In the monthly server updates for lemmy.zip/piefed.zip there's a mantra that's repeated every month. I think it's wonderful and can be applied to the Fediverse as a whole.

If you’re new here - WELCOME! I hope you’re enjoying your time here :)

Just one small teeny-tiny request. The greatest gift you can give the Fediverse (Original: Lemmy.zip and Piefed.zip) isn’t money, praise, or interpretive dance (although we would absolutely accept the last one). Its participation.

Upvote the things you like. Start a discussion, debate, or ponder about whether water is wet or merely makes things wet. Make new communities if you don’t see one that fits your oddly specific niche obsession.
(We don’t judge. Well, we try not to judge anyway.)

The fediverse naturally ebbs and flows, tides of people come and go. But if you’ve found yourself oddly attached to this strange little corner of the internet? Wonderful. Help it breathe. Help it grow. Help it be just a tiny bit weirder in the best possible way.

So if you’ve gone to the effort of clicking Sign Up and proving you’re not a robot (unless you are, in which case hello and welcome to our new AI overlords), then please, I beg of you:

Stick around. Add your voice. It really does make this place better.

Original post by @Demigodrick@lemmy.zip

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[–] 46 points 11 months ago (1 child)
  • [–] 154 points 11 months ago (23 children)

    There's like 5 people that are firehoses of content that are keeping lemmy alive.

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  • [–] 24 points 11 months ago (8 children)

    Beehaw thinks I should post less though.

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  • [–] 5 points 11 months ago* (2 children)

    They instanced banned me for 3 days for posting frequently outside their jurisdiction.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago

    Don't take it too personaly. In the absence of complex filtering tools instance and community admin have to improvise to keep with their wished éditorial ligne.

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  • [–] 13 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    Well, 4 after FlyingSquid left.

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago

    I'm not a big fan of those absolute firehoses though. It would be impossible to read as much as they post, and therefore they can't have much invested or interest in the subjects which is bad for discussion and reminds me of the reasons for disliking AI slop.

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  • [–] 38 points 11 months ago (7 children)

    I upvote a lot, but I don't always comment as much as I should. I often find that I may or may not have anything particularly new to add to the comments.

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  • [–] 5 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    Yeah honestly there's no point adding meaningless chatter either. I like the comment sections here because it feels like people have let their words settle in their minds before they started mashing the keyboard.

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago

    I think I'm still a little concerned about account security especially in these scary US fascist times. Trying to take the safest course of action but I am still burnt over by reddit and its hard to wipe your accounts there too now...

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago*

    I appreciate your concern for the quality of your contributions, and I think this place has a higher proportion of that type of user than just about any other platform.

    This place is small and it's generally friendly and inclusive. Most comments won't get any replies, but the ones that do will generally be constructive. The users here are into the whole idea of the social contract and that we can have something nice if we are just excellent to one another.

    I repeatedly say "generally" because this is an open platform and assholes are allowed to join. The assholes can even have their own instance dedicated to asshole topics! But fortunately the instances and communities are generally moderated by actual decent humans who are much like the users!

    So let that knowledge help you comment more, not less! Even if you get no comments and like 5 upvotes, it actually feels like something of value even if it's just a nod from a few decent people.

    Edit: part of the conclusion was supposed to be that you can consider comments more like a discussion with people and not some strict message board.

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    [–] 25 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    I try, mostly through comments and votes.

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  • [–] 9 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

    Comments might actually be the most valuable thing right now, even moreso than posts

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    [–] 24 points 11 months ago

    But I was born a lurker :(

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  • [–] 23 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    My instinct is to lurk even in this thread...

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Do you want to talk about it?

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago

    Not really. I physically don't have the energy. Can't speak for the person above, but most of the time, I just can't interact here without having to take a break. Like. Lay down and close my eyes break. (I'm okay now, if you couldn't tell.)

    To others, I'm chronically ill, but not being able to interact here doesn't make you less valid. Lurking is fine too. This post is a call to arms but if you can't answer it don't. Your health comes first.

    Upvoting and downvoting is appreciated if you have the energy for that, but don't feel pressured.

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  • [–] 21 points 11 months ago

    Don't tell me how to live my life.

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  • [–] 52 points 11 months ago (10 children)

    Nice post, and thanks. I usually only comment and vote but have not created posts yet. That is my goal for 2026, to post at least one thing. I'm scared of the potential hateful insults I would get for posting something but I can be a dick sometimes, so I get it.

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  • [–] 21 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    I've found that near every post I've made only has nice comments. Unless it is political lol, but thats par for the course. I believe in you!

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  • [–] 26 points 11 months ago

    If you commit to making a post, I commit to being nice to you and not being a jerk.I try not to be like that in general and appreciate people's willingness to contribute.

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  • [–] 9 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    I fear only one thing. That I will be too bland/boring or what I deem in any way interesting won't be. Or that it will be and I'd get overwhelmed with amount of comments and wouldn't be able to reply to even third of them and would come off as a dick or a bot :< That and I am well aware I am not compatible with most of lemmy so yeah.

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  • [–] 10 points 11 months ago

    This is the main resistance I see. I thought I'd be boring in the beginning. I didn't know much about the subject I began to post about. But from continuing to interact, I learned more about the subject, and I learned what the people I was talking to liked more or liked less.

    If you're just being yourself and talking about things you're interested in, you're gonna be fine. People here are pretty chill, so if you're not spouting outright lies or antagonizing people, there isn't anything to worry about.

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  • [–] 18 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 child)

    A'ight you won, gotta say something for today. But i hardly understand how people do manage to be social enough to post almost every day, like, they manage to make everything interesting.

    It usually takes me 30-40 minutes to find the strengh to post something. How others will react to it, or is it even meaningful to post it, I find myself facing theses questions as much irl as online.

    Anyways, it truly is a very nice place here, I agree with you, thanks to thoses amazing posters who never get out of inspiration. Thank you all.

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  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago

    "It usually takes me 30-40 minutes to find the strengh to post something. How others will react to it, or is it even meaningful to post it, I find myself facing theses questions as much irl as online."

    Just remember everybody is anonymous and the votes don't really matter!

    Also I can guarantee you that no one else will scrutinize what you say as much as you do. Mostly they will not even remember!

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  • [–] 17 points 11 months ago

    This is not a personal account, it's one for a site I'm building. I know many won't like that as it might come as spammy, corporate or whatever, but I have decided to use Lemmy as a place for discussion -in a related community- and Mastodon as the one for news and updates (together with old good RSS) and I have done it because I believe in a federated web.

    I'm tired of walled gardens and billionaire-run feuds -and every web loading endless MBs of scripts from a dozen of third-parties (I mean, sometimes it can be justified, like on very complex sites... but not on a damn text blog, come on!)- or not working with my OS/browser of choice... and I want the Fediverse to keep growing and become not only a viable alternative but -and here I'm just daydreaming, I know- the default.

    And to this point this post made me realize that it won't happen on its own -not the way most people are, anyway- and that we/I need to put more effort on it. I'm culprit of just signing up and... well, waiting. And that won't work. So thank you from bringing this matter to me, and I'll try to do my part from now on, if not with this account with a personal one.

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  • [–] 15 points 11 months ago

    Sometimes I debate on making a comment, and sometimes I simply don't have the energy to complete one. But sometimes, I think, "every comment grows Lemmy a little bit more" and decide, fuck it, I'll say something. People might like it, people might not like it, but you never know what can grow from such a little spark.

    I appreciate Lemmy in this regard. We live in a world with many voices trying to drown out each other for a bit of public attention. It's enough to make some people think their own thoughts aren't worthy and to stay silent, discounting their potential contributions. Having a platform that's low-stakes, where people aren't chasing internet fame, gives many of us an opportunity to express ourselves for the sake of expressing ourselves. Having this outlet is vital for many of us. I'm glad to be a part of this community, and it is truly a community. I have no idea if anyone recognizes me, but I definitely recognize other frequent commenters. It's almost like we're neighbors, not in physical proximity, but with a shared gathering space to meet and share our thoughts.

    And I love that.

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  • [–] 15 points 11 months ago (9 children)

    I enjoy Lemmy because I tend to get a response. Despite the higher pop at Reddit, I often go ignored. It’s not unusual to have a back and forth chat with another commenter in a given thread here.

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  • [+] 7 points 11 months ago (8 children)
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    I mean, perhaps if you're lost for content you could just give the back story to your username?

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  • [–] 15 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    There are days where ei literally don't even have time to read anything, let alone posting.

    But I'm not a lurker.

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  • [–] 30 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    1,800 comments and counting! One of them might even be valuable to the conversation.

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  • [–] 14 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    Aw what a nice sentiment 🥰 it has inspired my first reply here

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  • [–] 5 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    can confirm, this user has 0 posts and 1 comment

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  • [–] 12 points 11 months ago

    How dare you invite me to participate!

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  • [–] 12 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    90% of the Internet is made up of lurking.

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  • [–] 11 points 11 months ago

    One valuable way to grow Lemmy: pick a feed that interests you, even if it's got almost no traffic, and just start posting on it.

    Whether you source your posts from equivalent subreddits, or other social media, or from relevant articles you come across in the news, you can - through 10-15 minutes per day of direct action - quickly create a valuable feed for others.

    Much like how the best way to grow an in-person gathering is to commit to just keep showing up for a while, even if it's only you. It works in the fediverse too.

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  • [–] 10 points 11 months ago (3 children)
  • [–] 28 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    Nobody really cares what I have to say.

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  • [–] 9 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    I'm still just figuring out how fediverse / lemmy work, but I do get bored sometimes because of the lack of content, so I guess I'm part of the problem. I'll try to be more involved.

    I've been trying to think of a good (for the lack of knowing the correct verbiage) 'subreddit' to start, but they all seem too specific for the amount of users on Lemmy. Also I wouldn't know how to start one. Comment down below any tips. Thanks!

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  • [–] 5 points 11 months ago*

    I started posting by picking the communuty for the place i live and trying to post local and independent media and special interest groups articles about/in the context of that place.

    Its benefits are,

    • It creates activity on the fediverse that is unique, and the more interesting for it.
    • You'll be promoting the voices of those less often heard.
    • You can also help local and independent media with readers and exposure. Its seen as more of an offline problem of media concentration, but i think theres online solutions for the surviving publications.

    If you look through my history you'll see my posts to c/Perth/WesternAustralia there are ebbs and flows in interest but the key point is when something happens, say a protest, or a pub banning some nazis the community is there ready for the users, active and established.

    If you go to the sidebar of that community, and all the communities i moderate i have gathered in each a host of resources for people to refer to for articles and information in regards each of those communities. It also helps me to have easy access to those publishers as i look for something i find interesting.

    So i don't know what city or State you live in, but if theres a place based server, or a generalist server that hosts a community for it, i'd start posting there. If it looks abandoned maybe jump onto that servers c/meta and request to become the moderator. That'll give you the ability to change things like the sidebar and participate in managing misbehaviour if/when users post things off topic/against the rules for the community.

    See you in fediverse ;)

    Edit: oh, also posting is a piece of active fun, instead of waiting passivley for something to entertain you. So its fun in a different way to scrolling feeds, or commenting.

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago

    You don't have to start your own community (lemmy's subreddit) if you feel it is too niche. Find or start a broder one where your niche content will fit. That way, your content has a home and more lemming will be attracted to it.

    If you want to start your own community, you can only do it on your home instance: reddthat.com

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  • [–] 9 points 11 months ago* (1 child)

    I see a new post.
    I click, I read, I scroll on.
    I am the lurker.

    #haiku (<- test to see how far this propagates in the mastodon / microblogging part of the fediverse)

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    [–] 8 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    I love the goal this port is trying to achieve, and I try not to be negative about content. But lately I’ve seen the kind of gate keeping that is souring people on that other site.

    I’ve had 2 fairly recent examples of it. In one case, the community pushed back on the poster for being an ass. They repeatedly doubled down, and were repeatedly called out for it. It was good to see.

    The second was a mod applying a definition to a community that doesn’t exist in its stated rules. I haven’t finished with that one yet, but depending on how my response plays out, I’ll be done with that community, and I’ll just go back to that other site. The particular community is excellent both here and in R-world, so I won’t miss much by saying goodbye to it on Lemmy. I’ll be sad, though.

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  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago

    Great posts from .Zip admins as usual

    For people interested in growing communities, there is !fedigrow@lemmy.zip

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  • [–] 7 points 11 months ago

    Thanks for letting us know and giving a lil push!

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