I would love to try this! Durian might actually fit nicely

I assume Trans Women got socialized as men in their formative years of childhood, so no matter how much they might have not fit in they certainly got an underlying message of being capable, they didn't get corrected for being "bossy" or loud or demanding and probably got discouraged from being "submissive" in any way.

Even people who don't believe in gendernorms will enforce them subconciously on kids and male socialization is just so much more likely to produce people who ask and fight for leadership roles.

I am not questioning their womanhood in any way, just to be clear.

That makes you objectivly a pretty terrible human.

People didn't change for centuries and they will not change in the forseeable future. Of course it is the fuel prices.

Its important to understand the voters and why we will never achieve an utopian state although we would be capable of doing so in theory.

Personally i have them trimmed, i find it extremly uncomfortable when they reach a certain length, like they tangle and it almost hurts and gets itchy which is weird. Also i can't stress enough how disgusted i am by wet hair while getting eaten out, that sensation is just the worst. Sometimes i shave them off completely for sexy times, my boyfriend does not care that much day to day but is very excited about hairless vulva now and than.

In general i would like to not have everything about my body being political, i don't want people to tell clean shaven women they are attracting pedophiles and hairy women that they only do it to make some kind of feminist statement. People like differnt things for personal non political or evil reasons and while we are obviously all influenced by our cultures and media, there is a time and place to discuss beautystandards, its not in the pants of individual women.

Obligatory mention that the "carbon footprint" is a tool of the billionair class to put all the blame that belongs to them on us, the consumer without any real power in the markets.

So the best way to cut down on carbon footprint is to be politically engaged. Without systemic change your personal sacrafice will not really do anything.

If you are over 30 you should understand. I work with a lot of young people and their vulnerability is 100% obvious to anyone with a moral compass.

Sute they can be smart, witty and intelligent even tough but there is absolutely a power imbalance. I talk a lot with them and it is insane how much differnce there is between us and how much they trust us older people and believe us. It would be very easy to manipulate them, even on accident.

I am sure there are some relationships with a bigger gap that aren't predatory but in general it absolutely is a red flag.

In the name of unity we should not generalise this much.

People doing the bidding of the ruling class can still be victims and it is simply not true that any working class in all of history had it easy, more privileges sure! but "easy" not so much.

We have a class problem more than any other problem and i simply do not see how telling any specific demographic outside the 1% that their life is super easy helps to change that.

See thats another reason why i don't have kids, its an mlm. After i am done with the hamsterwheel, my kids can jump in and would be caught up in it to care for me? No thanks.

People working with the old know very well that having kids will not guarantee you actual help when you are old, which often is just dew to circumstance and not even malice.

There are some positives to having kids, most of them emotional but they are objectivly a very bad deal in all other aspects.

This is like the first 3 days after birth and we are also talking emotional connection that you don't have to the car.

What is even the point of your comment? Kids make life much more difficult is not a hot take at all.

Sure, you will not get it to zero though and there really is no reason to put people in more danger than necessary.

You would have to believe that people are willing to sacrifice to protect their communities but people aren't even willing to look at windmills to protect their communities from climate change. Which does not mean they don't want to keep their community as it is, they might just be to afraid and/or selfish to join themselves.

If people were guided by some intristic "goodness" we wouldn't have such a shit society in the first place.