[–] 1 point 1 hour ago

Suit yourself. I don't know how much is too much, but acting like there is no such thing... We know there are people who have problems with excessive porn, maturation, hell, sex addiction is a thing.

I think you guys are pushing back against societal repression, which is great, but you still need to be mindful that you don't push back too far.

Im being a killjoy, sure, I get that. But let's be real.

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  • [–] 0 points 2 hours ago (3 children)

    Yeah ok buddy, whatever narrative helps you feel better about getting your dick wet while you help someone hurt the person they supposedly care about.

    If they need out help them get out instead of selfishly giving them an escape that doesn't actually help them escape and actually makes things worse. You aren't breaking the chains, you are helping her keep them on by letting her out to play in the fenced backyard before you crate her again.

    Stop pretending to be noble and at least admit its selfish. Its not like its new, cheating has been around for as long as monogamy.

    I am married, monogamous but would be into poly stuff if my partner was. But she isn't and im not going to force that on her. Its called consent, you should try it.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

    Doesn't change a thing about my point. There is such a thing as too much. Where is that line? I don't know, but for those of you doing a lot of porn watching or masturbation might want to ponder it.

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  • [–] -1 points 4 hours ago* (6 children)

    Hahaha I don't need religion to be a good person. Im not religious. Maybe you need it though since you are clearly struggling with the idea of right and wrong.

    Does helping nazis do nazi things that make you feel good make you a nazi? Pretty sure you have an opinion on that one. Maybe think about it. Just because you are only emotionally hurting a small number of people does not let you off the hook.

    Sorry its not what all you horny people want to hear.

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  • [–] 1 point 6 hours ago (4 children)

    OK well I hear you but the "gooning" crowd and chronically online masturbaters are being unhealthy, im not being a prude. You guys are reacting to traditional values and im just saying there is such a thing as too much. If you are spending more than 30 minutes a day looking at porn that is probably a problem.

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  • [–] 1 point 6 hours ago (8 children)

    You participated in the act of adultery you turd. Maybe ita not your marriage, but you participated. You said yeah im OK with this because im getting something out of it.

    You are enabling the bad behavior. You are helping the bad person do the bad thing. You are being bad. Stop giving yourself a free pass just because you personally aren't having any negative consequences.

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