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[–] 90 points 1 week ago (6 children)

As a kid who grew up tall (and therefore given weird like very early). 100%. These days, I don't even care if it's an adult trick or treating, and they're not wearing a costume. Let people have fun. Let people be kids.

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  • [–] 33 points 1 week ago (5 children)

    Yeah, my last year I was 12 and around 5’9. I got some looks

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  • [–] 10 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    This was also my experience, except one person actually told me I was too old to be trick-or-treating. It didn't help that my grim reaper costume was actually scaring the smaller children.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago

    My first year to skip trick-or-treating, I hid in my mom's bushes. When people would walk up to take candy, I'd casually walk out with my hands in a nonchalant "surprise" pose, and I'd say "boo" in the most calm, monotone voice I could muster. People would jump or scream a little, see me approaching them fully deadpan, and scream before running away.

    I was asked to stop by some of the neighborhood parents who said it was significantly more terrifying and traumatizing than if I had performed a proper jump-scare.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 week ago

    My last year was in high school. We filled our buckets with candy that we purchased ourselves, and then ran around the neighborhood "restocking" all the houses after yelling "Trick-or-Treat!" We'd accept and immediately eat one piece of candy each from anyone who offered, and one of us would ask, "what do we say?" and we'd all shout "thaaank yoooooouuuuu!" with candy in our mouths.

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  • [–] 71 points 1 week ago (13 children)

    I don't care if you're four, fourteen, or forty; you can have all the damn candy you want.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 week ago (8 children)

    If you turn up at my house wearing anything approaching a costume and you say "trick or treat" you get trick or treat.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 week ago (7 children)

    You don’t have to have a costume on. I’ll give anyone candy on Halloween.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    I do think you should at least try. Draw some stitches on your face and say you're a zombie skateboarder I don't care.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Right? like I didn't buy an fuck ton of candy to gate keep this candy. Please take it, I don't care how old you are.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 week ago*

    Same. Didn’t get to have trick or treaters growing up - poor and lived far back from the street in a sketchy neighborhood. This is my first year with a chance and I’ll be damned if anyone comes up to my front steps and leaves empty handed.

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  • [–] 46 points 1 week ago (4 children)

    I never understood people who got bent out of shape about giving a 14 year old 9 cents worth of candy one day a year.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Are those 9 cents worth of candy in the room for us?

    No for real, hasn't candy, like anything else, become expensive?

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  • [–] 8 points 1 week ago

    Yes, I was using a form of language known as "hyperbole" where you deliberately exaggerate to make a point.

    However. A quick google shows me I can buy a box of 100 mini chocolate bars for $13 at Walmart, or roughly 13¢ per bar.

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  • [–] 35 points 1 week ago (6 children)

    One year, I think I was around 12, I told my family that I thought maybe I was too old to trick-or-treat so I would figure something else out. They were effusive about how wrong I was and unanimously told me absolutely not, I was still a kid and 100% I had to go trick-or-treating.

    The next year I assumed I was still young enough, since they were so insistent the last time, so I told them I planned on going again. They all gave me worried looks and said I was clearly too old.

    I don’t remember what age it was, but there is an exact age that people find acceptable, apparently. I’m tempted to go out now, many years later, just out of spite.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    Do it. You can grab a handful from my bowl.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Thats always been my question for the childless adults. We should be able to dress and walk around maybe an hour after dark to different houses and if there's q party stay for a drink

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  • [–] -1 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    If you can drive you're on the too old side. Even then if you show up towards the end you might end up with whatever is left in the candy bowl.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 week ago

    The only people who think you're too old to trick are treat are prudes and assholes.

    If you show up at my house in a costume, you're getting candy. My partner and I are in our 40s and Halloween is our favourite time of the year.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 week ago

    Plus there are lots of special needs teenagers out there who really don't want to explain their diagnosis while dressed up as Dracula in front of their friends ...

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  • [–] 21 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    I don't care who comes up. Kid, Teen, Adult, you get some fucking candy. You showed up, I'm out here, have a couple of pieces.

    Teens get the shit end of the stick, always. There's no lack of activities for kids and tweens. Teens are usually left out of community things.

    Build that bridge to the teens in the community; in a couple of years, you'll be dealing with them as beginner adults that'll start out better if you're that neighboor that gave them $0.30 of candy

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  • [–] 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    I have teens that don’t even dress up. I give em candy but I’m gonna complain that they’re not even trying.

    Sure I’m giving out candy to be part of the community but my reward is seeing people in costumes. Don’t break the contract or I’m gonna pick “trick.”

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago

    Yeah unless you're here with a younger sibling if you're not dressed up you're getting a quick scoop of the candy nobody else seems to be taking. Like enjoy your Swedish fish, why are you here if the magic is gone?

    Anyone who comes to my door gets candy but you don't get to both want to trick-or-treat and be too cool for trick-or-treating.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 week ago*

    One of my neighbors was giving out nips and scratch tickets for the grownups last Halloween.

    He just got his 2-month chip...don't think he'll be doing that again this year.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    You show up in a costume at a reasonable hour fair go. When three highschoolers show up at 2145 out of costume asking if I have some candy you can fuck off

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  • [–] 9 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Grownups get candy and a pamphlet on universal basic income.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 week ago

    It's me, I'm that kid.

    I may also be older than the people handing out candy.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 week ago

    Thank you. My kids are enormous beasts that look much older than they are.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Everyone in my neighborhood always has sooo much candy that they just want to give it away to anyone. The kids in my neighborhood go to the rich neighborhoods just a little farther south. Is 13 and 15 too old to trick or treat?

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  • [–] 7 points 1 week ago

    The day I am too old for free candy is the day I die.

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  • Two Halloweens ago, a family dressed as the Addams family came to my porch and everyone took candy, even the adults dressed as uncle fester and Morticia. I was inspired. So last year, my parents dresses up as Wednesday and Enid, and my 4'10" mom put on a wolf mask to cover her face and my dad walked around holding her hand and she came back to my house with a full bag of candy.

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  • Would that be college age? I see groups of teens every year. 2 years ago one kid asked if he could have one of the burgers I was cooking.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 child)

    I lived in SE Idaho and the people there were ruthless. Trick or treating was over by age 12, and people wouldn't give candy out to teenagers. Trick or treating ended by 7:00 and people didn't like you coming to their neighborhood.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago

    I loved watching the kids in our neighbourhood go from parents carrying them around all the way to teens wondering if they could still dress up and run around like the kids they still were in their hearts. My kids are tall and got a lot of flack once they reached adult height even though they were only 12.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 week ago

    Unless they are 'tricking' your house. Then they don't deserve candy.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago*

    plot twist: that "kid" was Old Man Jenkins all along!

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago

    Why would I ever deny candy to someone of any age as long as they’re in costume? They’re taking part in the holiday, aren’t they? Insane notion.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 week ago

    For a couple years this really fat kid would show up and steal all the candy from the bowl. He was wearing a towel as a cape one year lol

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  • [–] 2 points 1 week ago

    My kid is nineteen and trick or treating with someone raised Jehovah’s Witness who’s never gone before.

    This is the true meaning of Halloween: Corrupting souls and stealing them from Jesus.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (6 children)

    What about three ~14-16yr boys with no preceivable costume aside from masks all carrying bats who show up at 9pm?

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  • [–] 25 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    As long as they aren't being rude or destroying property, send them on their way with 40cents worth of candy. No harm done.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 week ago

    What about three ~14-16yr boys with no receivable costume aside from masks all carrying bus who show up at 9pm?

    So it’s not good enough that they got a mask??

    You’re now discerning whether the rest of the costume is good enough?

    That is so weird.

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  • [–] -4 points 1 week ago

    A kid who looks too old wrote this.

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  • [+] -18 points 1 week ago (10 children)

    Unfortunately made the experience that groups of boys take the "Trick" part as invitation for vandalism. So no candy for kids not accompanied by parents anymore.

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  • [–] -1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    God damn are people irrationally angry at this.

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  • [–] 17 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    I feel like people are rationally angry about it. It's proper Halloween Grinch level behaviour IMO.

    My 12 year old is so excited for Halloween. She has made her little brother his costume and is taking him around with her friends.

    Imagine declining kids who are excited enough to get dressed up but would rather go out without their parents a few sweets. Boooooo!

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