from the article:

It wasn’t always plain sailing for the families afterwards – kids don’t run away from happy homes – but maybe things had changed when they went back or they were older and able to cope better.

i don't know the specifics, but that sounds like what they're trying to say very gently. i wouldn't go so far as to say it ruined their lives, but in our experiences (two of my cousins and one niece ran away when they were teenagers) if their lives were ruined it was the shit that caused them to run away that did it.

i know, small sample size, but most people expect their lives to be ordinary. it makes it easy to fall into the logical trap that everyone has the same experiences

Thanks for the memories!

Fantastic game. I think it ran on Amiga 500 and other OS I can't remember. Now my night is ruined until I recall.

Valid point

Ah, I didn't know about that one because I could never get into Inquisition myself. Though it seems to have been well received enough as a game that perhaps I should try it.

Part of me wonders if Krem received less hate than some other Ts in media because the Internet hate machine mostly seems to have it out for MTF rather than FTM folks or because he genuinely had good writing rather than being shoehorned in

Baldurs Bate 3 is turn based strategy with great writing.

Depending on how old you like your old school, you might enjoy Spiderweb Software's games. They (mostly just a guy and his wife) have been cranking out RPGs since 1994. While all their games are superficially similar, there's an impressive amount of narrative and mechanical variety. If you're a D&D fan, especially the Forgotten Realms setting, you might enjoy the Avernum series. You're a prisoner, banished to the underground realm of Avernum , never to see the light of day again. However, you are not alone, as the ruthless Empire which sentenced you has long enjoyed sending its dissidents into the subterranean realm. In fact, there are several factions which vie for influence, and the player can throw their lot in with any or all of them. In some ways, it feels like an old school Underdark module for DnD.

Their other series are worth checking out too. In Avadon, you play a party of inquisitors (essentially) for a tyrannical, immortal overlord who exercises nigh totalitarian control over an alliance of 5 nations. Over the course of the game, your party uncovers a far-flung conspiracy against your boss for his abuses of power, and you are free to RP your characters' reaction to this in a number of ways. Even further afield of that, the Geneforge series is set in a science fantasy world which blends magic with bioengineering and genesplicing. As an apprentice of the Shapers Guild, you have the power to change (or even create whole-cloth) life forms to suit your purposes. Brings created in this way are programmed (for lack of a better word) to be completely obedient to their Shaper, despite otherwise being sentient, free beings. The ethics of this form a large part of the tension in the plot. Mechanically, though, it means that the game is like a weird Ultima/Pokemon hybrid, where your party consists of your mad scientist chimera creations, who will protect your squishy gene wizard until their dying breaths.

I first came across their work when I watched Jeff Vogel's GDC presentation several years ago. It's an hour long, but, if you have the time and interest, it's a very candid look at how the sausage is made in indie game development. In particular, I appreciate that he is very conscious that the games' visuals could at best be described as "quaint", but that just encouraged him to lean into the writing even harder to make up the difference, since that cost almost nothing.

hold on, im calling EA to buy your home server rn