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[–] 25 points 2 months ago (1 child)

I read somewhere that we have hundreds - even thousands - of different things occupying our minds in any given day. But all your pets have is you.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 months ago

    I don't think my fish gives a flying fuck, as long as i feed them

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  • [–] 33 points 2 months ago (11 children)

    Don't have pets if you leave them alone all day. It's torture like solitary confinement.

    Pets often suffer from loneliness and from too little engagement and moving. If you kept humans under the conditions a lot of pets suffer from their whole life then human would go insane.

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  • [–] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    I am not sure you can generalize this to everything. Cats should be generally fine with that, or are there studies that say otherwise? I'd agree you shouldn't leave them for longer alone though.

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  • [–] 21 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Cats suffer from loneliness as well. That's why you should have more than one cat if you are not at home all day.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 months ago

    Was going to reply this as well. We aren't home all the time and the cats are playing with each other constantly. Getting two cats is a good way to also evade behavior that most cat owners dislike. Cats destroy things when they're bored

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  • [–] 11 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    TIL I must retire before I can have a dog again.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 months ago

    Kinda, yeah.
    The analogy I like best is that dogs are like eternal kindergartners, they are equivalent in mental capacity to a small child and never develop beyond that point.
    I think it is kind of pointless to have something (someone?) like that around if you are not there for them most of the time.
    Some workplaces allow you to have your dog with you but that is very rare.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago

    I know this is ideal but circumstances can change over a decade of owning a pet. I have regrets over an old family dog that we neglected due to financial strain (parents) and academic stress (kids). We loved that dog to death and we failed her. Our biggest mistake was believing that big dogs belong outside because that was the cultural norm, but the current family dog gets to come wherever we are. I guess the point is people aren't perfect and we make mistakes and hopefully we learn to be better.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago

    Sometimes I get home from work so tired I go straight into bed. There's a spot in the cat room where she can sit and see the top of my bed across the hall. So when I lay down and turn over, there she is staring at me from her room. I know she just wants me to come in her room and play. It works every time.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago*

    ... Wholesome, eh?... Hmmmmm...

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    She's just a baby

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    [–] 50 points 2 months ago (7 children)

    I remember reading somewhere that “we are the most exciting thing to happen in our pets’ lives”. It’s why I never get annoyed if my dog gets excited to see me.

    She’s pretty old now so no more jumping but every now and then lick or nip at my hands for a pat and it’s not because she’s being naughty, she’s just so excited to see me and wants some attention.

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  • [–] 28 points 2 months ago (5 children)

    I still get annoyed at my cat because he’s always excited to see me, even if i never left. So I get no time to myself.

    “You want to watch tv? Pick me up and pet me. No, I’m not jumping up onto the couch with you, you must fetch me. I will not stop screaming.”

    I love him but goddamn is he a lot sometimes.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    aww what a little derp. we don't deserve cats <3

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Now that the weather is cooling off, we’ve turned off the air conditioning and started opening windows, and it breaks his little brain that there are holes in his house. He is very upset about this.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 months ago

    my cat is the same. completely velcro. i can’t eat or get on my computer or use the bathroom without him trying to jump in my lap. i just think about how one day he won’t be here and ill miss him so much, even if he sometimes gets annoying now.

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  • [–] 30 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Every time I get up to pee in the middle of the night (decently often), my cat hears it, runs from sleep into the bathroom to wait while I pee, then sprints to a very specific rug to be pet as hard as possible on it. This occurs without fail, and it's the sweetest he ever is to anyone.

    I fucking love middle of the night rug pets. Fuck sleep.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago

    Omg I'm glad to hear it's not just my weirdo cat that runs to a very specific spot for very hard pets. She will literally run to the door to greet me and then run away as I approach to climb up to her petting spot. Cats be fuckin weird man.

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  • [–] 30 points 2 months ago
    [–] 16 points 2 months ago (8 children)

    I've never had a cat before, wouldn't they like to cuddle on the couch just as much?

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  • [–] 35 points 2 months ago (5 children)

    Depends on the cat, and its mood, ours likes a good mix of play and cuddle.

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  • [–] 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    also depends on their age. lots of play until they're two years old, then they get a bit cuddlier. but even our 14yo grumpy cat sometimes still likes to play.

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  • [–] 12 points 2 months ago

    Even if I'm only gone for 10 minutes, I make sure to play with my cats. I'm not a monster.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 months ago

    If I can't play due to pain, I will at least do playful belly rubs. They also are allowed to be with me at all times when I'm at home even in the restroom. Sometimes I don't even bring my phone, because they want belly rubs. I don't play as often as I should, but when you got a disability you do your best and they still love you.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 months ago

    I'd rather play with my cats than do anything else. I have to stop playing with them to get actual stuff done.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    My dog plays outside from daybreak to sunset. I assure you I am not the most exciting thing that he saw that day. But I'm sure someone will tell me I'm an animal abuser.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 months ago

    I work from home and don't have much of a social life. They're desperate for a break from me.

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  • [–] 13 points 2 months ago

    This just makes me miss my dog so much …

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago

    They’re usually in bed before we are.

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    [–] 24 points 2 months ago (20 children)

    Or you know, don't get pets if you then condemn them to a life of waiting for you to come back all day.

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  • [–] 41 points 2 months ago (9 children)

    I'd much rather have people save cats and at least provide them with food and shelter than let them die alone on the street. There are far too many strays that desperately need a home.

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  • [+] -7 points 2 months ago (8 children)

    I totally agree (especially with the impact of cats on the environment), and isn't incompatible with what I said. I'm saying that you shouldn't have pets if you make them wait for you all day. If you have, for example, more than one cat, they're not just waiting for you all day because they have company and are not just starved of social interactions.

    But most people just get one pet and basically leave them with no life around for 8-10 hours per day, which is just torture. And that's for the pets that are common enough (cats, dogs) to be treated less horribly than less popular animals, like hamsters, birds, fishes, etc.

    So sure, avoiding stray cats is good, but removing them from a hard life to put them in a brain-killing situation instead is not the solution.

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  • [–] 23 points 2 months ago* (7 children)

    But most people just get one pet and basically leave them with no life around for 8-10 hours per day, which is just torture.

    No man, that is not torture. Torture is leaving that stray kitty outside at the scorching summer heat and let it die from dehydration.

    A healthy adult cat sleeps 16 hours per day on average. Having a full-time office job is going to require you being outside 8-10 hours every day, but it is not as horrible as you describe.

    And yes, getting a second cat is ideal, especially if you are not home all day. But not everyone can afford that and there are still things you can do to keep your cat entertained when you are not around.

    Please, just stop with the gate keeping. This is exactly what puts people off from adopting. You don't have to be perfect before you are allowed to extend your hand and try to help an innocent little creature.

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  • [–] -4 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    Nah man, you're wrong. Just because worse lifestyles exist that doesn't mean a lone cat by itself all day isn't unhappy. If you can't afford two cats (or any mammal species, really) maybe you shouldn't have pets

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

    Yeah man, I am sure a stray cat who is at the bring of death due to dehydration is much happier outside, compared to one who is inside and has all their basic needs met.

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  • [–] 0 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    To be fair, there are no stray cats or dogs where I live, and if there were they defo wouldn't be dying of dehydration (it rains a lot here)I can't really relate. If you have feral cat colonies near your home and can only afford one cat then maybe just let the cats be feral

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago*

    If you have feral cat colonies near your home and can only afford one cat then maybe just let the cats be feral

    Yeah, no, if I do see a cat that is suffering and I also have the means to give it a better chance in life then I am doing it. Both my cats I took them off the street after noticing them they were sick and that have been abandoned by their mother. I am only capable of caring for two, I simply don't have the space for more. And I am certainly not going to judge anyone who decides to do the same and only are capable of doing it for one. Each cat is a unique innocent soul. You can't save every one, but even if you can just one then do it.

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  • [+] -9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    That's not what puts off people from adopting. What puts them off is that they want the perfect, convenient, good-looking, cheapest option.

    It's like saying that people don't adopt kids because they don't feel perfect enough; no, they don't do it because there's an easier, cheaper alternative, where they don't have to prove that they are good enough to take care of a kid beforehand. And that's why they just keep on popping kids in an overpopulated world.

    You don't have to be perfect, but not making a social animal spend most of the day alone is a basic requirement.

    On top of that, if you have the money to adopt and take care of a cat, but not the possibility of taking care of them properly, nothing prevents you from using this money to support a shelter or equivalent, which will in the end also take in stray cats.

    But people don't want that because they care about themselves first, and want to get something from it first. They want a pet, and then they'll think about their wellbeing later, if it's not too inconvenient. And that's the mentality that leads to stray cats, dogs, and whatnot.

    People don't have pets to help innocent creatures. They have pets to have a nice company that depends on them and will make them feel good after a long day of work, and they don't really care about anything else. As long as you don't change that, that's how you get people that get annoyed with their dogs and drop them on the side of the road, because they just don't get as much benefit from it as before.

    Tldr: as long as you treat animals carelessly, people will be careless about them.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    So, you would rather keep the shelters full, so they can't take in new animals to rescue, so those animals are then killed instead? Just because the animal you rescue may have to learn to deal with having alone time? Talk about being careless.

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  • [–] -1 points 2 months ago

    If the shelters have more money, they'll have more capacity as well.

    On top of that, nothing prevents people from adopting multiple pets or of taking care of them properly.

    People manage to pop kids endlessly and find ways to take care of them all day even if they have to go to work, they definitely can manage with pets too. They just don't give a shit.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Or get multiple pets so that they keep each other's company.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 months ago (6 children)

    Are you always a downer like this?

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  • [+] -7 points 2 months ago (5 children)

    With people who propagate shitty things, yeah. If you can put your morals aside for the sake of "not being a downer" then you don't have morals in the first place.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    You heard it here folks. Don't get a pet unless your unemployed. If you leave the house, then you're going to hell for lack of morals.

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  • [+] -9 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    I really like people trying to be smart here by showing they don't give a shit about their pets.

    If you can't have more than one pet, and cannot be most of the day with him, then yeah, don't get a pet. Just like you shouldn't have a kid if you spend 12+ hours per day away from them. That's basic, common sense.

    The fact that you don't care about animal well-being, not even of your own pets that are depending fully on you, isn't something that you should be sassy about.

    Maybe ask yourself why you felt the need to defend animal abuse, no?

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  • [–] 7 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Not anyone's fault your take is rigid and off-putting.

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  • Sending this to my owner :)

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    I wish my dog liked to play, but she's so aloof. She will just stare at you squeaking the stuffie, bouncing/throwing the ball, or playing with the myriad of other things that a dog should find interesting but this dog in particular simply doesn't.

    She loves to loaf around the house though.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    Or if you can't take care of pets properly just don't have them?

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    It's a good reminder. Sometimes I have busy days where I just want to grab some food and watch youtube before I have to run out again. My cat's been laying around for 8 hours, it's good to get her running around for both physical and mental health, even just for 5 minutes.

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  • [–] 0 points 2 months ago*

    Especially when considering that each day to you, is 1 week in dog years :(

    I realize this is a cat comm, so adjust accordingly lmao

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