Microblog post: Not even a vegan but they’re obviously right no need to try to argue with them it’s fine to just be wrong and live your life

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[–] 183 points 1 week ago* (32 children)

Fun fact: The actor in this scene is vegetarian, so they used mushrooms instead of steak

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  • [–] 64 points 1 week ago (9 children)

    Which is kind of wild, because I don't know if a steak has ever looked better on film than the cut shown in this scene. I understand that sentiment may not hold true for folks on vegetarian or vegan diets based on ethical grounds, but that may as well be the Platonic ideal of "fancy steak".

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  • [–] 30 points 1 week ago (8 children)

    Visually, yes.

    However I’ve not met a mushroom that tastes and feels like beef. Impossible burgers get close but it’s far from a steak.

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  • [–] 12 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (6 children)

    Have you tried the impossible Beyond steak? Highly recommend

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  • [–] 12 points 6 days ago (5 children)

    I've never had Impossible Steak. Do you like Beyond? I've noticed some people like one or the other.

    Have you tried Lions Mane steak?

    https://youtu.be/oaARq5qw3jk

    Herbivorous Butcher is really good too and they have a cookbook to make your own.

    https://www.theherbivorousbutcher.com/

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  • [–] 11 points 6 days ago (1 child)

    There was a brand called Meati that made steaks out of mycelium that were so goddamn good. Closest to the real thing I've had so far. Unfortunately some shady financial shenanigans cost them their production plant. There's a new owner trying to get them up and running again though so fingers crossed there.

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  • [–] 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 child)

    Every time I visited the twin cities I'd stop by their shop and stock up on a bunch of stuff. Their vegan BBQ ribs and vegan chorizo were so good. I heard that their store burned down a few years ago, but I didn't realize they kept their online shop open!

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  • [–] 1 point 6 days ago

    Yea, it's funny because when I heard about them, I heard they made a cookbook after closing down. Like Miyoko's new books. That it was just a local shop.

    I only found the site from looking for the cookbook and found out they are still running and ship now.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 week ago (4 children)

    Just realised looking at this that it's the same actor as Ralph from The Sopranos. I've watched both recently too!

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  • [–] 13 points 1 week ago (16 children)

    Funner fact: the actor in the original Oldboy is also vegan, but he still ate that live octopus.

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  • [–] 23 points 1 week ago (9 children)

    He's vegetarian not vegan. It's incredibly hard to be a vegan in korea, but it's very easy to be a vegetarian. The vast majority of halmeoni cooking your food over there basically equivocate vegetarianism and vegan to be the same thing. A lot of traditional foods have hidden animal products in it like shrimp paste for seasoning.

    I once tried talking to my like 85 year old Korean granny about it and she strongly explained to me that things like krill were more like plants than animals, which in some ways is kinda true.

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  • [–] 17 points 6 days ago (3 children)

    It’s incredibly hard to be a vegan in korea, but it’s very easy to be a vegetarian.

    A lot of traditional foods have hidden animal products in it like shrimp paste for seasoning.

    Sounds like it's easy to be a pescatarian, but not actually a vegetarian.

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  • Again, it's kinda weird. I would say it's fairly easy to be vegetarian since there's a cultural understanding of vegetarians due to the cultural/religious practices of Buddhist monks.

    For one, they typically have more bland foods, and typically live in the mountainous regions where there's less access to sea food. And again, what a lot of east Asian people consider meat varies from the western nomenclature.

    Where instead of basing the ethical delineation on a scientific taxonomy, it's based more on whether something possesses a soul/conscious. If we examine the issue through that lens it can make sense that an invertebrate like a krill or even coral are closer to plants than mammals.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 days ago

    Restrictive Asian diets don't sort neatly into western buckets.

    By your definition, most practicing 'vegetarian' Buddhists are omnivores because of oyster sauce, yet they eat far less animal products than the average western vegetarian due to the low prevalence of dairy products.

    Jains, for example, can drink milk and eat butter and ghee, but cannot eat root vegetables, fungi, and fermented foods, while the opposite is true for veganism.

    So what do you call people who are vegetarian except for 1% of their diet? I would find it disengenuous to equate that to a regular omnivore diet.

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  • [–] 9 points 6 days ago (1 child)

    TIL 200k tons of krill are harvested each year.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

    To be used in omega 3 supplements and fish farming. At the same time one can cut both by using omega 3 DHA & EPA supplements based on algae. Doing it for 7 years now. Also the less krill, the less whales and the less whales, the less flourishing ocean eco systems, because of the whale poop loop and whale falls.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 week ago (5 children)

    That’s slightly less fun. I’ll eat a pig or a chicken or a cow but octopodes are too smart for me to eat.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 days ago

    I think this is a very arbitrary line to draw, and I honestly don't think it's backed up by science. Octopuses may outperform pigs and cows at some tasks, but how do you measure their overall intelligence in a way that's comparable?

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  • [–] 49 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

    I'm in this picture and feel pretty neutral about that.

    One time I had a hardcore combo meth-heroin addict who was vegan who candidly told me something to the effect of 'idgaf what I put in my body I just have a moral problem with the livestock industry' and I was like 'you know what, based.' The core issue of that conversation was that dietary sent a roll with dinner and they were like 'naaah I can tell by the texture they used cows butter' and like many things in the hospital they're probably right and also at least they recognized I had no way of fixing it.

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  • [–] 113 points 1 week ago* (6 children)

    Non-vegans should support vegans, even if they continue to eat meat, because vegans drive better treatment of animals and also drive more attractive non-animal food options.

    However, a person must have a brain and also not have meat eating tied to their masculinity.

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  • Non-vegans should support vegans

    What really drives me mad is that there's a dead simple solution - lab-grown meat - that can obviously be the best of both worlds with a bit more development (and in fact is being commercialized already), but is being lobbied against by the meat industry precisely because it'll be cheaper and better. And nobody seems to be talking about it.

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  • [–] 5 points 6 days ago (2 children)

    My meat eating isn't even close to being tied to my masculinity. I hardly even care how myself and others perceive my masculinity.

    My meat eating is nearly entirely tied to my enjoyment of the taste of meat.

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  • [–] 3 points 6 days ago (1 child)

    As a cis dude who wears skirts, pink ball caps, and like dick as much as pussy.... Please tell me how much my perceived masculinity matters to me.

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  • [–] 53 points 6 days ago (10 children)

    Obligatory mention that you don't need to cut out meat from your life entirely to have a significant impact on your carbon footprint and your health. Going mostly vegetarian is also an option and its basically been the default of humanity since the agricultural revolution.

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  • [–] 22 points 6 days ago (1 child)

    "But it's awkward in social settings", "What if I'm going out to eat", "What if it's the only option", "What if I am trying but don't realize something has an animal product"

    Idk dude then eat meat in those settings I guess. 95% of your food is consumed outside of those settings so just be 95% vegan or vegetarian.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 days ago

    This. The stuff I cook at home is 100% vegetarian, which is most of my meals. I simply stopped buying meat when I'm grocery shopping.

    When I visit people I eat whatever they have, if they have good vegetarian options i prefer that though.

    When I'm going out to eat I do the same. If you're not in the mood to have a discussion about it during lunch with your coworkers or whoever just tell them that you do eat meat but chose that one vegetarian option because it looked tasty or whatever.

    Since people in my social surrounding think mostly the same I'm about 99% vegetarian.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 days ago

    Obligatory mention that the "carbon footprint" is a tool of the billionair class to put all the blame that belongs to them on us, the consumer without any real power in the markets.

    So the best way to cut down on carbon footprint is to be politically engaged. Without systemic change your personal sacrafice will not really do anything.

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  • [–] 3 points 6 days ago (2 children)

    In this economy I'm buying less meat just because it's so expensive

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  • [–] 60 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (29 children)

    Just eat less meat. You don't have to go 0-100. Skip the patty, skip the filet. Double up on proteins. Dairy shouldn't be an end goal but substitute the actual meat for dairy for at least some reduction. Pick the food that is vegan instead of the one using meat stock, etc. Little things here and there. Default to meatless, eat the damn meat if you absolutely have to. Increase this change over time, and make sure to add a vegan B12 supplement. 80% is better than 100%. 60% is better than 80% when you get there. Maybe someday you hit 0%. Achieve perfect through gradual change, don't shun good if you can't be perfect.

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  • [–] 17 points 6 days ago (8 children)

    This is the best advice you can give someone imo. Im like 75% vegan, still have eggs and bacon on the weekends, some chicken with dinner, some other stuff here and there. But mostly its beans/tofu and rice with veggies.

    Some people think they have to give up everything all at once right now and of course that seems overwhelming.... because it is.

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  • [–] 10 points 6 days ago* (3 children)

    Perfectionism is often used as a shield to prevent change or to avoid challenging yourself or your own rigid thinking. When you see someone saying it’s all or nothing they’re actively sabotaging themselves, often that’s exactly what they want to be doing, plausible deniability

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  • [–] 3 points 5 days ago (2 children)

    I'm a cold turkey kind of guy. Slippery slopes are hard to navigate but clean cuts are easy.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 days ago* (3 children)

    honestly, giving everything up at once was pretty easy? soymilk took a few weeks to get used to, but outside that adjustment i just added more beans to stuff. Worth at least trying before compromising on slaughter.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 days ago (2 children)

    For you it was easy, which doesn't have any bearing whatsoever on how easy it will be for any other person. What's worth trying is anything which reduces the amount of suffering in the world, which is not 'compromise', it's a positive step. One burger a year is an improvement and even if that's all you can manage it's better than nothing.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    and for all the other people who will find it easy, it's important to still have a message dissenting the idea that it's always difficult. I'm saying that going all out and finding if you even need to compromise is better than assuming from the start that a compromise is your only viable option.

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  • [–] 7 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

    One change I made early on was to look for ways to shorten the distance from my food, become familiar with how it gets to my plate and just keep higher standards overall for things like meat.

    The experience of buying meat in particular can be heavily abstracted and sanitized. Every big chain supermarket has an area with rows and rows of perfectly packaged cuts. There is not very much information at all about most of it.

    Pick up a Styrofoam tray of boneless skinless chicken breasts from the one or two giant conglomerates. Each package is wrapped in plastic. They all have very consistent appearance, evenly colored and equally plump. They are completely odorless. It is chicken but it's very very far away from being a chicken. It's been through a lot of hands and miles. You've already hit a wall, though, because you're not getting much more information about that meat besides maybe some marketing terms and a picture of a taco or some shit like that. You're being sold the idea of it. All of the horrible stuff is obscured. Even the neutral stuff like what it ate, if it was ever sick or given any medications. All that stuff gets pushed into the memory hole and is supposed to never reach the consumer. If you become too curious, and start digging into it on your own, you naturally end up consuming less. They know this.

    Contrast that with what's produced more locally. Try to figure out who in your area is producing with the goal of building up an actual local foodway sustainably. How close can you get to identifiable people actually producing your food? Can you access a co-op, farmers market, CSA?

    Folks who do things like regenerative farming and try to build up their soil tend to be very passionate and like to share about it. Visit a nearby farm or ranch. Many have small retail operations. They may deal in larger quantities than you're used to. Find out the process. If an animal is involved, how is it cared for and what does it do all day? Is the animal improving its surroundings or degrading them? Are you willing to meet your food face to face?

    IMO if you're going to continue eating meat, you owe it to your food to unpack this stuff, examine how it makes you feel to literally "know how the sausage is made", form deeper connections with your food and community, and find opportunities to make positive changes to your buying habits.

    ETA:

    not everyone will be able to stomach peeking behind the curtain. But that's actually good. It means you're a compassionate human being, and that feeling can be harnessed and channeled into better personal choices.

    I'm just tired of seeing all meat-eating equated, too. The Styrofoam chicken is in a completely different category from a fresh whole chicken acquired locally from, say, a nearby farm that prioritizes regenerative practices.

    Compare the true costs and impacts of each. You might forget they're the same species. It turns out that, if you simply let a chicken just... do its chicken things and provide it with what it already knows it needs to satisfy its drives, its natural behaviors and outputs can be directed to benefit the rest of the system. It's not easy. This is a complex system, and there's a lot to learn. But if you can get it right, the chicken is healthy and satisfied, it improves other parts of the system during its life, has at least net-zero if not positive net impact environmentally, and you still get to sell it at the end if that's what you want your operation to be.

    The best arguments for not eating meat disagree specifically with what happens at the end of, e.g., a meat chicken's life. I know not to argue against that. It's a principled moral stance.

    There will probably always be people who want to eat meat. It is very deeply ingrained human impulse. I think it desperately needs to be scaled way way back. The big players in the conventional national industry need to be seized and taken apart, yesterday. Everything good and useful there needs to be pried out of their hands, brought local, and distributed among the people.

    If the tables were turned, and local, sustainable models were the norm, we'd eat way less of it, feel way better, and have the community profit instead of extracted from. "Big chicken" would not exist like it does now. We'd be having completely different conversations.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 days ago (14 children)

    While I agree with the sentiment, I still struggle a bit with this rhetoric. When it comes to misogyny or rasicsm you wouldn't tell someone to just try and do less of it. The meat & dairy industry is still a whole lot of abuse and exploitation, and I think everyone is probably on board with having nothing to do with it. The friction is just too high I guess.

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  • [–] 12 points 5 days ago (3 children)

    Actually yes you would. For the average person in the privileged position, "trying to do less racism" or "trying to be less misogynistic" is the crux of actioning allyship, especially when people are imprinted and socialized from a young age to be/act racist and misogynistic without knowing or understanding it. Kids can't necessarily control that, but trying to undo it by being less racist and less misogynistic day by day is the necessary work of anti-racism and feminism.

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  • [–] 6 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    It also ignores that even allies almost always still hold some misoginy or racism, simply due to upbringing. True allies have to admit that we're not done progressing.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 days ago

    I agree, but I think framing the goal is important.

    I think the better way to go about it is to commit fully from the start. Maybe there's some hiccups, and then you can reset and try again. I guess it's very personal however. Some people might benefit from another mindset. Anything that gets people away from abuse, I'm all for.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

    The friction is precisely why I recommend start small. Better someone eat less meat and stick with it long term, than a full meat diet long term because they went completely meatless at once for a week or two and couldn't handle it

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  • [–] 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

    Well, frame it as "not one person doing it perfectly but thousands doing it imperfectly"

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  • [–] 1 point 5 days ago (2 children)

    I'm not saying it's bad.

    Maybe in my mind, I just think it's a bit weird to glorify it in a way. If someone would come to me and proudly say "I'm only 20% racist now!", I don't think my initial reaction would be "Great, keep going!". It would probably be more like "Why are you any % racist in the first place?".

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  • [–] 2 points 5 days ago (1 child)

    All of us are subconsiously a tiny percent racist due to growing up in racist power structures. You're not a true ally if you think you're perfect and zero % racist

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  • [–] 2 points 5 days ago

    Maybe it was a bad example, excuse me.

    What I mean is, some things in society are absolutely not accepted, and we wouldn't congratulate people on just doing less of these things. For me, factory farming of animal products is one of these things. I do realize that some people don't consider it to be.

    Again, I wouldn't say I disagree with the original comment, I just have some conflicting thoughts about it I guess. Hope this makes sense.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 days ago*

    When it comes to misogyny or rasicsm you wouldn't tell someone to just try and do less of it.

    Idk, these are very different things. If I think about how much I hate (some group) then I may be a racist based on that alone. If I don't consume animal products but I fantasize about eating a cheeseburger I would still be a vegan.

    Nobody is going to literally say "just do less racism" but in practice we often only deal with small parts of someone's racism.

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  • [–] 0 points 5 days ago (2 children)

    comparing women and minorities to animals is what misogynists and racists do

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  • [–] 1 point 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

    That's the thing. If we could use less meat, use less cars, use less fossil fuels, we would all be happier. But me choosing to do these things sounds to people as just bending over for somebody else to use what I don't use. I just want a happier lifestyle? I'm not doing it for politics or self sacrifice, I'm just taking a step backwarda and realizing that mcdonalds sucks, car commuting sucks.

    But I will use the car when I need to go to the countryside and there is no BETTER alternative!

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  • [–] 1 point 4 days ago (1 child)

    to a vegan it kinda sounds equivalent to “just don’t be racist most days of the week, thats a good start”

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  • [–] 2 points 1 day ago

    Its not even close to the same. Meat is still food, and it is still nourishment to eat. There is nothing nourishing about bigotry. Its still correct to be vegan. But let's be grounded in our discourse.

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    [–] 26 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Maaan. That is me, with so many things. At least I'm moving in the right direction, or so I like to tell me.

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