Different but less diverse… really interesting find indeed! I would guess there would be exceptions and it definitely depends on the type of agricultural farmland you are considering
I’m an extrovert! Anything more than 3h a week of alone time and I disappear in a puff of smoke!
I happen to be the first one passing by, so I will attempt an answer even if I am unqualified.
Rough days will happen and it is natural to want a pick me up after one such days. What you need is a different type of comfort. So, thinking ahead, start visualizing what type of comfort would help you in the long run.
Drinking one evening is overall bad for you - for whichever reason you decided to stop drinking, they are still all valid even after a rough day. So hold those thoughts in your head.
On the other hand, explore what would help you destress. A warn bath/shower? A silly comedy show? Reading a book and disconnecting from reality? Crafting anything? Cooking something? Doing yoga? Eating chocolate?
Focus on: what would make you feel good tomorrow that is manageable today?
Once you have your solution, “rehearse”, think about it, remind yourself over and over that that’s what you do to chill. Look forward to it over the day. Make it a habit you can be proud of, such that you can then say “yesterday was a rough day, but that warm bath really settled the score and today I feel better for it”
I take a small issue with “people/parents that care”, I would rather replace it with “unavailable”. In an economic that requires people to work insane hours for little pay, where depression and anxiety are rampant, it might not be the parents’ fault for not being there. They might care but be stuck at work. Let’s extend grace to our fellow humans
Agreed. I don’t have the time nor interest to be appropriately informed on all judicial matters. I would like though to vote in someone that is and that shares my ideals, so they can represent me appropriately. What we should get is corporations and lobbying out of politics
Snarky comment incoming:
And this is how jargon is used to exclude an out group from the in group.
While being interested in the topic, I understood nothing of this post.
I would add some depth to this take. How long have you known each others? It might be that she is trying to lighten the mood and, in a misplaced effort to make you happy, strikes the wrong note. This is a crappy excuse an only works if you have been dating very shortly (a couple of months max) and only if, when pointed out, she makes obvious attempts at redirecting. I would not go as far as couples counseling, not worth it if she can’t see the problem and fix it herself.
I’m convinced!
It doesn’t smell but it’s far from soft!
I’m working on not getting annoyed at my kid for kid things. He is overall a good kid, but he is pushing boundaries a lot, usually around dinner time when he feels the tiredness of the day. I am seeing improvements in how much grace I can extend him while also upholding rules and order. The line is so thin to walk! But seeing him react positively is rewarding and slowly the massive tantrums are changing into small, manageable rebellions while we are all keeping our cool (mostly).
Point taken! Lol
I still think that “Talafreako” sounds cool