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[–] 111 points 5 months ago (8 children)

People tend to assume if someone is smart in one thing, they're smart with everything else too.

That's not usually the case.

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago

    Or if they are rich, they must be smart or a genius, because they got rich while everyone else did not, its further from the truth, since most of these people come from wealth to begin with. adjacent, same goes for these succesful youtubers/streamers/influencers, these top ones we see all the time dint come from rags to riches, they came from being rich or very well off.

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  • [–] 79 points 5 months ago (20 children)

    High price = high quality.

    The luxury pricing model has totally enveloped markets at this point and the correlation rarely applies now.

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  • [–] 33 points 5 months ago (11 children)

    Absolutely. I’ve learned over the years that it usually works out pretty well to find out how much the cheapest dogshit option is and aim for an option roughly 1.5x the cost. Obviously not a blanket rule but it covers a surprising amount of common items and I’ve gotten plenty of long-lasting affordable alternatives that I actually enjoy using rather than having the crappiest version of everything.

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  • [–] 14 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    Yeah I look for the cheapest option and go a step or two higer

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    Depends on what it is but as a general rule to start from it isn't a terrible idea.

    Veg I will go cheapest because I don't care if a carrot has a curve. Cooking equipment I usually go midrange and try to find out WHY the really expensive ones are better, then look for those specific features if they actually matter.

    My bike is quite a bit higher, though there is a very wide range for bikes. I went for the cheapest of the high end bike range at £600. Probably spent close to than in accessories and maintenance by now too. Although some maintenance costs are me buying tools I didn't have before too.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 child)

    As much as I'm laughing at people spending more than $50 on a kettle or toaster or toothbrush or what have you and calling themselves clever shoppers, I think it's worth spending on anything that goes between you and the ground, e.g. tires, shoes, bikes, etc.

    Though I'm sure that adage has also been incorporated into modern pricing models and every damn thing is a fucking scam to manipulate you into thinking you've made a shrewd and balanced decision when you spend just a weeee bit more.

    I despise every company with a fiery passion.

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago

    Expensive doesn't mean the shoes are good, but cheap does mean they are shit. Of course you also get different types of shoe that may not directly compare with others.

    Then you also get different shops selling the same product at different prices.

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago (6 children)

    I selected my toaster by visiting a store and physically fiddling with the levers. From 20€ onwards, the feeling got noticeably better until 120€ price point after which it got worse. The range ended at 300€ SMEG(ma) toaster that felt like what it sounds like. I’m happy with my 120€ toaster.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    You spent 120€ to toast bread! I don't think you get it...

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    It's the best toaster apparently. Tbh I don't know why I would care about the feeling of the lever but at least they have the best toaster lever money can buy.

    For that kind of money I would expect it to make, cut and toast the bread for me.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago

    I toast a lot of bread and wanted a good toaster that will last a long time. I’m expecting to get minimum of 25 years of daily toasting out of it.

    We are drowning in Temu trash. Maybe we should start to look at things from other than monetary perspective. I selected a good toaster and looked at the price tag afterwards. Apparently you can get shitty toasters for 20€ and 300€ but a good one costs exactly 120€

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago* (3 children)

    that is true, or just slapping a label like supreme, or tesla on thier products and people thinks its high quality. or with ELECTRIC toothbruses, 100-200 seems to be more likely to be defective than cheaper lines of the same company. Always seek out reviews and peoples experience on specific products. same goes with healthcare/insurance, paying more doesnt mean you will get better quality(it actually incentivized that customers dont seek out care due to potential costs), likewise if you get too cheap of insurance you will get cheap results, not decent and not so-so.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    Fuck me that is a lot, think my electric toothbrush was like £20-30

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago (1 child)

    the higher price one are the "smart toothbruses" its not worth it anyways. either go off-brand or buy the 1000-1500 oral braun series.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago

    Mine was oral-b but didn't cost much. Their pricing seems to be very high base price but often heavily discounted so it would be silly to buy at full price. Was one of their cheaper ones but it seems fine and better than my old one which was also oral-b, largely went for it as the toothbrush heads I have would still be compatible. The old one was wearing through the plastic but it was over 5 years old by that point, battery isn't great either.

    Replaceable batteries would be kinda nice to have as a feature but if other parts are wearing away by that point too it probably isn't too bad.

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  • [–] 49 points 5 months ago (10 children)

    That understanding someone or something means agreeing with them.

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  • [–] 17 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Way too many people think that if you explain something, you're endorsing it--even when you explicitly say that you do not endorse it. So frustrating, and it's a huge problem here on the fediverse.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

    Folks, you can understand why someone decided to kill themselves: e.g. a tragic life, and from their perspective, there's no one to support them, no one to love them, no one for them to love.

    But it doesn't mean you agree with their decision to kill themselves.

    If understanding = agreeing, a lot more people would be committing suicide while trying to understand why such a person would kill themselves. It makes no logical sense. Or it means that those alive is either of these: they either don't understand it out of naivety, or choose to not understand it to not kill themselves. Assuming it's an adult with their full faculty, who witnessed such a tragedy, that's just... such a sad world.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 5 months ago (2 children)

    I'm not sure if its get what you mean.

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  • [–] 45 points 5 months ago (5 children)

    So many things when it comes to police stops. There is absolutely a problem with policing in America but there is a list of things you ARE required to do when stopped by the police, whether you agree with them or not, and refusing doesn't help you and only helps them. Yes you are required to have your license on you when driving, and yes you must display and/or hand it over to police when asked. Yes they can ask you to step out of the car. Yes they can search your car if they tow it. Hell watch a few videos on YouTube of traffic stops and you'll quickly figure out what you do and do not have to comply with. And you will never, ever win an argument with the police on the side of the road, save it for court.

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  • [–] 21 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    Best advice I ever heard.

    Always treat cops as if they just came from dealing with something really awful.

    They might have just seen a child abuse case, or a really bad accident, of a fire.

    Assert your rights in the court, not in the street.

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  • [–] 20 points 5 months ago

    POLITELY assert your rights on the streets. If an officer asks if they can search your trunk, tell them that you would rather they didn't.

    "Do I have to" and it's variants are deferential without necessarily ceding your rights in a way that "oh, sure" does. They don't need any cause at all if you give permission, and if you give permission it's going to be hard or impossible to argue later that it was an unreasonable search.

    The sad truth is that you need to assume that you're on camera whenever you interact with a police officer, act as if whatever you say will be either edited and shown to the jury or described to them out of context to justify whatever bad actions the officer takes.

    100% be polite and even friendly, but 0% on "just let the officer do whatever and think you can fight it in court later."

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  • [–] 9 points 5 months ago

    Very simple, “I do not consent to any search,” but do not interfere with armed people. Once you have asserted your right, you should not try to impede them violating them. Too risky. Let the courts protect you. Or hope that they do, at least.

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  • [–] 119 points 5 months ago (8 children)

    That the world is a zero sum game. That in order to have something, someone else has to go without. That in order to be great you have to drag others down.

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  • [–] 37 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    It's the driver for misogyny, homophobia, racism, xenophobia, and so much else.

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  • [–] 14 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    A lot of those aren't necessarily a "zero sum game" strategy and more of just that many people are genuinely judgemental, ignorant piles of shit.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    It's a mix of things! Many racists don't think of themselves as racist and primarily worry about actions to empower minorities because of the zero sum thinking, not so much because it's helping "the wrong people"

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  • [–] 8 points 5 months ago

    Capitalism is worse. It's literally Monopoly. We've all played that shitty fucking game. With capitalism you get perpetual inflation. A negative sum game. A zero sum game at least implies some basic conservation mechanics, perhaps even a fairness. A negative sum game is a total debt based economy. Waste is a feature. Disposability and commodities go together like peas and carrots, and that ethos sadly reverberates across ecosystems until the planet is dead but you got those pounds or dollars or pesos or whatever. Can't eat them. Can't really do Jack shit with them.

    The rich gonna wake up some day soon and find the farmer has a well oiled rifle. They'll make rich fertilizer.... 🤑

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  • [–] 39 points 5 months ago (4 children)

    Math is memorizing and performing algorithms. So many adults looked at the common core math curriculum and said teachers aren't teaching math anymore because they didn't see their favorite long division algorithm taught, but memorizing and performing any particular algorithm is not what is important about learning math. Math is about taking axioms and seeing what you can build with them.

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  • [–] 18 points 5 months ago

    The word you're missing is "arithmetic". For most people "math(s)" and "arithmetic" are the same thing, when the latter is only the commonly encountered part of the former.

    And for many of those people, algorithms are the only way they can use arithmetic to reach a goal because the intuition isn't there otherwise.

    I say this in full knowledge that even though I'm pretty good at arithmetic, much of the intuition I have now took me years after leaving school, and sometimes for more advanced things it's still not there.

    For example, on a good day I can complete the square, and I understand the geometric intuition, but most of the time I'm just going to plug and chug with the quadratic formula.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    Pure maths that was taught over 5 years in the 18th century in university is now taught in 3 years in high school with several other subjects.

    So material is stripped down into small pieces and learnt by heart completely out of context- it is basically just learning algorithms.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago

    For me it was estimation that unlocked the magic of mathematics. What's the fastest way you can get close enough to the correct answer that the innaccuracy doesn't matter?

    For example, in salary negotions if you need to convert between hourly and annual salary take the annual value, drop 3 zeros and divide in two and you have the hourly. Or in reverse, take the hourly, multiply by 2 and add 3 zeros for the annual. It gets you close enough that you can know you're talking about for salary negotiations, budgeting, etc. and you can let the computer calculate out the exact conversion for payroll and tax withholding purposes

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  • [–] 72 points 5 months ago (5 children)

    Tax Brackets. "I got a pay raise and will now be taxed more and make less money than before the raise"

    If <=30k was taxed at 25% and 30+k taxed at 30% and you go from 30k to 31k a year, only the 1k is taxed at the higher rate.

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  • [–] 30 points 5 months ago (5 children)

    Photography is so much more than pointing a camera and pushing the button, even though cell phones have reduced it to that for a lot of people.

    Good photography requires intention, planning, luck, skill in knowing how to compose a scene, knowledge of light and color temperature, sensor exposure, how to direct people about if people are involved, and then, in editing in post-production, skillful edits, adjusting tone, doing masking, color grading and calibration, and any other steps to perfect an image.

    For me to produce one work here on this site, it can take me two or three hours, not including travel time!

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    And also worth mentioning that 1 great photo comes after 50 or so not-so-good ones. A lot comes down to luck, especially with more dynamic shots. Take a shit ton of photos and a few of them are bound to turn out nice.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    I learnt the team "Point and shoot engineer" to refer to modern cinematographers/ photographers.

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  • [–] 21 points 5 months ago (7 children)

    That science is rational and objective.

    In reality, the way that science works is much muddier than most realise. It's full of subjectivity, and this isn't a bug, but a feature. Intuition and tacit knowledge play a big role in basically any research (and this is why I am confident that AI can't replace scientists). Politics are also present at every stage of the process. Science is at its least objective when scientists convince themselves that they're being objective. We can't escape our biases, so we need to actively acknowledge them and embrace the subjectivity of our situated perspectives.

    The problem is that talking about this is a great way to piss off other scientists. I've been accused before of "betraying the side", by a scientist who was aware that science has a disproportionately large epistemic platform (epistemic means pertaining to knowledge — basically just that as a result of the huge benefits of scientific advancements in the last century or so, science has been on a bit of a pedestal in terms of trusted expert knowledge in society. Criticising this is seen by a betrayal by some because of the concerning rise in psuedoscience and anti-scientific rhetoric.

    However, I'm of the belief that some of what has driven the rise of psuedoscience is that the average person doesn't like to be told "shut up and do what the smart people say". They feel a lot of mistrust towards society (which, in many cases, is entirely reasonable, especially in the case of marginalised groups who have been heavily exploited by science and scientists),

    The problem goes far beyond just science, but I think this is certainly an aspect of it. I sympathise with scientists who want to continue to have the privileged position they hold, but I don't think that's helpful in the long term.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    Yeah, I wholeheartedly encourage constructive debate and skepticism. However, it doesn't excuse repeating shitty arguments without doing anything thinking or research just because it makes you feel less bad and lets you not do anything.

    One example that particularly bothers me was "humans affect on the climate is less than a single volcanic eruption". There are a lot of things you could not trust about scientific reporting, but the base premise of 8 billion people flying around the world using decomposed dinosaur mass is at least an order-of magnitude larger in scale compared to a single volcanic eruption. At that point, you'd have to believe that there isn't really 8 billion people or that oil is actually from somewhere else.

    In summary I agree, I just want to add nuance that this doesn't excuse people acting in bad faith. It's important that everyone, not just scientists, recognize their emotions and bias and challenge their own arguments against these (I.e. am I just making this argument because I feel defensive?)

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    The phrase I've heard is "epistemically privileged." And deservedly because from a standpoint of pure ethics, "science" has done way more good than damage than competing ways of looking at the world.

    But let's say someone asks you how a car works. You go into a bit about the internal combustion engine. You explain how little explosions make pistons go. They ask you about these explosions, so you have to take them to a chemist to explain. Then they ask the chemist why does this reaction happen, and the chemist sends them to the physicist. You go through the Newtonian bit, which seems intuitive enough, but when you ask about atoms, you have to go into subatomic physics. Which is something you cannot experience without special equipment that you trust the physicist is telling the truth about.

    So, yeah, while the empirical method is fantastic and the best model we have, in the end it relies on faith as much as any religion.

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago

    You had me up until,

    So, yeah, while the empirical method is fantastic and the best model we have, in the end it relies on faith as much as any religion

    I feel like faith is the wrong word because the works that science hath wrought upon our world are due in part to its repeatability. When you follow the steps to build an engine and refine fuel for it, that engine will always run, and if it doesn't, it's due to a parts issue or a fuel issue that can be remediated. It always works because the laws of physics always apply (local variables notwithstanding).

    I don't have faith that my engine will start; I have absolute confidence based on my limited understanding aligned with repeated observations. I have evidence; where faith is often analogous to belief without or in spite of the evidence. Not that you may use that definition of faith, necessarily, and that's fine; but that's the definition I'm accustomed to thanks to being raised in a Protestant cult bubble.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 child)

    in pseudoscience, person will seek answers they want to hear, and not ones that will contradict them at all. an example, chronic lyme which is a pseudoscience, is a belief that Lyme is a 'permanent infectious disease', and you can get it numerous ways other than the known vector, a deer tick(it is the actual way to get lyme) theres a whole industry built over this surprisingly, and hazardous because MDs have jumped into the scams too, and its primarly amongst MIDWESTERN white woman/men, how this scam works is the "patient" will go seeking online forums, sources and eventually end in the office of LLMD("lyme doctors" which are actual doctors peddling the fake disease) which often charges alot of money per visit, usually several hundred and they dont take insurance(red flag) or the insurance rejects the DOCTOR and they give all thESE BS excuses why you have this symptoms and then prescribe you a blood test for lyme(another red flag), and then have you multi-month ANTIBIOTIC regiments, which can be hazardous because of the side effects. i happened to find these forums along time ago. most of these people have underlying mental issues, or a psychosomatic illness.

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  • [–] 21 points 5 months ago* (5 children)

    People think successful software is usually made by huge teams.

    In actuality, most open source is just one or a couple of people building something they found useful and releasing it. Even corporate software is usually a small team. Sure some software has huge numbers of people working on it (google for example) but its not the norm. Your bank app, this site here, all very small teams.

    I remember when bitcoin first started and I got into the idea of sending $$ with it. First couple of years had less than 100 people in total touch it. And 90% of it was a couple of people at most.

    A bit of a tangent, but most software has NO plan if that person or people walk away from the project. Or just straight up die. We live in a somewhat golden era when software has only just started outliving its builders. But watch the next 20-40 years. It will be interesting times.

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  • [–] [S] 8 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    I was surprised when I learned that. Same with the idea that adding more people to a software project doesn't make it go faster. To be clear, I am very ignorant on software stuff in general.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago

    Even open source projects with lots of contributors, most work is only done by a fairly small number generally. Have seen delegation before though, like "would be cool if you all make PRs for this" where it's a time consuming but essentially low programming high creative skill task.

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  • [–] 18 points 5 months ago (10 children)

    That if something is marketed with health-based language or claims, it must be true. (or that things that are healthy offset other unhealthy activities/behaviors/consumption, i.e. "I might have eaten a ton of ice cream today, but I had a lot of protein so that'll make up for it")

    Way too many people buy into "healthy" products, especially the very expensive ones, without doing so much as a single search regarding if it's even necessary for them, or if that particular product is even healthy in the way it appears.

    People think anything with protein is inherently healthy, and the more the better, even if their body can't use all the protein they consume, so they'll eat multiple protein bars, have meat with every meal, and drink a protein shake every day.

    Someone on social media says eating all raw meat and drinking raw milk is healthy, and they don't even look up how much more likely you are to get a disease from consuming them. (not to mention the impact on their wallet)

    A drink will be advertised as a "wellness shot" and is just some fruit juice with ginger, but people will pay 8 bucks for it every day assuming it'll revolutionize their health, then drink a bunch of beer later that night and wonder why they feel awful later.

    Hell, people will even take multivitamins or supplement powders that have 100's of %'s of their recommended daily intake, and just assume that if they get 500% of their recommended vitamin B, they'll magically become "healthy" by doing so, instead of "only" getting 100%.

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  • [–] 8 points 5 months ago (5 children)

    'Made with real fruit' is a perfect example...they almost never say how much

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago (2 children)

    They have to say the proportion in the ingredients.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago

    In the US the ingredients are listed in order but not with the actual quantity. So if they're listed as like "water, sugar, strawberry, ..." then you know there's more sugar than strawberry but not by how much. The nutrition label gives proportions of macro and micro nutrients, though.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    Only kinda in the US. The ingredients must be listed in order of prevalence. They absolutely aren't required to tell you how much of which ingredient, because of "trade secrecy" laws so that you aren't able to recreate a "Big Mac,' for instance, despite the fact that you can totally find all that info in public domain, should you look.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    "I might have eaten a ton of ice cream today, but I had a lot of protein so that'll make up for it")

    There is another one. In the end, you can see proteins as just another form of calories; if you don't exercise them off, a overabundance of them becomes fat. Proteins are not generally healthy or make muscles just like that.
    And btw, eggs are the best protein source. While of oats it's still around 10% accessible.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    I think some offsets are valid. For example exercise for ice cream. Especially if you do it while the sugars from the ice cream is still in your blood

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago

    Ehhh depends on the exercise and your goals. If you biked 5 miles to get the ice cream and now are biking 5 miles home you definitely have enough calorie deficit for the day that the ice cream is inconsequential. But if your goal is to lose weight, filling your calorie deficits from excercise with treats isn't very productive at all

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