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[–] 105 points 1 month ago (2 children)
  • [–] 85 points 1 month ago* (28 children)

    Wait wait wait, that's the real Elizabeth Holmes speaking with the real Nathan Fielder?

    Dude what the fuck is this timeline?

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  • [–] 61 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (18 children)

    And I believe its a REAL documentary too.

    Everything about her is fake. It was when she defrauded investors, her speaking voice, and apparently her goddamn facial expressions too.

    Edit: I don't think shes acting. I think she's dissociating.

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  • [–] 50 points 1 month ago (17 children)

    It is indeed a real documentary. Nathan Fielder spent 30 days living with her before she was incarcerated. I can’t wait to watch this shit when it loads for me.

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  • [–] 48 points 1 month ago (16 children)

    That's OK, I didn't want to know the name of this documentary anyway...........

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  • [–] 25 points 1 month ago (5 children)
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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago (9 children)

    Hahahaha sorry… I wasn’t thinking except about how much I wanted to see it. Another commenter got it: You Can See Everything

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  • [–] 13 points 1 month ago (8 children)

    Yeah, that's why I want to watch it.

    Whats it called?

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  • [–] 45 points 1 month ago

    I didn't know what she looked like before this, but I recognized Nathan Fielder and assumed this was acted. Nope!

    Apparently she requested his crew to make this documentary, and he even lived with her and her husband for a while to do it. Absolutely insane.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    I have no idea who either of these people are

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  • [–] 13 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    Nathan Fielder is a very funny man, look up Nathan for You.

    Elizabeth Holmes is a fraudster, I would just watch the documentary if you want to learn more about her. Or you can look her up, it was big news a few years ago.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    I would definitely recommend watching video of her. The stupid fake tough guy voice she did was absolutely hilarious.

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  • [–] 37 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    I saw this trailer the other day, and until a few minutes ago I had no idea it's a documentary. Jesus christ, it's going to be an incredible piece of work.

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  • [–] 31 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Does she looks like the Topollillo or it's only me?

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  • [–] 26 points 1 month ago

    Me watching the first part of the trailer: "Why is she wearing an expression as if she is wearing a mask?"

    My autistic ass after: "oh, fuck, she's the bad guy"

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  • [–] 25 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    To anyone wanting a teaser at the upcoming documentary:

    https://youtu.be/GGJSRFWALTI

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  • [–] 21 points 1 month ago (11 children)

    I have definitely had the reverse experience. Ends up meaning certain positions are off limits, have to be gentle and careful with every thrust. It's not a great experience for either of you.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (7 children)

    Bumpin into the ol cervix eh.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (6 children)

    If it’s long enough it goes where it belongs, behind the cervix 🤤

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  • [–] 0 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    That's not how female anatomy works.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    That’s how my female anatomy works. The cervix is like a stalactite, it’s not flat with the surface of the vaginal wall. You can go infront of it, next to it, or ideally, behind it if you happen to have a long enough appendage or toy.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    The best dicks are average sized but have an upward curve to hit the g-spot or prostate perfectly. 😌

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  • [–] 27 points 1 month ago (9 children)

    It actually is an issue. Most women don't like having their cervix punched repeatedly. Girth can also cause pain. It really sucks when you can see it in their eyes that they start hurting but they tell you to keep going (my SO gets mad if I stop because she decides when she taps out).

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  • [–] 21 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Yeah.... My wife totally says mine is too big..... Totally

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  • [–] 14 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I mean, if you're bottoming out you both will know it.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago

    It's quite variable too. I'm very average in terms of length and with one partner we discovered that that's enough to hit the cervix. She did not have a pleasant experience that time. Others have been fine with my size (minus one size queen who found it far too small)

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    The latter part here is the important thing. She communicates it, and until she says otherwise, don't stop hammering or you'll frustrate her.

    My ex wife just couldn't enjoy it, but tbh that's because she wasn't that into me. My girlfriend now just goes absolutely insane for it. There is a noticable physical accommodation difference in the two that I feel, and I guess the major difference is that she has a minimum arousal level before it's effortless for her. And that's both of us, its not great if Im not SSJ Blue and she's not lost her mind enough.

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  • [–] 51 points 1 month ago (9 children)

    Oh man that lady is sexy as hell and I know I can change her.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 month ago (7 children)

    Oh hell no. Narcissists are the 9th level of hell of crazy. Never worth it.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (6 children)

    Never worth it.

    Worth noting, by all means have some mind blowing sex with the crazy women but don't marry them.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 month ago* (4 children)

    Narcissists don't work that way. If they like you enough to have sex with you, good chance you saying no in the future will hurt their ego and now you got a stalker who will tell your family, friends and police all sorts of nonsense to attempt to trap you.

    It's never worth it.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    And they won't like "you", it's only their validation you are there to do, so don't think the sex is going to be better than using a sexy fuck doll.

    The "good" (sex) crazy is another type of crazy, like possessiveness and so on.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Well, I was making a joke. Obviously people should be careful with who they share themselves with and use their best judgment.

    Also I'm sorry for whoever hurt you, I'm not going through your account history but based on this comment it sounds like maybe you had to deal with some narcissist bullshit first hand. Me too, so best of luck and hopefully it has or will get better.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago* (1 child)

    Haha it's not me, it's a buddy of mine who ignored all warnings and started hooking up with her. But she has dragged in people from my social circle, involved children, authorities, etc. It's a lot of stress just being involved second hand.

    Just really serious with my warnings because too many people think "I can change her/him" or "Its just this one time, it won't matter". Narcissists are super dangerous to deal with and will metaphorically burn the world around them to get what they believe they deserve. Much like the current US president.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Jesus Christ that's crazy. Like actually crazy not just funny crazy.

    will metaphorically burn the world around them to get what they believe they deserve. Much like the current US president.

    Tell me about it. I have folks who (probably) voted for Trump telling me they're worried about the food supply ... These are the consequences for our politics and for electing Trump. Himself and his admin are only doing what they said they would. Which is awful.

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  • [–] 23 points 1 month ago* (8 children)

    I haven't seen the movie yet, but I can already tell she's the monster.

    With those completely dead eyes and that humanesque make-up style that you see on hell-fled demons trying to fit into normal human civilization; it's even trying to build a nest by luring in that unsuspecting man into its den with her spawn in that crib (probably to feed it when it hatches). It's already scaring the shit out of me.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    i think he knows what she is. i am so excited to see this in the theater

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    True! I'm really hoping the monster has leatherface style stitched skin and tattered bat wings myself.

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    "You Can See Everything" documentary about Elizabeth Holmes starring NATHAN FIELDER that comes out next month

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago

    Yo, she means nuts, right?

    No, like, acorns.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago

    I'm a successful billionaire and I see no red flags what so ever!

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)
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    I sort of understand malignant narcissism and its early victims. I'll never understand the suckers who fall for it again after it's been clearly and publicly exposed. Idiots are going to give this POS more money for a new project, if they haven't already.

    Edit: I'm not talking about Fielder. I'm talking about the inevitable investors.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (8 children)

    So I floated this video between LICSW and LPCC friends independently. All said she looked like she was in complete dissociation. The give away is apparently her voice?

    The smile looks fake, but thats a "passive distant smile." As in she's completely withdrawn into a protective state. Her eyes only focus on the DIRECTION of Nathan, not Nathan himself.

    Whatever happened prior to that clip caused her to severely dissociate.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (7 children)

    Nah, those are just the eyes of a true narcissist. I know one and can clock that look a mile away.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago* (6 children)

    Two things can be true. And if this is dissociation, a challenge to her self-image could have easily done it.

    I found myself isolated to a relationship for 18ish years with one. I could write a book on narcissistic personality disorder. That's why I sent it to my friends who are professionals in this. I thought I recognized it.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    That makes sense I've learned the "BPD stare" by having experiences that make it terrifying for me.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (4 children)

    Yep. It's a trauma response, basically removes her conscious awareness to protect herself. Essentially prevents compounding exisiting trauma.

    Personality disorders run in families, but are almost always environmentally caused - abused parent with PD abuses child who develops PD. But even then, the abuse can be caused by others too.

    The little I know about her history - her family was obsessed with the status/wealth they were legacy to. Presumably, they could have traumatized her into believing wealth by any means necessary was the only way she would get the care her inner child needed.

    As part of that - the narcissist would then be completely enveloped in awareness of their image and how others perceived them. They accepted no flaw, and if they could not fix a weakness, they found a way to avoid that flaw all together. Their ENTIRE identity then revolves around something they project on to others. They withdraw completely when faced with something they cannot use cognitive dissonance and blame to avoid. That means they usually LACK self-identity at all.

    Its REALLY sad if you think about it. But the damage they do to other people isn't ignorable. They are horrible in the way they treat and perceive others.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Yeah I have a history of disassociation as well (yay cptsd), but I've noticed a particular way it looks in cluster b folks, and it's more clear the less healthy they are. (A friend who underwent enough dbt to have it be hard to tell she has bpd didn't have the look at all.) I think it's partly that they're disassociating anticipatorally and in situations where they're going in and out.

    And yeah BPD and NPD are really similar in a lot of ways. My father is a narcissist and he had a violent childhood that drove him to seek status and control. Very similarly the BPD folks I've got scars from had rough childhoods as well, even the one who lied about every aspect of her past. They struggle with identity and self care and struggle to deal with distress without disassociating or attacking.

    I'm sympathetic to cluster b folks, I'm incredibly grateful I managed to leave my childhood without being one of them. I wish them all great treatment and can be friends with many once they've gotten control of themselves and their emotions and are mostly asymptomatic. And I feel awful for the burdens their diagnoses and conditions leave on them throughout life. But also I can't be the damage left behind in their wakes anymore.

    If anyone with a cluster b personality disorder is reading this or anyone reading this feels like they might have one, DBT works when you commit to it and do all the work. It'll be slow and it'll hurt, but it saves lives especially for people with bpd. It can give you the tools to stop hurting yourself and others. Those of us who've been hurt by folks with cluster b disorders want the people with them to heal and learn to stop hurting people.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (2 children)

    You're last statement there is why I speak up about it. They can get help. They need to get help. For all the victims it can save. If these things are just discussed as blanket "sociopaths can't be cured" then we just enable the abuse of more victims.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (1 child)

    Yeah it's why I'm so vocal about it too. I've seen multiple friends deal with long term trauma from the same person. And I also watched them start improving, and they seem a lot better last I ran into them. But I do also want to call out that it's also about saving their lives, because for all the damage done, I do want what's best for them. Up to 10% of people with BPD will die by suicide, treatment in bpd focused therapy reduces the risk. NPD is less established in both risk and effectiveness (in large part because they're way less likely to seek treatment or be honest with medical professionals)

    But yeah, best of luck with your healing. Part of me really wishes there was a community on here for recovering from abuse by folks in the cluster b, parents, partners, and otherwise

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