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[–] 45 points 8 months ago (6 children)

It's not terribly surprising to find a lack of diversity in opinions here. The Fediverse, in general, is a fringe alternative to the big social media platforms. Using it is, in and of itself, an opinionated decision that we all more or less share.

When people use Reddit, TikTok, or similar platforms, they go there to find their subset of culture. That's the benefit of their scale. When you use Lemmy, the platform itself is your subset of culture.

It's very fair, and smart, to be skeptical of a one-sided consensus of opinions without adequate research. You will often see strawmen and a lack of understanding toward groups that disagree with the prevailing thoughts here. Never use only one source, and never trust a social media platform to give you the full picture.

However, you also want to beware of the False Balance and Golden Mean fallacies. Diversity of opinions has no direct correlation with truth. If a topic is worth forming an opinion on, it's worth doing real research on. Reading internet arguments will only reinforce bias.

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

    You will often see strawmen and a lack of understanding toward groups that disagree with the prevailing thoughts here.

    Like literally in this thread, including towards OP, although I don't see anybody trying to be mean about it (yet).

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Agreed. Though upon re-reading my point, I regret specifying "here", as it might give the impression I think it is unique or more prevalent here than elsewhere.

    I think this is simply a common human trait that is found in all communities. Even surprisingly in debate and philosophy communities. I've been guilty of it without even noticing.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Diversity of opinions has no direct correlation with truth

    I often struggle with the concept of "truth".

    Most politically contentious issues are contentious because there are are competing arguments all based on some genuine concern. Often its not a question of truth but rather perspective.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

    That's a fair point. I could have used less definitive language. The concept of objective vs. relative truth, or even whether such a thing exists, is a philosophical discussion I didn't mean to broach. And I certainly did not mean to imply there was a single correct opinion on all topics.

    I simply meant to summarize my concerns with equating diverse opinions with inherently healthy discourse. While many topics can, as you noted, have a plethora of valid opinions based on perspective, they can also have opinions simply meant to "poison the well," as it were (or simply be wrong regardless of perspective). Climate change deniers being given equal time and weight on the news, for example.

    Perhaps it would have been better phrased: "Diversity of opinions has no direct correlation with accuracy, sincerity, factuality, or value."

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  • [–] 104 points 8 months ago (23 children)

    you should probably feel some amount of discomfort with your own views and be willing to adjust them as your exposure to better reasoning and evidence supports a different view

    but I also don't think we should have obligatory "both-sides" on everything either, sometimes it's OK to have a consensus, like the Holocaust was wrong - I'm OK that most people on Lemmy agree with that view

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  • [–] 16 points 8 months ago* (10 children)

    Most people IRL agree with that view.

    Now try "Linux is the most mainstream OS you should consider" or "only terrible people would vote Republican". Agreement on Lemmy will be 90-some percent. Agreement IRL will be a distinct minority.

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  • [–] 27 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    People on lemmy will say that Linux should be mainstream, but I don't think most people are so delusional that they think it is.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago*

    I meant most mainstream, as in they might be okay with OpenBSD as well.

    People have to be aware Linux is itself a weird nerd thing, although like in this thread there seems to be a reluctance to admit we're not a representative sample of the population.

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  • [–] 11 points 8 months ago (5 children)

    If you take away the polemics, the reality of majority opinions here is:

    At the current moment in time only terrible or completely uninformed people vote republican, and everyone should consider linux, but i can understand if someone wants to use windows for ease of use.

    and those are well reflected, humanistic viewpoints. There are other viewpoints too, but i would say they are not well reflected or accusatory out of their own failings. Reality HAS a left wing bias after all.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

    but i can understand if someone wants to use windows for ease of use.

    Lemmy probably disagrees with that. I mean, I could argue with it.

    Even if they're right they're highly unusual, echo-chambery things. America is 1/3 solid Democrats and even some of those people are going to try to coexist. Most people have a very vague idea of what Linux even is. Some might not have heard of it at all.

    And Lemmy contains a lot of polemics.

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  • [–] 0 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    everyone should consider linux, but i can understand if someone wants to use windows for ease of use.

    I'll be the one to argue with this then, since no one else has. Windows is not easier to use. People are just used to it. I'll agree there are some cases where it's easier, where you need certain software that doesn't work on Linux, but usually it isn't anymore. If you don't want to put in a little effort into learning something new then fine, though you'll have to when changing Windows versions too. If you want the easiest OS to use, Linux is the best choice. It doesn't behave identically to Windows does though, so you have to be willing to accept change.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    I must argue back, sadly. For someone like me who knows how to search the web for exactly the wording that is relevant for my issue, because i know how PCs in general work, how to scour through log files and how to formulate my search terms, Linux is fine, even if it has (still) some rough edges. (why the hell is there no graphical service manager installed on fedora per default for example? I know how to use the command line for this, others might not.)

    If someone just want to use their PC for gaming with no issues at all, don't want to research workarounds if you run into hitches or want to play current multiplayer titles, windows still has an edge (even if it's a bit of an artificial one regarding anticheats). If you leave the safe environment of Steam, Epic, GoG and Amazon (with Heroic), and want to just install a game with an downloaded installer, the learning curve gets steep pretty fast for someone who doesn't know shit about computers. Under Windows it's a doubleclick (or a singleclick in your browsers download manager) and clicking next/finish. Flatpak has helped here in some circumstances, but comes with it's own limitations if you don't know why your downloaded program can't access anything outside your home directory for example.

    For someone who has used only windows in the last 20 years and is used to a specific workflow for whatever they wanna do (like people who digitize VHS tapes or similar "legacy" tasks), it will most likely be hard to switch over too - and why should they? (We both know why they SHOULD, but it will not be obvious or easy for those people)

    Then there is another aspect: if you can't speak english most good sources for troubleshooting are out of your reach. I'm in a german language country - if i had to limit myself to only german language sources everytime i run into some issue, i would have given up pretty soon. Baby boomers in this country have atrocious english language skills in general.

    So you see: Everyone should consider Linux, but if you are old, don't have technical knowledge, don't speak english, do some task you have done the same way the last decade ,... the difficulty of switching might be too much without someone who helps them and is available when something breaks.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    Most of your "people who should think about staying on Windows" are not typical users, outside of AAA multiplayer specifically (currently, though it looks like EA at least is maybe changing). Yeah, it's harder to play games from sources other than Steam, Epic, GoG, but how many are? If you are, then you're also probably technically knowledgeable and you'll be fine. No one who "doesn't know shit" about computers is getting things from sources besides these.

    For someone who has used only windows in the last 20 years and is used to a specific workflow for whatever they wanna do... , it will most likely be hard to switch over too - and why should they?

    This is the point I made. It's easier on Linux often (OK, maybe not that niche thing, but who's doing that?). It requires relearning though. They probably dealt with a lot of shit setting the work flow up in Windows. I'm not saying they should change. However, I am saying comparing switching to Linux from Windows is not the same as comparing Linux and Windows. In a vacuum, for the average user, I'm almost certain Linux is easier at this point. Just compare the install process for most common distros to that of Windows. It's crazy how much simpler and easier it is. Is that easier than just doing nothing? Obviously not, and that's not what I claimed.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago*

    Debian is pretty plug and play. Ubuntu tries to be idiot-proof like Windows on top of it. If like most people you don't do your own tech support it's a non-issue for the most part. Either way you take it to the guy who set it up if something breaks or needs changing.

    Gaming would be the exception where you still need Windows. It's getting better but support is not universal.

    Then there is another aspect: if you can’t speak english most good sources for troubleshooting are out of your reach.

    Yeah, I could see how that would be hard.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (1 child)

    But those things are objectively true

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

    I mean, what makes a terrible person vs. a typically flawed human is massively subject to debate. Actually, the nature of morality itself is.

    The thing about Linux is more defencible, but most people IRL have a vague idea at best what it even is. It doesn't have to be untrue to be unpopular.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (11 children)

    On Reddit, I sometimes pop over to the r/conservative subreddit to see their take on issues. Mostly to get a temperature read on how they are feeling about news events. No equivalent to that on Lemmy.

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  • [–] 12 points 8 months ago (10 children)

    there are absolutely conservative lemmy instances, but again I'm not sure what the value is of this - conservative ideology is broadly reality denying (even by their own admission), and it's just poor reasoning that different opinions are always valuable to be acquainted with and take seriously.

    For example, I do not think that medical students should be taking classes in astrology, alchemy, homeopathy, and chiropractic as well as their classes on biology, chemistry, anatomy & physiology, etc.

    We can evaluate different viewpoints on the merits of how well they are based on reason or evidence, and dismiss poorly reasoned or poorly evidenced views (or better, views that are proven wrong through reasoning or evidence).

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (7 children)

    The value is learning about how they view the world.

    If I understand them, I understand the world better not because they have a deeper understanding, but because they have reality denying viewpoints that 23-45% of my fellow countrymen share.

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago

    yes, that's admittedly valuable, this is why I've spent so much time studying Christianity and talking to Christians about their beliefs; but the OP put me in the mindset of thinking about diversity of viewpoints to ensure an accurate or correct viewpoint, which is a separate goal or concern - so I thought it was being implied that reading /r/conservative views is a valuable exercise because it helps us develop more accurate or better views (which I don't think is likely)

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    The value is learning about how they view the world.

    That's what psychology classes are for. Psychology of Learning and Abnormal Psychology are good places to start.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (2 children)

    But its not abnormal. Last election, it was basically half the country.

    Also it is dynamic. Right now their worldview is completely in flux because they shape their opinions around whatever Trump is doing that week. But its getting legitimately hard for them keep up and Trump is loosing support online and in polls (55 to 23-33%) because of that.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    But its not abnormal. Last election, it was basically half the country.

    No, it was a third of the country. Regardless, we're not talking normality in the sense of what's average or prevalent, but rather deviation from the normal, healthy operation of the human mind. That whole third of the US population seems to be suffering the psychological symptoms of lead poisoning, for instance, and that's abnormal.

    Right now their worldview is completely in flux because they shape their opinions around whatever Trump is doing that week.

    Wrong again. They shape their opinions around whatever helps them maintain control, impose rationality, and avoid consequences. They follow Trump because they see in him a fast track to a society that caters to this mindset.

    But its getting legitimately hard for them keep up and Trump is loosing support online and in polls (55 to 23-33%) because of that.

    Because he is seeming less and less to them like the guy who will be their fast track to a society that caters to their mindset. The personal cost to them for pursuing this course is growing beyond the point where their perceived reward is worthwhile.

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago

    "They shape their opinions around whatever helps them maintain control, impose rationality, and avoid consequences."

    Perfect. You can't argue with them because they don't actually believe anything. Fucking brainless pod people

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    The value is learning about how they view the world

    Why is that valuable? These people hold onto their viewpoints not from reason or logic, but emotional media manipulation.

    Us being aware of whatever topic they are frothing at the mouth over this week does not help in any meaningful way. It’s not like we can debate them into coming sround.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    for example, understanding an enemy is important to combating them - being able to understand and anticipate their psychology helps approach them in a better and more informed way

    e.g. I learned that religious fundamentalists cast a stark, black-and-white picture of a war or battle between insiders and outsiders, so by not playing into that dynamic I can sort of undermine their worldview, which then opens the room for humanizing outsiders and helping insiders escape their cult

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  • [–] 25 points 7 months ago* (2 children)

    I live in south currently and it feels like IRL is the echo chamber.

    I genuinely did not know there are americans actually opposed to Israel until I came to lemmy. And I especially did not know it was a big group.

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  • [–] 12 points 7 months ago

    When the mango came to KY the whole crowd stayed quiet even during times when people usually cheer (usually his middle school nicknames). The only time they cheered was when he said the words "epic fury" πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ

    Then a man threw a beer can at him and called him a Pedo

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  • [–] 202 points 8 months ago (6 children)

    There's plenty of diversity here. Loads and loads. I see it in every single thread.

    But it's different than the diversity on other platforms. The diversity on other platforms is like "should we feed the homeless or should we bomb another country?". And the diversity here is more like. "Obviously we need to feed the homeless, that's not a question, but we differ on how we accomplish that goal".

    If you're looking for that other sort of diversity, you need to find a site with more sociopaths.

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  • [–] 70 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    I actually agree with you here. My first thought was the anarchist communities here. Sometimes I agree with the sentiment of a post there, sometimes I don't. I think we largely agree on a rough framework of the world, though, which is, like you said, different from the complete inability to agree on the fundamentals.

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago*

    one thing i have noticed here is that often people will engage in actually productive discussion even if they disagree. I also welcome being corrected, often that is the best thing here since it lets me actually learn/correct something with my thoughts.

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago

    And most people here live in a city and work in IT. Like, take the 10% of your area that agrees with you the most and there's going to be vastly more diversity of thought and opinion.

    You know what they say about thinking everyone else is an asshole...

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  • [–] 20 points 7 months ago

    I don't know what your talking about. I'm very active on Lemmy, precisely because there is a lot of actual debate.

    What I don't get, that Reddit had a LOT of, is trolls, bots, novelty accounts, puns, and especially Russian Propaganda Farmers who are just showing up to argue for the sake of arguing.

    I also don't get a lot of MAGA trolls. Debate is one thing, but anybody who is still sticking by MAGA at this point is a truly sick person, and I'd rather not have to engage with psychopaths, thank you. I don't have anything good or polite to say to them, and they can't be moved by logic or morality, so what's the point? They just want to cause problems, because they think that's entertaining.

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  • [–] 20 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    I do see plenty of disagreements, especially in the political sphere. While people seem to generally lean left, there is a decent amount of variation in opinions within that space. Although since they all still generally align with the same goals, the disagreements only get so heated.

    For things like media (games, movies, etc) I see less, but for me I just don't really feel the need to rain on anyone's parade. If they like something I don't like, whatever. I wouldn't be shocked if a lot of people felt the same way.

    For tech stuff... we're on a decentralized open source platform and a lot of the users came over from corporate social media. Of course most of us are skeptical of big tech developments. Occasionally some nuance gets lost, but I even see some of that show up. There are plenty of threads where the OP posts something based on a misunderstanding and the top comment is someone who (probably) knows more about the topic and can clarify things.

    Also like some others have said, a non-trivial amount of the arguing that happens on other sites is likely egged on by astroturfing and prioritized by algorithms designed to keep attention rather than promote healthy discussion.

    Also, there are some topics where the disagreements I have at least just don't feel relevant enough to post. For example, with the AI thing. I generally agree with the sentiment of opposing the current AI implementations being pushed by big tech. The environmental impact makes it a non-starter even if the rest of it was good, but then there are issues with privacy, companies using AIs that aren't good enough to accomplish the task to replace workers just to save some money regardless of the consequences, and the involvement these companies have with the MIC, etc.

    However, I do have some optimism for uses of AI in the future. I think it's cool tech that has potential to do good things, it's just that a) It's not actually ready yet and b) Some of those things would only work if we lived in a fairer society. But... honestly what's the point of interjecting this into a discussion about what's CURRENTLY going on with AI? What does my hypothetical sci-fi automated luxury gay space communism have have to do with a thread about companies spying on us or switching workers for AI and hurting both the workers and the consumers? Nothing really. It's only really relevant for a discussion about academic research on AI. So I don't bring it up. Not because I feel I need to silence my dissent, but because I recognize that it doesn't really serve any purpose in this context beyond potentially derailing the discussion.

    So overall, I'm not worried. While it would be nice to have some more people on the fediverse, I'm fine with the disagreements we do see and I don't need to argue both sides with a Nazi or a bot. As long as mods don't get too heavy handed about unreasonable stuff, it's fine.

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  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago

    ..Also like some others have said, a non-trivial amount of the arguing that happens on other sites is likely egged on by astroturfing and prioritized by algorithms designed to keep attention rather than promote healthy discussion...

    Reddit in a nutshell and what got me permabanned there after 15 years..

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    For things like media (games, movies, etc) I see less, but for me I just don't really feel the need to rain on anyone's parade. If they like something I don't like, whatever. I wouldn't be shocked if a lot of people felt the same way.

    I do feel the need to comment when someone dislikes something for what I think are bad reasons though. I saw a thread recently of someone who avoid roguelikes and soulslikes, but not because they tried them and don't like them. They had an opinion of them that I think was wrong. (They thought soulslikes were difficult and designed to make people brag, and roguelikes were lacking content and used meta-progression to pad them out β€”which that's the wrong term for the one with meta-progression, but whatever.)

    If someone likes something though, that's fine. Unless they like it for particularly annoying reasons, I'm not going to comment or engage, besides maybe asking for more information. Everyone has different opinions. I like some weird games that a lot of people probably would hate, and that's fine with me. It isn't their concern.

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  • [–] 39 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    No. I'm perfectly secure in my absolute hatred and rejection of bigotry and violence.

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  • [–] 19 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    This makes me worried that I'm in some sort of echo chamber

    You are. Just consider how small the amount of people knowing about lemmy is, now take the ones who are interested in it (over using something like reddit) and now pick the ones who are technically capable to register an account. Those are us, those who have gone through this selection process.

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  • [–] 19 points 8 months ago

    Not really. I see diversity in the areas I think are healthy to have variety on. And the things that are missing are the things that made me leave other places where it seemed like I was the unwelcome one so...

    Nah. Still plenty of stuff here that challenges me and makes me go learn stuff. That is a low bar however Β―\(ツ)/Β―

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  • [–] 18 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    One reason you're noticing a homogeneity of opinions on here is the fact that Lemmy isn't botted like larger social networks. Larger networks have bots farms pushing all sorts of narratives for various reasons, and the one thing they accel at is finding people to argue with.

    You are also certainly in a bubble on Lemmy. You have to know it exists and care enough to use it over other platforms. Most people choose the path of least resistance.

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    its botted plenty. i was just in a china circkejerk thread where there was immediate defense of china and massive attavk of anything that didnt promote china

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  • [–] 29 points 8 months ago (13 children)

    Lol, no. Where else am I going to hear from the proudly atheist, anarchist, socialist, not-mainstream-and-not-interested folks? Even folks on the outer edges from my own position, like hexbear and lemmygrad, educate in their own way: not so much about what they think but about why they believe what they do. That doesn't mean I want to go roll my brain around in that full time, but I am absolutely better for having encountered them.

    I love these comments and opinions when I see them in the wild, and while I may completely disagree, when they are presented courteously they are fascinating and informative.

    This next bit is long, but relevant: it's about getting yourself to a point where you are able to see and enjoy the diversity that is already here. Just my opinion, skip it if you want.

    You don't have to agree with something to be able to read it. And you don't have to possess, or even form, an opinion of your own just because others express theirs strongly. That need comes from innate human evolution, a deep quiet fear that if you stray too far from the pack or disagree too strongly you will be ostracized and not survive, but in the here and now in online spaces it's just a fear. You can, within your own tolerances, choose to set that aside and just read whatever you want.

    Or to see it from the opposite direction, ALL people, including you, including me, derive comfort and security from being in agreement with the herd. But these days, in online spaces, and in every open space where public discourse occurs, that is no longer natural discourse, but a mindfuck: something manipulated beyond recognition by hooking into our primal human fears and using that subtly activated fear as a leash to drag people into thinking, and then doing, what they would otherwise not be inclined to think or do on their own.

    That's what fucks it up for the rest of us. Propaganda, bad actors, and endless marketing. Remember how it was when the internet was young? That's the difference between then and now: those three things weren't there then, and the internet was a space as great as we could all make it. But they sure are there now. And if you're human, you too are susceptible to it. I know I am.

    So you carefully choose your spaces, you make the effort to know and respect your own tolerances, you take the time to look up sources on your own, and you curate your own feed like your sanity depends on it, because it does.

    Some young person told me off many moons ago about how "all people [his] age are overwhelmed" and how he could not be held accountable for his own shitty behavior online because of his resultant "anxiety," while at the same time absolutely refusing to curate his own intake. To me, he was drowning in a flood of negative, low-value content he refused to turn off or even slow.

    I feel bad for him because while it is absolutely true that everything, coming at all of us all the time, is a tsunami of mental and emotional overwhelm that never stops, he CAN easily take control of what he chooses to see, and choose to cut it off when it's too much. No one's going to do that for him. But I can choose to do that for myself, and I do.

    And that's how I can easily read differing opinions without being threatened by them: they are just that. Opinions. Not even necessarily factual. When you get to that place, the world is your oyster, but it takes constant vigilance. Get lazy and you're back to just doomscrolling the propagandized mainstream mental and emotional manipulations again.

    But hit that sweet spot in your own feed and viewing tolerances, and that's when you can see and appreciate the diversity that is already thriving here. Instead of a glance and a discard in a world of one-line comments -- what doomscrolling and social media are made of and count on -- you can actually read, really read and not just skim, and recognize when something is worth more than five seconds or not. The more you actually read and don't just skim, the better and faster you'll become while still enjoying the pleasures that deep reads will bestow.

    People are still making ten course meals of real content, but most readers are still hanging out at the food trucks. Only you can find what you're really looking for, but chances are excellent it's already here and you've either trained yourself to look past it, or actively cut it off by blocking it because it was too much trouble to deal with (high noise to signal, bad actors or behaviors, poor moderation, spam, etc). Look again.

    I especially tip my hat to dbzer0 forcing new users to write a brief essay on anarchism just to sign up. I don't know if they still do that, but their requirement made me think about something I already knew from the distant past that I had not thought about in years -- Sacco and Vanzetti came to mind, though they are perhaps not the best example of real anarchism, lol -- and given recent world events it has been a VAST personal relief to know that there is a huge, thriving set of alternative philosophies that are NOT just designed to move masses of people through orphan-crushing and value-extraction machines until we all die. (And that's before you get to the scam that is politics in the US.)

    So yeah, I've learned more about grassroots populist movements and beliefs just browsing Lemmy in three years than I ever learned in the space of many decades prior, and I can honestly say that while my values have remained the same, my entire worldview has been transformed by quietly hearing and listening to others talk about their own, even when I did not agree.

    TL;DR: If you're not seeing diversity, that's a sign to carefully broaden your own scope and tweak your own viewing boundaries.

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  • [–] 11 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    This next bit is long, but relevant:

    Very true. I also found it to be of refreshingly high quality!

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  • [+] -11 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Also at the very least regurgitated through ai.

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  • [–] 12 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

    Lol. No. I'm what AI trained on.

    Throughout history, there were people who read, and in reading, gained the ability to write. Look at my post history. (I looked at yours: it explains your stance perfectly.)

    Let me know when you get something that idea-diverse out of a machine that isn't actually a list or start out as one.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (4 children)

    this was a long good read, I think I've done the same in terms of curating my online diet but with maybe an order of magnitude less intention lol

    thanks for writing it!

    in terms of db0 signups, I don't remember there being a "short essay" but I was asked to share my beliefs and* my favorite anarchist. so I'm not sure if they've changed what you're referring to or if your memory of it is a bit off but it did get me thinking more than any other web sign up probably ever.

    i especially appreciate your recognition of the diversity that's already here, I agree.

    * corrected by the founder of the instance, I think I just chose to share them alongside my favorite anarchist :P

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    We actually never asked to share beliefs. Just favorite anarchist/FOSS/pirate/tool and two small anti-LLM riddles

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Damn. That was, apropos to your themes, an excellent read. I've seen several comments here reference the shifted Overton window and how it offers a diversity distinct from larger, more mainstream platforms. But you really did a great job writing about the value a discerning eye can glean.

    I do have one gripe with your comment, however:

    People are still making ten course meals of real content, but most readers are still hanging out at the food trucks.

    I will not stand for this food truck slander! Food trucks are to the world of food what Lemmy is to the landscape of social media. They present an alternative starting point from which to derive ideas contrary to established conventions. I implore you: don't pass them off as the culinary equivalent of doomscroll slop. Instead, recognize that a discerning connoisseur can find flavors driven by passion, unbound from convention!

    Okay, enough melodrama. Seriously though, I think your comment was the best-considered take on OP's question.

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

    Wow, thank you. When I wrote this, I was trying to explain something I have been thinking about and understanding innately for years but have never really put into words, and as a result it got long. But it has to do with how the act of consuming short-form content like social media (tweets and tik-tok videos, for example) has the effect of placing us in a semi-trance state, where the usual walls between ourselves and the outside world blur or even disappear, and our trust is the default even as we are certain it isn't.

    When we go in to consume that short-form stuff, because we think we actively chose it and believe our own chemistry has nothing to do with it, we're walls down, thinking we're in charge, but in fact our inner landscape has changed dramatically: mentally we're in another world that we've created for ourselves. It's made of the combination of what we brought and what we're seeing, and how our imaginations combine that mix into something almost trustworthy at the moment of consumption when in reality it's anything but that. Entirely Hitchcockian in a sense -- "let the viewer create the fear" -- but for the technological age where the mantra is "let the reader create the sense of trust" where trust could NOT be less deserved.

    So later I was thinking about a TL;DR for all that, and honestly, if I could offer one, it would be that the more intentionally and forcefully we hold our own mental space, the freer and safer we are to read and skip whatever we want, because we are not feeling the same pressure to stay and get more. We can literally drop something mid-sentence and not feel a loss. The usual hooks of alternating dopamine and subtle fear just don't hit the same when you really can just take it or leave it.

    And because there's no part of us feeling trapped and unable to let go, the need to hit back at something disagreeable also lessens. And that's the part that lets the subtlety of diverse opinion in: it's no longer a threat, because you're not in the same kind of trance mode. You never stop maintaining that critical inner separation from its content. But that takes work and vigilance: I have to know what I'm up against to do it and actively continue working at keeping myself separate.

    Yeah, not at a good TL;DR yet. Still needs work, clearly. Also, no denigration to food trucks! It's not unusual to get better food from a truck than a sit-down restaurant, depending on where you're located. And speaking of diversity, especially national, they can offer a lot more than the usual. To be clear I was thinking more the smaller, limited item ones -- hot dogs and pretzels -- they have at amusement parks than the real street trucks in NYC and LA, for example, and totally forgot about some of the amazing, unusual ones I've had the privilege of trying.

    I genuinely hope no food trucks were harmed in the making of my comment, lol. But it's a point well taken. Thank you for the correction!

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    I had to do the writeup to get on the DB0 instance, I even stayed I'm not an anarchist but I think it has interesting aspects, and they accepted me ☺️

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago

    I love dbzer0 and have an account there, it's a really well-run and well-moderated instance with a LOT of thriving diversity, but they are also very pro-AI and I am very not, so I didn't move completely. But I keep that account open just in case. It's a great place.

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  • [–] 13 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    What levels of diversity are you expecting? I am here exactly to avoid the extreme polar opposite diversity many mainstream platforms offer. I see people agreeing and disagreeing but they are still having some common ground which enables the disagreement to look civil. Considering the mainstream social media this can look like a lack of diversity, but it's actually how it is supposed to be in a civilized world...

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    And also, there's the platform bias. The fact that you are on Lemmy here and not on Reddit asking this, also gives a lot of information what your opinions are, and by that you already share a lot in common with most people here. Sharing a lot in common also means less things to argue about.

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  • [–] 13 points 8 months ago

    I expect this will be a controversial take but hear me out. I think it's futile, to an extent, to fight against so-called echo chambers since it's so ingrained in human tribal nature that the alternative ends up being worse for us. Having some key points of consensus is not necessarily all bad, it mirrors how socialising works in the real world, where people tend to connect with like-minded people, groups of people may not agree on everything but usually have some core values in common that tie them together (note, I still think that Lemmy has less of these types of values in common than most real world friendship groups, but it's closer to it).

    On the other hand, throwing everyone together on the same corporate social media platform is something recent and unnatural. People don't have respectful debates and listen to each other there, they argue, get angry, and dig deeper into their beliefs. For example I would never have made a comment on Reddit, like this one, that I think might be slightly against the grain of the thread since you just get shouted down by defensive people who have already made up their minds. Here on Lemmy I don't expect everyone to agree with me all the time but I believe they might at least listen, so I feel freer to express myself, then again I do have some core values in common with most people here which is what enables that.

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    Diversity of opinions isn't automatically good for its own sake. I'm sure with a little imagination, you can come up with all sorts of objectively stupid opinions. Are those what you want to sift through? If you have a space where you allow all opinions no matter what, you'll end up overwhelmed by the stupidest ones. If you moderate at all, you will always be accused of bias by someone. If you doubt any of this, just start hosting your own server!

    tl;dr: different places have different vibes. That's OK. Not everywhere has to contain all opinions.

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  • [–] 22 points 8 months ago

    I see plenty of diversity without adversity. But there are also just some opinions that are indefensible and the majority agrees that the people with those indefensible opinions shouldn't be allowed at the table.

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  • [–] 53 points 8 months ago (10 children)

    You're just used to seeing troll factory inflamed opinions on other platforms. On ad-supported social media moderators don't ban the trolls because "user number go up!". On the fediverse each user is a cost so when we find bad actors we simply eject them promptly.

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  • [–] 24 points 8 months ago

    Given that I, a massive prick, haven’t been banned for being a jovial massive prick, the false positive rate is incredibly low as well. There’s a sincere desire to produce a solidified, low stress community here. It’s pretty fantastic. And fairly unique in this ratfuck of a timeline we live in.

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  • [–] 15 points 8 months ago (8 children)

    Not all different opinions are troll opinions

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  • [–] 26 points 8 months ago (7 children)

    Correct, but the troll infested discourse in other places polarize everything on purpose to sow discord in society. In Real Life people really are better at voicing different opinions without it looking like pure hatred.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago (6 children)

    But you're placing the entire lack of diverse opinions on the lack of trolls, which is wrong because it assigns all diverse opinions as troll opinions. Really I think you're just answering a different question than OP asked to frame it as a positive for the fediverse, which doesn't address the actual concerns. As you say, real life people are better at voicing different opinions, and this isn't an ad-supported network, so where are the non-troll different opinions?

    I also gotta disagree with the idea that the fediverse is adverse to "user number go up!" mentality, the most common response to me saying a post is off topic or low quality or something is "it doesn't matter because we need more content to attract more users!"

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    There are plenty of diverse opinions here. You just don't recognize them as such since they're expressed respectfully instead of polarizing.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    So is that your response to OP's question then? They're wrong about seemingly everyone agreeing because they are mistaking respect for agreement? They mention wanting to see dissenting opinions respectfully, so I don't think that's the case. They are talking about how the majority seems to be on the same wavelength, not that there is a lack of polarization. Again it seems like you have an answer to a question OP didn't ask ("Why aren't there more trolls and tribalism on the fediverse?") because that's what you want to talk about instead.

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Your first phrase says op places the Entire lack of diversity on the lack of trolls. That's quite black and white view from your part IMO.

    Sometimes we have the tankie trolls here on lemmy too, and sometimes back in the day I had good discussions on reddit, nothing is usually 100% or 0% in those cases

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  • [–] 0 points 7 months ago

    Your first phrase says op places the Entire lack of diversity on the lack of trolls

    No, the person I replied to said that, they were replying to OP.

    That’s quite black and white view from your part IMO.

    If your answer to "where are the different opinions" is "no trolls," then you are putting the lack of diversity on trolls. Which is black and white, yes, and why I disagree with it.

    Sometimes we have the tankie trolls here on lemmy too

    Which is why "no trolls" is a bad answer to OP's question.

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  • [–] 10 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    There are facts and there are opinions. There are plenty of different opinions here in a lot of topics. But people largely agree on some basic facts, like, you know, vaccines work, the earth is a globe and the Trump administration is incompetent and corrupt. Pretty much all of "conservative" thought these days consists of denying basic, easily verifiable facts and replacing them with phantasms. We get some of that here too but luckily it's not very prevalent.

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago

    I could argue that one of your facts is subjective: the Trump administration is only incompetent based on your reference frame. Now, it is a morally bankrupt reference frame where they are competent (they're very competent at normalizing the corruption), but still, they've proven quite competent in reaching their set goal so far.

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  • [–] 19 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Yes, this is an echo chamber. Yes, most things are very samey. You don't see alternative opinions because this is a TINY community. Like crazy tiny. Lemmy has what, 60,000 active users? You know a ton of those are bots too. Even after a reddit exodus that site gets what, 2 million daily users*? So you've got a crazy small group but it's also very similar in type of person who is here. It's overwhelmingly educated middle aged men with a tech background or focus. So you've got a limited pool of opinions to draw on, and then EVEN if you do occasionally get a different opinion, even within that narrow band of experience it can get voted down or swarmed.

    Look, I only lurk here occasionally, and I see stuff I disagree with constantly. I see stuff in this thread I disagree with. But I don't post about it because it's not worth it. I also don't have time to argue a minority opinion on the internet, and my life is better since I stopped doing that. And I guarantee I'm not alone. But I ASSURE you this is a bubble.

    ...but if it makes you feel better though, most people live in bubbles. I have been lucky to grow up in a very different place than I live, and I've found that politically, most Americans absolutely talk past one another because they are incapable of understanding "the other side" because they've never truly talked to people on the other side or listened to them, much less lived with them and understood them. This isn't enlightened centrist BS, I have a side I agree with, but I also don't misrepresent the views of people I disagree with based on no actual knowledge. And with non politics it's very similar - small groups beget small opinion spaces based on a small pool of experiences. Whether that's cars or AI or Linux.

    We used to get exposed to people with different life experiences and opinions in so-called "third places", and we don't have them anymore. Way fewer people go to chuch and the middle of the road protestant mainline has been subsumed. Social clubs like the elks and masons are far less popular. 12% of the population doesn't serve in the military with a socioeconomic cross-cut. Kids don't even have malls, sports start specializations early, and the Internet, almost worst of all, has made it easier than ever to get a social fix consuming only content from those most like you or what is algorithmically fed to you.

    Anyway, things are bad, I do not have a solution, but I have a little bit of time and feel compelled to post when you are practically begging for unpopular opinions. So my unpopular opinion is holy shit is this place an echo chamber, and if you don't feel that deep in your bones you need to immediately drive 2 hours outside of whatever city you live in and go to a pancake breakfast hosted by some local scout troop, go to some small town festival and talk to people, or hell go visit a church of a religion you don't belong to. And don't talk to people your own age, or same familial structure. Talk to someone who thinks voting is dumb. Talk to someone who doesn't care which Linux distro you're on because they don't even HAVE a computer, they just have an iPad.

    ...and yes, realistically you're probably not gonna make a connection that way without moving somewhere, and I'm obviously being mostly flippant, but at least don't turn on conservative tiktok or watch Fox News and expect that to be "the other side". Experiencing a different bubble is "growth" I guess, but people aren't the bubbles they live in, and actually talking to them is a way better way to understand WHY we disagree, not just how. Again, like I said, I don't have real solutions on how to do that. I just have the answer to your question and yes this place is a bubble.

    *Note I'm pulling those numbers out of my ass, but I bet I'm close on orders of magnitude. And yes I know reddit is half bots too.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    I'm new here, but I don't think I will ever treat this place like the only place I come to - but treat it more like a subredditΒ or a community of people rather than a full fledged social media with diverse number of people.Β 

    This place is fun I though.Β 

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  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago

    I've read and even participated in many debates here, there is definitely plurality of opinion going on here. So it seems to me that you may be missing some particular opinions - which ones are those?

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  • [–] 8 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

    Still think hiding the score would go a long way.
    Even if it is just a slight bias you get, it does skew your opinion to the "correct side" i think.
    I like that the fediverse does not have any sort of karma system, that does already help.

    Maybe Photon can have that as a feature? Love your client so much btw. big fan.

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  • [–] 8 points 7 months ago

    Actually, I sometimes get lots of downvotes in things I think I see pretty clearly. So I understand what you mean but still I see some controversy.

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