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[–] 27 points 4 weeks ago (13 children)

Stores are open on Sundays
Surprises me every time

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  • [–] 8 points 4 weeks ago* (12 children)

    Just a shot in the dark, you originally from Bergen County, New Jersey?

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  • [–] 10 points 4 weeks ago (9 children)

    Germany, where Sonntag ist Ruhetag

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  • [–] 5 points 4 weeks ago (8 children)

    That always drove me crazy when I went to Germany. “Oops, forgot toothpaste”… wtf, nothing’s open. Guess my teeth will just rot.

    Germany’s not even religious, what’s with the Blue Laws?

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  • [–] 9 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

    Germany’s not even religious, what’s with the Blue Laws?

    It's actually interesting thing. In some countries the "stores closed on Sunday" is a religious thing, like in Poland. Stores used to be open but it was changed recently because the right wing government pushed for it and most people think it's so that people go to church more.

    In Germany it was the other way around: all the stores were only opened Mon-Fri and closed early because everyone just assumed that people working in stores should work the same hours as everyone else. This led to terrible experience for the customers (everyone scrambling to do their shopping on Friday evening, right after work) so they slowly started extending the opening hours and finally allowed stores to open on Saturdays.

    In Spain stores are closed on Sunday but again, not because of religious reasons but as "worker's rights" thing. One shopping mall near me tried to extend shopping hours on some days during summer and all the workers complained and threatened a strike. No one wants to work on Sunday here, they prefer to spend time with friends and family.

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  • [–] 4 points 4 weeks ago (1 child)

    Totally understand and to be honest I wish we had that here (Dystopian States of America). People deserve the dignity of spending time relaxing and with their families. It was just a culture shock for me the first time, and now I know to plan better when I'm in Europe. But. yeah the idea that things should be closed or prohibited so that "you'll go to church more" is obviously idiotic. Where I live, Alcohol sales were banned on Sunday even though everything else was open. They changed the rule recently, but only if a bar/restaurant/retailer specifically gets a "Sunday sales" license (apart from the other one for the rest of the week) and they can't sell until after noon; ostensibly because of course everybody should be in church before then. Stupid-ass Bible Belt eyeroll

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  • [–] 2 points 4 weeks ago

    When I lived in Poland everything was still open on Sunday and when I moved to Spain everything was suddenly closed and I had 0 issues adapting. I'm sure it's an issue when traveling but once you make that mental switch it's super easy to plan around it. I remember having discussion on reddit later and people form Poland coming up with the craziest reason why they need the stores to be open on Sunday (like "I'm disabled so I drop food all the time and what I'm supposed to do when I drop my last food on the floor and it's Sunday?"... IDK, buy more food on Saturday?)

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  • [–] 4 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

    Germany is religious AF still. Officially not really, but its a deeply Christian country. Most holidays are christian ones (the ones that are not, are not religious). The "christian" party is still the biggest party (although that is changing, and their values are more "let's suck off the rich" than christian). In some cities (like cologne) no building bigger than the cathedral is allowed. There are more examples :)

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  • [–] 4 points 4 weeks ago (1 child)

    I think people confuse Christian past with actually being Christian. In Poland about 50% of people attend mass every Sunday. In Germany that's 7%.

    It's still tradition in Poland to have a priest visit your home once a year to do some magic, every child gets baptized in church, 75,6% of kids attend religion classes at school because yes, religion is still part of curriculum in public schools. Abortion is illegal, there's no civil unions let alone same-sex marriage, no no-fault divorce, no euthanasia or even legally recognized DNRs.

    That's a Christian country. Germany just has some Christian traditions.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 weeks ago

    It gets stricter the further south you go, where people are more religious. In bavaria shops close earlier and can't sell alcohol after a certain time either. Overall the country is quite religious though, and especially historically has been extremely so. And something like a sunday where almost no one has to work isn't without benefits, so it won't just go away. Even shops being open on saturday past early afternoon was something that was only allowed in the early 2000s iirc.

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  • [–] 19 points 4 weeks ago (13 children)

    Vancouver/Edmonton to Australia (Sydney then southwest Victoria).

    It gets properly cold here - it's not hot an sunny everyday like they advertise to us overseas. Aussies also don't use insulation in their houses so having to deal with single digit temperatures inside the house makes me die a little everyday.

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  • [–] 11 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)
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    There are minimum standards....now. That builders and developers were dragged kicking and screaming to ("just throw another reverse cycle aircon on mate, she'll be right").

    I've never lived in an insulated house. I've never lived more south than the subtropics and the coldest a house had been inside is 6 degrees C with a floor surface probably lower than that. The people down south have probably suffered more than me in some homes.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    I've lived in Warrnambool and Ballarat. I can confirm first hand that air temperatures inside the house have reached 4C, and I could see my breath 😭

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    Outdoors, I can deal with the -40C in low humidity no problem. In Australia (south/southwest), it feels so much colder. Maybe it's because you can't escape the cold unless you want to empty your wallet on heating bills (really expensive here). You put on your layers before you even get out of bed. :(

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  • [–] 1 point 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    Sounds like youre in a poorly insulated dwelling. By comparison, I'm in a 14 year old apartment in Melbourne and hardly needed the heater this winter. Its got a heat pump air con / heater so heating / cooling not expensive

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  • [–] 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    Might be. I've lived in a house in Warrnambool and a house in Ballarat, so no neighbours above, below or beside to help keep my unit consistent like I did in Edmonton.

    I'm also not a builder or any tradie, so I'm not sure what the houses are really made of. I just know the noticeable differences between how I felt in houses and apartments in Canada vs houses in south/southwest Victoria.

    I did live in an apartment in Preston for a short stint, and didn't use heating or cooling at all. It was lovely, sans the meth heads upstairs.

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  • [–] [S] 18 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

    When I moved from the west coast of Canada to the east coast, I was surprised how different the clouds and the sunrise looked. There are like, a lot more fluffy clouds, and the sunsets are more vivid across the entire sky.

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  • [–] 18 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

    moving from SA to Europe, I did not expect that I could feel hotter in Europe. I was naively expecting 4 months of snow coverage

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  • [–] 24 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

    Welcome to the continent that is heating up twice as fast as the rest of the world lol

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  • [–] 14 points 4 weeks ago

    Stopped drinking almost entirely, because moving also meant finding new friends (who prefer other activities than drinking).

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  • [–] 12 points 4 weeks ago

    Since physical places wasn’t specified, how much nicer the threadiverse (Lemmy) is compared to Reddit, way less toxic from my experience.

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  • [–] 11 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (5 children)

    Eye contact / greetings between strangers

    *in the USA

    I'm originally from the south where everyone wears plastic smiles and waves in passing and all that.

    Then I went to the northeast where it's more eyes on the horizon. A smile and a wave is met with a raised eyebrow or a sneer, and friends commonly show their comfort with each other using insults.

    Then out to the midwest where zero eye contact gets you stared at, but heavy eye contact is taken as a challenge. It has to be just the right amount, and I'm still trying to figure it out after years.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 weeks ago (1 child)

    Here in NM, out on my walks around the neighborhood every day, I say either "good morning" or "hello" to everyone I pass, which varies from one to perhaps ten people per walk, 99% respond in same. It's not fake, it's just common courtesy to acknowledge other people. I see about half of them every day, and I know of two regulars who won't respond, so I don't say anything to them.

    There was one guy who enthusiastically said "good morning!" every time for a couple of years, we even stopped and chatted briefly a couple of times. I didn't see him for an entire summer, then when I saw him again he wouldn't say hello. Then he started saying hello again, on his own. I don't push. Some people have a lot going on.

    I don't know about "heavy eye contact is a challenge". At about 15 feet apart, walking toward each other look to make brief eye contact and say "good morning". By the time you've said the words, they're nearly past you, and they either respond or don't. That's all there is to it.

    If I had friends who responded to a smile and a wave with a sneer, I think we wouldn't be friends for long.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 weeks ago

    My experience is in CO specifically and may depend on a lot more than my location. Just generalizing to try to meet the spirit of the question / story flow.

    A good friend of mine who went on a similar nomadic journey settled in NM and said similar great things about it. I wish I could remember which city... one of the biggest ones?

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  • [–] 4 points 4 weeks ago* (2 children)

    you are getting sneers and glares from NorthEast USA because we hate fake pleasantries/smiles and southern nazis.

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  • [–] 10 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

    I didn't expect the trees to scream at me

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  • [–] 10 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

    The culture of right of way between pedestrians and cars. Where I grew up, you could walk out to the double yellow and stand there and cars wouldn't give a shit. They'd just keep driving and expect you to stay out of the way.

    Now where I live, if you just glance at a car when you're walking they'll stop where they are to let you cross.

    It all gets very confusing for a pedestrian when you also get out of town drivers that don't adhere to that same culture.

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  • [–] 9 points 4 weeks ago (1 child)

    That annoys me when cars clearly have the right of way or stop before I'm even close to crossing the road. They could be already past by the time I get there, but they stop anyway. If you keep driving and I keep walking nobody will disturb the other.

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  • [–] 4 points 4 weeks ago

    Yeah it’s surprising how opposite it can be.

    The other day I was walking my dog and I have to be careful to face away from the street because people keep stopping for us to cross when she’s just sniffing at something.

    Then we actually did cross the street at an all way stop intersection, and cars came to a stop in all directions! However we got halfway across and a new car came around the bend and almost hit us. Despite the stop sign. Despite all other cars already stopped. Despite me and the dog in the crosswalk

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  • [–] 8 points 4 weeks ago (8 children)

    Moved from the south to the Midwest and my mouth still orders "unsweet tea". Some waitstaff have no idea what I mean.

    If you don't specify in the south you get diabetea.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    Order tea and a large glass of ice and pour (any type) of tea over the ice. Usually comes out room temp instead of iced however it's a great drink option at many restaurants that otherwise only have pop or juice to drink.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 4 weeks ago (5 children)
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  • [–] 5 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

    In the US many restaurants serve iced tea. In the south they make iced tea with way too much sugar in it, so if you just order iced tea they'll ask "sweet or unsweet".

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  • [–] 9 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

    It's more like what didn't change that I did expect. The rural midwest is still very hot, very right-wing (and far alt-right), and full of mosquitoes, much like the southern US. In fact, it's predicted the south will see more inches of snow and days of snow than the midwest this year.

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  • [–] 13 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

    I moved from coast to coast as a kid and ordered a pizza with ‘ everything on it!’ and it came with whole slices of tomatoes on it and that blew my fucking mind

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  • [–] 1 point 4 weeks ago (2 children)

    'wow, tomatoes are a real thing!' :p

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  • [–] 13 points 4 weeks ago (1 child)

    Let me tell you I can still look up pizza joints in my home town and the only vegetables they have for pizza are mushrooms, onions and peppers. The west coast lives different when it comes to food isn’t that what this post is about?

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  • [–] 8 points 4 weeks ago

    I walk a lot more now that the nearest store is across the street and not 3 miles away.

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  • [–] 14 points 4 weeks ago (1 child)

    The way it changed my mental perception of how far apart buildings are. I moved from North Carolina to Massachusetts, and distinctly remember that the first time I went back to visit the city I grew up in, I had a reaction along the lines of "wtf, did like a bomb go off here or something?" upon seeing it, because I'd become used to buildings being taller and closer together and suddenly by contrast the parking lots with scattered short buildings and wide roads reminded me of those pictures you see of cities after a war or disaster, where there'll be a few buildings relatively intact looking surrounded by flattened grey.

    Every time I go back there now, I get a really eerie feeling because even though for the most part, the buildings haven't changed at all, the place feels as if they have, like everything has been squashed vertically and stretched horizontally.

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  • [–] 7 points 4 weeks ago (10 children)

    Just how antisocial people can be, they often feel dead inside to me. Rarely smiling, very little low effort social interaction. It eats away at my soul.

    The inaccessibility of anything in the DIY and construction side of life if you don't own a business in the industry. I was used to doing woodwork without the need for a table saw, now I can't get a simple piece of wood cut accurately without being a building contractor or having my own kitted out workshop. I loved working with aluminium and used to buy from suppliers, now it's inaccessible to me.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 weeks ago (9 children)

    I'm half way on this, I was just talking to my buddy about this. The last three years I worked pretty much by myself and I think it took a toll on me. Though when I'm in Japan it's a strange paradox, I feel so comfortable. Maybe because the interactions are minimal and that's all I can handle after seeing 1-3 people a day.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 weeks ago (8 children)

    I've spent most of my adult life alone, and those small social interactions are what pulls me through. Here you get looked at like there's something wrong with you if you greet someone when walking past them in the street.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

    Oh yeah I sort of get that. I was having a good evening going home to see my girlfriend, went to grab a few beers after work at the gas station and smiled at someone. The guy got pissed and said "what are you looking at removed?" I was like where did that come from. And I'm not scrawny or anything, especially compared to that shrimp.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

    God damn, at least where I live outward hostility is as frowned upon as any other social interactions.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

    That why I like staying in Japan and Korea.

    I guess the "slur" got modded out but I think it should have been left in to show what I mean, instead of a man looks at another man having a good evening and smiles, then gets called a slur. Some of these mental gymnastics are exhausting. It's something that happened to me in person, I don't know why it should be turned a blind eye to... was it necessary to censor it?--I mean I'm new here.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    It looks like an automod that redacts words. This is the biggest instance and a popular community, so I'm not too surprised by it.

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  • [–] 6 points 4 weeks ago* (4 children)

    So much!

    From The South and moved to the PNW.

    Lack of thunder and lightning is crazy. Like I went from hearing it all the time to once or twice a year.

    Being able to see snow on the mountains while it's over 60°F in the valley.

    How there isn't any warm water occurring in nature.

    You can't find Cuban bread in every grocery store.

    Man, I have so many things that shocked me. And many still do, lol.

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  • [–] 6 points 4 weeks ago (1 child)

    When we moved into a new house some years ago, there were only rabbits and no squirrels. The squirrels have since moved in.

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  • [–] 5 points 4 weeks ago*

    Water bills. Moved from Williamsbrg, VA less than 10 miles down to the next city down, Newport News, and water went from like $30/mo to $100/mo (water+sewer+trash in aparment in both cases). Googling and it's apparently normal. Yeesh.

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  • [–] 5 points 4 weeks ago (1 child)

    I moved 100 miles, from one city to another in the same US state. Now I can't find good chinese food to save my life... Panda Express is unfortunately the best I can find.

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  • [–] 5 points 3 weeks ago

    Losing my job. I moved closer to work. (That wasnt the goal. It was just coincidental)

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  • [–] 4 points 4 weeks ago

    That I need the same amount of time to the big city.

    Distance to the city: 18 km -> 10 km Time to the city by train: 19 min -> 12 min Time to train station: 3 min -> 10 min

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  • [–] 4 points 4 weeks ago* (2 children)

    Moved from Midwest to West to South. In the South, they use "How are ya?" as a greeting. I was not aware. So for the first few weeks/months, I was answering them honestly and just loving how friendly everyone was!

    Took me a while to understand you're just supposed to say "Good-n-you?"

    Felt like a fuckin idiot.

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  • [–] 4 points 3 weeks ago

    Went living in a small village at 1000m altitude. Despite it's colder here, I no longer cough for months around winter.

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  • [–] 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    When I moved from middle Connecticut to San Diego all the good Italian food was gone, yes there was sushi but no good Chinese takeout and holy shit forget about pizza. Cali pizza is nothing like CT pizza and I hated it. Don't even get me started on the mutant pile of stuff PA calls pizza.

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  • [–] 4 points 3 weeks ago

    My relationship, bought a new house sold our old one and now it seems its slowly falling apart

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago

    South to Midwest USA - the thunderstorms are less frequent, but way more violent. Also, cheese curds.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 weeks ago

    I don't live terribly far from where I grew up. I have seen so many snakes in my neighborhood. Growing up I knew what a snake was but never really saw any. I had to mow my lawn slower the other day because I saw two snakes in the grass.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 weeks ago

    When I moved from the Northwoods of Wisconsin to Los Angeles (Burbank), a lot of changes were to be expected... The one I didn't expect was the total lack of thunder n lightning despite rain storms that would flood the streets. I think I was out here at least 6 years before I heard any thunder and that was a one-time event. Been here for almost 29 yrs now, and I can probably count the number on one hand.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 weeks ago

    In the words of the great poet: wherever you go, there you are.

    There are some things that can change. Some thigns can be measurably worse or better just based on various aspects of the place. However, if you're running from something, and that something is mostly or all you, nothing will have sustained improvement until you fix the 'you' part of that equation.

    I moved around the US and later moved to Japan. I learnt this lesson the hard way. While moving to a place that fixed some things I hated about my life, the problems that were caused to me by me weren't helped until I worked on that part; it's still a work in progress.

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