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[–] 72 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This should be overlapped with Pornhub’s viewing data per state for a good laugh.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago

    I really find futa the most annoying genre of drawn / 3d porn and I'm so excited for being less than straight to gain acceptance across more male populations because I know that'll probably cut it in more than half.

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  • [–] 54 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    Interesting but not beautiful. No labels for the state names, even Americans don’t know the geography that well. The smaller states need numbers with lines. Maryland and D.C. overlap and Delaware has no number.

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  • [–] 27 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    You should take it up with the original poster not the repost bot.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 week ago (10 children)

    I'm ashamed that WA isn't higher. I don't know why we put up with the half of the state east of the mountains, they're just our cross to bear.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    As soon as I saw this, I thought that we need to see this broken down by sides of the state and see how evenly different regions were included, especially for Washington and Oregon.

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  • [+] 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)
  • [–] 5 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Well aware. There are towns out there that gave me severe bad vibes. I was rolling through Chemult one time while camping. No place has ever given me such an urgent desire to quickly leave.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 week ago (1 child)

    If it wasn't for Spokane you could give the whole eastern half to Idaho. (Except don't, don't give them more electors!)

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  • [–] 1 point 1 week ago

    No, it'd be great. Lump all those places into one state and let them see how they like having their individual voting power be diluted by the electoral college. Let all the places with cities who actually make the nation's money take a turn at the wheel.

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    [–] 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

    For the most liberal state in the Union, "Commiefornia" has an awful lot of conservatives and bigots

    My university campus alone has had two hate crimes in the last year, one against a Muslim student and one against a gay student

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  • [–] 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

    California is so goddamn huge that it can't help but represent a wider range of demographics. I'd be interested to know how it compares against the overall national rate of acceptance.

    Edit: If you average all of the numbers on the map together, the national average is 67%. Whether or not that's a responsible way to work with this data... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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  • [–] 16 points 1 week ago (6 children)

    I always thought it was interesting how the one thing MAGA hasn't been frothing at the mouth to reverse is gay marriage, it's really crazy how fast the opinion changed once it became legal nationwide and the sky didn't fall.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 week ago*

    Conservatives (fascists) always need a minority to persecute because their ideology is based on hate. Gay people ended up getting enough support across the board, after decades of effort, that conservatives (fascists) had to swap to targeting trans individuals instead to keep feeding the hate machine.

    Wish I was exagerrating but that's literally what happened. Same thing happened with black people. They ended up getting enough support, after a Herculian effort, that conservatives swapped to targeting gay people.

    Conservatives (fascists) are truly awful human beings.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago

    I grew up with Christian nationalists, and I can assure you, MAGA always has their eye on gay marriage.

    They just know they don’t have the power at the moment, as their voter base has significantly eroded and some of the more normie republicans in the federal government can see that the Trump regime isn’t quite as inevitable as they thought it was almost two years ago.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 week ago

    Marriage is at its core property law that promotes social stability and commitment to a status quo. If you're gay but willing to pay a mortgage, raise a kid, and keep number going up they're happy to have you for the moment. I don't see it as a prize to be won but as a culture war touchpoint that has served its purpose and an option for those with previously subversive lifestyles to give up/buy in.

    It's not as appealing or accessible of an option as it once was, and I don't think they can afford to be as picky as they might like. If we get to a point where the Department of Family needs your home for a couple with more traditional values it'll be another story, but I imagine religion, race, and political affiliation (in roughly that order) will be greater risk factors than sexuality. As is, getting married at all is a clear enough signal of alignment to be left alone

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  • [–] 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Those are some pretty low numbers

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  • [–] 11 points 1 week ago (8 children)

    What?! Wisconsin, the "Alabama of the north", has the same acceptance rate as Cali? I did not expect that.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    I thought Cali would be higher given their reputation, but I'm also not that surprised.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 week ago

    There's a lot of latinos in CA and they're pretty religious.

    Source: Some of my best friends are latino and aren't religious but their families are super religious. Which makes things real difficult for my gay latino friend.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 week ago

    I gotta visit Vermont. Gayer than California and hella good cheese? Let's go!

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  • [–] 14 points 1 week ago (5 children)

    Oh! Oh! Now corelate the data against average household income!

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  • [–] 20 points 1 week ago (4 children)

    A map for you sir/madam/all else

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  • [–] 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Well gawrsh, looks like it pays to be cool with the gays!

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  • [–] 5 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Or that comfort makes you tolerant. This would explain Florida's position of being relatively gay for how poor it is: mostly beach, pretty chill. Less need for a scapegoat I guess ;)

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago

    Well, there's also a lot of pockets of low low income earners that throw off the average in a few states. Nevada has a ton of people that live in the middle of the desert on nothing but meth and fentanyl, but Vegas and Reno are obviously super tolerant. Florida would be the similar, I imagine.

    But yeah, so comfort might be a real factor here.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 week ago

    Now overlay the map of states where the most gay porn is consumed. All the anti gay states will be the top consumers.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago

    Alaska. Nice.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago

    The man in white underwear and a blue hat lol

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Fuck Arkansas, other than Eureka Springs

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago

    This is like asking if gravity and other facts of reality exist. It's equally dumb to reject gravity as it is to reject the range of human sexuality, the Kinsey scale from 0 to 6. Lots of bisexual people who pretend they are straight and why they think Kinsey 6 people can choose to be "straight" too, but are wrong, and they don't have the courage to be honest. Lack of integrity but think they're tough and vote against equality for the ones who are courageous to be out and honest.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    February 2025 is antiquated numbers. The amount of fascist radicalisation which has been happening this 1½ years since then has been considerable.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)
  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    The penis is at 65, low but high in context.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago

    I am from here and Florida, at least in the cities, is queer as fuck. I hung out in gay bars as a teenager, because they were safe spaces for all sorts. We used to have a very big gay film festival in St Pete, our mayor in Tampa is a lesbian. I have no idea who that 45% is.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    This why Kansas is better than Arkansas

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  • [–] 22 points 1 week ago* (2 children)

    It is still like the 1980's around here in Arkansas. I'm not gay but when I was in my early twenties(Mid 90's) I really enjoyed going to the showings of the Rocky Horror Picture show in Little Rock. One night we had some no necks try to assault the crowd lined up at the screening. The four dipshits jump out expecting the crowd to run. We had three guys there They were cut like the guy in the movie and only wearing gold short shorts. Those assholes quickly found out the the horror in rocky horror would kick your ass. Roll forward to the late 2010's. Nearly the same thing occurred at some drag show in Little Rock that my daughter was attending. She didn't see it all but I read about it a few days later.

    The point is though nothing has changed in Arkansas. Too many closeted guys or guys who got a boner from chick with a dick who get excited when people make choices they are too scared to make turn to violence to cloak their true sexuality.

    "dost thou protest too much" is still a real thing and a real handy way to spot

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  • [–] 2 points 1 week ago

    I grew up in Connecticut which is largely an irrelevant state, but whenever I see maps like this Connecticut ends up being close to the top which makes me feel good.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago (11 children)

    I wonder how the results changed if the question was put a different way. Even I struggle to answer this a bit. I don't think society should "accept" my homosexuality. There's plenty things I don't "accept" either but I just stay out of it then. No need to like it - just don't be a jerk and let me live my life. I don't need your validation.

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  • [–] 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    I mean good for you, but as a fellow homosexual, I demand acceptance.

    Tolerance is a pathetically low bar. We deserve equality and respect.

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  • [+] -6 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Respect is not deserved but earned on a individual basis for demonstrating good character. It has nothing to do with your sexuality.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 week ago

    Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority”

    and sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they mean “if you won’t treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person”

    and they think they’re being fair but they aren’t, and it’s not okay.

    https://kottke.org/18/05/the-respect-of-personhood-vs-the-respect-of-authority

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Wouldn't the opposite of acceptance imply eradication?

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  • [–] -1 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Perhaps to some but one does not automatically follow from the other. There are additional steps to be taken in between to get from not-liking to wanting it destroyed.

    In my experience most people don't have an issue with gays existing. The issue is with forcibly shoving that acceptance down their throats.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    Congratulations ! You've been brainwashed.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 week ago

    I would've thought Oregon or California would be the highest

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