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[–] 53 points 1 year ago (1 child)

Navigating UIs on PCs, Smartphones, Ticket Machines etc.

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  • [–] 38 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Explaining difficult technical concepts to laypeople. Just gotta find the correct analogy.

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  • [–] 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    If you can't explain it simply, you don't know it well enough.

    That's one of my favorite sayings.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago

    With the caveat that a simple explanation stipulates a basic understanding of the topic at hand. I could explain the concept of First Break Positioning to anyone, but it's gonna take a while unless they have a basic understanding of how a seismic survey works.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I am grateful and envious: I would love to have the same ability. Stuff is crystal clear in my mind, and I still hardly can transform it into something someone else can parse… analogies are great, but finding the correct one is often beyond me

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    I'm not a fan of analogies. They can be very condescending and convoluted and I find I dont learn much from them. I dont think there are any shortcuts to learning in that way really.

    I find most the times the issue I have with someone teaching me something is that they are treating it as a one sided communication. If the person teaching won't learn about the student, they end up assuming a lot of things and that is what breaks understanding.

    Analogies are nice when the purpose isn't to really learn but to socialize, though. Its more a way for people to acknowledge each other and show respect for the things we are interested in. Its a mutual thing in that way.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    I excelled at tech support with this skill. I can quickly figure a person's technical ability. If you talk below them, they're insulted. If you talk over them, they're insulted. Gotta hit 'em where they live.

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  • [–] 35 points 1 year ago (11 children)

    Popping their ears. I can "pop" my ears by opening my eustachian tubes on demand. I can even hold them open if I want to. Apparently a lot of people can't do that.

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  • [–] 32 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Being able to see through fake people's masks. Like, people who appear nice and friendly on the surface, but are narcissistic snakes who will destroy you to benefit themselves. The people who everyone will swear "oh, they aren't like that."

    It's so obvious to my wife and I, possibly because we're on the spectrum, but no one else sees it until one of us lays out all the supporting evidence that they are in fact like that.

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  • [–] 26 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    Embracing the chaos.
    Not everything works out, not everything goes to plan. Routines will be disrupted.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

    My job in a nutshell. Not a bad job, per se, but I'm the kind of employee who get paid handsomely to show up at weird corners of the world to make stuff work with whatever resources I can muster. Planning ahead can only get you so far.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Your "everyday carry" must be amazing! 😀

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

    In my work backpack, off the top of my head:
    20Ah USB battery.
    Laptop with charger.
    A multi-tool. (Goes into checked bag when flying)
    Laptop with charger.
    Console cables for various routers and switches.
    A thick syringe needle with enclosure (excellent for those tiny reset buttons)
    USB serial adapter.
    Misc USB cables.
    A Ziplock bag of all sorts of SFP modules.
    A spare PCIe network card (SFP ports)
    A microSD card with SD adapter.
    A Linux live USB.
    A general purpose USB with nothing in particular on it.
    A spare SIM
    Passport.
    Seaman books from two countries
    TWIC.
    A plastic fork.
    Cup noodles (because arriving hungry late when every eatery has closed sucks)
    An extra pair of socks.

    EDIT: Forgot power adapters for plugging into US and UK outlets. And a few zip ties.

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  • [–] 24 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Spatial awareness.

    I was in gymnastics as a kid, so built up a strong sense of balance and where my arms and legs are in relation to the stuff around me.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    Are you also good at catching stuff that falls without ever looking?

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    No. Most of the time I just bat it into the air, higher than it originally fell from, thus exacerbating the situation...

    I do occasionally "pin" something to the wall/table/storage apparatus with my hand. That's about as good as it gets though :/

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    “I bet you’re also good at x”

    “Oh nah not that, especially not that”

    That candidness was charming lol. Fellow gymnast. What the other person was talking about is another spatial reasoning skill that often coexists with yours. As it pertains to external objects and their trajectories, you see it more in athletes who played sports involving a ball. Humans are neat.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Yeah, I forgot what the sense was called, awareness of your limbs in relation to your body and balance, the sense that gets all wobbly with alcohol; hence, the close-your-eyes-and-touch-your-nose test. I'm 40 and still walk on curbs like they are balance beams. Favorite was the rings, the closest thing I can get to flying without also becoming motion sick :/

    You throw me a ball, I'll prevent it from hitting me, but forget intercepting the things with any grace or plan. Me trying out for tennis in middle school was basically mini dodge ball.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    Hey rings were my favorite too! Followed by pommel horse and anything with a foam pit at the end. Almost made floor work worth it lol.

    Totally, I think most people can train motor, reflex, and spatial reasoning skills and learn all kinds of sports, well past 40 since the brain and peripheral nervous system remains remarkably plastic into old age, but it’s pretty cool to have something your body has known since childhood that sticks around and helps you out day-to-day :)

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    I was in my 40s until I admitted to my self that spatial awareness simply doesn't work in my brain. My young friend across the street is excellent and I often have to call him over to assemble something I've taken apart. In fact, I'm going to hit him up to help me reassemble a shed. Used, it came with no directions and no way in hell do I figure out how it goes together. And I took it apart!

    In elementary school standard tests I'd excel at every subject except spatial reasoning. I'd try! But no, I have no idea how those shapes rotate to make the shape wanted.

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  • [–] 71 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Driving without touching my phone.

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  • [–] 40 points 1 year ago

    Basic hygiene, sadly

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  • [–] 19 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    Not engaging with other humans. Whether in person or online, I simply don't feel like talking to people is necessary.

    Will I do it? Sure. It's fine. But the difference is that I can go weeks without speaking to someone else - and frequently do since I'm disabled and a bit of a shut-in. However, it seems to really bother people to not have others with which to speak. I've never understood this.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Yeah, any time I watch Alone I don't get how people can tap out after like a week because they're lonely.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    It’s not that it necessarily becomes unbearable after a week - it’s more about realizing that if you’re already struggling now, it’s not going to get any easier later. Better to tap out early than drag it out for two months just to reach the same conclusion.

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  • [–] 19 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Computers just work around me. Steady the software and programs. I’m not in the tech or it field. I’m in retail management.

    The amount of times people call me over only to say “well now it’s working but before it took me to some other screen”

    “Glad I could help”

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    My husband is this way. I take advantage of it regularly. I used to consider myself tech savvy but I went into the arts and the tech world left me behind. I used to try and muddle through it, but eventually I just stopped trying because I’d be doing everything “right” without success and then my husband would look over my shoulder and suddenly it would work. So now I swallow my pride and ask him sooner.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Fixing things. Repair. Assembly. Construction. Diagnosis. It always surprises me how many people are incapable of understanding how something works or what needs done to repair it.

    From engines to furnaces to plumbing, computers, electronics, whatever, I do it all myself. And it's not even remotely connected to me career. Repairmen hate me!

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    I struggle with mechanical jobs, but I try anyway. About everything I can repair, upgrade, repurpose, etc. I but almost nothing new. If everyone had those habits and knowledge, the economy would collapse.

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  • [–] [S] 14 points 1 year ago* (3 children)

    Getting up when the alarm rings
    Not touching my savings
    Paraller/reverse parking
    Finding joy in mundane little things

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

    I'm a professional driver. Used to be a trucker, have spent a lifetime working shitty blue collar industrial jobs. I can back any trailer, with any vehicle, into any space. I'm a ninja on a forklift, a crane, a loadall, whatever. I've spent thousands of hours just parking stuff. I can't parallel park. I mean I can, just not quickly, gracefully, or taking all the gods names in vain.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    On Reddit (sorry) a million years ago, someone posted an image or maybe a gif that made it super clear for me and I’ve never had trouble with it since. It basically explained where in the process to turn your wheels. That said, I was an okay parallel parker already but my skills improved after I saw that gif. I’m not finding it on the web though otherwise I’d share it happily.

    Strangely enough, I went to high school in a downtown area and often parked on the left side of a one-way street and therefore my parallel skills on the left are better than the right.

    All that being said, I find trailer skills to be awe inspiring!

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  • I remember that image/gif.

    Line up back wheels with rear of the car you are packing behind.

    Cut the wheel all the way to turn towards the curb and back up.

    When 45° to the curb, turn the wheel the other way to go straight.

    If necessary, straighten out as needed.

    That gets like, 90% of whatcha need to do. Your individual car might change it a little based on turning radius, but it's not that hard. A little practice and you'll know where your rear curbside tire is and how long your hood is.

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  • [–] 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Not judging other people. Partly, I'm just quite easy going, partly I've had enough personal history of making mistakes to understand that people often have others reasons for their actions. But mostly I just don't see the point in wasting headspace caring about someone's appearance, opinion or behaviour.

    But I feel like I'm constantly hearing people bitching, moaning and picking at other people. There are situations where you need to take a decision about something (particularly if you're in a position of responsibility or authority) but most of the time there seems very little point in being judgemental about someone.

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  • [–] [S] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I don't believe in free will so I always think to myself that if I was in their shoes I'd be acting the same way. It doesn't mean I have endless tolerance for bad behavior or that it doesn't affect whether I want to be around said person or not but I don't act as if they're personally responsible for who they are or that they're actively choosing to be that way.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    Our brains start firing to take action before we are conscious of that action. We can see this on a scan.

    Not a comfortable thought, but our brains are driving and only after taking action do they send an executive summary to the little homonculous behind our eyeballs and we say, "I did that!"

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Before every 3rd annual review I set out getting competitive wages from competitors to bring to my review for my current employer to match or else I accept the competing offer and my current employer can use my annual review as my 2 week notice.

    Has worked 5 out of 5 times accross 3 different companies over my 20 year work span.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Do you go through the whole interview process or do you just reach out to competitors and ask what they'd pay for someone with your resume?

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago*

    Ive done both but always go to the first interview. It all depends on how the interview goes. If they seem desperate for help and seem to have high hopes they found their guy, ill flat out tell them that I will be allowing my current employer to match their offer. Thats only happened a couple times over the 5 times I've done this. I try to bring no less than 3 offers to the table for my employer to match. So even some of the shittiest companies I had zero intentions of committing to, will still be used.

    The two biggest cards in my deck tho, in my opinion, are 1. That most people who work with me know that I dont balk at much. If I say im guna do something, I make sure I do everything in my power to make sure it happens. 2. Im 37 year old male unmarried and childless, my risk management allowance is muuuuuuuuuch wider than most people I compete with on the job market. If my current employer doesnt match someday, then I have no problem jumping ship and changing course.

    The key is that your employer knows you would jump ship if it comes down to it. At rhe same time, you need to know what your value is for your employer and the cost they will pay to train ypur replacement so they know they aren't only retaining a valuable asset of their company bit theyre doing it at a lower operating cost than it will cost them to train someone compleyely new to get them up to your current work load.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago

    Being happy by myself.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    Hoe large is two tomatoes travelling at 80km an hour in the direction of geneva?

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago* (6 children)

    I have a good imagination. After meeting people with aphantasia it seems I have an exceptional ability to call to mind sights, smells, sensations, sounds, and simulate the interactions they would have entirely in my mind. I can imagine a different set of curtains on the wall and tell you if it would clash with your paint, and I can taste a spoonful of a soup and go through a mental library of tastes and combine it with more salt, onion, wine etc and make a suggestion based on what "tasted" the best. I thought everyone could do it but some people don't have a "mind's eye" at all. Some people only can see in their imaginations, not smell or taste or hear etc.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Same, but it sounds like you're a little better than I. Reading posts on reddit years ago was what made me realize that some people can't picture things in their head.

    I'm a solid 1 on this scale, had assumed everyone else was as well.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    The downside is that when I get a song stuck in my head, it's really in there.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago*

    That can be annoying, but I can usually chase it out with one of the other songs that lives in my head. Sometimes I'll put on a song in my head just because. It's not always the same as the real thing, but it's pretty good, especially the vocals.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    It's funny - I am very good at knowing what will look good, design sense is strong, and I can throw together food and know what it will taste like.

    But I wouldn't say I literally see or taste when I do this. It's a different sort of perception.

    I do absolutely see, hear, taste and feel in dreams so I know my mind CAN do it, it's just not how I figure things out, it's a different sort of imagining.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    It apparently doesn't have to be as realistic as hallucinating or dreaming to be exceptional though. There are tests for aphantasia that involve picturing a loved one, their face, then some common piece of clothing they wear and if you can see them clearly in your mind and describe them as if they were in front of you that is something reasonably out of the ordinary. You might be "hyperphantasic" too

    https://aphantasia.com/study/vviq

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Maybe. When we moved into this house, it had what I'd describe as "bad feng shui" for lack of a better term, it was so awkward and had a remarkably weird layout, but I KNEW it could work, said we take out this door, take this out, put a wall here, it is amazing now and I do slowly improve it, my husband is always so surprised by my 'eye', says he can't do that, can't see the potential.

    With cooking it's probably experience, I've made a lot of food and tasted a lot of ingredients.

    Music doesn't stay forever but it's funny, I can sometimes remember pieces of old songs and then recreate them enough to find them (most recently Sentimental Lady), and get auditory hallucination too when I'm tired, hear music in the fan sounds or running water so that can absolutely be the same as hearing it with my ears, not just knowing. But not like I can crate music and I can't read music so don't know if I could hear it unheard, or just remember.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    What about something that everyone else thinks is easy but it's difficult for me?

    Whistling. I'm fucking 35.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Not being on my phone at work.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago* (2 children)

    I yelled at a coworker once for this. He was kind of a slacker, and known as such. One day I was to be teaching him my line (plastic extrusion and slitting). It was a tough product and the blade box was shit and wrapped. It's a tense moment, we have to fix it quickly and do a restart, there is so much to do, and it's a giant pain in the ass.

    I go to grab a tool, and like, be on your phone when things are good, I don't care, but it takes two to run this shit. I come back and he's still just staring at his phone, Facebook of all places, instead of fucking helping clear the wrap and prep the line. I yelled at him to go sit down if he wants to be on his phone as now he's in my way. I told him to get tf off my line if he wanted to play gossip on Facebook.

    The only lady in my department, I don't think anyone spoke to him like that before. He put his phone away the rest of the shift and I avoided working with him again. This dude worked there longer than I did, knew less than I did, and got paid more. Fuck outta here.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    Manufacturing is an attractive environment for that type of person. The guys who skate by doing the absolute bare minimum and keep the job because finding new people is hard. They never excel, never rise above "machine operator 2" or whatever grade allows them to work the coil line with the least physical interaction possible. Every year or so they'll be caught on their phone by the wrong person or at the wrong time and the company will issue it's cell phone usage policy again, reminding everyone to keep the phones away until break time. And then for a few weeks bathroom stalls will be in short supply because 5 versions of that guy just can't be bothered to actually do their job.

    Then the crunch will come, overtime will be posted and that dipshit will volunteer every fucking weekend.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago

    Remembering long passwords. We're talking in the 30-40 character ballpark. And I still can't remember people's names.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago* (4 children)

    Being isolated. It's always confused me how much people complain about loneliness. I genuinely don't think I have ever felt that emotion before.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    There is a tv show called 60 days in. It's about sending people into these US shithole prisions without anyone knowing that they don't belong. The idea is to figure out what goes wrong and where drugs come from and so on. Anyway, they always talk about solidarity confinement and how bad it is. Like the biggest and baddest dude is worried about getting into "the hole" Then there was this one guy who was on the show who got into solitary confinement and enjoyed the shit out of it. He would get in trouble again and not do anything to get out of the hole.

    I always felt like this guy.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Solitary confinement is torture. That guy just felt it to be less torturous than being with the general population. Which is quite a commentary on the horrors of the prison environment when you think about it.

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    [–] 8 points 1 year ago

    Spatial problem solving.

    Problem solving.

    Processing written information.

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