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[–] 110 points 1 month ago (24 children)

I mentioned a meme I saw to a friend of mine and it turns out he doesn’t have social media at all. He just said “The mediocrity of it…” and we went back to talking about other stuff again.

He had a point.

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  • [–] 97 points 1 month ago (17 children)

    Lemmy is the only social media I have, it’s a peaceful life.

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  • [–] 33 points 1 month ago (14 children)

    YouTube is my other social media and it's getting stale quickly

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  • [–] 31 points 1 month ago (7 children)

    I turned YouTube history off and just watch videos through “my subscriptions”

    For me it’s a game changer

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  • [–] 11 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    I basically did the same thing but have a YouTube downloader that puts them on my Plex server. So I can watch a show then like a YouTube video and call it a night

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    I wanted to set that up to for a while. But I don't have a home server, just a seedbox and it's limited in what I can do. What software are you using?

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I'm using pinchflat on it. The trickiest part was just the naming scheme in pinchflat for the videos and the library configuration on plex so it shows them correctly.

    Also I got blocked by YouTube a few times because I would pause it for a while then start it up and it would download way too many so they would block me for like a month

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I degoogled, so I don't login.

    Youtube Unhook and SponsorBlock Extensions in Firefox

    "Hide YouTube related videos, comments, video suggestions wall, homepage recommendations, trending tab, and other distractions.

    A browser extension to eliminate distractions on YouTube, including the recommended sidebar, endscreen video suggestions, user comments, homepage related videos feed, trending tab, turn off autoplay or annotations, and more. Toggle the options through the popup to customize your own YouTube experience!"

    I go to youtube website and its just a blank page with a sidebar and a searchbar. My subscriptions are just bookmarked pages of people I follow, or I subscribe through Grayjay.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    I do something similar, not as many extensions and very incomplete bookmarks. Most of the time I just go through a list in my head, so sometimes I remember a channel I haven't checked in a while and then have enough videos to watch for a week.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    YouTube is still amazing, you just have to ignore the algorithm, which is easy enough through subscriptions

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    I was trying to find background music the other day while I did chores. Unless you know a specifc channel, there's a good chance your search takes you to Aimusic instead of music.


    I've been known for having strong opinions from time to time

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (1 child)

    Why ignore the algorithm? Some of my favorite creators I found through the algorithm (suggested videos, homepage, etc). I just ignore the ones you don't like, you'll see less and less of them.

    Example: A few weeks ago it tried to show me videos of Charlie Kirk, I marked them as boring and after 3 attempts it got the message and I haven't seen one since.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    You're right about this, but getting it right can take some work. YouTube makes recommendations based on your watch history and input, so you have to go in and remove videos from your history you don't want to influence what you see. But a big problem IMO is that the algorithm recommends things only based on what you've watched recently, and not based on your subscriptions

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  • [+] -18 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Your friend sounds like an snobbish ass. Just because something is offline doesn't mean it's not mediocre. There are many, many valid criticisms of social media. But when your friend mentions something they enjoy you don't seem very nice when you tell them that what they enjoy sucks. Don't yuck someone else's yum.

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  • [–] 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

    We’re friends, though. We’re honest with each other. I want to know his perspective even when we diverge.

    So if I love pizza and he hates it, I don’t want my friend to tell me with a coat-hanger smile that he likes pizza too. I want to know how much he hates it with all the adjectives he can muster.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

    This kind of inability to accept others’ point of view is why I don’t connect with people much anymore.

    When I was younger I had lots of friends who had differing opinions and we had the openness to say “that’s fucking stupid” with each other, explain why and still remain friends.

    These days you can slip up just once with a minor non-conforming opinion and people suddenly become unhinged. And I simply can’t take only talking about surface level topics to avoid conflict anymore.

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  • [–] 48 points 1 month ago (1 child)
  • [–] 35 points 1 month ago (8 children)

    I knew we were in trouble when Stumbleupon went down.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    We need to bring that back. How did they even make money?

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  • [–] 24 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    I think the lack of money making was why it went down

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    That would be an amazing open source project. Nowadays, it probably wouldn't even be that hard to make the entire thing.

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  • [–] 30 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I'm old enough to remember when the World Wide Web was so new it had to use the full URL to differentiate itself from established services like Telnet and Gopher.

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  • [–] 22 points 1 month ago (4 children)
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    Isn't this post ironic, dontcha think?

    It's like raaaaaiiiiin...

    I love the fediverse because it filters those screenshots down to the best ones. You all do great work!

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  • [–] 17 points 1 month ago*

    you missed an opportunity to screenshot this from Reddit and post it here

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  • [–] 15 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    shit, you got images on your first websites?

    lucky.

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    [–] 11 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Remember buying a "yellow pages style" book of what websites you could go to and half of them didn't work? lol

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Never had that, but I remember actually surfing the web of links between pages in the time before search engines.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    All word of mouth back then, you would have a friend of a friend tell you about a website they visited. Then as soon as you got home you would pray you remembered the address as text-messaging was not a thing yet.

    People were always asking, do you got any good websites when?

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    I remember when there really weren't images because those were too slow to load.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago

    Images loading pixel by pixel, line by line, took ages. I don't think I ever saw one full full-size photo for the first few years I was online.

    Porn sites were a experience. I would load the first 1/6th of the image and be done. The rest was up to the imagination.

    I was basically a crude LLM where I had to generate the rest of the image with minimal input.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago* (2 children)

    I remember when we started getting images

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (1 child)

    I find it ironic and satisfying that the image link for your post is broken, and that's how, like, 99% of the images actually work.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I remember watching the Netscape animation in excitement waiting for something cool to load in the browser window even if it was probably "under construction" 🚧

    Haven't felt anything like that sitting in front of a computer in a very long time.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago

    Yeah. It used to all just come from ebaums world and Ian's shoelace site.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I can remember my first dick pic. I, 15, met some guy in his 30s in some yahoo chat room. I remember waiting so patiently to see what he looked like. As that's what I thought the photo was.

    He told me he would buy me a plane ticket to see him.

    How sweet.

    Line by line. Waiting. Waiting. Another line.

    A blurry dark photo. Hard to tell what it was.

    Another line of pixels . Another.

    The anticipation..

    Another line.

    Oh. Hey. Ya, pretty sure that's a dick. Cancel that.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago

    A similar but also opposite experience in many ways: I vividly remember me and a friend (teenage boys, mid 90s) waiting for a picture of a naked lady on some website, slowly loading line by line. Took forever. Finally it failed when it got to her chest, just above the boobs we wanted to see 😢

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  • [–] 16 points 1 month ago

    There are now 6 websites.

    https://xkcd.com/927/

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago

    on the shitpost meter you score 20%

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago

    That tweet's eighth birthday is coming up soon, and we are all decrepit.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 month ago (12 children)

    Eh, ish. It used to be only four:

    Something Awful

    Ebaum's World

    YTMND

    4 Chan

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    Umm actually we also had Lemon party. But plebs like you probably haven't heard of it.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    I've heard of those, but never visited because I spent all of my bandwidth at zombocom

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    But what can you do at zombocom?

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 child)

    You can do anything at zombocom. Anything at all.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

    The infinite is possible. The unattainable is unknown. The only limit is yourself.

    Now I kind of want a shirt with all this bullshit on it. It maybe a mugWelcome to Zombocom
    This is Zombocom
    Welcome
    This is Zombocom
    Welcome to Zombocom

    You can do anything at Zombocom
    Anything at all
    The only limit is yourself
    Welcome to Zombocom
    Welcome to Zombocom

    This is Zombocom
    Welcome to Zombocom
    This is ZomboCom, Welcome
    Yes, this is Zombocom
    This is ZomboCom and welcome to you who has come to ZomboCom

    Anything is possible at Zombocom
    You can do Anything at Zombocom
    The infinite is possible at Zombocom
    The unattainable is unknown at Zombocom

    Welcome to Zombocom
    This is Zombocom
    Welcome to Zombocom
    Welcome
    This is ZomboCom

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  • There are Facebooks I remember
    All my life, though some have changed
    Some 4channer, not for better
    Some have E-baum and some remain
    All these places had their moments
    Geocities and friends, I still can recall
    Zombo dead and some are living
    In my life, I love Lemmy more

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    I mean they were some of the big ones, though digg, maybe newgrounds and even OG (no subreddits) Reddit was in the mix too

    But you're forgetting all the thousands of random phpBB/vBulletin/myBB/Invision/SMF forums run by passionate nerds with only around 20-30 other equally passionate nerds using them

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I was hanging out on small phpbb forums and occasionally IRC. I didn't use the internet in English back them though, which probably improved my experience quite a lot.

    Something awful and YTMND I've heard about but I have no idea what they were, 4chan is a shit stain, and Ebaum I've never heard of before this comment. So clearly they were not that monopolizing.

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    [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Come to NomadNet... there are no screenshots..... or actual images... just text and a little micron (think ascii) art

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