For me it's saying, "we can't joke about anything anymore". Sirens go off immediately 🚨

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[–] 93 points 8 months ago (14 children)

Anytime anybody tells you "I don't do drama", 99% of the time they are the cause of all the drama.

Actually chill people pretty much never bring it up.

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  • [–] 12 points 8 months ago (6 children)

    For years I avoided TNT for just this reason, always figured it would explode my life

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  • [–] 11 points 8 months ago (5 children)
  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (2 children)

    TNT - Explode

    How'd you not make that connection?

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago (5 children)

    What about people who say that they like drama

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  • [–] 85 points 8 months ago (14 children)

    Corporate jargon outside the office. Hell, even in the office when it’s over the top.

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  • [–] 44 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Ping me when you circle back to this, we might surface more examples granted we’ve still got bandwidth for it.

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  • [–] 20 points 8 months ago* (5 children)

    yeah i had a couple people in my life would who talk to you like this and I just stopped interacting with them. It was so obnoxious.

    The worst part is they would 'correct' my language to corpo speak. I'd say "oh having a rough couple of weeks you know' and they'd go 'you can't say that, you have to say you are underperforming but plan to compensate in the future'

    it was so fucking surreal.

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  • [–] 11 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    are those people even people?

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago*

    yes. they are the type of people who work 80 hours a week and treat their job as their identity/religion/family. and their entire life's purpose is their career. and think anyone who doesn't work 80 hours a week and has a life outside of their job is 'weird' or 'lazy'.

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  • “Maybe you feel the need to compensate, but that doesn’t mean everyone does.”

    For real though, that’s bizarre. It’s okay to not perform at 100% all the time, that’s how you fast track to burn-out. Thank goodness my workplace isn’t of the “grind employees until they’re dust” mentality. Last time I showed signs of work stress, my boss actually sat with me to plan out some mental health days for the coming months.

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  • [–] 12 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    We need to synergize on Lemmy more, and increase our networking.

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  • [+] 147 points 8 months ago (3 children)
  • [–] 46 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    I think "patriot" is one of those titles that should only be given, and that ideally happens to someone who's done something especially heroic or monumental for their country. I think of myself as patriotic, because I care a lot about my country despite its enormous, gangrenous flaws. I want to help it realize its potential. But to say "I'm a patriot" these days – I agree with you – really only connotes blind nationalism.

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  • [–] 0 points 8 months ago

    "im apolitical, or dont like to talk about politics" or instantly saying " anti-woke stuff", or when you say your supporting a nazi, they respond with" you have stop reading the news, or saying something to delfect/.

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  • [–] 57 points 8 months ago* (7 children)
  • [–] 12 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    I treat this one with a grain of salt, because its very good at some things and utterly fucking useless at others.

    I needed to know what company made the gearbox in a certain car. No matter what I searched in 3 different search engines all I could find was people wanting to sell me stuff for the gearbox or gearboxes. I spent an hour before I asked ChatGPT and it immediately spat out "The gearbox is a 4l80 produced by Aisin transmissions" which I then spent some time verifying. At the core if search engines hadnt been enshitified, ChatGPT would be nothing more than a novelty. But because they have, its a sometimes useful tool that anyone with half a brain verifies.

    If you treat it like gospel, yeah... your an idiot.

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  • [–] 10 points 8 months ago*

    That's the thing though. If someone has used chat gpt to find information and then spent the time to verify it independently, they rarely, if ever, start a sentence with "I asked chat gpt...".

    The ones that say that usually just stop at the first response they get from it. Even if what they say ends up being correct, you now know that they're the kind of person that'll blindly believe an LLM.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    yes!! I was setting up Lyrion Music Server and I'm kind of an idiot, so when I had a specific question about that I asked a clunker. There's very little documentation or discussion about it (weirdly, it's awesome) so it was extremely helpful. But yeah for the most part I don't use it.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (1 child)

    Ever thought of checking the factory service manual or prodemmand or all data? It's not hard to find this sort of info....

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    I think a big problem is the info is out there, but they are awful at search. They still think Google is good. In today's world you need 3 different search engines and also asking folks in the fediverse helps a lot if my issues.

    But people want to go to the orphan crushing machine bot to ask it questions, because its easier.

    We never needed llm slop for this. We needed a non corporate greed driven search and educated populace (now THERES a good joke!!)

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    I always kind of assumed that it's only online people who do that. Mainly because i didn't even know how good AI works in a language other than english. But they do and it's horrifying. What really triggers me for some reason is when people say: i asked my AI. I hear that quite a bit and it makes it so much worse for some reason, because it implies that they think they have their own personal Jarvis at home or some shit. Bro you talk to a chatbot

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  • [–] 52 points 8 months ago (5 children)

    "I want to eat the people from the surface."

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Is this a reference to Morlocks?

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  • [–] 80 points 8 months ago (9 children)

    "I want my country back..."

    Yeah, so did all those places we invaded.

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  • [–] 25 points 8 months ago (6 children)

    I want my country to become what I thought it was when I was a kid, not how it ACTUALLY was.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago (5 children)

    I would sympathize with this one, honestly.

    I think we all (in the US at least) grew up with a very skewed and generalized / propagandized version of its history, one that's specifically designed so we identify proudly with it. (I'd imagine most countries are similar on that last bit but idk)

    The more time goes on, the more atrocities come to light, the more insanely layered and nuanced and complicated it all is, it's quite an overload with everything else we have to deal with as adults. (Especially when most of it is crap we can't even do anything about.)

    The constant realizations that approach closer to the truth are often painful. Nobody likes realizing they were lied to so much in their formative years.

    Yeah, I too would like if my country was run by virtuous people trying their best, and if unknown badass action heroes stopped the bad guys, instead of living in an evil empire run by those bad guys, and if hard work actually meant something.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    Time to rewatch The West Wing again.

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  • [–] 107 points 8 months ago

    "I tell it like it is" Proceeds to be bizzarly racist/ sexist/ homophobic and then gets offended at everyone when they tell them to knock it off.

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  • [–] 84 points 8 months ago (7 children)

    I don't care about politics

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  • [–] 61 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    On a related note: "I don't see why you'd stop being friends with someone over politics"

    Especially these days with what basic human rights have been made political, politics is probably pretty high up there on my list of reasons I'd see in why not to associate with someone.

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Depends on the country and the party. I won't stop being friends with someone who disagrees with me about the best way to assure solvency of pensions (even if they support a private scheme), or how to best support transitions to clean energy, whether we should forbid the installation of gas heating or wait for the cost advantage of heatpumps to speak for itself.

    In some countries however the discourse is whether some people should be executed on the street or not if they displeased a thug with a gun, or if their choice of sexual partner is not of the liking of the government.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    Yeah in less interesting of times I would much more understand where they're coming from. That being said in this specific context it was the quoted person (person A) not understanding why a friend of a friend (B) would no longer speak to them after learning A voted for Trump multiple times.

    The subtext I was picking up from the conversation was that B (I assume) is one of many groups being specifically targeted by Trump so they refused to be in the presence of or communicate with someone who's by proxy targeting them. A on the other hand just seems to see it all as politics and doesn't understand what the big deal is about.

    In another country or in another time I could understand but given the time and place, their confusion came across to me as showing how oblivious they were to the policies they voted for, who was going to be affected by them, and how negatively they were going to be affected by them.

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  • [–] 28 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    "Tucker Carlson has some good ideas"

    the fuck you just say?

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago*

    i cringed when i heard someone on yt say they, either him or BEN SHAPRIO, your a nutty right winger, and a little transphobic too.(referring to a white guy(ttashy) that reguarly goes on a asian poc channel who had a whole drama about a women getting fired from the channel because she stood up to them, whom are also trashy themselves. he would refer to these 2 "Gentlemen" as points he is making when referring to censorship, taking out of context.

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  • [–] 25 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    Any time anyone starts throwing insults and slurs at me like a Frisbee in lieu of an actual counterarguement

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago*

    my favorite is they append the insult as conclusion. they make an argument and claim 'and if you can't understand this you're a dipshit'. and this is their 'flawless logic' that shows that you are a dipshit, but definition of the argument they have made...

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  • [–] 25 points 8 months ago (6 children)

    It's not really a phrase but anytime someone half quotes something and responds like the 2nd half of the quote doesn't exist.

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  • [–] 30 points 8 months ago (5 children)

    “It’s just a few bad apples” is the big one for me. The full saying is “a few bad apples spoil the bunch”, because rotting apples release gasses that quickly cause other apples to rot as well. So if you have a few bad apples in a bunch, you’ll very quickly have a bunch of bad apples.

    The phrase is usually used to defend bad cops, and the irony is always lost on them when you point out the full saying. Because even the good cops uphold “circle the wagons” systems and “we’ve investigated ourselves and determined we did nothing wrong” policies that protect bad cops… Meaning a few bad cops will very quickly rot the “good” ones.

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Yeah, few bad apples is one of the sayings that people use completely backwards, the other ones is "the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb" which people abbreviate to "blood is thicker than water" to mean the exact opposite.

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  • [–] 8 points 8 months ago

    Wikipedia

    Blood is thicker than water is a proverb in English meaning that familial bonds will always be stronger than other relationships. The oldest record of this saying can be traced back to the 12th century in German.[1]

    Writing in the 1990s and 2000s, author Albert Jack[18] and Messianic minister Richard Pustelniak[19] claimed that the original meaning of the expression was that the ties between people who have made a blood covenant (or have shed blood together in battle) were stronger than ties formed by "the water of the womb", thus "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb". Neither of the authors cites any sources to support his claim.[18][19]

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