
Original from xkcd

Original from xkcd
Made me angrier than it should have.
@CurlyWurlies4All Relevant essay from Ed Zitron. It's well-worth a read, for those who haven't already.wheresyoured.at/never-forgive-The picture I am trying to paint is one of terror and abuse. The average person’s experience of using a computer starts with aggressive interference delivered in a shoddy, sludge-like frame, and as the wider internet opens up to said user, already battered by a horrible user experience, they’re immediately thrown into heavily-algorithmic feeds each built to con them, feeding whatever holds their attention and chucking ads in as best they can. As they browse the web, websites like NBCnews.com feature stories from companies like “WorldTrending.com” with advertisements for bizarre toys written in the style of a blog, so intentional in their deceit that the page in question has a huge disclaimer at the bottom saying it’s an ad.
Using the computer in the modern age is so inherently hostile that it pushes us towards corporate authoritarians like Apple, Microsoft, Google and Meta — and now that every single website is so desperate for our email and to show us as many ads as possible, it’s either harmful or difficult for the average person to exist online.
I'm reading Cory Doctorow's latest book, Enshittification. As Ed Zitron said, never forgive them for what they did to the internet...
Listened to it on a long drive. I knew all of the big players were sketchy, but did not expect the degree to which they are. Google "brand-matching" searches (adding invisible brand names to search queries) to direct people to brands' sites and then charging those same brands for "more traffic" is just cartoon villain level shit.
Normally i don't read a wall of text in post images, but damn. Every sentence is true.
Yeah the wall of text is the medium for this art piece and it’s very effective.
It really matches the exhaustion of dealing with tech in 2025.
it's not "tech", it's capitalism. tech works fine. you can see this with linux and fediverse and such. it's companies making everything into a subscription service that sucks.
I wonder how much more they need to do before more people start using tools like uBlock and such. The internet is practically unusable without it, and I'm not using hyperbole--most websites have so much garbage on them that you literally can't read them without an ad blocker and/or reading mode.
Since Google removed support for ad blockers, I convinced my wife to switch to Firefox. She noticed a huge improvement immediately, especially on mobile.
I went as far as installing network level ad blocking on both my home network as well as devices.
Recently, I've had a few friends over whom are... not as technologically adept. They were incredibly surprised that after joining my guest WiFi, suddenly they were able to browse most websites almost completely unobstructed. No ads, no popups, no BS. Aside from the usual cookie agreements, of course.
If you can, help your friends, install ad blockers for them, make their internet experience better. Even DNS level adblocking is relatively easy to set up, and the only thing this hurts is the unscrupulous megacorporations that want to milk you for every single bit of personal information to sell.
The reason I haven't installed DNS level blocks is I'm always worried they will break random content and it'll be harder to debug. Have you experienced that?
A few, mostly for my mother who wanted those email ads where she got points or whatever for clicking on them.
On the pihole, I just disable it for 5 minutes (there's a button) and then see if it works. If it does. Then I look at the logs for what it blocks on a load. If not, it wasn't the DNA blocker.
Look at piHole to get started. It runs on a raspberry pi and acts as your dns server. It blocks so much garbage. You add and remove sites on whitelist and blacklist, use 3rd party block lists. If you think dns is causing an issue, switch to a public dns temporarily is easy. And its free.
I thought piHole blocked Cloudflare, but then I see you are using Cloudflare (lemmy.world). Did you configure it to not block Cloudflare?
It's not terribly difficult if you're the one who set up the pihole or equivalent. But I typically use adblockers on end devices because they're easier for other people to use (toggling a browser extension is accessible to most people, especially if I pin it to the menu bar).
Also be aware, DNS is pretty vital for using the Internet, if the thing hosting your DNS goes down, your Internet and any internal name based routing goes down too unless you know how to circumvent it.
Make sure the pihole doesn't get unplugged basically.
I've only had network level ad blocking break online retail sites. Not every one but especially the ones that load separate frames for the CC processor on the check out screen. Blocking trackers breaks clicking on ads in email and search results though which a surprising number of guests have complained about.
My friend hates it, because it breaks some sites and services. Everytime he's here he says "oh, right.. you got that blocker thing on the network", because he hit a snag once again.
I'm not sure what he does or how he uses the internet, but I don't even notice that it's there.
Pihole is your friend.
Pihole is great, except my wife can't turn it off if it breaks something (at least not without Extra work to set it up on my end). And when she leaves our wifi, she's stuck with ads again.
That's why I typically recommend end-device adblockers. Easier for most users to use and configure.
I get it. I had complaints from someone in my house too because they wanted the ads. I tried to explain that it was more than just ads but they didn't care. I whitelisted their devices and let it go. There are also some connected devices that need to phone home in order to operate. These get reluctantly whitelisted too.
I don't experience all of what OP is talking about because I use a VPN, ad block, sponsor block and use masked emails for almost all my signups.
Doesn't fix everything but certainly helps make living in today's digital exp system less horrific.
I think the point is that you have to do all of that in order to use the internet at all. And even then, it's still a lot worse than it was even 5 years ago.
It's this extreme enshittification that made me sail the high seas again
It's not that I want to
It's not that I don't want to pay
It's not that the seas are cheap
It's not that the seas are easy
It's hard, it's expensive (storage is cheap until you need to store boat loads of 20-40GB files, it takes huge amounts of time and has become a hobby because that's what it takes.
I would gladly pay a single provider 100/month for all my series, movies, music, etc and always have access to everything everywhere without ads but the providers literally fucked us over on each and every one of those items so I'm done.
Aarrrr mateys, all aboard!
No chance @ 100/month. At that money, I want my dick sucked as well. Netflix used to be just 5.99 a month. I let it run for months even when I wasnt watching it because, fuck it. Its only 5 bucks. Not its what, 20? Fuck that. And thats before you get to all the other shit.
I spent 300 on a 22gb HDD and havent looked back. Sonarr downloads whatever tv shows Im watching, and I play it through plex or infuse. Both of which I paid the 100 for the lifetime sub. Other than that, I pay for internet and power. I also pay 45 a year for an iptv sub. Im in the UK, so thats 45 for the year to watch football that would cost me 50 per month to watch legally, and I still wouldnt get to see every game.
All of these greedy cunts have created this world of the high seas. But in order to get people away from it, it would have to nowhere near 100 a month. Theres no way Im chipping in for some fat CEOs fucking boat, just to watch tv. They can charge a fair rate, or they can fuck off.
I spent 300 on a 22gb HDD and havent looked back.
I hope that was a typo. If not you got ripped off. And depending on what your sonars finds you're going to run out of storage fast.
I have some 100TB available right now and built a bit of a personal collection as a hobby, finding obscure.movies and shows nobody has heard of world wide, American, Canadian, Mexican, Danish, German, Japanese, etc.
It gets costly quickly, and takes huge swaths of time but it's awesome having such a broad cluster of media available, this is what a Netflix type provider should have.
The 100/month is just to say that money never was an issue, I just want to have access to any media that I want instead of the bullshit we have now where providers must fuck around with their users to get the maximum amount of revenue
Reject consumerism, embrace FOSS.
Many of the reasons OSS and OSH are so critical to a post-information world.
Our governments' failure to protect our rights from corporations is monumental. And when politicians are captured by money and not the people, we have no choice but to do things ourselves.
Hence dbzer0's mission and vision! Come join!
It's the wild west all over again until they establish law and order in the tech world. No standards, just everyone trying to make their millions (billions nowadays?). I can' help but think the end result of all this is an empty husk of a planet, floating dead through space because people wanted to collect money tokens of various values and denominations.
What the fuck is with that write an email to cancel your account by the way? Seriously what the fuck is that? I ran into that a few months ago and I was so fucking furious.
Blizzard won't let you delete your Battle.Net account without your photo ID.
I once joined a gym that required a paper written letter to cancel.
If they put enough hurdles in the way, you might not bother deleting your account so they can continue to sell your info, bill you for subscriptions (gym memberships for example), or just pad their user numbers making them look bigger/more popular than they are for investors.
Worst one I had was "call this weird phone number to cancel." What a pain in the ass that was. I ended upon hold for ages before having to tell them I wanted to cancel like 6 times.
The internet used to be anything we wanted it to be
It still can be
it's hard to overstate how fortunate we are that the fundamental infrastructure of the internet is decentralized and extensible, it means it's incredibly difficult for corporations to ever truly kill the free internet.
Yep, this right here.
For me and my brain's secret blend of eleven herbs and neurospices, I am most content when my world is small but I am intensely focused on the people/pets/things in it.
So in the physical world, I work a lot on my house and yard to make it my family's happy enriching little oasis. We're involved in the community, especially the local elementary school, which is close enough to walk my kid to. (my middle aged american mind cannot comprehend this walkability witchcraft /s... but seriously I have to drive to every other destination))
On the internet, while I do still exist in the eyes of Meta and Google -- it may NOT surprise you to learn that Facebook is the center of the internet for my corner of white conservative suburbia, including for local official organizations -- I choose to only open Lemmy when I want to just BS and read opinions online.
It was a better place when it was designed & run by wizards instead of corporations
I FUCKING HATE HAVING TO DELETE MY ACCOUNT BY SENDING EMAILS IN A LENGTHY AND UNNECESSARY SUPPORT TICKET EMAIL CHAIN
give me a button. give. me. a. delete. acount. button. I am asking this not of the corporations, but of the government. Right to be forgotten should mandate making it convenient. When I want to delete my account I click Delete Account and recieve a confirmation email. I click the link in the email. My account gets deleted right then and there.
Embrace free software and piracy. No account needed. No ads. No spam.
Google has mostly killed off the piracy option. Any Invidious instance that gets traction gets cut off by Google.
The FOSS option is newpipe, but if you use that over Tor (for privacy from Google), Google blocks connections.
Unlock Origin for browsers (mobile and desktop)
NextDNS or PiHole (for everything)
FOSS apps for ad free apps that do exactly what the ad-full and premium apps do but free
And minimize usage of software that sells your data wherever possible
Everyone needs to be doing these things. Corporations gaslight folks into thinking they need ads and your info to upkeep and improve their services, but it isn't true. They pocket the revenue while making their products shittier and shittier.
Don't support shitty buisinesses
We do not ask for this capitalist Internet. We were good at year 2.000 where most of the content were made by and for fans because they love what they were doing.
Sure thete was spyware and other viruses, but it wasn't mandatory for anything; it was shit idiots fell for. In the same category as, like, 3doorsdownkryptonite.exe
Nobody had to work around not having browser toolbars.
This being the worst example you thought of disproves your own argument.
Youtube is not full of ads.
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No ads on my side, either.
This comment was brought to you by the uBlock Origin gang.
Team Kodi checking in. Also on team ad blockers.
no ads on my side either.
edit: deleted the ~/.bin/yt script starting with #!/usr/bin/bash
When Google started its attack on Invidious, I was forced to try direct YT access. The ads were so frequent and intrusive that I had to walk. It’s intolerable.
It's all so tiring, honestly...
Steal what you can, live without the rest. Its shockingly easy to unplug from the majority of platforms.
Its shockingly easy to unplug from the majority of platforms.
FYI, you’re using the most abusive privacy abusing platform in silicon valley: Cloudflare. I suggest leaving lemmy.world.
Oh word? Perhaps I will switch then.
If you go to lemmyverse.net and click TAGS next to a funnel icon, you can then select to /hide/ Cloudflare tags (in which case it’s not hiding the tags but actually hiding nodes that have the CF tag). That is one way to find a Cloudflare-free Lemmy instance.
I personally fetched the dataset, imported it into a DB, then I had the freedom to specify all the criteria I want in my searches.
I'm sorry, but this is kinda epic.
I'm not sorry. This is art.
I think I encounter at least one of these phrases daily. The internet is so fucking gross.
Yeah, it's not looking great right now. For spotify on pc I use blockify, which makes the ads silent and about one second long. It does just kind of break whenever this one ad tries to play, but you just have to reload the site. For the visual ads on pc, I use ublock origin, which works well. On mobile, I use this app called newpipe instead of youtube. Patreons and memberships are so that the creators get more money. Some of them need the money, some of them obviously don't. Ai features and dogshit updates are everywhere, and I hate it. I don't personally have any workarounds for them. Shows and movies can just be pirated using one of the sites on yarrlist and an adblocker. Only being able to play games with wifi, yeah, that's pretty annoying. The account stuff sucks ass. Things are in fact, shit.
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