 8 months ago

It would be weird to host an instance without using it...

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  • [–] 32 points 8 months ago

    Cuz shit just works

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  • [–] 17 points 8 months ago* (7 children)

    I didn't give a shit

    My account on the old nsfw stopped working because apparently someone shit the bed or stopped doing something or whatever

    It's not something that I care about, so I just did whatever

    I have no idea what instance I'm on

    I don't even know what instances are, or what difference it makes

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago (5 children)

    You are on lemmy.world

    You can see the instance others are on by the @ after their name. If they don't have one, they are local to you.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    I think that it depends on how you access lemmy. Iirc, voyager and some others allow you to toggle user instances (at least for comments)

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago* (2 children)

    That sounds odd if that is an option. My doesn't show instances if it's the same as mine. However, since this is all federated, you can have the same username as someone else from another instance. If it doesn't show instances then that could be confusing at best, if not used maliciously.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (1 child)

    It’s not really locked or kept from us. We can just choose it to visually declutter.

    I don’t really care what instance someone is from. If I need to know, I can just tap their name.

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  • [–] 0 points 8 months ago

    I don't really care what instance they're from, but I do care who they are. It's like if we just went by our first names here, there would be so much confusion with common first names. You'd need to at least use their last name to know if they're the same person or not. With federation, you can have the same name as someone else on a different instance. I don't really care where they're from usually, but it is important for identification.

    In my opinion, this is less declutter and more obfuscation. There's potentially important information that isn't being shown. Often it isn't an issue, but sometimes it is.

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    [–] 15 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    maintainer is from my country, rules are good and reasonable, nice local content, no local drama

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  • [+] 12 points 8 months ago (2 children)
  • [–] 11 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Very small blocked list and doesn't block NSFW. Users should make their own choices. Also awesome stats every month.

    This is probably the first sharkey post I see on lemmy. It looks really good, nice.

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  • [–] 8 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    NSFW is a very generic tag. I usually browse subscribed so porn popping up is not a problem. I still want to see NSFW-tagged footage from conflicts or the occasional mild NSFW art. Photos are blurred by default so it's not like someone will see it by accident.

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    [–] 11 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    After reaching out and proving I was human, the admins agreed to activate my account manually so I didn't have to enter a valid email address.

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  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago

    I heard people I respect talk about it in ways I enjoyed :)

    The public feed, rules, etc. also looked like a good match for me. And I'm absolutely grateful to be able to post from here!

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    Supporting Canadian because I am Canadian.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (5 children)

    what even is the difference idek at this point

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago

    I migrated during Reddit's API debacle. I picked sh.itjust.works for several reasons:

    • No email required to sign up (at the time)
    • Hosted the only NonCredibleDefense community on Lemmy (at the time)
    • Had almost no defederated instances (at the time)
    • Consistent uptime (was 99% at the time and still not far off)
    • Hosted in Canada but accepting of US citizens
    • Powered by 98% renewable energy
    • TheDude abides

    While some things have changed like defederating from more servers, it's left up to a vote by users of the server and the vote doesn't get proposed unless there's a good reason (such as a server being Nazi-friendly or constantly harassing/trolling users)

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    I needed to make a new account when lemm.ee shut down and feddit.uk was the first one that came to mind. I'm not even from the UK.

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago

    Gender dysphoria

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    Dring the Reddit Migration, this was the first one I heard about, so I picked it. Haven't been bothered to change it since.

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago

    I've been an SDF member for about 25 years. They created a Lemmy server, I tried it out, and here I am.

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago

    I was on lemmy.ee and when it shut down I wanted to join an instance that wouldn't defederate unless it absolutely had to, .today was the first option I saw and it works well enough for what I need it for

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago

    Kbin was my first, shit was fucky with it for a bit so I changed. No complaints about world (Yet anyhow)

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago*

    When I was on Reddit, /r/CasualUK/ was my spiritual home, so moving to Feddit UK, home of !casualuk@feddit.uk, was a no brainer.

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago

    I picked one at random. Then I quickly realised .ml is nuts so I picked a different random one. How do I feel about about my instance? No strong feelings one way or the other. It's ok I guess

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago

    The other furry instance shut down. 😞

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    when I started here there were not many people and only some instances were big enough to interact. Have you been to .ml? only crazy ppl. So I came to world and prayed for the best

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    I went with .ml because (IIRC, I might be wrong) that was the instance that the people who made Lemmy used. I'm not wild about how .ml censors some words but it doesn't bother me enough to change.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago*

    while there might be some crazy people like that man of them have different options to the status quo and provide me with food for further thought. That doesn't mean I agree with everything there, but that thay the same with any instance.

    i find how we are in this world isn't because of the likes of the opinions on .ml bit the apathy and opinions of the average voter and citizen, so normal (as in under the bell curve) is the new crazy.

    an example

    Susan Sontag was asked what she had learned from the Holocaust, and she said that 10% of any population is cruel, no matter what, and that 10% is merciful, no matter what, and that the remaining 80% could be moved in either direction.” — Kurt Vonnegut

    this is the US now for example...

    i wanted an instance that wasn't defederated from them.

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    I hear piefed is the new better thing so why not try it out?

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago* (5 children)

    I started with lemmy.world, the biggest generalist instance, for an easy starting point. I thought I would be interacting in programming and anime threads.

    In the end, I end up discussing mostly weeb stuff, so ani.social looks more appropriate.

    Also, I don't know the specifics, but if ani.social triggered lemmy.ml enough for lemmy.ml to defederate from ani.social, it must be doing something right.

    In my experience, the instance and community moderators of ani.social are based. I barely see any drama unlike some other instances. I'd say I chose well.

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    After a quick search, the official reason is that ani.social is full of CSAM. Which is outright false.

    My conspiracy theory is that those Chinese agents hate the growing soft power of Japan through anime.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago*

    Slrpnk was down for a few days and the admin was super transparent about what was going on (iirc, they were on a business trip and something happened to their home server that needed a physical button press). I was happy with that level of communication, and occasional down time is good for getting out and touching grass.

    edit: I was on sdf before, but they're a lot less transparent about maintenance issues.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago

    I was looking over instances sorted by uptime, saw one that had high uptime, a lot of users, and a literal promise that shit will just work in its name. I did a bit of scoping to see that it was easy to view communities across all instances from SJW and figured, fuck it, seems like as good a choice as any.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago

    I didn't know about instances, it was the first one that popped up. 🤦

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago

    Because I already started using Mastodon.World years ago, then Lemmy.World, and now Piefed.World. 🤷‍♂️

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    I got into a fight in a bar, and some guy showed up, intervened, then hung out and kinda insisted I follow in my father's footsteps. I was like, meh, but I had nothing better to do, so I signed up.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    I figured SDF were the sort of people who would consider uptime a badge of honour.

    I should probably be on Hexbear but I didn't know of its existence at the time. Very problematic, my Xibuck direct deposits keep bouncing.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    It's located in my country.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    I'm using sdf half because they are part of a service I already paid for and half because I'm too lazy to make myself more accounts somewhere else.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    .world was the biggest one. I have since switched to one that doesnt have abusive zionist mods in news and worldnews (looking at you, jordanlund), but I still come back to .world periodically when I dont see much new content on the instance I like. Mods moderating to support their own biases can ruin a site.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    i chose mander.xyz because they do not de-federate or block any instances (other than threads) - I would like the opportunity to do my own censoring. That said, it is a great instance with good up time and hosted communities. Science FTW. A++

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago*

    I chose from the general purpose instances because I don’t know enough about or align myself closely with the more niche instances. The stability of the instances and number of instances it blocked/was blocked by was also a factor, since I wanted a neutral experience - here’s where I found that data.

    After lemm.ee shut down, I wanted to try PieFed, and the name piefed.world made me imagine a world fed with pie. Thought that was cute.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    I chose it because it's the biggest Swedish instance, even if there are only ~100 active users.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    I made it! I'm on MULTIVERSE, the antirealist instance

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    It was the first one I saw that didn't have a "silly" name.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    so I liked kbin a lot and it was cause of ernest and what he was doing. then when it kinda fell apart I joined a small mbin instance based on what they guy who runs it wrote which was mostly just about being very much against censorship. Then piefed came about and what im on now is kinda the main instance and honestly its about the devs again who just were passionate about making something great and really expanding capabilities and such. I use a web portal and mostly im following the features I guess with features being things that put as much control in the hands of the user as possible.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    I tried out Lemmy.ml for a while but then I kept getting accused of being a tankie, so I gave up. Piefed showed up in my reddit feed and feddit.online was the first one I saw.

    :fedicate: 1
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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    Because the admin lets me post semi-random thoughts on it, plus it makes a nice space heater in the winter and background noise in the summer.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    Just whatever’s most popular in English. So lemmy.world. And lemmy.ca because I’m Canadian. Any suggestions from others?

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    I used lemm.ee bc of their defederation policy. When it died, I chose mander.xyz for the same reason.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    My girlfriend

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    I think people go the wrong way with instancing, I get it that people don't want to see certain things and that is true of everyone too but we should be doing that kind of filtering as individual users only after the instance allows mostly everything to come in, excluding anything obviously bad but not automatically excluding anything political in certain ways for example.

    So that's why I choose things like peertube.wtf because it is everything minus whatever I choose not to subscribe to.

    And Lemmy.zip because it is relatively open for everyone

    People also go the same way with ai, trying to pin it down to specific things in its personality before you even prompt it, it should be biased towards more connectivity before you go pinning it down.

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    It worked, and was better than my previous instance.

    I have problems with control and lack of choice, when my first instance started de-federating willy nilly I started growing distaste on it. To me it wasn't about what /was/ being censored, to me it was the fact that they were doing so in the first place, while doing so with very little public input. It gave really large Karen/power trip vibes and made me feel like at the end of the day, they didn't really care about the userbase.

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  • I’m hosting my own, I don’t wanna have to rely on someone else to do a good job for me

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    I wanted to check out PieFed because the Lemmy devs suck

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago* (3 children)

    Its a decently sized Piefed Server that allows me to talk about Politics.

    I used to use Piefed dot World and before that Lemmy Word but they explicitly and openly support the misogynist, transphobic, pro-war, pro-genocide tankie Lemmy Developers, so I don't go there anymore.

    EDIT: The hecks this little fedicate bubble?

    :fedicate: 1
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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Wait, are you talking about .ml? I wasn't aware of .world being really bad.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    Disgust over .world an piefed's neoliberal crusade.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    Literally every single instance I've ever joined has either died/shutdown or had weeks/months long outages.

    Hate, hate, hate.

    Anyway, I almost didn't make it on to lemmy dot zip -- There's a glaring bug and major UI malfunction on the web version of the sign-up form. I tried signing up, got some generic error message "InvalidName", but not indication about what was invalid about it. Tried several variations of the name I wanted, no dice. Tried "InvalidName" itself, didn't work. So I tried "InvalidName2" and that finally worked.

    After all that effort to join, figured I'd stay a bit.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago*

    pawb.social because furries (kbin.social was discontinued i think so i had to leave there)

    moved my mastodon account to furry.engineer because it was run by the pawb.social team. also i'd never seen a .engineer domain before lol.

    and i have an account at waf.moe because i like how it looks and wafrn is different and cool. there's also custom css on profiles.

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  • I wanted a place for the digital nomad and travel niche, so I made it. I'm hoping to have resources like maps, tips, and other things like blogs

    check out the communities https://piefed.keyboardvagabond.com/communities?home_select=local

    there's also [pixelfed](https://pixel fed.keyboardvagabobd.com) and mastodon, though it's been a bit harder to get them as full with content

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    For Lemmy I just chose a larger instance and went with it. I've considered moving to one more aligned with my interests though hasn't been much reason to yet.

    For Mastodon I went with Fosstodon precisely for my interests as I can better enjoy the local feed.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    I just picked the biggest one this time. I've had 3 others shut down on me since I've been using Lemmy.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    More reliable than lemdro.id, European (low ping) and it isn't .ml or lemmygrad.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    Saw someone getting really bad tech tips, signed up to interject. Stuck around cause it's a cool name, suspect we may be defederated from some of the spicier instances, miss em but not enough to change right now

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    Kbin went down so I choose the biggest one to not have to deal with it going down

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    This was the first stable community on which I was able to make an account on, after many failed attempts at other instances. I had a lemmy.cafe account before, but I was not getting recent posts. Another reason is that I am mostly ok with this community's moderation policies. When I was yet to choose an instance, I saw a lot of fearmongering in the fediverse about ml, hexbear and lemmygrad being very toxic communities. I put off for long till I got convinced that ml was actually a decent community. There will be some toxic users in any community, offline or online. But certain bullshit is not tolerated on ml, like ableist language, apathy to people outside the US, hate speech etc. So, here I am.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    "Shit just works." Oh good! I like it when shit just works!

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  • Tee hee, funni name.

    [+based in Canada]

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    @fedicate@break3.social @asklemmy@lemmy.world The need for almost seamless posting between personal feed microblogging and Threadiverse exchanging, alongside text formatting features and large-enough max character limit. This is why I ended up sticking with Calckey.

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