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[–] 28 points 6 months ago (1 child)
  • [–] 26 points 6 months ago (15 children)

    It's stuff like this that makes me both relieved and slightly ashamed that I'm in my 30s and still don't know quite what a duvet is.

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  • [–] 21 points 6 months ago (8 children)

    Okay, you know how we put pillows in pillowcases, so that when it's time to wash the bed linens you don't have to wash and more to the point dry the pillow stuffing?

    Take that same concept and apply it to your comforter or bedspread.

    A duvet is a thick blanket that's designed to come apart so you can wash or exchange the outer layer without having to wash the fluffy insulation. Another feature is that you can own multiple covers and one actual blanket, so if you want to change up your colors you can just swap out the cover. One-piece comforters don't fold up that compactly for storage, but empty duvet covers do.

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  • [–] 3 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    Thanks for the explanation! TBH it sounds like something that I would hate and find a bunch of extra work, but I can see why other people would like it and find it useful.

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  • [–] 2 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    If your not from a cold weather climate you probably also don't have a down douve that can only be dry-cleaned.

    Where I'm from we generally sleep with the window open to some degree all year round. So in the winter the bedroom gets pretty cold sometimes.

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  • [–] 3 points 6 months ago

    Honestly in canada I’ve never heard of them either lol. Typically my familly have always used 1-2 thin bedsheets, then what we call a “catalogne”, which I can’t seem to be able to translate. It’s basically a hand tressed bedsheet that’s impossible to wash without it breaking apart. Then some cover that’s usually pretty thin, just for the looks I suppose. If you’re cold, you just add layers. Once a season, you take that catalogne and the top sheet and soak them in water, then let them dry outside.

    Or you can do like my sister and not give a fuck about that. She just sleeps under 10+ loose blankets and a furnace of a dog.

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  • [–] 1 point 6 months ago (3 children)

    I have a king sized bed, and bought a new comforter for it in December. It's nice, with fleece side and a smoother side, and a kind of fiber fill. Only problem is that I recently realized it doesn't come close to fitting in my wash machine, so I'll have to take it to a laundromat. Do you think a duvet cover would work over something like that, even though it doesn't have any ties?

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  • [–] 3 points 6 months ago* (1 child)

    Long time duvet user here, switched from regular blankets.

    You can certainly try looking for a duvet cover that will fit, but you‘ll specifically have to measure your current covering and see if the cover you like will fit.

    Duvet covers don‘t mean you don‘t have to wash the thicker blanket. It just means you need to do so way less often. Our usual cycle is washing the cover and then the duvet has to be thrown in the dryer every 2x the cover gets washed or changed. This helps knock body dander or pet fur out, and of course kill the mites or bacteria that live on all of us, and this all helps keep odors away. About every 3rd or 4th change, the duvet gets washed too.

    So in other words, you should still wash the big fluffy comforter. But, if you can find a duvet cover for it, you can wash it less.

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago (5 children)

    I have my house set to a temperature i enjoy wearing mild clothing in, then I use a light blanket that matches that feeling of "lightly clothed" and i sleep fine. I dont understand these fancy bed concepts

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  • [–] 8 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    To me having a house always set to the same temp sounds like the fancy concept. Do you live somewhere very warm? In winter we only heat the house during the day and I've woken up in a 14°C bedroom. Thick duvets are a must.

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    I sleep best when I'm cold so I try to keep my house cold (summer months I just deal) and instead of a single warm cover on my bed I have multiple throw blankets. It's not aesthetically pleasing but then I can cover up with as many blankets as my body wants and I can also layer where I'm cold. Some nights I have 5 blankets over my upper body and head and my legs are completely uncovered and sometimes my feet are freezing and the rest of me is fine.

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  • [–] 38 points 6 months ago (4 children)

    I'm an uncultured slob that doesn't put my blankets in giant pillowcases. I am happy in my ignorance.

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  • [+] -9 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    Just so you know. This is unhygienic as fuck if you sleep in the regularly. It's basically how you get bed bugs.

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  • [–] 1 point 6 months ago

    They're called comforters and very common in many places. I rarely see duvets where I live. You just wash them periodically like anything else.

    Bed bugs need to be introduced to the home from a source somewhere and a duvet cover won't help if they are.

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  • [–] 72 points 6 months ago (19 children)

    Most (but not all) duvets and duvet covers have ties/loops to tie the corners (and sometimes the midpoints) off to keep this from happening.

    Honestly I never had this issue nor knew about the loops/ties until I graduated from a full/queen cover to a king size one and it became a real problem.

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  • [–] 78 points 6 months ago (4 children)

    I have been around for 3 and a half decades and I've never had a duvet that's done this in the UK

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  • [–] 23 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    For the first three decades of my life my duvet had the loops but the cover didn’t have the ties. I just thought the loops were something to grab on to while spelunking into the cover to insert the duvet 😂

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  • [–] 14 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    You don't have to go spelunking if you don't want to. Turn the cover inside out, lay the duvet on top, tie off the corners if you have ties, and turn it all back right side over.

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  • [–] 12 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Obviously a different thing, but your comment unlocked a several decades old memory about my mom tying the ends of my duvet to the bed frame, because I would kick it off the bed while asleep. Wow, that memory was pulled from some very dusty and almost forgotten part of my brain, lol.

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  • [–] 15 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    The ones I have from IKEA, no.

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  • [–] 6 points 6 months ago*

    I dont know about the previous commenter's fancy duvets/covers but the ikea ones have switched between snaps and loops and none at all between product lines. I have noticed though that the cotton covers tend to stick well to the polyester duvets such that they stay in place without

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago

    It still happens especially with fabric like viscose. My duvet has ties for in-between corners too, but my comforter doesn't, so I get what's being described here. I need to sew some in and stop being a lazy ass.

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  • [–] 3 points 6 months ago* (5 children)

    I've never understood those. Clearly yes, they're for tying the corners, but how? Wouldn't they just slip out? Do you have to just tie really really tightly?

    Anyway, my duvet is a King on a Queen bed, and I still don't have the issue, but I don't toss and turn too much.

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  • [–] 3 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    Duvet inserts usually have a loop on each of the corners for the ties on the cover to tie on.

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  • [–] 5 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    On a king I still find that it sags a lot in the middle of the edges even with the corners tied. So we got the magnetic fasteners (like on anti theft clothing tags) to pin the middle.

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  • [–] 1 point 6 months ago

    As another post said the corners have a loop for the tie. Even without those loops I’ve tied the cover around a section of the duvet corner without issue. My cover is linen, so maybe other materials don’t work as well? YMMV.

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  • [–] 12 points 6 months ago (4 children)

    Magnets. Not kidding. They sell strong magnets with a cloth covering so it doesn't have edges, and you just secure the ends with them.

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  • [–] 9 points 6 months ago

    I eventually just started using a top sheet + bottom sheet. Easier to wash, no spelunking into the duvet to find the corner ties, and can change out the top sheet if I ever want to change the feel of my bedroom! I was finding that I would put off washing the duvet just due to the effort of dealing with it 😵‍💫

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  • [–] 17 points 6 months ago (14 children)

    You're supposed to tie the corners in

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  • [–] 14 points 6 months ago (4 children)

    Not all duvets or covers have those ties. It can be annoying when they’re like that! The burrito or California Roll method works pretty well for keeping the corners in place, though.

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago* (2 children)

    You know, I always thought "Duvet Cover" was just a fancy word for that blanket that goes on top of normal blanket in hotel rooms and never gets washed. But after watching this video, I now realize it's something completely different that I'm too poor to comprehend.

    Never seen a blanket with strings hanging from it that can be turned inside out... What's it used for?

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  • [–] 2 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    A duvet is a thick bed covering, kind of like a thicker version of what is called a comforter in the US. They can be really comfortable, especially if you like your covers to weigh a little more, but it’s a hassle to wash and dry them. To reduce how often you have to wash the duvet, removable covers fit around the duvet. Conceptually it’s kind of the same reason we put pillow cases on pillows.

    Because of how large and floppy the duvet is, it’s kind of hard to get them all the way into the corners of the covers, and if you don’t have them in the corners well they can migrate around and bunch up on one side. To help combat that some duvets and covers have little straps in the corners you can tie together to keep everything in place.

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  • [–] 2 points 6 months ago

    Ah that would explain why I'm not familiar with them: I can't stand thick, heavy blankets! They make me sweat and feel smothered. A thin sheet and light blanket (or no blanket at all) is all I need. Plus having ADHD means that messing with a duvet cover sounds like a lot of stressful, unnecessary work.

    Thanks for the info! :D

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  • [–] [S] 5 points 6 months ago (5 children)
  • [–] 11 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    This gives a good idea what it typically looks like if your duvet and cover has it.

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  • [–] 5 points 6 months ago*

    And if they don't have this. Hand sew a shoelace to the inside of the cover, and just tie it to the corner of the duvet. Shoelace knot about an inch down the corner tight, and it won't go anywhere.

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago

    Both my duvet and cover have little loops. But one has loops that are just long enough to pull them through the other and tie a knot. Works well enough. I feel like some country that uses a lot of duvets should set a standard requirement for all duvets to have loops and all covers to have ties.

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  • [–] 7 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Sometimes (but not always) there are little straps in the corners of each to tie them into place. If you’re ever buying another it’s worth looking for that!

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  • [–] 8 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    I'm 41 and I still don't know what a duvet is or why it needs covered.

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  • [–] 2 points 6 months ago

    Since I'm not a native speaker, I had to Google... It's just a blanket. I put a cover around my blankets regardless of type personally - it's easier to wash the cover than the blanket.

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  • [–] 8 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    It's the bed cover that pops off the mattress every morning that shits me

    Fortunately, got a new bed cover and seems fine now. Best investment ever

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  • [–] 2 points 6 months ago (1 child)
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    So at one point I needed these for a king size fitted sheet that would not stay comfortable, I knew they existed but didn't know what they were called. What do I look up that gets me exactly what I wanted? Bed suspenders....

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  • [–] 8 points 6 months ago* (1 child)

    Duvets are a pain in the ass and both the duvet and cover need to be washed anyway. Why not just stick with comforters with sheets and save yourself the trouble?

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  • [–] 15 points 6 months ago

    At least with down, the duvet cover can be washed more often than the duvet. Plus you can change the color or design without wasting as much material buying a whole new duvet/comforter.

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  • [–] 7 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Flip it every few days. It works pretty good once you're over the initial shock of having the feet end near your face.

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  • [–] 6 points 6 months ago

    I think I could make a fortune going around teaching people how to do their bed, cause I never had huge existential problems like these. It's crazy.

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  • [–] 6 points 6 months ago

    I thought I was the only one.

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  • [–] 5 points 6 months ago*

    Why do duvets have covers when u have to wash both anyways?

    Maybe another question is how long can the duvet go between washes when you regularly wash the covers? Is it jeans or jackets?

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  • [–] 5 points 6 months ago

    It's the bane of my fucking existence!

    No but seriously though. Pisses me off so much!

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  • [–] 5 points 6 months ago

    Omfg yes. I am under this duvet so that I have a heavy warm blanket over me. Not some shit ass excuse for a fitted sheet.

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  • [–] 5 points 6 months ago

    Duvet makes no sense to me.

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago (3 children)

    ... There are ties to connect the corners so this doesn't happen on every duvet+cover I've owned. Just buy one like that.

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  • [–] 2 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    Right? And even on ones that don't, it's easy to sew on some strips of fabric at the corners

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    Safety pins exist. Do people not know to pin the corners?

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  • [–] 1 point 6 months ago (1 child)

    Ive done this but the pins get loose really quickly and become a hazard

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  • [–] 2 points 6 months ago

    I have special duvet pins. They're like the anti theft tag pins on the clothes at stores but smaller. The pins themselves have ridges along them that get caught by the counterpart. You have to press a tiny button in to release it, but that button is tucked underneath the head of the "receiving" side so it's not really possible to press it accidentally while tossing around in the bed.

    I bought a pair for dirt cheap. One of the best dollar store purchases of my life honestly.

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    It's why I abandoned the duvet lifestyle

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  • [–] 3 points 6 months ago
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    We tie and clip the corners

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  • [–] 3 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Yes I also get mad about thin floppy empty duvet

    ....because I also have sensory issues

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  • [–] 7 points 6 months ago*

    My favourite is when sheets are tucked in tight and straight and even and flat; with NO WRINKLES and NO EDGES and I slip into bed like a letter into an envelope. Especially if I just showered and the sheets are clean too

    Mail me to dreamland snnzzzzzzzzzz

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago

    That's what they make these things for:

    https://a.aliexpress.com/_msihCGB

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago (2 children)

    That’s why you tie them in at the corners…

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  • [–] 2 points 6 months ago

    I have a rather heavy duvet and linen sheets, so the whole duvet often slides down the bed as I'm kicking and thrashing in my sleep because RLS. Then I wake up with the top of the duvet at my waist so I have to grab the sheet with my toes to stop it bunching up as I pull the duvet up again. This happens 2 or 3 times a night and I wake up feeling like I fought a fucking bear.

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