Honestly the thing I feel that kids have in their corner that is really great is a lack of experience.
The kind of awe that I felt when I started up Starcraft or Diablo for the first time just isn't there now, I have too many reference points from earlier games to get that "new and awesome"-feeling from most games anymore.
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Personally, gaming was a much bigger deal to me as a kid. I still play as an adult, but they just don't evoke the same feels as they did when I was young. Probably doesn't help that I am stressed, tired, and have a million obligations distracting me, but that's adulthood for you. A lot of the time, I find something like a hike or bike ride more rewarding than games these days.
The pros of gaming as an adult is that you now have the money to go buy all the games you wanted to play as a kid. The cons are that you no longer have the time.
I have to say that the lack of responsibility and abundance of time makes gaming as a kid better.
I think gaming as an adult is better honestly. But that’s thanks to all the experience and understanding built up from gaming as a kid. I would not have had the patience or understanding to play and complete some games as a kid that I was able to do now.
I think gaming as a kid was better simply because of the fact there was a bit of mystery to it.
you rarely knew about upcoming game releases unless it was a major title or was heavily advertised in like GamePro or EGM. most of the time you'd go to the store or a rental place and you'd discover a game right there on the shelf. Some of my favourite games I never knew existed until I rented them from Blockbuster. And many times recommendations game from previously said magazines or word of mouth via your friends. And if a game was cancelled prior to release chances are you wouldn't be bummed about it simply because you probably didn't know it existed in the first place.
We don't have that now. now everything is covered from head to toe everywhere or in early access or whatever. takes the fun out of it.
Also there was nothing better than picking up a game and reading the manual on the drive home.
As a kid I had time play games but no money to buy games. As an adult I have money to buy games but time to play games …
As an adult I finish more games. I have more patience and there's a lot of things that are better today than when I was a kid (level scaling/difficulty scaling is definitely one, and so is the art).
But I miss storytelling. I miss game mechanics that worked really well but we're based on the limitations of the hardware and software available at the time. I miss having to explore because there were no walkthroughs or guides or anything.
So I think perhaps gaming has gotten better, but my experience with gaming isn't as good now as it was when I was a kid because I have something to compare it to and it can't beat my nostalgia.
I mean when i was a kid i struggled to get double digit fps in ironforge, but now i struggle to get that same sense of wonder from ul'dah. But also i actually have more than three games so i pick adulthood
Ul’dah is still pretty cool, though.
I've recently finished ARR and only started to feel anything about Ul'dah after the 2.5 questline ending (Rauban is the coolest guy), but Coerthas and Dravania are certainly doing it for me. Gridania, Thanalan, and La Noscea just weren't as fun to explore as properly 'open' landscapes to me, and are honestly a bit too low fantasy
There is a lot of environmental storytelling in Thanalan that I really like. There is a staircase leading out of one of the exits from Ul’Dah called the “thousand steps of [name I can’t remember]”. The little zone name pops up and you kind of never think about it. It turns out that that place was where a previous royal was sentenced to walk up and down them until she died. Or the giant statues carved into the side of a cliff, etc. It’s always been one of my favorite areas.
It's a tough question to answer, since we can't go forward in time and game as a kid with the games we have now. And playing games now that we had when we were kids is different, since you already know all about them. I think I have to answer "as a kid," though.
As a kid, we had a sense of wonder about all the new things we were unlocking. But how much of that was just being a kid and how much was the still-evolving game industry finding new ways to be exciting? Playing games now feels insane to me, because I grew up being astonished by Galaga and Pac-Man. Comparing those to Elden Ring, which is graphically and difficulty-wise and story-wise light years ahead, just doesn't make sense. At the same time, I don't know that I could have gained much from playing Elden Ring as a kid. For one, I would have been destroyed by the first enemy and turned away crying... not that different as an adult if I'm honest. But I probably played as much Super Mario Bros as I did Elden Ring.
I'm lucky that I have time to game as an adult. Sure, it's only about 3 to 5 hours per week, but that's better than a lot of adults. Some weekends I'll get 10 or 15 hours to game. As a kid I could play for hours a day. I could have friends over most days after school to game with. They could spend the night on weekends to play late. I could borrow their games, and they could borrow mine, so I usually had a new game to try even if I didn't have my own money.
Way different experience. As a kid for me i loved the sense of discovery and getting lost in a world.
As an adult, I love games that make me think and plan.
Both great for different reasons
I loved games as a kid. They were my life. As an adult, I don't really care that much any more. I still get into some games and play a bit, but I don't have the sense of wonder, awe, amazement, and pure fun anymore.
This so much.
Gen 3 Pokémon games which I mainly played as a preteen were basically my second home, I knew almost everything there was to know about them.
Games I played later in life, including later Pokémon games, I mostly forgot the details after playing.
College Adult, growing up my parents only let me play games on the weekends and even then it was rare that I could play for longer then like 2 hours. Most my crazy long gaming sessions occurred when I was at a friend's house and it turned into an obsession because of how much I was limited.
You should add a third category, cause I had the best time playing games in college. So many late night gaming sessions with friends, and while I didn't have money to buy many games, there were ways to obtain them.
As an adult I have more money and pretty good at balancing gaming with everything else, but it's mostly solo gaming because friends I would play with in college are also busy all the time
When your a kid, you have time but no money.
When you’re an adult, you have money but no time.
I think most people will say that as adults they get to play less games, but I have very much the opposite experience. Not to say I'm playing games 24/7, but rather I wasn't allowed to play much as a kid. 15 minutes a day, and then when I was in high school I got 30 minutes on weekends. I can get that kind of gaming in if I just play on my phone on my transit lmao
Thanks to finding out about piracy rather early there was no longer the financial limitations either.
So yeah playing in childhood was much better. I could actually focus and go along with storylines and actually have time to practice and get better at games.
Nowadays, story based games are completely out, because once i eventually can play again i would need a recap of what happened last time and thats ignoring the fact that as soon as i put on earphones to even try to focus on a game, my wife instantly gets jealous and tries to do everything possible to get some attention.
Similarly for any team based or skill based games, there just isn't time to practice. So all multiplayer games are out as well, because it kinda sucks when in the evening i eventually can boot up my PC, start a game, launch a match and then get insta killed by past version of myself(basement dwelling 14 year old who practices every waking moment).
I mean rpgs are closer to virtual worlds now. I gotta give it to adult just based on games being better than I was a kid. still love that old sega shadowrun though.
Adult. I can afford it more easily and nostalgia means gaming systems cost less too due to lower spec requirements.
That's hard for me to answer. I have more fun now than I did as a kid, but the games are different.
When I was a kid, Simcity 2000 with 256 color VGA graphics was the cutting edge.
Now in this future space year of 2026, there are factory games, RPG's with full voice acting and character animations, games where you can work on cars or farm crops or check paperwork. There are point and click games that work like Monkey Island, only they're pornographic. Instead of monsters in Doom falling in a sprite of chunks, I can see them chainsawed apart or curb stomped. I can build rockets whether they work or not. I can be a robot driving a boat, powering up old infrastructure and scrapping junk to build machines, when I'm not dodging sharks with freakin' lasers on their heads.
Tl;Dr: Its hard for me to tell if I am having more fun gaming as an adult, or the games are just better now.
Personally, right now, as an adult I find myself playing games that are so much more enjoyable than the CoD type games I used to play a lot more growing up. Games I really think kid me would like. So, I'd say in that regard, definitely better. Also better in that I have soft modded consoles that allow me to play backups without needing the gane disc.
But I definitely feel my ability to play them for longer, extended periods of time is slowly slipping away. So not as good in that regard. Used to be able to spend hours in some games whereas now in similar games I'd not be able to do that today.
So, definitely mixed both ways.
Am adult, have a full time job, raised a kid, and never had a point in time where I couldn't game for without needing to make it a priority. Time spent watching shows and movies went down because I enjoyed games more, but if one has some down time they can choose to play games as an adult.
Gaming as a kid was fun because it was new, it is still fun as an adult because I can pick and choose what to play and when to play it.
TV is the biggest waste of time. I enjoy some shows, but I can acknowledge that a lot of it really is just something to fill time rather than "art." I've cut back my TV and YouTube consumption a lot, and it enables me to do a lot more non-passive hobbies. Worst case scenario I read or game, which I consider a much better use of my time.
raised a kid
I remember the Wii U being the greatest thing with a newborn because of the second screen. Holding a sleeping baby and playing Breath of the Wild was cool :D
For me personally the steam deck was a game changer, now I have a little pc I can carry around with me. I no longer needed to worry about those long ass quests or lack of save points because I can just put it to sleep and pick it up later when I have a moment.
It's still not as great as being able to sit down and just get lost in a game but it's better than not having time at all.
Yeah, because the priority is not becoming destitute, not being a deadbeat parent, etc.
Me being a shit parent? Fuck off. You know nothing about me and your response reeks of being an entitled asshat.
Do you even have kids or a career or do you just live in mommy's basement? Are you a nepo baby maybe? Clearly you don't understand what you're talking about and have never had to really struggle.
Anyone can be a parent. Being a good parent, however, takes sacrifice. There are only so many hours in the day. And sure, I could game once they're asleep but that means the laundry,dishes, lunches, etc. can't get done which is a direct impact on their lives and your own. Most young parents will have to deprioritize gaming for years to make everything work. Imo good parenting comes with selflessness. Once your kids are properly automated you can slowly regain leisure time.
Maybe you should collect your shitty, entitled, poorly informed take and just fuck all the way off? Again, you clearly have absolutely no clue what you're talking about. You're either a troll or an entitled moron.
Speaking of time management, this concludes our conversation. Goodbye.
"Prioritize" doesn't mean putting it above everything else.
How do you think most gamers have money for games?
Yeah, and you said..
If we prioritized gaming, we would not have any money for the games and hardware or the place to hook it up and use it.
Plenty of people find space in their schedules for gaming. And based on your more recent comment, you probably do have other hobbies or optional activities that you find more fulfilling than gaming...which is great!
Some people game with their families. Some people find time for gaming instead of consuming other media like TV, movies, books, or social media.
If you prioritize other hobbies beyond gaming, that's great if it makes you happy.
I've done full-time work and part-time college and still had time for leisure activities. My work weeks were about 60 hours, before getting into errands and such.
I'm not a parent myself, but my friends who are parents have hobbies and we have social interactions and meetups. Sometimes with their kids present, sometimes without.
I can't speak to your situation. Maybe you are incredibly busy. Either way everyone on Earth gets the same 24 hours per day. And while I was lucky enough to be born in North America, I wasn't born into any sort of extravagance.
Plenty of people have to plan and schedule leisure activity, including gaming. And there are plenty of options if you only have time for quick bursts here or there. Puzzle games and turn-based games are great for that.
It’s okay to prioritize family or whatever instead of gaming. But I know plenty of older gamers that don’t struggle or use “don’t have time” as an excuse to not play games.
I think it's just as good, just in different ways. As a kid you don't understand a lot (especially if English isn't your first language) and if you are old, like me, and didn't have the internet to help you. It wasn't so much about completing the games or being good at them, you just had fun and did whatever you felt like. Spent so many hours just fucking around and trying things.
As and adult it's still as much fun but more about experiencing the stories, fully completing the games etc. there's also so many more games to choose from and stuff like mods, emulation, remakes etc. I play a lot of indie games too.
Currently playing the Twilight Princess decomp (dusklight), my first time playing the game, and having a blast. I've also dabbled in game making, 3d modeling, pixel art, map making etc. and creating my own mods and stuff like texture packs. Also got several IRL friends who are indie game devs (Dennaton (hotline miami), YCJY (keep driving, sea salt, post void) and more) so it's something I talk a lot about and see part of in my daily life.
For me it's much better as an adult just because I don't have poorly informed adults scaremongering over the latest bullshit the news made up.
When I was a kid my mother would immediately jump on every single "the kids are bad" bandwagon there was. As a result I could really only play games at friends houses because were weren't allowed to have video games of any sort. I even bought my own xbox and tv so I could have it in my room when I was 14. The moment she found out she threw it away while I was at school. Never mind the fact that I had spent 500 dollars of my own money.
As a kid I had time to play what I wanted As an adult I can play what I want but have no time to do so
you also have the capability on purchasing it with your own money
Some of us got our sea legs at a very early age.
gaming is better as an adult if it's something you never did as a kid. not knowing how something works adds to the fun of playing a video game, and kids are blank slates when it comes to experience.
I'm in my early 40s, and I've found that I enjoy story-based games played on an easy difficulty more. Life is stressful enough nowadays, so I don't need the added stress of competitive gaming.
For me, it's a different kind of enjoyment. Now, I'd rather let my mind wander through a story-based game than frag anything that moves.
I have much less screen time now as an adult. But games have grown in every way and are now a legitimate art form. It's hard to say if I had more fun playing jet set willy on my 48k Sinclair spectrum, or playing cyberpunk on my steam deck. Both were great, in different ways.
When you've played it all, and you're short on free time, unique gameplay that matches your tastes is harder to find.
It's an odd and mixed experience for me: I definitely enjoy it more now because I'm definitely a lot more aware of the genres I enjoy and the genres I typically don't; however, the uncontrollable excitement of playing through Streets of Rage 2 for the first time is not as palpable as it used to be back then.
I'd say in terms of quantity (frequency) I am having more fun now. In terms of quality, fun felt fresher and deeper back then.
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