Based and consent pilled

So true. I started taking SSRI (anti depressants) and have very little sex drive now. The only thing that seems to help is weed right now.

Classic

You like being sentient??

Sentient Dildos | Dead Tiger Transport | Sizz Records

"Hey baby, I made your favorite because you're worth it, you naughty whore..." "Wait, damn!"

It’s a problem when it’s all that your partner cares about. Sex is great, but the vast majority of the time you spend with your SO will not involve fucking. That other 90% is important too.

I don't know if it's puritanical or what, but I think some people misunderstand sexual objectification to be a rejection of all sexual displays entirely. Like as an idiom, even.

On the idiom point, it's entirely possible to objectify people in other ways, but I never really see anyone talk about them.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think the problem is more about people other than your partner thinking like that.

The whole “sex object” complaint never made sense to me tbh.

The key word here is object. When people complain about sexual objectification, most often they are complaining about people being treated as if they were sexual objects devoid of agency. There is nothing wrong with sex.

Yes, not at all uncommon in the BDSM community. Neither are 24/7 kink relationships. However, reality is different from fantasy and there is a fair amount of nuance in how this works in the context of a LTR and not a fun weekend.

yeah I've known subs with a "I want to wake up in the middle of sex" or "I want to be drugged" fetish.

Yeah, some people are into that. Terms called free-use. Sometimes its just an overly desire to be available to your significant other but there are many different ways one arrives at such affirmations

Many people like a bit of subordination/domination. As most things, it's a spectrum and there are some people tending to either edges.

The two big caveats about subordination fetishes are however that firstly, such fantasies can be a response to trauma and/or abuse and secondly, it puts you in a very vulnerable position and leaves you very open to exploitation.

It's the "comfy wholesome" part which really holds this together and makes it great: You're putting an immense amount of trust and responsibility on your partner if you submit yourself like that and it can only work if your partner is fully aware of this, up to the task and really cares about you.

At my age, a good night's sleep is better than even good sex, and more rare. Sleeping through the night and waking up after dawn is a strange and welcome treat.

Its freak in the sheets... its supposed to ryme.. this broke me today.

"No pain, no increase"

Hes even a rapper. WTH...

It's one of my 8 commandments.

Most women want a Kratos in the sheets and a Mimir in the streets

I would be the correct amount of both scared and excited.

By now I know I am looking for something that statistically does not exist.

i think this is more free use kink.

CNC involves pretending you don't want it

Fine line for sure lol

You: but, what if we were just like REALLY good friends? Put that away please.

Yeah, based and wholesome stuff pilled

Aw yeah now that you put it that way, I actually prefer cuddling, could live without the slimy sweaty painful pounding. We need a third option up there for just romance & spooning with clothes on please.

What is love?

I once had three partners and all three were both. It was exhausting. Now I'm back down to two and this is a good level.

Not everyone has that much bandwidth but you go on, wild thing.