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[–] 128 points 1 year ago* (8 children)

Food $200

Data $150

Rent $800

Candles $3,600

Utility $150

someone who is good at the economy please help me budget this. my family is dying

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  • [–] 47 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    I was able to reduce my candle expenses by 10% by switching to unscented candles!

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  • [–] 61 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    This isn't a cybertruck or Tesla issue. This is a stupidity issue.

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  • [–] 35 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    But they're posting to Cybertruck Owners Only in order to hear from someone with good judgement.

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  • [–] 45 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    But there is only one cyber truck....

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Whatever..they lease Mercedes and Land Rovers they cannot afford. They even call it "leasing" when it is renting.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Okay I don't think that was absolutely anything to do with the fact that OP space stated that there were two cyber trucks and that was crazy when there's only one cyber truck listed in the article as as if OP had half reading comprehension and then just trailed off. You have absolutely zero reading comprehension apparently because we're not talking about leasing or renting or anything else as far as my comment goes unless you meant to respond to someone else.

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  • [–] 37 points 1 year ago

    Uh, looks like 1 cyber truck and 1 model Y. Still appropriate for debt ridiculousness.

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  • [–] 137 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (14 children)

    So $3300 a month just for having two tesla's? And other debts too? I wonder what debts, since you prioritize the tesla's over them.

    Did you skip economics class or did you miss education in general? That this is unsustainable must have been crystal clear long ago

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  • [–] 76 points 1 year ago* (11 children)

    Yeah this is less annoying Tesla and more real sad American economics. We aren't taught how to manage debt, and this poor fool has ruined at least the next decade because he wanted two new shiny things and the bank said sure.

    In 2008 the banks were to blame for sure for giving out bad debt and then gambling on it, but for me it showed how financially illiterate so many Americans are. The simple difference of seeing what the bank says you can borrow, vs what you should borrow are very very very different things.

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  • [–] 29 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    We aren’t taught how to manage debt,

    Do people need to explicitly be taught "You bring home $5,000 after taxes. You spend $2000 on rent, $1000 on fixed bills, $1000 on semi-fixed expenses, and $500 on fun. Do not buy a thing that raises your fixed expenses by $2000"?

    I guess so.

    I mean, I think a lot about a guy I worked with years ago. He said as soon as he turned 18 he got a credit card and maxed it out. No plans to pay it. Just enjoyed having a new TV, clothes, xbox, shoes. And then he got in a lot of trouble, which should have surprised no one. But at least he was getting his life together, ten years after the fact. Though we haven't talked in years. I worry he's a trumper, despite him being hispanic.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    American society tries to force debt on you and they try to hook you as soon as you can legally sign a contract. . When you get into college, you are inundated with offers from tons of CC companies with seemingly good terms but they're actually horrible. It'll say something like 12.9% interest rate, but in the fine print it tells you that it jump to 23.9% if you're late on a payment. One brain fart or patch of bad luck and you're fucked for as long as they can keep you under their foot.

    If you're fortunate, you had parents who taught you how to avoid the worst of them and to manage debt. But even so, it's not easy because there are so many traps. Worse still, you have to do it. If you don't get a credit card, you will have a very bad credit rating. That means when you go to buy a car or anything else that has to be financed you will get shit terms. It even makes it harder to get an apartment because the manager will check your credit before offering you a lease.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago

    If you’re fortunate, you had parents who taught you how to avoid the worst of them and to manage debt.

    My parents didn't especially go out of their way to teach me to be frugal, but I guess I learned from watching them. The idea of buying something I can't actually afford on a high interest credit card makes my skin crawl.

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  • In your over simplified example I still say yes they should. However we both know it's more complex than that. Loans, interest rates, interest types, payoff schedules, taxes, credit cards, other types of financing - to a huge chunk of people it is overwhelming. Most Americans go into buy a car or get financing and don't even ask about interest rates, most only want to know what the monthly payment is.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    Youre assuming people put in the effort to know where there money actually goes. A lot of americans have never made a budget. They get to the end of the month/pay period, see how much money they have left, and go spend it.

    And like someone else mentioned, its not always consistent. Different months have different needs and income can fluctuate. And they certainly never account for that

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Well, economics is a mandated class in my city (not sure about state), so yes, we did the basic "never spend more than what you have" and "calculate plan A vs plan B vs buying something outright" and showing how by-now-pay-later/credit is always worse than just spending what you own, but try to at least get something with low APR when you do have to get loans. Like I looked at whoever had the best APR rates when choosing a credit card for college students, although I always pay the full balance every statement.

    But like the other comment said, it's the fact that it's hard to teach an 18 year old not to be impulsive with their money, especially if said 18 year old's parents never really emphasized frugality to their kid. Some people are just crazy and learn only by being burnt, so while I feel negative spending any kind of money outside of bare necessities (gas, lunch), some people max their card out buying Gucci and a PS5 Pro.

    We're taught debt is a scary bad thing, but we also need to learn how to turn your life back around when you start going into debt, or when you're deep in. Gen Z is already experiencing far more debt than any previous generation, and we have no idea how to get out.

    A poll by Talker Research for Newsweek revealed that Gen Z—born 1997-2012—carries the highest average personal debt when compared to older counterparts. Gen Z carries the highest average personal debt, at $94,101—far above millennials ($59,181) and Gen X ($53,255)

    Economic reports, including recent findings from the New York Federal Reserve, confirm that Gen Z is falling behind on debt payments at increasing rates, with more than 90-day delinquencies at their highest level in three years.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    I don't get why they were approved for 72k when they still owed 44k on the other car. Unless they had a rich cosigner the financial company is partially to blame for seeing their outstanding debt and still trusting them with another 70k.

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  • Oh you can be approved for a ton of debt that you can't actually afford. Banks take the position that it's your debt and you can do what you want so long as you can make the payments. They don't care if you spend 90% of your income on your debt payments. (Remember they get money from the interest so the worse you are at repaying the better it is for them).

    When I got my mortgage they approved us for 2.5 times what we asked for it. It was asinine. We took a much more modest house and have been happy with that.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    They’ll approve way more than they should, but also they probably quoted high interest rates to make up for the risk. People need to see high interest rates as a red flag that the bank really doesn’t believe you but are just feeding you rope while you tie your own noose.

    Technically there’s a plus in that this is how people with marginal finances get any credit, have access to any car (and yes cars are unfortunately necessary in too many places). But I’m not sure we’re doing them any favors

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    Because it's probably an 8 year loan which has a six year overlap with the other 8 year loan. This shit makes lenders rich because the interest is all front loaded so 4 years in when the idiot defaults on the second loan they've already gotten like 80% of that amortization and can then just repo the vehicle and do it all over again.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago

    It never needed to be this complicated. The working class shouldn't be expected to trust some faraway stranger to invest their money, and then be called illiterate if they pick the wrong stranger or invest poorly themselves. It's always been to set us up for failure and blame.

    The only business that the average person knows more than average about is the one at which they work. But heaven forbid we start voting/betting on what would be best for our own workplaces.

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    [–] 32 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    He has TWO luxury cars and then he's "scraping by for too long"?

    Why did you finance two luxury cars when you need only a means of transportation?

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  • [+] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)
  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    dont worry, america as a whole will be getting a wakeup on that soon enough

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Psh. "As a whole" if there's any justice.

    Chances are it'll just disproportionately affect all of us who have to drag ourselves outta bed at 6AM to clock in at 8, and our crippled wages will afford less bread.

    And our commuter shitboxes will start to make funny noises and we'll hope it will roll another week, while they'll be more costly to insure and keep fueled.

    And these people crying about their inconvenient luxuries will definitely be heard the loudest.

    "Muh property tax on muh second house went up 0.5%! NOT FAIR!"

    "Charging my personal fleet of Rivians and Teslas has gotten more expensive! Everyone else must be a communist and the immigrants did this!"

    Or however that sort of brain works.

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  • [+] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child)
  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    If I can remind you of history, for a few years used teslas kept up prices with new. You couldn’t go wrong.

    What everyone forgot then and seem to have forgotten now, is its mostly supply and demand. It has almost nothing to do with the actual car

    • For a while there was ridiculous growth and the manufacturer couldn’t keep up with demand, so used car prices stayed high
    • now growth has slowed, there are other manufacturers and we’re in an adjustment period where supply is ahead of demand. Of course used prices are low.

    Basic supply and demand kiddos

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    [–] 29 points 1 year ago

    I checked KBB and indeed the Cybertruck sells for around $72k in the condition stated.

    You guys say he is a moron, but the rest of the Cybertruck buyers that would pay that kind of money for a used CT is just as dumb.

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  • [–] 26 points 1 year ago

    This is like that meme where its like, normal debt normal debt 8000 dollars a month on magic cards or whatever, help me my family is starving

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  • [–] 26 points 1 year ago* (20 children)

    Okay, I'm going to leave aside the fact that he's got two Teslas, which I hate with a passion.

    He literally said he's about even on the Kampfwagen.

    The model Y is, for all intents and purposes, all the car anyone really needs (if he NEEDED a truck, he'd have a real truck). He's upside down on it, sure, but there's nothing to do about that unless he can pay off extra. However, he can keep making the payments and just driving it. It should still have several years of battery and drivetrain warranty unless Tesla's is shorter than the industry standard 8 years.

    Sell the fucking Panzer and drive the Y until you've managed to pay off your stupid debt, numbnuts. I WISH my debt problem was that easy. My ex put me deeeeeep into 5 digits of debt with constant manipulation (it started off with her getting pregnant "on the pill" so she could start threatening me with never seeing the baby if I don't do the things she wants me to do) and I have NO assets to show for it. Nothing to sell. My car cost me under 2k. Now totals to around 3k with the registration, insurance, maintenance and repairs I've done. My only solace is that even after I get everything paid off, nobody's giving me a loan for another 5 years till the debt registry entries are cleared. I literally can't get into more debt anymore, other than the interest on old shit, which luckily is capped too.

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  • [–] 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

    Except that CyberTruck owners are not allowed to resell for a certain number of years, according to their contract.

    Edit: Apparently the contract was only for one year, and it has since been discontinued.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Wait, for real?

    That's super fucked, I could NOT in good conscience enter that agreement even if I wanted one.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    This is common with low volume sports cars. Ferrari will sell you a $350,000 car and tell you you can't wrap or paint it.

    Ford sued John Cena for trying to sell his GT.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    No the real problem is that most people who are stupid enough to buy a cybertruck already have and a bunch of them are trying to get rid of it. $72k lmao. If someone offered me one for free, I'd have to think about it still.

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  • [–] [S] 7 points 1 year ago (9 children)

    As someone whose ex rocketed them into debt because they're a vicious narcissist, I feel you and I'm sorry.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (8 children)

    I would have several tens of thousands more dollars if I hadn't dated my verbally abusive ex who I moved to a new state for, and then they cheated on me. Moving multiple times during that chaos was expensive. Fun stuff. Sorry y'all got screwed over too.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I'm down over 100k. To be fair a lot of that is from extra income I wouldn't have earned if I wasn't so fucked. But then I could've slept more than 3h a night if I didn't have to do that.

    I'm just starting my road to recovery, still in a constant battle. She's trying to weaponize our child against me and I'm documenting everything with CPS but in our country only courts can tell her to relinquish custody back to me. CPS has no such power, but they do show up in court to make sure the child's interests are protected.

    I hope you're recovering too.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child)

    Shit, that sounds awful. I'm glad we didn't have any kids involved. Sorry you're going through that.

    Incredibly painful and had me borderline suicidal at the time because I had ZERO friends or support in the city we'd moved to for her job, I'd only lived there a few months.

    Mostly doing a lot better these days, after a lot of therapy (I had other shit I was working on in therapy prior to the cheating, I was 6 months sober when she cheated on me. It almost broke me but I kept the streak, still not a drop of alcohol to this day), then I said fuck it and moved 1000 miles and restarted my life about a year ago.

    I definitely still have trust issues though. The idea of dating again still makes me anxious enough that I've only been on one date since moving here.

    Oh and somehow she's already married? So fuck me even more lol

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    Kids make it harder but the other one already has a custody judgement in favor of the father so now it's just mine to get back.

    In fact, as painful as it is, I think you might've had it worse. The upside of moving back to my family home to stop paying rent is that now I see some old high school friends nearly every day. I just hop over when I'm feeling lonely, they are used to having guests over nearly every day. Sometimes I just go for a cigarette and leave, sometimes I stay for 7 hours and play couch co-op games.

    I'm still on the fence about dating again. I drive a rusty old shitbox of a car and tell myself that it'll repel future gold diggers. I had a nearly new Mercedes when I met my ex and I'm honestly somewhat blaming that car for attracting her. She's proven time and time again that cars are the center of her universe.

    At this point if I meet someone new, I'm going to have financial criteria before I'm going on a second date. I.e if she has a stable job, her own place with no roommates, and it seems like she'd be able to pay for her own meals if I told her I wanted to split the check.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Isn't it amazing how they weaponize money and everything? It's honestly terrifying how meticulously manipulative they are.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Money, children (even before birth), everything.

    When she was pregnant, I had to talk her off suicide multiple times after minor fights. Some of those times it was followed up with "but will you buy me X like I wanted"?

    We owned over 50 strollers in less than 2 years. Many of them bought brand new, all sold with a loss. None were ever good enough. And then she fancied the same model she'd already bought and sold 5 times. Last time she got one of those in particular, I told her it would end our marriage. She laughed it off. We did not buy another stroller after that one and got divorced 2 months later or so. That one stroller was my final line in the sand, after hundreds of other reasons to break up. Sometimes you need a specific "if you do this after I've begged you not to, we're done" because it helps you realise how little respect they have for you.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    50 strollers is "you deeply need serious medical attention" territory. Sorry you had to go through that.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Yes, well, unfortunately medical attention is not given to those who don't seek it.

    She is seeing a psychologist about her depression so she can claim she's a healthy person now, but it's not like they're doing anything for the narcissism or the constant need to buy expensive things instead of food. She won't mention any of the things that show her in a bad light.

    So now it's up to me to prove in court that she is who I say she is.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Man I'm sorry to hear that happened to you. I hope that was a long time ago.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    It was over the last 2 years or so. It's gonna be a long road to recovery, but if nothing else, I'm going to fight through all this just because the best revenge is to live a good life and she will be absolutely infuriated to see another ex of hers recover from the abuse while she's still in debt and unable to survive without having a partner to leech off because she's unwilling to work and unwilling to cut back on her lifestyle. I'm not the first victim and I doubt I'll be the last, but it brings me some joy that her new boyfriend is literally the male version of her. An abusive liar, cheater and narcissist.

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  • [–] 23 points 1 year ago

    IDK, have you tried sports betting?

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  • [–] 22 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Why would anyone take two loans to buy two cars? Is this normal in America?

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Car loans are depressingly common. It's like normal people haven't heard of second hand vehicles.

    Two loans is pants on head territory though, even for the US.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Many new vehicles are financed, it's why most ads here (Canada) will give you the biweekly price. Annoyingly, when you do go to a dealer, they are usually able to give a better deal when you finance compared to if you buy outright. The nice thing is though legally we can't be penalized for paying it down early, so there's nothing to stop you from financing and then paying it off.

    Car payments are a pretty common thing, $1400 monthly in car payments not so much.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    they are usually able to give a better deal when you finance compared to if you buy outright.

    Which is why I have not, nor will ever buy a new car in my life. Regardles of any "deal", you piss away 20% of value just driving it around the block.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    I've purchased two cars new. Still own both of them.

    One is a Chevy Sonic that is a reliable little stick-shift hatchback that was inexpensive when I bought it, and have used for over a decade. The design had hardly changed between years and was known to be reliable. It probably didn't drop in value nearly as much as most other cars - I admittedly wouldn't know because I've had no interest in selling it.

    The other is a Toyota RAV4 plug-in hybrid, which essentially didn't exist used when I got it. They continue to be challenging to acquire. I wouldn't be surprised if I could sell it for more than I still owe on it, and I got it on a lease-to-own with zero interest (the dealership wants the opportunity to upsell me when the lease is over).

    It's possible to buy new and not get screwed over. It's not common, though.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    No, it's not. At least for less than multi-millionaires with 10+ figures of income a year. And most banks are smart enough to not lend people that kind of money for more than one showy vehicle like that. Banks understand the depreciation involved.

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    Buddy gives twice as much cash to their auto loans and insurance than the median household pays in taxes.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Selling the Cybertruck and keeping the Y would be the wise option.

    How is the Y the one he's upside down on?

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Nobody wants one because of the implication. Plus cost of ownership of a used Tesla is going to skyrocket as there really isn't an aftermarket supply chain for them and you're looking at a battery replacement at some point. It's like buying a used BMW or Mercedes, they are basically totalled after about 8 years because of the cost to maintain them.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    what are the implications? Does it have anything to do with the "i bought this before musk went crazy" stickers? Or something else?

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    While I agree with a lot of what you’re saying, fear of battery replacement on EVs is overblown.

    Tesla warranties their batteries to 80% health for 8? 10? Years or 120,000 miles, but there is a solid history of them lasting 15+ years or 250,000 miles, which is more than the typical life of a car (and limited by the cars only existing that long). More importantly EV batteries don’t usually outright fail, the EVs just gradually lose range.

    Most EVs, except OG Nissan Leafs with passive cooling), will never need to have their battery replaced

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I assume he's using a depreciation calculator, based in large part on milage. Y got a pretty good amount of miles on it for not being that old.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    Yeah, fair point.

    If he's doing that much driving, the Y isn't a terrible option, and he's already taken the big hit on depreciation. I think they're also reasonably reliable.

    Selling the Cybertruck while he still can is definitely the smartest option, and focus on paying off the Y.

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  • [–] 33 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Going into debt to buy not only one, but two teslas? I'll call it bad investment.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    1400 USD is about 8900 DKK.

    This person spends more money on his cars per month than my rent. And he's complaining about being stuck in a financial bind.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago* (5 children)

    hes paying 3300 USD, 1400 per car(x2) + 500 INS, so even worse

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    Absolutely insane. More than my mortgage. Really curious how much this person makes. Is it 50% of their net income? 70%? The sheer logicistics seem insane unless you're making a shitload of money (over 200k).

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    3300$ is about 2800€. After taxes, I earn 2600€ a month and live very comfortably on that (50k in savings/etfs, never taken a loan in my life).
    Really hope that guy doesn't do anything with numbers for work, I would not trust his math skills.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago

    Conmen have a name for people like him, it's called "a mark".

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago

    Level 7 susceptible in real life.

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