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[–] 81 points 9 months ago (2 children)
  • [–] 61 points 9 months ago (4 children)

    Electricity has been a pretty good subscription. Zero sales or promos ever though.

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    I’m still using the services of Big Email, which means I’m the product in this setting. From a philosophical standpoint, that sucks. From a practical point of view, I don’t really see any downsides. Surely there are some that I’m just not aware of.

    If they want to show me some ads, I have ublock origin and NextDNS to take care of that. What else should I know about my situation?

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  • [–] 12 points 9 months ago

    Your email is the root of your digital identity, and pretty much everything in your digital life is tied to it. If your email is provided by Big Email, they own your digital identity and it exists at their whim, with no recourse if it gets taken away, compromised, or abused.

    If you own your domain and pay for mail hosting, you can at least move your email between providers if something goes wrong, and have some recourse with those providers since you're a customer instead of a product.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (5 children)

    From a practical point of view, I don’t really see any downsides.

    Studies have shown that you see worse online prices than I do, because they know what you are going to buy next and they have a good guess the maximum amount you are willing to pay.

    VPNs aren't enough to solve this, but you may be unaffected if you have other strong anti-fingerprinting habits, including routinely deleting all cookies and disabling JavaScript.

    A terrible The worst thing they could be doing is providing an annual report to potential employers on how much money you make, helping your employers minimize how much they pay you. Of course, Visa could also be doing this.

    The other thing they could be doing is sharing your health history, ethnicity, and any religious or political leanings with potential employers, health insurers, or governments.

    In certain cases (cough the USA) we know the government has a legal right to a wire tap, if any of the servers are inside the USA.

    How much any of that could affect you long term depends on who has power where, of course.

    Sorry to drop all this for you. It got to where I didn't feel the risk was worth it for free email, for me. I wish I had jumped to a privacy respecting solution sooner, since I don't know how long my data will take to age out of their systems.

    Edit: Sorry...I realized I used the word "worst" pretty lightly here. Worst is more like...https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IBM_and_the_Holocaust

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (4 children)

    I already use several Firefox forks for different purposes, and all of them are reasonably resistant to fingerprinting. I also have a special container for all the corpo trash I have to deal with. When I click a random news articles on Lemmy, those sites are opened in a different container and their creepy cookies get deleted as soon as I close the tab.

    I'm doing all of this out of of philosophical reasons. It's also pretty easy to set up, and there are hardly any downsides. Disabling java script is something I have tried too, but it did come with all sorts of severe downsides, so that's where I had to draw the line.

    Regardless, I still find the idea of a privacy respecting email appealing. Philosophical reasons again... Recently, I also made a quick and dirty risk assessment about the potential risks, and I still didn't see an urgent need to mitigate them. The practical side of it still requires a bit more reading before I can justify an ongoing expense like this. Naturally, the email provider would have to be EU based.

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Recently, I also made a quick and dirty risk assessment about the potential risks, and I still didn't see an urgent need to mitigate them.

    I agree 100%. I moved in an orderly fashion, myself!

    Your overall logic and position matches mine from maybe six months ago quite well.

    The thing I couldn't let go of was what Google might be doing with my income and employment prospects, selling what they know about me from my inbox.

    I see plenty of evidence for the character of Google's leadership, and I realized it made me angry that someone like that could be accessing my inbox.

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago*

    It also depends on how do you use that mailbox for. In my case, Gmail doesn't get to see anything related to my professional life. I have another email provider for more serious conversations like that. For the most part, Gmail gets to see a bunch of mailing list junk I never subscribed to. I also use Gmail to logging into various services I don't really care that much about. Nothing important, nothing serious. If it involves money in any way, Gmail doesn't get to read those communications.

    However, I am tempted to move all my serious email communications to a more serious paid service. There might be immediate practical benefits too. I could set up a dedicated email address for each creepy company and that way I would find out which one sold my data to spammers.

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago* (1 child)

    Disabling java script is something I have tried too, but it did come with all sorts of severe downsides, so that's where I had to draw the line.

    I get that, 100%. That is exactly where most people land, on the topic.

    I feel obligated to mention that, to the best of my knowledge, JavaScript being globally enabled means a person is 100% not anonymous at any time.

    Trackers can, and do, ask JavaScript hundreds of questions about the browser, it's region, it's underlying OS, and plugins.

    Studies show they typically arrive at a 100% certainly unique fingerprint that they can attach to a real name and home address, before cookies even get involved.

    Your choices of browsers should greatly help, but there's evidence that most of them don't do enough to prevent a unique fingerprint, while JavaScript is enabled.

    The GrapheneOS Vanadium project team blog about this privacy battle regularly. The current privacy outlook with JavaScript enabled seems to still be pretty poor, to me.

    Sorry, I don't have a good solution. But I figure as long as we're discussing this publicly, we can raise some awareness.

    The right answer is to throw corporate criminals in jail to deter their arms race, but I don't see much evidence that will happen soon.

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  • [–] 28 points 9 months ago (1 child)
  • [–] 43 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    Nebula is pretty cool, though I have the lifetime pass. Or patreon.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago (2 children)
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    Yes!

    To me, the long form video tours of various trains around the world on Nebula are worth the monthly subscription.

    And Abolish Everything is freaking hilarious.

    And of course the JetLag crew keep producing some of the best gamified tourism content. Although I'm also quite partial to Downey Express, nexuses because there's so many trains. But anyway, that's on Nebula, too.

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  • [–] 17 points 9 months ago (6 children)

    Health insurance, if you can afford it

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  • [–] 42 points 9 months ago (5 children)

    Or, hear me out, tax that goes toward socialised healthcare.

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  • [–] 14 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    Kagi is a great search engine that I've found to be worth paying for.

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  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago* (1 child)

    I've been curious about kagi for a while, as I see the topic come up now and then.

    Could you describe how it is better (except from the obvious privacy aspect) in your particular use case?

    Which plan do you subscribe to?

    What is the AI assistant it refers to, and do you use it?

    Does it filter out standard slop that has been plaguing (my) search results lately, such as "How to fix (some specific problem with technology ABC): Long description of what technology ABC is, followed by some boilerplate bullet points such as updating drivers and run windows update."

    @thatsnothowyoudoit@lemmy.ca: Same question to you.

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  • [–] 9 points 9 months ago

    First and foremost it was the slop filtering that sold me on it.

    I had a friend suggesting I try it for a while and I resisted. Longtime duck duck go user for primary search.

    I tried it using their free trial/free tier for a little while. I liked what I saw so I went month to month on what I think is their pro plan.

    I do not use their ai assistant at all, I went in a disabled that some can’t be of help there.

    I use their privacy pass now in all my desktop environments: https://blog.kagi.com/kagi-privacy-pass

    I’ve found the results more than good enough - excellent even with all the slop removed.

    I use search so much, everyday, I feel like the clean results pay for themselves in time saved in just one day but I was frustrated and annoyed with both slop and the increasing insidious practices of the big search ad-engines.

    Hope that helps.

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  • [–] 14 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    Internet and/or phone service.

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  • [–] 12 points 9 months ago

    Dropout is one I enjoy and they do profit sharing internally, which is nice to see.

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  • [–] 23 points 9 months ago (5 children)

    I'm happy to give Qobuz my money for providing an excellent music library and be the best paying streaming service for the musicians that I listen to.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago

    Their recommendations are from notable people in that genre too, properly curated recommendations and playlists.

    They also have a strong AI charter that AI generated music must be labeled as such, similar to how Steam works. Hopefully soon you will be able to filter it out if you want to from searches.

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    I switched from you-know-who to Tidal and while I appreciate the sound quality the UI kinda sticks. How are you finding Qobuz?

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    I made the same journey. Used Tidal 1-2 years but never felt quite comfortable with it. The one that shall not be mentioned have got a lot in the UI right.

    I'm still quite new to Qobuz but I like it much better. Their recommendations are much better, the search is much better, more info about fringe artists and sometimes albums too. Some bands/artists with the same name have confused albums but it's expected and okay I think.

    Over all I'd say that Tidal is a great streaming service but Qobuz has music nerd appeal that reminds me of walking into my favourite record stores and chatting about new releases and recommendations from somebody that actually cares.

    Getting back to you question, I see room for improvement but I'm much more comfy with Qobuz than I ever was with Tidal.

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    I might give Q a try in that case, thanks

    I must choose community over convenience, I must choose community over convenience, I must...

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  • [–] 21 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (6 children)

    Judging based on what I'm actually paying for myself I'd say Mullvad VPN, Protonmail and a nameless AI assistant.

    Edit: I forgot I've got a website too, so hosting of that is another one.

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  • [–] 11 points 9 months ago

    Mullvad is stellar. I’ve been a user for years and it’s never let me down.

    I strongly disagree on proton mail. If you use a custom domain with a catchall it’s absolute trash. Also possibly the worst email search ever. Don’t even get me started on the proton bridge.

    I lasted a few months (about 8) and then switched to fastmail. Worlds apart.

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  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago (4 children)

    I'm curious, since you're already on Protonmail, why not use their VPN too?

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  • [–] 8 points 9 months ago

    Internet, the shit show is 24/7 no need to pay more for anything.

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  • [–] 8 points 9 months ago

    A good VPN that values privacy is a pretty easy answer

    Random one, but I get a lot of use out of a boardgamesarena premium membership. I've got a few mates that I can't see IRL as much any more, so it's nice to be able to jump on a video call and play some board games. Only one in the group needs a membership to unlock all the games and it's about £30 for the year. Easily better value than a few hours in a pub

    I have other subscriptions I find varying levels of useful for me, but hard to argue for many of them being particularly good value.

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  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago

    Mullvad, and a strong internet connection from the spyware company of your choice. With that you can pirate any media, and browse the internet. I have never needed more.

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  • Email, Nebula, Dropout, Borgbase, a domain name.

    I also have humble choice, but that's a bit of a tossup. I've found some great games through it that I still play, but most months it still feels worth it to me

    Edit: Forgot Mullvad VPN! Love that thing, 15/10 would recommend. Reddit doesn't like it, but also I don't like reddit so whatever

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  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago

    Mobile data.

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  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago* (1 child)

    The only thing I pay a monthly subscription for is domain/web hosting and medication

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  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago

    Libro.fm - Audiobooks but (unlike Audible) you can download drm-free audio files to listen however you want.

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  • [–] 6 points 9 months ago

    PBS Passport. Support your local PBS station

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  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago* (3 children)

    NextDNS.
    This way, you can very easily filter out most of the ads on your mobile devices.

    If you want to, you can also play this game on hard mode, and start blocking telemetry more aggressively. It can be done, but various apps will stop working. When that happens, you'll unlock a fun new mini game: DNS White List Tuning.

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  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago (2 children)
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    That works too. I've had a pihole for years, and that was great as long as you're on wifi. Also, it required a little bit of admin work, which I usually forgot to do. On the other hand, it's really good if you want to know exactly what's going on. Recently, I came to realize, I don't really mind outsourcing this service to the pros.

    If you're scrolling while waiting on a bus stop or while sitting on a train, you need to use something else. I guess you could connect to your pi from anywhere, maybe even set up your VPN and all that. I'm sure there's a away around that problem, but that would obviously require some reading, setting up, tinkering and admin work. Technically doable, but I just didn't feel like doing all that. I'm definitely not an IT pro, which means that I end up screwing things up in hilarious ways all the time.

    Also, opening up my pi to the whole internet is a scary thought. If I set up my pi like that, that would definitely require quite a bit of reading. That's what ultimately lead me to pay for this service.

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  • [–] 8 points 9 months ago (5 children)

    Online backup. Because it will happen, eventually.

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  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    The worst advice IMHO. You can't cancel that types of subscription anytime, otherwise you lost your data. will you pay for it for the rest of your life? Will your grandchildren pay for it to keep granny's photos?

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  • [–] 10 points 9 months ago

    I think the idea is to use paid online backup as another layer of safety. You still keep your data on your devices, but in case your entire house burns down, you have the online backup.

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago

    I manually backup weekly to a hard drive i wire up with a external HDD reader thing. Most jank BS i've ever done but it was practically 0 cost and it takes me only a few minutes to backup my whole system with FreeFileSync.

    NAS would be next

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  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    Dropout, Revolut, power and water

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago* (2 children)

    I find the free Revolut to be just fine. Is the paid upgrade really worth it?

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    It is for me, at least. In my region it includes fee-less currency conversion, a bunch of premium subscriptions (including VPN), and an interest rate 10x higher than any other bank will offer me. The last one alone means I’m gaining more than I’m spending on my subscription.

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  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago

    Costco, Credit cards (assuming you can get your moneys worth).

    On the nerdier side, Nabu casa, VPS.

    And on the mundane, internet.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago

    Subscription-based services are in general worth the money, if

    1. you can cancel the subscription any time
    2. you use it, because you actually want it
    3. you know exactly what you get out of it

    E.g. it doesn't matter shit how much content on Netflix is terrible, if I use it for one month precisely for that one new show, a new season or a few movies I'm interested - just about anything that makes up an actual reason to starting the subscription.

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    Housing, transportation, internet, electricity, water and a VPN if your country doesn't let you pirate without it.

    Everything else is either superfluous or you can pirate it.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago

    Seedbox. I've had mine for over 10 years and I'm still paying the same $15/month, so it's effectively gotten cheaper, and they've actually upgraded me at least twice in that time to give me more storage & bandwidth.

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  • [–] 10 points 9 months ago* (3 children)

    None. Other routes or methods exist for just out everything. Knowledge, services etc. stop buying into this concept created to part you with money. We did years with subscriptions not being a thing.

    Take the slightly harder path and keep your money in your pocket. Learn how to get what you want without further enabling big tech and the greedy class. Sorry probs not the answer you want.

    Only decent one is as above VPN!

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  • [–] [S] 8 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    It's fine man. Just wanted to see people's thoughts and opinions. In fact I personally agree. Hell, I'm watching NBC right now through a third-party source.

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  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago

    I know sorry. I just feel like there’s lots of these questions because someone wants to now take that information roll it In ball of AI and market it.

    I get cranky. I’m like step outside kill the idea not perpetuate it

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  • [–] 6 points 9 months ago (2 children)
  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    If you're using mullvad, why not also use their DNS? Just curious

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    Uhh Cuz I don't know how! I really only know networking basics..need more time to learn.

    Edit I figured it out. However I do like how on nextdns I can see all the logs and analytics of what's being blocked. Will mullvad do that?

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  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

    I actually pay for quite a few digital service subscriptions. Off the top my head: Proton (email/VPN), Mega (storage), Kagi (search engine), Inoreader (feed aggregator), Signal (both voluntary donation and for online backup), Audible (audiobooks), Reuters (news), a few newspapers and magazines (online editions), some apps, …

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago

    The only extra subscriptions I have are a VPN while I'm at school, a domain name for my portfolio, and one game that is the main place I interact with my friends. Also have a slightly larger Google drive until I can afford to make my own NAS.

    Honestly, I don't see the need for much more. Costco is great if you live near one (they are one of the few decent companies left). Server hosting for games is another one I've done in the past.

    Adobe used to be manageable a decade ago, especially if you were sharing the cost. Same with Game Pass when it came out. Now the prices for both are absurd. Streaming has been replaced by the high seas.

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago

    Grocery delivery

    Electricity

    Water

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago

    So I pay monthly for a few streaming services, those are rarely worth the money, although Qobuz is pretty close. I could pirate my music or buy CDs and rip them, but that would be a huge hassle and expensive for the CD route as I like to listen to a lot of random artists.

    Other services I pay monthly for that I think are good value are the National Trust and the RSPB. National Trust is particularly good value if you like looking at gardens/old houses, you save a fortune. RSPB works for me as I have two on my door step and just the car parking alone is almost the cost is the cost of the months membership.

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  • [–] 15 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

    "nordvpn"

    checks account

    "created 5 hours ago"

    🧐

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  • [–] 6 points 9 months ago

    None, you should but outright not lease forever with the chance of removing features or content.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago

    If you like movies, I've been enjoying AMC Stubs A-List, been going to more movies with the gf, screen unseen is fun if you have nothing specific you want to see. And we keep costs down by sneaking food in.

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