This should be overlapped with Pornhub’s viewing data per state for a good laugh.
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Interesting but not beautiful. No labels for the state names, even Americans don’t know the geography that well. The smaller states need numbers with lines. Maryland and D.C. overlap and Delaware has no number.

You should take it up with the original poster not the repost bot.
I'm ashamed that WA isn't higher. I don't know why we put up with the half of the state east of the mountains, they're just our cross to bear.
We all have our deplorable area. For California, it's the central valley and a lot of the northern part of the state.
As soon as I saw this, I thought that we need to see this broken down by sides of the state and see how evenly different regions were included, especially for Washington and Oregon.
For cultural stats like this Oregon and Washington should be split vertically instead of horizontally, would give a much more accurate indication of the region
Well aware. There are towns out there that gave me severe bad vibes. I was rolling through Chemult one time while camping. No place has ever given me such an urgent desire to quickly leave.
Why should we turn 100% of our farmland into Republican states?
If it wasn't for Spokane you could give the whole eastern half to Idaho. (Except don't, don't give them more electors!)
For the most liberal state in the Union, "Commiefornia" has an awful lot of conservatives and bigots
My university campus alone has had two hate crimes in the last year, one against a Muslim student and one against a gay student
I mean if you’re looking for the 25-30% they still think Trump is doing a good job and they approve, that’s it
California is so goddamn huge that it can't help but represent a wider range of demographics. I'd be interested to know how it compares against the overall national rate of acceptance.
Edit: If you average all of the numbers on the map together, the national average is 67%. Whether or not that's a responsible way to work with this data... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Californian here. My LGBTQ+ friends have all sorts of bigot stories. Bigots are like worms/maggots. You can find them anywhere.
Some of the big cities have mostly the progressives, but once out into the countryside or further away and into certain suburbs there are angry red areas.
I always thought it was interesting how the one thing MAGA hasn't been frothing at the mouth to reverse is gay marriage, it's really crazy how fast the opinion changed once it became legal nationwide and the sky didn't fall.
Oh, they’re frothing about it. It’s just that they know they’ll get shouted down about it. So they plan to go after trans people first.
Conservatives (fascists) always need a minority to persecute because their ideology is based on hate. Gay people ended up getting enough support across the board, after decades of effort, that conservatives (fascists) had to swap to targeting trans individuals instead to keep feeding the hate machine.
Wish I was exagerrating but that's literally what happened. Same thing happened with black people. They ended up getting enough support, after a Herculian effort, that conservatives swapped to targeting gay people.
Conservatives (fascists) are truly awful human beings.
I grew up with Christian nationalists, and I can assure you, MAGA always has their eye on gay marriage.
They just know they don’t have the power at the moment, as their voter base has significantly eroded and some of the more normie republicans in the federal government can see that the Trump regime isn’t quite as inevitable as they thought it was almost two years ago.
Marriage is at its core property law that promotes social stability and commitment to a status quo. If you're gay but willing to pay a mortgage, raise a kid, and keep number going up they're happy to have you for the moment. I don't see it as a prize to be won but as a culture war touchpoint that has served its purpose and an option for those with previously subversive lifestyles to give up/buy in.
It's not as appealing or accessible of an option as it once was, and I don't think they can afford to be as picky as they might like. If we get to a point where the Department of Family needs your home for a couple with more traditional values it'll be another story, but I imagine religion, race, and political affiliation (in roughly that order) will be greater risk factors than sexuality. As is, getting married at all is a clear enough signal of alignment to be left alone
Those are some pretty low numbers
What?! Wisconsin, the "Alabama of the north", has the same acceptance rate as Cali? I did not expect that.
I thought Cali would be higher given their reputation, but I'm also not that surprised.
There are a LOT of rednecks here out in the boonies. In the big cities the rate is higher, as with most places.
There's a lot of latinos in CA and they're pretty religious.
Source: Some of my best friends are latino and aren't religious but their families are super religious. Which makes things real difficult for my gay latino friend.
I’m visibly queer & live in the SF Bay Area, and while I feel relatively safe, I’ve also encountered far more homophobia/lesbophobia/transphobia than I would have expected
Don't care who they be fuckin, can they pound a beer and can they defend the honor of Cheesus is all that matters man
First, the term is "Wississippi". Second, I totally agree. I was shocked to see how well we did.
I think, like usual, Madison and Milwaukee carry the load here.
I gotta visit Vermont. Gayer than California and hella good cheese? Let's go!
Oh! Oh! Now corelate the data against average household income!

A map for you sir/madam/all else
Well gawrsh, looks like it pays to be cool with the gays!
Or that comfort makes you tolerant. This would explain Florida's position of being relatively gay for how poor it is: mostly beach, pretty chill. Less need for a scapegoat I guess ;)
Well, there's also a lot of pockets of low low income earners that throw off the average in a few states. Nevada has a ton of people that live in the middle of the desert on nothing but meth and fentanyl, but Vegas and Reno are obviously super tolerant. Florida would be the similar, I imagine.
But yeah, so comfort might be a real factor here.
I used slightly more recent median household income for a correlation of 71%
Now overlay the map of states where the most gay porn is consumed. All the anti gay states will be the top consumers.
Fuck Arkansas, other than Eureka Springs
My partner has family in Arkansas and I've seen more of it than I'd like, but Eureka Springs was delightful. Honestly never ran into anyone else who knows about it though!
This is like asking if gravity and other facts of reality exist. It's equally dumb to reject gravity as it is to reject the range of human sexuality, the Kinsey scale from 0 to 6. Lots of bisexual people who pretend they are straight and why they think Kinsey 6 people can choose to be "straight" too, but are wrong, and they don't have the courage to be honest. Lack of integrity but think they're tough and vote against equality for the ones who are courageous to be out and honest.
February 2025 is antiquated numbers. The amount of fascist radicalisation which has been happening this 1½ years since then has been considerable.
No surprise it follows religiosity:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_U.S._states_and_territories_by_religiosity

The penis is at 65, low but high in context.
I am from here and Florida, at least in the cities, is queer as fuck. I hung out in gay bars as a teenager, because they were safe spaces for all sorts. We used to have a very big gay film festival in St Pete, our mayor in Tampa is a lesbian. I have no idea who that 45% is.
This why Kansas is better than Arkansas
It is still like the 1980's around here in Arkansas. I'm not gay but when I was in my early twenties(Mid 90's) I really enjoyed going to the showings of the Rocky Horror Picture show in Little Rock. One night we had some no necks try to assault the crowd lined up at the screening. The four dipshits jump out expecting the crowd to run. We had three guys there They were cut like the guy in the movie and only wearing gold short shorts. Those assholes quickly found out the the horror in rocky horror would kick your ass. Roll forward to the late 2010's. Nearly the same thing occurred at some drag show in Little Rock that my daughter was attending. She didn't see it all but I read about it a few days later.
The point is though nothing has changed in Arkansas. Too many closeted guys or guys who got a boner from chick with a dick who get excited when people make choices they are too scared to make turn to violence to cloak their true sexuality.
"dost thou protest too much" is still a real thing and a real handy way to spot
I grew up in Connecticut which is largely an irrelevant state, but whenever I see maps like this Connecticut ends up being close to the top which makes me feel good.
I wonder how the results changed if the question was put a different way. Even I struggle to answer this a bit. I don't think society should "accept" my homosexuality. There's plenty things I don't "accept" either but I just stay out of it then. No need to like it - just don't be a jerk and let me live my life. I don't need your validation.
I mean good for you, but as a fellow homosexual, I demand acceptance.
Tolerance is a pathetically low bar. We deserve equality and respect.
Respect is not deserved but earned on a individual basis for demonstrating good character. It has nothing to do with your sexuality.
Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority”
and sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they mean “if you won’t treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person”
and they think they’re being fair but they aren’t, and it’s not okay.
https://kottke.org/18/05/the-respect-of-personhood-vs-the-respect-of-authority
just don’t be a jerk and let me live my life
That's literally acceptance...
Wouldn't the opposite of acceptance imply eradication?
Perhaps to some but one does not automatically follow from the other. There are additional steps to be taken in between to get from not-liking to wanting it destroyed.
In my experience most people don't have an issue with gays existing. The issue is with forcibly shoving that acceptance down their throats.
Congratulations ! You've been brainwashed.


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