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[–] 55 points 8 months ago

Mostly mind my own business, but expect to have to record and report a domestic abuse.

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  • [+] 48 points 8 months ago (3 children)
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  • [–] 78 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Nothing. Not even talk to them. Being cordially distant.

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  • [–] 34 points 8 months ago* (1 child)

    I lived a couple houses down from a cop.

    His whole family were dickish Karen types and got the annual block party shut down. Their house was regularly egged and TPd until they moved. I may or may not have been involved in some of those eggings.

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  • [–] 23 points 8 months ago

    Most people can't afford to just "move".

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  • [–] 17 points 8 months ago

    Just ignore them? I already ignore my neighbours that aren't pricks, ignoring a prick is no different

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  • [–] 14 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Get them really drunk than feed them drugs while you record it for a get out of jail free card.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

    If you can pull it off, that might legit be worth it, just in case. In a single party consent jurisdiction making the recording wouldn't even be illegal (IANAL).

    Of course, in a perfect world, the cop wouldn't take drugs, and if they did, would put justice over their personal worry you might hypothetically leak it. I'll let the readers hash out the probabilities.

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  • [–] 13 points 8 months ago*

    Cops can be fine, many of them want to do good. But law enforcement also attracts/breeds a certain type of thumbhead person that either loves or hates you.

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  • [–] 18 points 8 months ago (10 children)

    We had cops for neighbours at one place and one down the street in another. Both great people. Used to get together with them, kids played together, etc.

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  • [–] 14 points 8 months ago (9 children)

    Great people don't remain cops for long, so I really doubt it

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago (5 children)

    I still know one of them. Have been an acquaintance of another cop for 15 years. Still great people.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    Until they witness their coworkers do awful things and say nothing.

    And I can tell you with certainty that's what they do, because the ones that do try to do the right thing are fired at best, and literally murdered at worst.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (3 children)

    !! What country do you live in?

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    This must be US thing I presume?

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  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (11 children)

    My general rule for cops is to keep my head down. They have no particular reason to bother me, but they're also a certain kind of person. (Inevitably, because the job is awful and nobody else can handle it long-term)

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (10 children)

    What is awful about the job? I've never done it so I don't know. But it seems like they cannot be fired, even if they mess up so badly that someone dies. That doesn't sound so bad to me.

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (9 children)

    They deal confrontationally with the worst people available at their worst moments, and sometimes do it all day. Movies make us think it's all masterminds and shootouts, but actual calls are 99% drunks, bullies and wife-beaters.

    Like, think of the most toxic interaction you've ever had. Now consider doing it multiple times a week. You either become toxic yourself or you burn out.

    Edit: You know the Florida man meme? Florida just has laws that get more details published. It's like that everywhere, and probably less funny and more traumatic in person.

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago (8 children)

    Okay but when i'm in a toxic situation at work I can't shoot someone and get away without consequences lol.

    When police show up to a scene, ordinary citizens have no power over them whatsoever. The police have the upper hand, every single time. Whereas if I get into an argument with a co-worker, client, or shopper I could be fired.

    The reason workplaces are toxic are because employees are powerless. Police can literally murder people anytime they want and get away with it.

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  • [–] 0 points 8 months ago (7 children)

    Sure, and if you're the sort of person that needs everything to be sorted into neat black or white bins, maybe that's relevant.

    The fact that getting screamed at and spit on is unpleasant remains, though.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago (6 children)

    Police officers aren't regularly screamed at or spit on. Where are you getting your information from? Are you just making it up?

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago* (5 children)

    Yes, they are. You think whatever asshole doing a domestic is above it? They manufacture spit hoods because that's a regular issue.

    I literally witnessed an arrest like this myself within the past month or so.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    So your evidence is... a single witness event? And you think that means it happens with regularity? I'm sorry but something isn't adding up. : /

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (3 children)

    And the entire industry of manufacturing spit hoods, and furnishing prisons with things they won't stab each other with, and various other grim things. And common knowledge. And those shitty live cop shows that used to be on. And common sense that criminals aren't nice.

    It's also not the first such thing I've personally seen, and probably won't be the last. You see, I'm not rich like typical Lemmings, and (not to be a dick about it) honestly probably you.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    "And common knowledge".

    You haven't provided any real evidence that what you say is true so I'm going to chalk this up to adolescent infatuation.

    Last thought before I go. Maybe if cops weren't such horrible human beings they wouldn't be hated by people?

    Have a day. 🫱

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 child)

    Nah, people will hate over the dumbest, tiniest things. I'm a Jew, Germans are and were perfectly nice people. You probably hate me right now, and I haven't done anything. At the other end, terrible people have done wonderful things.

    I know you're going to forget this exchange ever happened, but if I could pick a takeaway, it actually wouldn't have anything to do with the police. (Hey, I don't like them either)

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  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago

    Cop lives somewhere down the street.

    I ignore him.

    But I also have talked to the neighbors on purpose like. Twice. In almost twenty years lol.

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  • [–] 8 points 8 months ago

    Not really pay attention to them at all. Can't be arsed to care, unless they start waving that gun.

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  • [–] 14 points 8 months ago

    My grandmother lived next to cop. You don't want to live next to a cop. They think they're the authority over EVERYTHING. He built his fence three feet into her yard. What an asshole, thinking he'd run over a 90 year old lady. We forced him to move it.

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago

    There was a cop in the neighbor right outside ours ( you have to drive through that neighborhood to get to ours), I thought having him there would curb some of the drug activity, I was wrong. It was obvious pretty early on he was dirty.

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Depends on the situation. But generally agree with the top comment.

    Recently a cop help me with something not so super legal. Was kinda hilarious as neither of us knew about the other until we casually talked about work and he showed his badge. He was really sweet, and just hated his job. Lost soul. Hope he finds a better way. But he's still a cop, so I ultimately wouldn't trust him.

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago (2 children)
  • [–] [S] 3 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Can I be an ACAB? 🥺👉👈

    (new Anime Idea: The time when I commented on Lemmy and was offered by the gods to be reincarnated as a cat)

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago

    In the name of the hiss, the scratch, and the holy meow, I hereby assign you a cat at birth, postnatally.

    Ooooooooom

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    🧙🐱🐈🧙

    An animated image of a cat eagerly giving two thumbs up.

    It's done. You're ACAB now.

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago

    My neighbor is a transit cop. Idk what his deal is but he hasn't spoken to me in six years so I figure we're cool.

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago

    I'd be more discreet about my moonshine operation, that's for sure.

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago

    I would go out of my way to avoid them

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago

    My neighbour growing up was a cop. He and his wife were Christian fundies who had like 8 kids.

    I literally never had a single bad interaction with them, and by all accounts he was an alright dad to those kids. I still see him when I visit my folks for the holidays, and when I do, I see his kids now all grown up with kids of their own visiting their parents

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago

    Depends on the people, if they are good people then let’s be friends, if not then just ignore them and be cordial. Like with any neighbour.

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago (6 children)

    Not american here, cops here are actually a trained job with multiple years of training before going out. 3 years pure training minimum and the slightes missbehaviour can get you fired and suspended from your job which will be marked down

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    I hope earnestly you don't mean German cops.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Lol no i dont. Augsburg City Club got raided by 500 police just so the state could show their power again

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago

    A bunch of social media accounts with their name and address may start attacking Scientology and right-wing crazies.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    I did have one down the street at one point. We each minded our own business and I considered it good for my family’s safety to have a police car always parked nearby

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    Something else

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    Closest I came was living like 2 houses away from an undercover cop who was helping deal with a drug lab house in the middle if our block. Never saw them much, nor was I opinionated on cops since I was in maybe 3rd grade when this was happening. So nothing too big. The drug house was taken care of and nobody else on the block were harmed, but kinda fucked since it was a block full of kids at the time.

    Nowadays, in that situation, I would do my best to avoid the cops and drug house as much as possible and not get onto either of their radars. Not 100% sure I would feel safe, despite the fact that the bus route I take always has me waiting by a cop building while having had zero incidents over the few years I've been taking the route.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Helped my cop neighbor move his gun safe into his house. We mostly keep to ourselves but I'd rather him on my side in a crisis.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    I had a cop two door down for years. I loved having that cop car sitting there every night.

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  • [–] -1 points 8 months ago

    Police Station 100m away. I'd encourage a few more to move in. They do serve and protect where I live.

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  • [–] 0 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Would that be worse than the crackhead who lived there before them?

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