Microblog post: Not even a vegan but they’re obviously right no need to try to argue with them it’s fine to just be wrong and live your life
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[–] 17 points 5 days ago (8 children)

This is the best advice you can give someone imo. Im like 75% vegan, still have eggs and bacon on the weekends, some chicken with dinner, some other stuff here and there. But mostly its beans/tofu and rice with veggies.

Some people think they have to give up everything all at once right now and of course that seems overwhelming.... because it is.

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  • [–] 10 points 4 days ago* (3 children)

    Perfectionism is often used as a shield to prevent change or to avoid challenging yourself or your own rigid thinking. When you see someone saying it’s all or nothing they’re actively sabotaging themselves, often that’s exactly what they want to be doing, plausible deniability

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  • [–] 3 points 4 days ago (2 children)

    I'm a cold turkey kind of guy. Slippery slopes are hard to navigate but clean cuts are easy.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 days ago* (3 children)

    honestly, giving everything up at once was pretty easy? soymilk took a few weeks to get used to, but outside that adjustment i just added more beans to stuff. Worth at least trying before compromising on slaughter.

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  • [–] 4 points 4 days ago (2 children)

    For you it was easy, which doesn't have any bearing whatsoever on how easy it will be for any other person. What's worth trying is anything which reduces the amount of suffering in the world, which is not 'compromise', it's a positive step. One burger a year is an improvement and even if that's all you can manage it's better than nothing.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 days ago (1 child)

    and for all the other people who will find it easy, it's important to still have a message dissenting the idea that it's always difficult. I'm saying that going all out and finding if you even need to compromise is better than assuming from the start that a compromise is your only viable option.

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