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[–] 94 points 2 days ago (8 children)

The thing I miss most from reddit is the ability to find decently sized communities for extremely niche topics. Lemmy just isn't big enough to support that. However, I certainly don't miss it enough to actually go back to using Reddit. There's other places to go for that (like Discord servers / Matrix spaces).

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  • [–] 11 points 2 days ago* (1 child)

    My new thing is im trying to gradually reduce my topic specific questions in catchall Ask comms like this and instead submitting to the actual community that concerns it

    Itll be slow but hopefully that can meaningfully shift my own stuff to help beef up the existing topical comms, if everyone does something similar we may actually get somewhere.

    Sometimes im just gonna post here cuz its easier and people sort of know my deal already but i do intend to try to put things where they belong in hopes of making Lemmy more like that in terms of stronger non-centralized topical comms that are more likely to have domain-experts or at least more knowledgeable than is likely to be found in general purpose Asks

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  • [–] 7 points 2 days ago* (4 children)

    Exactly. I haven’t seen either a woodworking or sewing project over here since I joined, as one example.

    No terrible first attempt at dovetails, no probable not first attempt at macarons, no woman wearing the sweater she just knit from alpaca wool.

    And books. If I wanted a new scifi book here, I’d likely get 0-1 responses. There’s no book community here.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 days ago (1 child)

    It seems trendy lately to brag about how little one reads.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 days ago*

    You’re kidding. How is that even possible? Conservative AI bots pushing for those uneducated masses? Probably, with 51% bot/AI post populations on social media.

    In real life, I see the younger generation carrying physical, paper books around at work. We have them in my house, and the people in my house keep one in their cars for wait times.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 days ago

    Exactly. You can find an active subreddit for fucking anything. Find a new anime and want to discuss it? There’s an active sub for that. Find a cool bug and want to identify it? There’s an active sub for that. Want to ask a doctor for casual (off-the-record) medical advice? There’s an active sub for that.

    But with Lemmy, the first would probably land in a more generic c/Anime, while the latter ones might struggle to find an appropriate community at all. Because even if the specific communities exist, the chances of them being active enough to get a response are low.

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  • [–] 20 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    r/asksciencefiction brought up a lot of great ideas and interesting arguments.

    One of my favorites was 'what if the Addams Family had discovered baby Kal-El?'

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  • [–] 2 points 2 days ago

    There was a whole constellation of fiction-related communities that flew below the largest ones (r/books, television, etc). Those large "front-pagers" often ended up acting as a filter, so places like r/asksciencefiction and r/characterrant could have decent discussion.

    You can't find any of that here, let alone communities dedicated to specific fictional series or settings.

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  • [–] 18 points 2 days ago

    Yes and no. I miss some of the more niche communities and some subreddits that had great sources of information.

    But I don't miss the other 90%.

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  • [–] 17 points 2 days ago

    Smaller, niche subs. The state/city subs. The specific career subs. The hobby subs.

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  • [–] 16 points 2 days ago

    The niche boards for problem solving is about the only thing.

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  • [–] 16 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    I love that you can binge a TV show from 5-10 years ago and then go to Reddit and see all of the post episode discussions. The next time I watch a trashy reality TV show, I will miss not having Reddit post episode analysis. When I’ve looked in the past, the best I could find on Lemmy was someone posting nudes of contestants from past seasons. The makeup and skincare subreddits were super informative. IDK if they’re still good since I’ve been mostly Reddit free lately.

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  • [–] 15 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    The amateur porn was way better

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  • [–] 12 points 2 days ago

    Amateur porn is how every site gets big. Tumblr was able to get as big as Reddit by allowing amateur porn and Reddit only managed to keep up by doing the same. The only reason you don't hear about Tumblr now is because they stepped allowing it and scrubbed all their content. By the time they reversed their decision only two weeks later, everyone had moved over to Reddit, their momentum was lost, and the damage was terminal.

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  • [–] 14 points 2 days ago

    Game based communities suck pretty much everywhere. But the ones on reddit, you could at least usually count on enough activity to get good info.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 days ago

    A lot of the communities I frequent simply never made it. They were too niche, or it simply didn't fit Lemmy.

    Though I'd argue that what I miss more is the usability. Old Reddit and RES is a wonderful experience. Lemmy and Alexandrite are closer to new Reddit than old, including the poorer performance.

    I know there are some interfaces that emulate the old Reddit experience, but they lack the RES integration that makes old Reddit particularly nice to use.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    I miss ShittyMorph. Randomly coming across one of those Hell in a Cell comments randomly always made me day.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 days ago

    I miss Reddit from two or three years ago. But all my favourite communities were overrun by bots.

    “Wow, that’s interesting. Could you tell me more about that?”

    Anything good that Reddit ever had was because of people. It’s gone now.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 days ago

    Some sizeable language learning communities. Unless I've been living under a rock and some c/LearnJapanese or c/tokipona on some Lemmy instance absolutely took off

    I also miss some gaming communities, but those being connected to some commercial product I can get they don't do well on Lemmy 😅

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  • [–] 8 points 2 days ago

    I miss the ol' reddit switcheroo and also I miss the "you're thinking of Y. X is when (something X is definitely not)"

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  • [–] 8 points 2 days ago* (1 child)

    I definitely miss peak reddit, like 2015 or so. The community and thus the content was awesome. That experience doesn't exist today though, so I definitely don't miss reddit in the sense that I'd like to visit the site as it is today. I think Lemmy is getting there though. If we keep this up, we can remake what peak Reddit gave us.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 days ago

    I'll always miss the vastness of communities on reddit. There's just something for everyone.

    What I'll never miss is the absurd way things are moderated.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 days ago*

    i miss niche hobby and academic subreddits full of thoughtful reasonable people where insane nonsense was not tolerated or it was at least mocked relentlessly.

    also circlejerk subs that mocked the big hobby subs where folks just endless posted photos of shit they bought and other people jerked them off on spending $1000s bling.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 days ago

    /r/ModernMoo , which (IIRC) is just some guy from Ireland who likes posting pictures of his cows. I unsubscribed from virtually every sub before I left, but I am pretty sure I am still technically subbed to that one.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    Not really. A lot of it felt fake before AI content came along.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 days ago* (1 child)

    I miss forums like r/religiousfruitcake, r/confession, r/vent, r/rant, things like that, as well as certain fandom-specific forums; it feels cozier & more personal here, but it’s not as comprehensive.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 days ago

    Local community content, and content for less popular games like Quake

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  • [–] 5 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    No. Because, although I don't have an account there anymore, but I still read there using Redlib.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    I've gone back to reddit for medical stuff, there just isn't anywhere here for me to ask advice specific for Ehlers Danlos exercise adaptations, for example. I'd just get a bunch of generalized advice that'd be more harmful than helpful.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 days ago

    i visit some of medical ones too, most of them are too small to get noticed to be atstroturf, and people dont want to see skin lesions. i visit the Zoster(shingles community) alot because i had it young and had permanent damage. trying to guide people from misinformation(they always claimed they had 2-10 attacks over time, when in fact reactivaiton more than 1-2 times is very rare, often time when they showpictures its almost always contact dermatitis, an autoimmune disease) also morbidly curious about atypical Zoster.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    Yes. I miss lifting/fitness content

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  • [–] 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

    now its mostly everything "what i achieved with roids/peds, to Lose 100+lbs) and acted like they did it naturally. and they dont like to be called out for cheating, some of the subs are very ANTI-ANTI-peds.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 days ago

    I miss a lot of Reddit content, especially local and niche content. However, what I really miss is a proper app with which to consume said content.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 days ago

    The content, engagement, and quality of conversations are much better here on Lemmy, and the platform feels considerably less saturated.

    Unfortunately, what Reddit used to be, and what made it great, is long gone. That being said, the API changes were the nail in the coffin, not the sole reason for its decline. Reddit had already been on a downward trajectory for years before that.

    The one thing I still appreciate about Reddit is that content gets refreshed much more frequently than it does on Lemmy. However, even that isn't enough to keep me there for more than a few visits a week, usually out of sheer boredom.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

    Stand up comedy clips, and my nation/cities subreddits for local news.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 days ago

    not really but I would love for some game and other niche communities to make the federation their main place to collaborate.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 days ago

    I miss Sprog. That's about it.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 days ago

    You can get it anywhere, but still.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 days ago

    I miss being able to hop into a forum for pretty much any individual game outside of the lousy Steam forums. Even the soulslike fans are a pretty small group here. And I tend toward fairly niche or complicated games with rather small player bases as it is.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 days ago

    yeah. mainly stuff related to proprietary/old software stuff like ios jailbreaking and hackintosh, windows modding.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 days ago

    /r/gameI'mcurrentlyplaying and /r/showI'mcurrentlywatching

    I still lurk occasionally, but I maintain a strict look-but-do-not-touch policy with Reddit now. Never posting there again.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

    yes, the niche ones. most of them became meme, or slop, and policed by the "holier than thou" type of people. i had fun with whatisthisplant subs, occasionally i had fun identifying some unusual ,rare wildplants. there a couple of bad ones, like pokemon trading card game dedicated to scalping, like pokeinvesting or collecting.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 days ago

    I kinda miss r/singularity, except i am pretty sure the original one has gone rotten with ai slop worship.

    There have been attempts to recreate it on the fediverse, but usualy just one person spamming posts of their vision of whats the sub is about, but it can be about so many things you really need a large community of different pespectives.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 day ago

    Loads, but it was getting worse steadily and definitely moving very fast to the agro algorithm.

    I miss music updates and movie reviews. I tried looking for hiphop news and it was all insta posts, which I wont access

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  • [–] 2 points 2 days ago

    general agreeableness and niche interests. i feel like before the exodus there was more people willing to receive ideas and humanize others there than here now. it feels a lot more despairing to share my ideas and the indomitable human spirit here. (196 is much better here on that front but just 196 is nowhere near enough…)

    (if you’re going to check my profile for what i mean…)i somehow find this much more manageable on mbin! which i’ve only recently started revisiting. go check out my comments on @Aatube@lemmy.dbzer0.com instead.

    it might be hard to find. a (not-so-perfect) example could perhaps be https://lemmy.world/post/53341912 . i know there would be better examples but i’d rather not revisit things that bring me sadness for too long. maybe check out that account’s downvotes from lemvotes

    people asking the right questions in this sub and the right questions in AskLemmy lol. at least all of the questions are a lot better here!

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  • Fuck Reddit and Fuck Spez.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 day ago

    That my country’s subreddit is actually active, and the amount of casual conversation going on in there. I wouldn’t be surprised if that sub has about as many monthly active users as the entire Threadiverse, while the country sub here has like one post per day.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 days ago

    The endless, unhinged thirst posts of Queens of League. Gay sigh.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 day ago

    No, I've been on Lemmy and PieFed for so long that I forgot how it was on the shitty corporate site.

    I appreciate our own niche content we have here. I don't need everything and everyone to be here.

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  • I miss the college football subreddit most of all

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  • I can't find porn with older people anywhere on Lemmy. There's no community at all.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 days ago

    !dumpsterdiving@reddit.com

    The equivalent was on slrpnk.net *snif* and never caught on anyway.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 day ago (3 children)

    r/ Comics, Blender mostly

    I got into having ai agents make me sht, I now wish I had a semi positive about ai atmosphere to be around since I see how it's useful and want to see how other people use it and discuss it but I just don't see that happening here. More people should be using ai agents while it's cheap to make paid sht free.

    Having it make the piracy app I always wanted for music and comics (crossplatform supports all other opensource apps extensions/repos and backups plus internetarchive), an rss app customized for what I like, etc. Nice that it is taking days instead of months to be usable, shit my slow ass would prob take years. I can't help but like ai while using these apps daily because they would never exist without them.

    I just had it make a blender extension for me yesterday that just solved an issue I've had for 2 years and have been lowkey beggging them to implement. I even got decent traction on blender ideas but no one picked it up. I don't want to code, I want to play around in blender, now I have the feature I want and it works perfectly. (Presets for geometry node setting values)

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  • [–] 1 point 1 day ago* (2 children)

    I made myself the start page I always in a week using a free chatGPT trial. Replaced several other sites I used to do different tasks each day.

    When I say I made it, my role was typing prompts and making brews but, yeah, it's a super cool technology and i think most people dislike how it's happened rather than the tech itself. It's a shame its gotten so toxic.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 day ago (1 child)

    I graduated into the job market destroyed by ai (I really dont know if thats the actual case tho, ai could always be the excuse rather than the only cause for all the layoffs and lack of jobs) So I forsure still hate it even while using it. It's a weird feeling.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 day ago

    Things really clicked after that blender extension, theres no going back, just knowing every problem I've had with any software, any missing feature, can just be solved now. No more waiting around. Makes it so easy to monitor a bunch of different self hosted apps and set appropriate limits too. I used to just get annoyed and uninstall some or restart with backups because I couldn't figure out the causes.

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  • [–] 0 points 2 days ago

    I'm going to be a loner on this one, but I'm a big firearms guy and 2nd amendment supporter. Hard to be here when 99.99% are "eww guns". I ran a few subs for niche communities. I miss the really tight group where everyone actually have a ahit, and nobody trolled each other. It was more for educating newbies, and helping those getting into it. Those communities were way nicer than anything else I was a part of.

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