I'm a guy and I have one every 2 or 3 months. But at work I think some guys have one more than once a month because they look groomed all the time.

PS: I trim my beard once a week. I'm talking about haircuts specifically.

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[–] 22 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Once a year. I look like an animal all the time

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  • [–] 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    TIL most dudes on Lemmy grow long hair

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago* (3 children)

    I bought the proper hardware to cut my own hair, learned how to do the fades. It's easy to keep it the same length all the time this way.

    Mainly I just got sick of paying so much for a 10 minute cut.

    Edit: I'm not gonna say it was smooth sailing from day 1 I should add, I buzz cut my failures off as I was learning a couple times lol.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    did you put mirrors on both walls?

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  • [–] 32 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    haven't cut my hair in years, long hair supremacy.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Well, first let me say that you should go to the barber as often as you want, not as often as an average man does.

    I personally go every 3 months because I have long hair and only need to get it into a bit of shape regularly. If I had a short hairstyle I would go more often.

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  • [–] -1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    This is kind of a tautological answer. Of course it's as often as I want, but what do I want? I had that question when I started making my own decisions on my hair. I was never fully happy with how things looked and haven't figured out how to style it the way I like. What part of it was I unhappy with? I couldn't tell. Would more frequent hair cuts help? Or less frequent so it spends more time in that slightly grown out state and I have more consistent hair to work with? And so many other questions.

    If you know that most people get their hair cut after X weeks, then that gives you a starting point to experiment with instead of going into it completely blind.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)

    What people do in that case is look at pictures of people with various hairstyles online, trying to find one where they feel like "this looks good, I want to try that one". Or consult with a good hairdresser when you're there who might have some suggestions of what could fit you. Nowadays there are even apps where one can try to put various hairstyles onto their own picture.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    What people do in that case is look at pictures of people with various hairstyles online, trying to find one where they feel like “this looks good, I want to try that one”

    I don't know what problems OP is facing, but in my case, this is basically what the hairdresser recommended that I do and also what I tried doing. Except it didn't help because nothing was appealing to me (I'm rather change adverse). I really needed to maintain a particular style for a while to get used to it before I could decide if I liked it or not. After that time has passed, I couldn't tell if I disliked it because it was grown out too much or if I just didn't like that cut, or if it was some other reason.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    Also for people like me atleast, yeah it might look good on this or that person, but they don't look anything like me.

    I've basically just resorted to never cutting my hair though. I've had everything from darn near bald to just past my shoulderbladees which is about where I am currently.

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  • [–] 22 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I get mine done about every 1-2 months. Usually when it starts poking me in the ears and getting annoying.

    My mate at work who's very fashion conscious gets his done every 3 weeks or so.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    I'm a "two on top, one on the sides" dude. I'm the same, the second my hair starts coming over my ears then I'm away to the barber. Two months is decent, though if I'm not able to get there through work or being away from home, I'll stretch it to three months but I feel a bit like Noel Gallagher when my hair starts coming down to my lugholes.

    That said, I treat it as a bit of a relaxation sesh. I'll ask the barber for a "full service" and close my eyes for half hour or 45 mins and let the barber do his thing with the clippers and the hot shave and the massage and all that jazz. A guilty pleasure every other month or so.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    i shave my head twice a week, because i have the fantastic luck to have incredibly thick hair, and since 22, mpb.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I think I had one back in the late 90s. Now-a-days nature takes care of it.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago*

    My husband has straight hair he keeps in a tight fade, like nearly bald on the sides to very short at the top, and gets his hair cut every 2 weeks. I (lady, curly hair) can go a year between, just get it cut in short layers and let them grow out to long layers. The two of my kids who like theirs short but not crazy short go a month or two between.

    Basically the shorter it is, the more you have to cut it - hair grows, on average 1/2 inch (13mm) per month, so mine has a 6 inch tolerance (it doesn't really look like 6 inches of vertical growth since it isn't straight) but my husband, with such straight and short hair, has a quarter inch tolerance.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (10 children)

    I haven't had a haircut since I was 19 (I am currently 40).

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  • [–] -1 points 1 year ago* (5 children)

    Hair grows 6" a year. Your hair is 10 feet long?

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    IDK where you heard that considering hair grows different speeds for different people. It also doesn't keep getting longer forever.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    On average it grows 6" a year. I looked it up on the internet. Do you have the internet?

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)

    So you just went by the AI blurb at the top of the page. Got it.

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  • [–] -3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    What are you so butthurt about? I got it from Wikipedia, which also says, "Most humans develop the longest thickest hair on their scalps and (mostly observed in males) faces. This hair will usually grow to several feet before terminating, but many humans develop much longer hair."

    Go away, angry little man.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago

    I cut my hair when it bothers me. I don't keep track of the interval.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    It's been like 6 months for me. I've gone over a year before. I have thrash metal hair though. lol.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago*

    3 weeks is my sweet spot. the barber is hot

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    whenever my family nags me about it too much lol

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago

    I donate my hair about every 18 months. 😉

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Every 5-10 years as it's to expensive for me to get one and have to be incredibly lucky to get one.

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  • [–] [S] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    You live on a deserted island or something? 😁

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  • It's called Amerikkka. You know. 4th world country, basic necessities are 400% percent expensive, no medical care that doesn't cost 4,000 bucks.

    Are you living in a deserted island or something? Because everyone knows the fuck hell whole of this Amerikkka country.

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  • [+] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)
  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    I cut my own hair every weekend. I'm in the military, though (and no, I don't just shave it). I found that I do it more to my liking (and consistently) than the barbers I've gone to, it only takes 20 minutes, I don't have to pay $30, and I can shower immediately after. I use a 6 (3/4 inch) on top, a 3 (3/8 inch) around the curve transitioning to the sides, and then fade down from there, 2 to 1.5 to 1 and finally .5 (1/16 inch) around my ears, side-burns, and most of the back. Keeps everything clean, I always look good, and I spend about $40 every year or two.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    I cut my hair approximately once every three months

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    Once a month.

    It's actually become a bit of a self-care routine because I go to a Turkish barbers who'll also do ear hair burning off (nowhere near as intense as you're imagining), noise hair waxing, and a hot towel cut-throat shave.

    I actually like the sensations from them all and I walk out feeling clean and fresh, gives me a monthly little boost of confidence.

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  • When my wife states I'm looking too much like a murderhobo which can be from three months to a year depending.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago*

    The last cut was in 1999 to clean up an undercut. It got longer for about 15 years after that. Now it gets shorter, thinner, and balder, every day.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    I trim my beard about once a month.

    I haven’t had a haircut in about a decade.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I cut my hair myself, whenever I want a change :) (once every few months)

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    I shave my head 2-3 times a week.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Alright since we are on this topic, I am gonna ask how y'all keep a straight face when a mirror is placed in front of you for about 30-45m straight?

    I cannot, for the love of god, stop my smile at all. Especially when I'm slowly transitioning to a new look, I just can't stop smiling when a mirror is placed in front of me. Feels extremely awkward when a guy is working on you and you starts smiling for no reason.

    That being said, I'm due for a haircut now. Planning to do it by this weekend. Last I got my haircut was in June(!). So, a good 2½ months.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago
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    Every 1 or 2 weeks. I buzz the whole thing with #1 guard on the clippers.

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  • I buzz my head about once a month, otherwise I start to look bald.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Twice a year. I always go for a short cut and then grow it out until it annoys me.

    I never cared about having a consistent look.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Do you have problems with the tips getting dry and looking unkept?

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    Not at all. It's perfectly straight and looks healthy, no matter what I do - as long as I wash it every other day.

    I only use one of those all in one shampoos and a blow dryer. I don't even use a comb or brush. Yet, I got quite a few comments about having especially healthy looking hair from woman.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    6 to 8 weeks. If I allowed it, my vanity would have it closer to every 4 weeks but that's an expensive indulgence so I just look like a need a haircut a lot of the time.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    As a woman I get my hair cut every 8 weeks.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    Whenever my wife complains I look homeless and is willing to spend 20 minutes cutting it for me.

    Which is roughly every 2-3 months I think. It'd be less often if I didn't have a wife and had to pay someone to do it, that shit gets expensive.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    Every six weeks. Don't trim the beard though. Business up top... zz top down low

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    2-3 weeks? By 5 weeks I look a little scraggly (I’m balding, so it’s not great to let it go too long, unless I’m dressing as a mad scientist for something)

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    I shave my head in the shower every couple of days. Trim my beard once a week.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    My hair grows fast enough that if I wanted it to stay a specific style it’d need cut probably more than once a month. However, I typically just change the way I part it as it grows. It doesn’t look too bad at any stage, though I basically just slowly transition from looking like a fed to looking like the guys in the fourth Harry Potter movie lol.

    It takes about 3-4 months for it to go from 2in on top to being annoyingly long. Probably closer to 5 for it to be like getting in my mouth when the wind blows.

    And hey you can have long hair and still look “groomed” btw, just got to figure out how to style it right

    Edit: I have straight hair btw with some but not a lot of natural volume. If I had curly hair I could likely let it grow longer without feeling the need to cut it.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 1 year ago

    to looking like the guys in the fourth Harry Potter movie

    I think it's called the "wolf's mane" look. Pretty awesome.

    And hey you can have long hair and still look “groomed” btw

    I want to go for this look but i need an ungodly amount of shampoo since my hair gets sweaty. Let's see

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  • I have long hair but I touch up my undercut every other week or so, i just do it myself

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    I would only cut my hair once a month or later if not for the neck hair. I get a cut once that shit becomes too long.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I shave it off once it starts looking like shit

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  • Lemmy is not a good source for the average man's grooming habits

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    3 to 4 months. From short to thick helmet style and it starts getting annoying to style and it starts generating too much heat inside to survive.

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  • Our male apprentices, especially when they are eager to "score," have a haircut 2-3 times a month.
    Then again, they also take their cars to the big car wash every single week, and meticulously vacuum the interior afterwards.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    Every three to four months and I cut my own hair now too

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago* (2 children)

    Not often enough. It looks pretty ratty by the time I force myself to go. Maybe 4-6 months?

    I’ve always been annoyed by haircuts so it’s difficult to motivate myself to go. However by the time I settle on a new location to regularly use, they close down. Then it’s that much more annoying o find a new place I don’t hate

    I do trim my beard weekly though. Since I have the tools and know how to use them. Currently I have a full beard but cut very short, and shave my neck - shaving a straight line is tough to do

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Annoyed by haircuts? Interesting. And the places you like often close? I'm very curious about this because I just go to super cuts or whatever but corporate chain and it's always super relaxing to me. I get to tell them to do the same thing they always have done (since it's saved in my profile based on phone number), then just sit, relax and close my eyes for like 15 minutes while someone cuts my hair for me and then leave looking better than when I arrived.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago*

    Certainly some of it is on me: I don’t like to plan ahead enough for an appointment but also don’t want to wait. I prefer a place that does walk-ins and I learn when they’re unlikely to have a line.

    Supercuts is a great example. My town had two of them so I went to each several times before learning that one was consistently better, so I started going there regularly. Then they closed. So now I’m going to the other but they’re a mess: employees consistently do noticeably worse job and are not attentive to incoming customers. I don’t think I set a high bar but they’re not achieving it. And specifically they insist on giving me a combover even when I say no: I know my hair is thinning but it’s past the point where a combover is anything but sad. I also don’t comb my hair to the side so a combover just looks uneven and sad. Why can’t they just accept when I say no?

    My town has been going through a generational and demographic shift so all the old places are being replaced with shiny new ones. While I’m sure those new ones will do a basic haircut, they put so much effort into being shiny and modern with modern hairstyles for young adults or hairstyles traditionally associated with various demographics. Great but why can’t we keep it simple? Why can’t I walk in, ask for a haircut, give my preferences And just get it done?

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    Probably between 1-2 months for me.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    For both men and women, the type of hair style matters. Long flowing can go 6 months between cuts. The shorter the cut and the more detail the more often it needs to be cut. 6 weeks is often the case for short cuts. If shaved parts, every week might be necessary. In warm weather more often than in cold weather.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    Almost never. I had long hair in high school and chopped it senior year due to this thing I was doing yearbook picture wise. Took years for it to grow out and this is where I made the big mistake. For versatility I went with a mullet because of I could throw a pony tail into my collard shirt and look all conformy. As I aged my hair grew slower and slower and it never grew all that fast to begin with. At this point my wife will clean me up before an inteview or such but otherwise I don't get it cut.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I haven’t had my hair cut since ‘08.

    I could probably go get it done, but it looks alright and doesn’t seem to grow further than the small of my back.

    I’m a 40-year old woman.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    I think once every 2 months is about average. I wait 5 months.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    3-6 months, just self cut for the first time. Longer hair, don't know what to call the style. Like a bob with the back 80% heavily layered and the front hair being the longest (a bit past my chin).

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    I go with a ponytail, and haven't had even a trim in 2 years.

    If I had my preference I'd go in about once every few months to have more vivid hair dye applied, and get a trim then.

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