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[–] 38 points 1 month ago

I like enough of the civilized world that I'm still willing to participate in it, despite being relatively removed from a lot of it.

Also, living in the woods in a lot more work than people think it is and I'm lazy.

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  • [–] 34 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    There are fewer than 10,000 people who, if they just like weren’t around anymore, would inprove everyone’s quality of life like ten fold. I cling to the hope that one day enough of us will realize that and save the world.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago* (3 children)

    You realize that's entirely cope right.

    Some dead rich people just means their money will go to their kids/family, it's not going to you in any way ever other than through changes in tax law and enforcement. And well, if you're already middle class, you won't really see any benefit because you already generate more taxes than you consume.

    Further dead rich people and more tax money won't fix the massive inequalities and inefficiencies and corruption that makes government and social policy so limited and ineffective in many places.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    The idea is that watching what happens to those 10,000 discourages replacements. But of course it’s cope. Fortunately, I don’t live in the US so am at least insulated somewhat. I’ll be dead before things get too gnarly. And no kids. Good Lord, no kids.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago

    Fortunately, I don’t live in the US so am at least insulated somewhat.

    The rise in authoritarianism and surveillance is worldwide, the US is just where the people funding it live. You're barely insulated now, and will be much less so if they succeed.

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  • [–] 27 points 1 month ago (8 children)

    not having to shit in a hole in the ground

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  • [–] 18 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    Shitting in a hole is not the part that concerns me, it's dealing with the hole once it's full.

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  • [–] 19 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Cover the hole with dirt and dig a new hole.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Which is a giant pain in the ass, especially if you've built a nice heated structure over the hole so that you don't get hypothermia while pooping in the winter.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago

    In that case, large container that can be tipped into the big hole periodically. You can always dig the new hole in stages rather than all at once too.

    Also if manual labour is off putting to you, the whole idea is probably not something you are suited to.

    Not sure how I could legally do it here but the idea I like is going half way into the wilderness. Buy some woodland but have towns nearby you could pop into for some supplies occasionally and still keep a part time job. Difficult part is legally living in your own woodland.

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  • I strongly recommend this book to anyone who has to shit in the woods some time: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/610432/how-to-shit-in-the-woods-4th-edition-by-kathleen-meyer/9781984857132

    I was working in sanitation and told my co-worker about my upcoming back country trip. He recommended this book. I put it on my e-reader and read it during the course of my adventure. I changed how I approach such things afterwards.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    As long as your soil will percolate, a septic system isn't difficult to build. You just dig a trench leading to a hole, fill the hole with plastic buckets or 55-gallon plastic drums cut up and arranged correctly, then run a correctly sloped PVC pipe to the septic tank you just built. From there, you connect to your fixtures to the drain pipe as needed.

    The difficult part is getting the tools and equipment to do all that out to your location. The bigger the tools you use, the faster and easier the work will be, the it will also be more challenging to get it in and out. Basically, a shovel is a lot easier to carry than a backhoe, but a lot less pleasant to dig with. Same deal with a reciprocating saw, battery, charger, and solar setup, versus a hacksaw.

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  • [–] 26 points 1 month ago

    Ticks. Also, probably, my wife and progeny.

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  • [–] 73 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    Moving to a rural area and realizing how fucking hard it is.

    The hill I will die on: rugged individualism as strength in a post-disaster world is a lie that is sold to appeal to ego in an individualistic society, and also to prevent the formation of community.

    That doesn't apply to many existing rural communities, who of course know better.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (1 child)

    It is an unfortunate truth for introverted autistic loners like me that Community really is key to survival.

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  • [–] 21 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Mostly that I like the civilized world.

    Like don't get me wrong: Nature hikes? Camping? All great. National parks are a treasure. But I will freely admit I rather enjoy little comforts of modernity like "clean water just comes out of the tap when I turn it on", "fresh food is a 15-minute walk to the grocery store away", and "the spinny machine makes my clothes clean while I do other stuff."

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago

    I complain about the modern world petty often, but damn some of it is nice. The other day, the dishwasher was running, the washing machine and dryer were going, the robot vacuum was doing its thing, the litter box was cleaning itself, and I was just sitting there with a beer and a good book.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 month ago

    Volunteering at the native plant garden in the park. Just enough of a hit to keep me going.

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  • Living in the woods alone without food input from civilization is incredibly hard if not impossible.

    Realistically you'd need like 10-20 people to help out, livestock, a field to grow cereals, large garden and a vegetable field, just to keep everyone surviving.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 month ago*

    I’ve given it some thought.

    There isn’t enough empty land in temperate climates for someone to survive unmolested outside of civilization, and I don’t have the multitude of skills required to make it in less hospitable climates. If I could find a good source of food I might make it past the first couple weeks, but I’m not hopeful. I’ve never harvested an animal, so that’s a big barrier.

    If I had a good solar system and a house on several hundred or thousand acres to get me started it might work out. Better yet if I have some seed and starter food.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 month ago*

    Have you actually tried doing that? It can be challenging to say the least.

    I do it for fun sometimes, but I do it fully provisioned and knowing I can always decide to bail, hike out, and go home to my nice warm bed, clean hot and cold running water (people don't realize how huge this is), a fridge full of food that I don't have to carry with me, devices to make the food within minutes on a whim, no bugs or potentially dangerous wild animals, etc.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 month ago

    Indoor plumbing. Seriously. Go without for a couple of weeks and tell me how you feel about hot showers and flush toilets.

    Also, people really underestimate how difficult it would be to just fuck off into the woods. You'd need a good amount of planning and knowledge to do it. What's edible within what time range. Where the animals are at what time of year. And if you're up north you always gotta be laying in firewood.

    Also civilization has taken over most of the good hunter gatherer/ subsistence farming spots. River valleys, estuaries, anywhere with good fertile soil. Most of the places with good desolate wilderness to fuck off into was left desolate because it's fucking desolate.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Civilized world has it's perks. Water closets, supermarkets, social media.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    It's hard. Really, really, hard.

    Yeah, modern life could be improved. There's a lot of ways society could be better. But you think it's tough now? Wait until literally every comfort you have is gone and you get nothing that you didn't grow, hunt, build, or craft yourself. And that's assuming you even have the skills to do it.

    One wrong step and a twisted ankle is a death sentence. In the wild when you stop running, you die.

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  • [–] 17 points 1 month ago

    It is impossible to gather food for yourself. We don't live in pre-civilization or even the wild west. Everything is owned by someone, regulated, etc.

    How do you expect to feed yourself? Not like you can just gather all day and get lucky hunting.

    It is objectively harder to 'live on the land' then it was centuries ago. Borderline impossible, especially if you want to... you know live and interact with people.

    I have a wife and cat to look out for, hard to do that when I can't pay rent.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago

    The fact that living like that is miserable, expensive, and exhausting and I don't want to die from a basic injury.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

    I had enough with where this society is going and I no longer want to be part of it. But I like:

    • fine spirits
    • good food
    • cooking nice steaks
    • eating in restaurants
    • drinking in bars
    • traveling to places that are exotic or interesting to me
    • traveling to places where it’s just nice to wind down
    • swimming in tropical waters
    • hiking snowy mountains
    • driving
    • listening to hi fi music
    • reading books
    • doing video calls with friends and family
    • being able to follow my curiosity and learning new things
    • playing video games
    • being able to take my dog to the vet
    • providing my kid with good education
    • keeping my kid safe from injuries and diseases
    • seeing a doctor when I get sick
    • access to a dentist, a pediatrician, a barber, an ER when necessary
    • taking a shower
    • hot tubs
    • having a washing machine, a dishwasher and a refrigerator in my house
    • having heating and air conditioning

    And probably a bunch more stuff because of which, while I truly enjoy being in nature, I keep choosing living in a city and going to work instead. The common thing with all these items that you need money for each. The only ethical way I know of for making money is working hard and building a career relentlessly for decades. if you’re lucky. There are no guarantees.

    I’m not sure if it’s worth it, but I do know for sure I couldn’t give all of the above up, as long as I have a choice.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago

    If you want to see what it’s like to live without modern conveniences, go to a really poor country and observe the lower-class civilians. Having been to Honduras where poor people live in the mountains (with amazing vistas) with dirt floor huts and no clean drinking water, I can tell you that it is a terrible existence. Half their children die before they make it to 10, because of parasites from the dirt which get in their feet, and contaminated water that they have to hike down and up the mountain for every day. I feel like everyone should see this at some point to reset their perspective.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago

    Infrastructure = stability

    I highly recommend watching the Fall of Civilizations series: https://fallofcivilizationspodcast.com/

    ...and then think about each civilization as a group of people trying to stay alive in the wilderness.

    Most of them collapsed because something went wrong with the water and/or food supply, and they weren't able to recover because they were dependent on a single source. Some event overextends the resources and there aren't enough backups.

    This happened to many other smaller groups over the millennia, which never made it long enough to be labelled as civilizations. Most of them we don't have records on.

    As human technology has improved and civilization has grown more complex, we've built more redundancies into our system. Drought in an area no longer means the people living there have to leave or die. Famine can be overcome with modern farming technology and logistics. We can even mitigate the impact of diseases that are so contagious they spread around the entire planet in less than a year.

    Benefiting from the redundancies of the system requires being attached to the system. Disconnecting might seem freeing on the face of it, but the reality is that it makes you a slave to your basic needs. Infrastructure provides the escape from that slavery, but you can't build or maintain infrastructure by yourself.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago

    Living in the woods needs a LOT of money

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago

    Relative comfort and occasionally ditching the civilized world to live in the woods for a bit to remind me how nice that relative comfort really is. Disconnecting from screens ia also a nice benefit (though I do still play video games and read ebooks when I fuck off into the wilderness).

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago

    Its illegal to do here without permission from the local government and they wouldn't realistically give me permission.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    The wilds; they call... Pretty sure I could be a happy well-adjusted hermit, but my wife and family keep me from running off to amass my racoon army. I focus my energy on creating a backyard jungle that lets me pretend that I'm not trapped in suburbia.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    My wife is also a big reason. She likes “going out” and “meeting people” and “eating at restaurants.”

    Once we can get out of the suburbs we have agreed we won’t be more than an hour from a train station where she can get to a city.

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  • Cuck porn, unfortunately

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    Lack of survival skills

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago*

    I nearly did, but didn't for two main reasons:

    1. Women. I'm not a monk, and it's really hard to find a woman who wants to live in the woods, especially when you live in the woods.

    2. Empathy for the rest of humanity. Can't make the world a better place from the woods.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

    I'm sorta there.

    I live about 15 miles from the nearest town and I can only see my one neighbor in the fall and winter.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    Chronic medical conditions that require medication.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago* (1 child)

    Mostly getting shit delivered. My current ideal spot is far enough outside town that I'm still able to get pizza delivered and have good internet... but not deal with JW's.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    Like others have said, it is really difficult. I strongly recommend reading a good book about how hard a life it really is, e.g., Crusoe of Lonesome Lake.

    Also, man, warm showers are amazing.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    Kids. They would hate it. I'm not going to ruin their normal life by being super weird and ditching modern society. As bad as I think things are, this is the best chance I think my family has.

    I'm pretty sure I could convince the spouse to do it. She's just as burned out as I am.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    the civilized word keeps encroaching and chopping down the forest

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago*

    I've done it, it's okay. I'm back in the civilized world now. More than anything, it's lonely out there.

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    Needing regular doses of my asthma medication.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Fucking cold winters and the effort of growing enough potato, hunting and fishing, gathering firewood all with hand tools is way too much work.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Deforestation

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    I can live without internet. without computers. heck even without electricity. But I like indoor plumbing with hot and cold running water and temperature controlled shelter. Also I would still prefer to have electricity and refrigeration/freezer. and to be honest its nice to be able to access some media. Lets face it a lot of video games are pretty cool and came out not to long ago.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Antibiotics

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Much of the information I would require to do so comfortably requires either an internet connection or some very heavy books to access. Both are currently impractical for me to implement in the places available to me.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Livng in the woods is a bit much. But tiny (off grid) house videos are looking very appealing, especially when that lets people get to FIRE.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    Those videos aren't made by real people telling you what it's really like to live that way; they're made by trustafarians and roleplayers trying to sell you an idea so you'll keep watching their videos so you'll keep seeing ads.

    There are many, significant drawbacks to living in a homestead, tiny house, or off-grid cabin, to the point that it's something that isn't even possible, and most of the time not worth the trouble, for many people simply due to zoning laws. Any channel that doesn't address those realities is glamorizing a difficult lifestyle and not being honest about what it's really like to live that lifestyle.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    The only woods where I could do that in my country are part of the Amazon , and the uncontacted tribes living there are not exactly friendly

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    I'm in the woods right now, waiting for you to come help cut firewood and get next year's garlic and potatoes in. December-Febuary I'm gonna go be homeless somewhere warmer though. For real, if you want a taste of woods life and are able to pitch in hmu. "Other people" are kinda the main thing missing from the equation atm

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    The VAST majority of people simply could not cut living in the wilderness, cutting themselves off from society completely. It is an extremely difficult life. Most people wouldn't know so many critical skills you would need to even begin to think of pulling it off. Even when you look at "successful" instances of this, you find they still return to civilization to make up for shortfalls, like making sure there is enough food, using gas, complex machinery like power tools, vehicles, and generators, etc.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    I'm waiting for the next book in that series I like.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    We have a cabin in the woods so I do it in the summer. I wouldn't want to do it longterm in the winter. (Canada) A couple of days and I'm ready for civilization.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Convenience. The people I could do without, but I’m a creature of habit.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    A mortgage and a family.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    My wife probably wouldn't come with me, my cat wouldn't make it, I think I would struggle with finding suitable water sources that don't count as part of the civilized world.

    I go solo camping about once a year to remind myself I'd probably die out there but get it out of my system.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Sounds like it'd be hard to get laid.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    I'd rather be dead than have to live without civilization.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    I’m a spoiled brat with soft hands and no survival skills, and even if I were better equipped it sounds exhausting and dangerous.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago*

    My guy. That was the precise thing most of our ancestors struggled their whole lives to get out of.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    About $30K-35K for the proper rolling solar punk set up, and family health issues meaning I'd be the lone survivor guaranteed after the first winter.

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    I'm afraid of being alone with my thoughts.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 weeks ago

    I don't like the woods that much, cool to camp in for a couple days but I wouldn't want to live there

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    Clean water really.

    With solar and battery tech, self-sufficient electricity isn't some impossible thing anymore. But getting clean water is the real trick. All my life I've just had to walk a few steps and turn a faucet. I took this for granted for so long until I actually looked into what it would realistically be like living off grid in the woods.

    Sure you can collect rainwater, but what happens during a drought? You have iodine tablets? Where did you get them? I doubt you made them yourself in the woods lol. You'd have to live next to some freshwater stream or luck out with some kind of artesian well on the property.

    Sure food could be an issue too, but you die from thirst long before you die of starvation. Idk but I guess I'm at the point of appreciating tap water lol.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    I like being around people too much.

    Now if I could convince my 100 favorite people to come with me... now we're talking.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    Fiber internet

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    Probably the civilized world.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    Have to wait until my kid graduates and then I’m out.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago*

    Great content. But how are there 50 comments and only 19 upvotes? Y'all seriously gotta upvote more so casual users dont miss good threads

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