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[–] 46 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Lincoln's.

I've no idea whether Reconstruction would've been successful with him at the helm, but it almost certainly would've gone better.

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  • [–] 40 points 5 months ago (5 children)

    My son. It would likely only delay his death, as he was determined to end his life. Even off it was only for one day, it would give me another chance to let him know i loved him, to let his younger siblings see him one last time.

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    Man this one hurts to read.
    I used to read things like this and be relatively unaffected, but since becoming a father myself, it's beyond my worst nightmare.
    Just the thought of it makes me have a physical feeling in my gut.

    I'm sure you have control in life, but know that an internet stranger is thinking of you today and wish you and your loved ones all the best.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    Hug your kids, let them know they are loved. You never know when it will be the last time you see them.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    So true. As a former feral/latchkey kid I am no essentially no-contact with my parents because of how shit they were and still are. I don't want my kid to ever wonder if I am proud of them or love them so I never miss a chance to say it. Things can happen so fast and tragedy is all too common in the US with a child in public school.

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  • [–] 31 points 5 months ago

    My friend, Chris, who ended his life. It's been years, but I'd give just about anything to have him back.

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    My late father. He passed away July 21, 2014.

    Back in January that year, I came home from work, and he told me that he made some eggs and grits. But when he ate it, it was too hot, but his reflexes made him swallow it anyways. Which basically boiled his insides.. ☹️

    He refused to let me call emergency services, hell he even told me that if I did so without his permission, he would shoot them, and yes he slept on a couch loaded with multiple guns under the couch cushions. He even threatened to kill me if I called emergency services without his permission.

    5 months in, I realized that daddy wasn't gonna recover, as he was seeking cell phone signal the morning before I was about to head out to work. Daddy like never called anybody, so when I saw him seeking a good cell signal, I asked him if he wanted me to step out and call 911 myself.

    He said, and I quote, "Hold the fuck on, I'm getting ready"

    Needless to say, I missed work that day. I got him to the hospital, where he lived for another month or so, but passed away because he didn't tend to his health back in January when the situation happened.

    I'd write out more about this, but it's too sad for me to think more on.

    Damnit daddy, I coulda saved you, if you weren't so stubborn!

    ☹️😭💀

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  • [–] 18 points 5 months ago

    Fred Hampton. I don't mean to pass over other civil rights martyrs, but the Black Panthers were something special. Real revolutionary politics, organised, and taking direct action; the high-water mark of leftest politics in modern America.

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  • [–] 17 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    "Aaron Schwarz get the fuck out of that IT cabinet. We need to go to Cincinatti zoo and put a bulletproof vest on a gorilla."

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  • [–] 16 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    In terms of US History, Abraham Lincoln, by far. What a completely different country this would be today. Or at least would have had a good chance to be.

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  • [–] 14 points 5 months ago

    Martin Luther King maybe?

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  • [–] 14 points 5 months ago

    RBG. I wound have forced her to resign.

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago

    If we're just talking famous people and not family/people I knew, Douglas Adams. I don't like living in a world where Douglas Adams dies at 49 and Henry Kissenger lives to be 100.

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  • [–] 31 points 5 months ago (1 child)
  • My best buddy who feel asleep at the wheel 2km from his destination.
    Could've been there with him to keep him awake 1 more minute. Or drive. Or maybe I'd have died with them.
    I've stopped asking myself "what if", I'll never know, but I miss you buddy.

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  • [–] 8 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    Have you watched the Stephen King movie about that?

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  • [–] 7 points 5 months ago

    Think I’d have gone with saving my grandmother from cancer when my dad was 4, hopefully if they caught it early enough she would’ve lived and my grandfather wouldn’t become a twisted abusive man and my dad could’ve had a normal upbringing. Maybe then he would be reasonable enough to stay in contact with.

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  • [–] 7 points 5 months ago (3 children)
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    I would have tipped off MLK, Malcolm X, and Fred Hampton that the FBI was planning on killing them.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    I feel like they probably knew. Almost gives a christological / martyr narrative, which I hope at least MLK would appreciate given his background. Certainly took balls on all of their parts.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    As a trans person in the US, i believe they knew as far as they had accepted the idea of revolutionary suicide. Why did I bring up I was trans? because i intend to soon start medically transitioning and I have to question if i want to legally transition as well, and to what degree because the laws in the US are making it increasingly difficult to legally exist as a trans person. Either I repress myself and exist to conform or i live as myself and risk death/rape for that. and even in the former case it is unlikely i exist without scrutiny or repercussion given the fact I'm clearly not quiet about this.

    similarly if you are an activist or revolutionary on that level you have to accept that the state is trying to suppress if not kill you; either you repress your own grievances and continue to let exploitation happen unchecked or you fight back and likely pay with your life. But again, anyone willing to consider the latter is still likely to face repercussions even if they choose the former. choosing to exist or operate outside of the hegemonic system of thought will lead to oppression in all forms, and anyone who is pragmatic will understand that being faced with that option typically means you have already gone too far to turn back. You either rebel or capitulate, and being a bootlicker doesn't mean you live longer it just means you'll be remembered as a traitor.

    Thus i believe MLK, Malcom X, and Fred Hampton all knew they were going to die even if they did everything to prevent that outcome, but I don't believe they knew they would die when they did though. At least for Fred Hampton he had a son and a wife; while i dont imagine myself having children i cannot fathom that someone with so much empathy could stomach the idea of leaving their child behind if they could prevent it.

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago

    He didn't die particularly young, but I think this world desperately needs Mr Rogers

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  • [–] 10 points 5 months ago

    My dad. Fuck cancer.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago

    Sun Yat Sen (孫中山)

    I wonder if my birth country would've been in a better place, be making more friends in the world instead of antagonizing everyone like PRC and CCP is doing, destroying the reputation of my people abroad, and causing widespread Sinophobia.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago

    John Smith. He was a well-liked and articulate left-leaning ex-lawyer who was leader of the Labour Party in the UK when he died of a heart attack in 1994. He was on the cusp of power and I honestly believe he would have changed things for the better.

    I'd liked to have saved him and possibly Kurt Cobain, just because I was a huge fan.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago

    I know it's not really that important in the scheme of things but probably Chris Cornell which would hopefully also save Chester Bennington. Quite selfish of me but that's what first came to my mind.

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    Probably this guy. Hopefully prevent a lot of pointless bloodshed

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  • [–] 11 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    Not so sure about that. I think Europe was already on the road to war, and he was just an excuse.

    At the time, war was still seen as something romantic that could be ended relatively easily with few consequences for the ones in charge. Nobody making the decisions anticipated the industrial scale slaughter that modern tech enabled.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    If one takes the position that part of the issue was that various leaders and diplomats hadn't appreciated the degree to which military plans with fixed mobilization schedules essentially made it very difficult to back down once mobilization has started, I suppose that it's possible that some clever people could have figured that out and started a series of arms control treaties aimed in such a way as to provide "breakpoints", where even once mobilization had started, the move towards war could be reversed.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Causes_of_World_War_I

    Primacy of offensive and war by timetable

    See also: Cult of the offensive

    Moltke, Joffre, Conrad, and other military commanders held that seizing the initiative was extremely important. That theory encouraged all belligerents to devise war plans to strike first to gain the advantage. The war plans all included complex plans for mobilization of the armed forces, either as a prelude to war or as a deterrent. The continental Great Powers' mobilization plans included arming and transporting millions of men and their equipment, typically by rail and to strict schedules.[citation needed]

    The mobilization plans limited the scope of diplomacy, as military planners wanted to begin mobilisation as quickly as possible to avoid being caught on the defensive. They also put pressure on policymakers to begin their own mobilization once it was discovered that other nations had begun to mobilize.[citation needed]

    In 1969, A. J. P. Taylor wrote that mobilization schedules were so rigid that once they were begun, they could not be canceled without massive disruption of the country and military disorganisation, and they could not proceed without physical invasion (of Belgium by Germany). Thus, diplomatic overtures conducted after the mobilizations had begun were ignored.[152] Hence the metaphor "war by timetable".

    Russia ordered a partial mobilization on 25 July against Austria-Hungary only. Their lack of prewar planning for the partial mobilization made the Russians realize by 29 July that it would be impossible to interfere with a general mobilization.[citation needed]

    Only a general mobilization could be carried out successfully. The Russians were, therefore, faced with only two options: canceling the mobilization during a crisis or moving to full mobilization, the latter of which they did on 30 July. They, therefore, mobilized along both the Russian border with Austria-Hungary and the border with Germany.[citation needed]

    German mobilization plans assumed a two-front war against France and Russia and had the bulk of the German army massed against France and taking the offensive in the west, and a smaller force holding East Prussia. The plans were based on the assumption that France would mobilize significantly faster than Russia.[citation needed]

    On 28 July, Germany learned through its spy network that Russia had implemented partial mobilisation and its "Period Preparatory to War". The Germans assumed that Russia had decided upon war and that its mobilisation put Germany in danger, especially since because German war plans, the so-called Schlieffen Plan, relied upon Germany to mobilise speedily enough to defeat France first by attacking largely through neutral Belgium before it turned to defeat the slower-moving Russians.[citation needed]

    Christopher Clark states: "German efforts at mediation – which suggested that Austria should 'Halt in Belgrade' and use the occupation of the Serbian capital to ensure its terms were met – were rendered futile by the speed of Russian preparations, which threatened to force the Germans to take counter-measures before mediation could begin to take effect."[153]

    Clark also states: "The Germans declared war on Russia before the Russians declared war on Germany. But by the time that happened, the Russian government had been moving troops and equipment to the German front for a week. The Russians were the first great power to issue an order of general mobilisation and the first Russo-German clash took place on German, not on Russian soil, following the Russian invasion of East Prussia. That doesn't mean that the Russians should be 'blamed' for the outbreak of war. Rather it alerts us to the complexity of the events that brought war about and the limitations of any thesis that focuses on the culpability of one actor."[154]

    If someone realized the implications of these war plans, they might have either placed more weight on pre-mobilization diplomacy or had some arms control agreement that reduced some of the time pressures and didn't turn mobilization into an escalation spiral that led to all-in war.

    I am not saying that that would have happened had Franz Ferdinand not been assassinated, but I could at least imagine that time a non-assassination might have bought might have made it possible.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago*

    best thing to change the shape of europe would be going back and kill Alexander no Romen Empire = none of their bastard children going on multiple genocidal rampages over the centuries

    i mean...they probabky would have happened under someone/thing else but it probably wouldnt have been as stiffeling in thought as catholicism

    and if you kill the catholics in their crib then protestants/puritans never make it to america

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    Dave Stevens.

    I know, who?

    Good documentary about him:

    https://youtu.be/gSaaNJyqf4g

    Fuck Cancer!

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    Strange. I was a fan, and never wondered why I wasn't seeing more stuff from him.

    Yeah, fuck cancer.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    If you want some great "Lost" Dave Stevens stuff, pick up the 3 volume collection of the Star Wars newspaper strips.

    It was ostensibly done by Russ Manning, which is just a joy to see on it's own, but Stevens worked in Manning's studio and ghosted some of the art for the strip.

    99% of it is pure Manning, but every now and then... "Oh, yeah, totally Dave..." (it's the eyes)

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    Kevin Conroy. Some other actors can do Batman's voice fairly good but no one tops Kevin.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago*

    RBG, at least long enough she can be replaced by a Dem scotus, to prevent ACB from illegitimately taking the SCOTUS. but now you have to deal with timeline changes, you might change the future in ways you cant imagine, it can actually be worst than what it was.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    Mine and my family's. I don't know how to cope with and accept the finality of life. Hope ghosts are allowed here.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    Probably Elliott Smith, though I don't think he'd want it.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    My wife's father. He committed suicide back in 2019 after a few years of him getting more and more distant and depressed. Of course it is a gamble since we do believe it was his brain deteriorating kind of similar to what Robin Williams had, but at the same time i also believe he was kind of miserable having to deal with his family's problems which consisted of his 3 daughters and his wifes issues. A week after he passed his wife was then diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and she also passed within 3 months as well. It was a crazy year to say the least. I just wonder so much what he would have done if he was alive to see his wifes passing if that would have changed his decision because i really feel like if he knew he no longer had to take care of her he wouldnt have had to worry so much about living out his life in fear of running out of money anymore and that he may have finally been able to do what he wanted to do which i think he felt trapped.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    And open the door to thousands different atrocities committed by thousands of different people

    I feel you're very optimistic if you think that single key people made all the difference in the world and that without them, no other key people would have stepped up

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago*

    Ignoring the post's restrictions, my grandfather. I think he would have beat my father's ass for how poorly I was treated.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    I'll save mine for David Attenborough.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    Kelvin Kiptum. He was one of the greatest prospects in really advancing marathon world records. It might take another few generations until someone with the same kind of potential enters the scene.

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    I would travel back in time and prevent the deaths of all the other sperms in the load that became Justice John Roberts Jr. If only one of those other sperms got into that egg.

    This court Jester that thinks that 12 years after civil rights and voting rights were extended to black people, that there was no racism to deal with anymore and has been trying to overturn them until he succeeded this time.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    I'm reading Laura Franko's BROADWAY REVIVAL again. A Broadway actor and composer uses his brother's participation in THE SLINGSHOT, a time machine for historians, to go from 2077 to 1934 and prevent George Gershin from dying of a brain tumor. He brings 2077 drugs to do it.

    https://www.amazon.com/Broadway-Revival-Laura-Frankos/dp/1732523924

    I don't have a laudable goals, but if I could, I'd pump Jim Hensen full futuristic drugs so he didn't die. The world can always use more rainbows.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago*

    My grandma’s, or my gramps on my other side.

    Both to technically elective surgery gone wrong, both in 2020. So it would have been preventable, unlike the heart issue that took my cousin just the year before, or the cancer I lost my nonna to.

    Pretty rough couple years those were. 😞

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago*

    Corey Comperatore. It'd be quite easy, just tell Thomas Crooks "aim a few more inches to the right."

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    my uncle. because he would have beat my fathers ass for the disrespect he showed my mother.

    I would never have been born, and thus never would be alive in this timeline.

    bonus, I get to personally test my theories about paradoxes.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    Daniel Naroditsky

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    Ernesto Guevara

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    Is JFK not in the conversation?

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago (2 children)

    The guy who almost killed Hitler.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    What if we prevented Hitler from killing himself just so that he could go on trial and shown to the world hope much of a nut job he was? Maybe that would have helped diminish the mythos that racist bigots today see him? It would be more of a saving to torture him deal for sure

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago

    Terry Fox. One of humanity's gems.

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  • [–] -1 points 5 months ago (1 child)