Actually yes you would. For the average person in the privileged position, "trying to do less racism" or "trying to be less misogynistic" is the crux of actioning allyship, especially when people are imprinted and socialized from a young age to be/act racist and misogynistic without knowing or understanding it. Kids can't necessarily control that, but trying to undo it by being less racist and less misogynistic day by day is the necessary work of anti-racism and feminism.

The friction is precisely why I recommend start small. Better someone eat less meat and stick with it long term, than a full meat diet long term because they went completely meatless at once for a week or two and couldn't handle it

When it comes to misogyny or rasicsm you wouldn't tell someone to just try and do less of it.

Idk, these are very different things. If I think about how much I hate (some group) then I may be a racist based on that alone. If I don't consume animal products but I fantasize about eating a cheeseburger I would still be a vegan.

Nobody is going to literally say "just do less racism" but in practice we often only deal with small parts of someone's racism.

Well, frame it as "not one person doing it perfectly but thousands doing it imperfectly"

When it comes to misogyny or rasicsm you wouldn’t tell someone to just try and do less of it.

On a societal level that IS how we progress.. Sorry but don't let idealism block progress

comparing women and minorities to animals is what misogynists and racists do