Clearly the thing that makes you happy is having a corded controller. I will be taking no questions and/or criticism.
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Shorter of breath, and one day closer to death.
Every year is getting shorter, never seem to find the time
Plans that either come to naught, or half a page of scribbled lines
Hanging, morning, quiet desperation is the english way
The time has come, the song is over.
Hanging, morning, quiet desperation is the english way
Hanging on IN quiet desperation... - not "hanging, morning, quiet desperation"
When is the last time you did something for the first time?
First cataract, first hemorrhoid, first memory problems, first friend from high school who died, first chronic joint pain, first handicap parking pass....
You meet so many people, rheumatologists, phlebotomists, orthopedic surgeons etc.
Lots of firsts to look forward to.
20 YEARS PRIOR
Ummmm, should we tell him?
I checked, and this was originally posted on Reddit by the artist in 2019.
I dont miss being a kid, I miss having time to enjoy life.
Life was friends, school, weekends, and school breaks.
Now itβs no breaks, bills, and where are my friends?
Yeah, you're basically an inmate when you're a kid. But that time....all that time. Without having a hundred responsibilities floating around your head. That I miss.
You eventually realise that it's having free time that you miss.
It felt better back then because you could still believe there was an exciting future in front of you instead of realizing you've hit every major life milestone, and yes, this is what yours turned out to be.
The difference is, when we were kids, we were told the world had never been a better place and it was only going to get better because this is a world where everyone works to make the next one better.
We heard our parents and teachers preach the importance of reading books, thinking critically, recognizing bias in the media, and acting for the greater good.
Now, we realize that was all bullshit. This is a world where billionaires work to make things better for themselves, at the expense of everyone else. And our parents were convinced to vote for it because they failed to do any of that shit they preached about our whole life.
The world "sucks" now because it feels like everyone knows better but chooses to be a selfish turd anyway. How else do you reconcile the world we observe with the one we were promised?
The 90βs also had a theme of βmore information will set us free!β We got the more information part, but we never got the freedom part. And I think that causes a lot of the cynicism youβre talking about.
The world wasnβt that much more idyllic in the 90βs, but now we have great information about all the problems in the world blasted into our phones constantly.
Yeah the nineties were often brutal, and we tend to forget loads of just sucky things too.
Like sitting for months waiting for a release of some game or music CD, general uncalled for aggressiveness (sometimes extreme) that you were just supposed to handle somehow, wild wildly superior incorrect information coming from everywhere, ...
But the music was awesome, the games, when they came out were sometimes incredible, and computers doubled in speed and capacity more regularly than you could keep up with.
We didn't dream of a better future, we knew it was coming.
nah my issue is ethnofascists and the nerd reich
if the US could stop being a dumpster fire my inside life would be fine
How else do you reconcile the world we observe with the one we were promised?
Tears? Drugs? Apathy?
The difference is now when I'm sitting on the couch playing video games there's 500 impending responsibilities floating through my head, keeping me from truly detaching and enjoying myself.
This comic must be ten years old. Perfect for the title.
One of the many reasons people like this are not happy imo is that theyre doing the same stuff they did as a kid. You need to go do things you've never done before. The brain needs new experiences. Get out of your comfort zone (and your house).

Being an adult, especially right now, just kinda sucks in a lot of ways. Bills, responsibilities, the general downward trend toward fascism that every major world power took post-covid, a fucked housing market, ever-widening wealth inequality, there's just kind of a lot that sucks right now.
No itβs more like they miss the time in their life where they didnβt have a job or other responsibilities, and were ignorant enough about the world not to worry about the state of the society and how itβs gonna impact their life, plus when you are a kid you have all these years ahead of you and as you get older those years start to shrink so you are constantly thinking about what youβve done and what you still have to do in the amount of time youβve got left.
I'd say life got significantly better after leaving school, absolutely don't miss it.
I do miss the same abundance of free time but that is about it. That is what most people seem to miss, the lack of responsibilities or as strict schedules.
The secret to a more comfortable life is to reduce your dependence on systems/things/some people, where possible at least. If a small house leads to small rent/mortgage. Can live without a car, that is a few weeks a year of earnings freed up. You don't need to purchase a thousand books you are unlikely to read if you use the library.
That kind of thinking. It doesn't mean become minimalist to the point of fault, just figure out were you can introduce more slack into your life.
I regret to cite the Dalai Lama as a source of wisdom after what we now know about him, but back in high school what really resonated with me was what he said about how owning more possessions can add unnecessary responsibilities to your life that contribute to making it more stressful
Like, DGMW my materialistic ass would be devastated if I lost my collection of Nausicaa figures and Gashapon insect models, but at the same time I can recognize that I'd probably be a lot happier if I never even had to worry about having them
To be fair to figures and models, they are probably only a problem when you are moving them, otherwise it isn't a huge burden. It is more about ongoing dependence. Now this isn't an anti-children take BUT if you don't have kids, you don't have to worry about raising kids. Things go much easier in that sense. That said if you want kids, go for it, just be aware that it will make for a more difficult life. Just take the wins were you can.
As for the Dalai Lama, it is difficult to figure out were he stands as a person. Yes, there was the tongue sucking thing which, from asking folks familiar with it the culture, does seem to be an odd cultural joke/saying that is way to easy to misinterpret through western eyes. If you aren't familiar with it, you look mentally deranged. But the phrase is meant to be "Eat my tongue", as in 'I have told you everything, the only thing left to do is to eat my tongue.'. Like in Japanese they have Neko wo kaburu "To wear a cat on one's head" or in Finland HevosenkenkΓ€ pyllyssΓ€ "To have a horseshoe in one's butt".
But then there is him being mentioned in the Epstein files 150+ times, but also is largely though to have not had any direct interaction with Jeff. How much of that is damage control and his handlers trying to keep the game rolling, it is difficult to tell. The one thing with the Epstein thing is just how many famous people's names are in it even in passing. Like George W bush, is in it loads but there was never any direct contact, that is just funny in a way.
It seems like there is a lot of stuff pointing at him, but nothing concrete. It is a, keep an eye on him situation but it also could be an embarrassing situation worthy of Seinfeld.
Sure, we had a simpler life when children, but letβs be honest: the world sucking is separate from our past. Our generation was sold an idea, that was a fiction, and a bunch of people have profited from misery, from war, from racism. It would be hubris to think we could fix it, but the last decade continues to prove that progress is not always a straight line.
Our generation was sold an idea, that was a fiction,
I would also add that the people who sold us the idea didn't even try to do the things needed to set up the idea they sold.
I'm kinda glad most of my family is dead, because the ones still around have all become horrible people. Nothing like spending a decade and a half being preached the Christian ideal of loving your neighbor and being a good person, only to see the people preaching to turn around and spew bullshit about how we shouldn't be helping people because communism (and racism, but don't you dare point that out, they have black friends!).
Literally me right now, playing a 22 year old game π

I wish I still loved video games as much I used to.
As a gamer, I just don't see my hobby evolving like it was back in the day. Shit's gotten stagnant. Very few new ideas. Everything is mostly a copy of a copy. A lot of it actually regressed from the late 90s/early 2000s. The only thing getting more advanced are the graphics, and even those advancements have started to stall.
But more and more I am also seeing this happen with TV, movies and even books.
One word: Indie. I agree with you that AAA games absolutely have stagnated and regressed. But smaller productions are far more frequent today and very creative and innovative. Arguably even more so than back in the day, if you really cherry pick. Personally, the main thing I feel is really missing from that time is mid-budget, AA games.
What are some good indies from the past few years? Most of my most placed indie games are over a decade old by now.
UFO 50, A Hat in Time, Celeste, Hollow Knight, Silksong, Outer Wilds, Balatro, A Short Hike, Smushi Come Home, What Remains of Edith Finch, Undertale, Deltarune, Hylics, Hylics 2, Peglin, Void Collector, Nubby's Number Factory, Superliminal, Pizza Tower, Anton Blast, Rift of the Necrodancer, Night in the Woods, Uktrakill, Fallen Aces, Dusk, Scratchin' Melodii
I think this is the big issue of the next few years. Large AAA studios have budgets so high that they are completely risk adverse. The low end of the indie scene is flooded with vibe coded Unity junk. And the gooey middle goodness with the awesome stuff is being squeezed by those two.
I suspect we will correct back to some form of sanity but it is a few years away and the interim period will be rough.
As the other guy said, look indie.
There's so much fun there at the moment. Even double A stuff like Galactic Racer is really damn good this year.
Triple A is a mess rn, gonna take some time to recover and it'll be different I think.
Those at the top need to start looking smaller scale. If I was at Microsoft, Halo/COD can have its big budgets, whatever. But also loosen the chains on smaller teams to try new things. Games that have similar budget and finish turn around times of the Ps2/Xbox/GC era only now you have modern engine tech at your hands.
Budgets decent enough to have the chance to do it well but not so big that it comes up in the next share holders call as the reason for 500 laid off.
Sony used to do this in the Ps1 era, games would be given a change on the market and even if it wasn't a huge hit, they would give them another chance. Silly ideas like Katamari Damacy came out of this thinking at Namco and that paid of big time.
Just a quick note on movies.
I've noticed dialogue is getting dumbed down across the board. The vocabulary is shrinking and plot is being explained more extensitvely (using basic vocabulary) so audiences don't get confused regarding the plot. Basically, making it so the audience doesn't have to think as much to fill in blanks. And as far as I'm concerned, filling in the blanks a little bit is part of what makes a good movie or book better. It makes it more personal to the viewer/reader.
One example I just experienced this weekend, and I'll probably be crucified for this because apparently everyone loved this movie, was The Odyssey. Personally, I thought the dialogue was awful. I don't mind that they went with the American accents, although I always think movies like that are better with British accents. It was the writers behind the dialogue. It just sounded like I was hearing dialogue written by junior high kids. I'm assuming it was a decision made on purpose, maybe to connect more with modern English speakers, but it just sounded bad and kind of ruined the movie for me. I ended up just having kind of a meh opinion of the film largely because of it.
I second this watched the first probably 90min and turned it off, I was bored out of my mind. Idk what people saw in it, the writing acting cinematography were all shit.
There has always been a element of this in places but it has grown significantly in the last few decades.
Funnily enough my example is the film Grease. The dialog is astoundingly plain but presented well enough. Maybe this is why it is seen as a mainstream classic because of this simple language.
But then I see the works of some like Charlie Kaufman that was just wonderful but has rarely broken into the main stream.
Thats just because well, since the 90s, its all been done. Society creatively peaked and theres really nothing left. Even bands out there being weird for the sake of weird are doing the same thing bands did in the 70s.
There is nothing original in existence anymore. Thats OK though. Enjoy what you like and support art you like, kill slop, and youll be happy.
Absolutely not. If I get time gaming these days, I enjoy the fuck out of it. And then I ask for more!
Yes, but you know a lot more about the world in the first pane and so itβs not carefree.
Were the 90s that good? I really wanna know what the overall feeling of it was.
You could disconnect.
I had it explained very sadly to me that my generation was the last that got to choose to be digital.
They were better than now somewhat, but we already knew that we were getting screwed compared to boomers (gen-X checking in).
Food and rent were a lot cheaper.
Life was not exactly simpler. Technology has made a lot of things easier and better, too. Life was slower in a good way though.
The internet was in its infancy and mobile phones were not common. TV was broadcast on a schedule and your favorite show was only on once a week.
There was no algorithmic social media that ranked content by its engagement score. Culture and sub culture were more diverse, less polished and mainstreamed.
At least in the western world there was a lot of hope and optimism about the future. That was naive in hindsight but it sure felt better than the doom and gloom we have today.
I can think of bad things, too. Few cars had catalytic converters and particle filters and smoking indoors was still common everywhere. Basically, the world outside smelled like gasoline and the world inside smelled like cold cigarette smoke.
If you see a lot of nostalgia for the 90s these days that's mostly because Millennials are middle aged now and start talking about "the good, old days".
Keep in mind that what people mean with "good, old days" is never a specific, absolute time period. What they actually think about is their youth when their lives were still simple and fun and when they were full of energy, hopes and dreams.
They start to feel nostalgic about that lost youth, often remembering it as better than it actually was.
It happens to everyone. It'll happen to you. That's just life.
Tech was still exciting and interesting and had a nerd vibe to it. Much how the Linux community has always felt.
Instead of nowadays "ah, how will this new tech invade my life and introduce fascism even faster?"
Things were more affordable and there was much less surveillance, both of kids by their parents and of people in general by the government and corporations. Growing up during that decade gave us a feeling of freedom and limitless possibilities. The millennium was a huge deal and the vibe was hopeful. Technology was advancing fast and making life more fun and convenient, and the downsides had not become apparent yet. Then 9/11 happened and then war and the Patriot Act, and I had to get a job and pay rent and things went downhill from there.
Economically, things were already turning downwards but it was still so close to the peak that it wasn't really that noticeable. But because of the rapidly reducing price of technology it looked as though things were still progressing just fine.
The general vibe however was a largely positive one. The cold war was over, the new "war on terror" had not yet begun. The pace of computer technology was moving at an astounding pace that even if you didn't like what it was today, tomorrow there will be a newer faster and cheaper one available of whatever it is. The idea of online shopping was new, now you can see the whole catalog. Video on a disc that doesn't wear out and has "cinema grade" audio, wild! The internet had just gone mainstream leading to the interconnected global village and the prospect of a new digital utopia. Democracy of information and the end of censorship... yeah.
Computing had been liberated into the general populace and the panopticon of surveillance hadn't been constructed in depth yet.
Mobiles phones started to become common but were so dumb that they didn't intrude much except for some people. We didn't have unlimited plans and it wasn't uncommon for you to just forget to charge the thing for days at a time because you forgot about it for the most part.
The larger messaging and general visible signal of global warming/environmental blowback wasn't much of thing and even then it was seen as something that we could unify on an tackle. There was still the attitude of, the present is pretty good and the future will be a better place and that we will address the issues as we are aware of them and there is enough time to address them.
Just look at anything design wise and you can see what it was like. Many designs of the 80's/90's by today's standards are kind of ulgy but the reason why it looked like that because it felt like the chains holding back progress had finally been removed. Some magazines would have a new style on every single page, they did that simply because they could. No longer were they constricted by the limits of traditional print and the end result was fairly rough most of the time. But it was never boring in that sense.
That lack of constraint permeated everything. It was a time of being bombarded with novelty.
In retrospect, it was a time of pleasant delusion. The foundation for all the issues of today were being laid down but we weren't at the point of it being activated. Speed high on a credit card is fun, the payback however is rough.
We spent our entire childhood bored, with the occasional couple of hours of gaming in the shallowest games anyone ever created. (yes because of hardware limits but still)
We look back at all that time spent and lacking any of it, want to go back.
Nostalgia is the ultimate rose-colored glasses
That was the 90s for me. I didn't have that much, I spent most of it walking or pondering or whatever. I did fantasize about having lots of shit... And I kinda do now, so there is that.
Agreed.
Most of the old games I revisit now do not hold up at all, as much as I want them to.
I will say that modern games often hold your hand a little too much. There is value in not knowing exactly what to do and having to explore a bit. And I think a lot of modern devs focus too much on spectacle and not enough on gameplay mechanics. To be fair, the tools at their disposal now do allow for a lot of spectacle, and as an artist I can see how you could over-focus on that.
shallowest games anyone ever created
Have you tried some Roblox content?
Adjust to 30 years.
Also if you all you want is video games... They are still there.
This comic is likely a decade old at this point, most average people would have just used AI.
And yes, vintage gaming is very much a thing, and is pushing vintage hardware into nosebleed territory. Ten years ago you couldnβt give away a 36β³ Sony Trinitron CRT TV. These days you have gamers offering up to $500 for it just to be able to play Duck Hunt (which requires a CRT TV in order for the guns to work). Same goes for the machines and consoles as wellβ¦ just saw a Commodore Vic-20 on FB Marketplace for $200CAD, and that was just for the bare unit, no extras.
It's missing the window, which in the past shows a tree, and in the present shows a burning hellscape
The 90βs werenβt 20 years ago fam
There are only 3.25 years of the nineties left that were twenty some years prior to the current year, 2026, in the calendar of our lord Robert
What should our little cartoon character do I'm this situation then, in order to feel better? Asking for a friend.
- Vote
- Cultivate meaningful local friendships
- Seek a sense of purpose and explore this with fevor
- Exercise regularly including with others sometimes
- Avoid Nestle products whenever possible
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