Do you have advice for meeting people? My cousin is having to use a wheelchair now, and she says as soon as guys find out, they're gone.

You wanna live like common people do?

Confidence is attractive, and she had plenty of it

So what would happen if a hot guy got a neckbeard 🤔

Incel?

Has the "neckbeard" considered personal hygiene, and more clean shaven before thinking about expensive suit?

Partner: (in footie Grinch pajamas) We live in a cynical world, a cynical, cynical world, and we work in a business of tough competitors. I love you. You complete me. And if I just had...

Me: (interrupting) Shut up. Just shut up.....You had me at footie Grinch pajamas. You had me at footie Grinch pajamas.

I had an ex at one time who would get mad that I didn't check out other women.

Like, she would assume I was doing it, but then when she realized I wasn't it would turn into a fight about how I'm not and every guy does.

When I'm in a relationship I really don't have eyes for anyone else. The need to find someone just kinda turns off.

She would also get mad and start a fight whenever I said she looked good without makeup, because I was a liar.

After that relationship, self confidence became a huge checkbox I reviewed before entering any possible relationship.

She's gorgeous, university educated, funny, but I can't believe she'd wear those shoes to 2 consecutive social gatherings! No way I'm touching that pussy now.

Dude no shade. But also not all dudes are the same.

For example, I care what a girl wears. I don't care if she wears it many times, but I care if she dresses nicely and works on looking nice. Also I have multiple suits, different clothes for sports, work, camping etc.

It could be an “empowerment” issue.

Dresses and fancy preparation are empowering. They show that this person manages their life well and is successful. That of course all sounds positive. Only problem is, to someone struggling with that issue, it can be intimidating.

I struggle to find a good way to express this, but guys like myself since school have grappled with a perception that women “have more social power than them”. Even if the guy isn’t a total loser with a rented home that consists of a TV and a pillow, girls are viewed as a pedestal-standing respected social icon by comparison. That’s definitely not universally actually true, but under young hormones it seems that way.

Hence why pajamas, glasses, or to extend further: VTuber streamers that joke about failing basic life skills, or not showering that week, are often a successful endeavor. They show someone more humanized, disempowered and flawed. Question is whether a woman is okay with accepting a bit of that debasement to put someone at ease.

I have a nicer sort of clothes in my whole garderobe but only like one or two dress shirts or not too casual looking shirts and polo tshirts. That's it.

Yeah? Well I would rather not have a Jack off sandwich

Footie pajamas sound like a nightmare. I need my toes to be free.

I'd only go after that dork.

For a first date she willingly followed someone out of the country and into the wilderness‽ It sounds like it worked out well in the end but was she trying to end up as a missing person?

You two sound like a couple of fuckin maniacs, thanks for taking each other off the market for the rest of us!

Bro is still holding the marriage together like the tattered tent

That sounds so memorable. I'd rather have that than any "perfect" date.

My wife rarely ever puts on makeup. The cost savings alone is amazing enough that i love her for it lol

Oof, I don't think I'd like being told that. I don't even wear makeup now that the better Korean and mineral sunscreens are available but for decades used foundation to protect my skin and it worked. I'm with you on the eyelashes but makeup is not in any way ruinous to skin and to come out the gate with a declaration like that, I would have found it so off-putting.