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[–] 80 points 2 months ago (16 children)

Hoooold up just a minute. How much do these glasses cost? Like hundreds right? What kind of teen boy has that much money to burn? I sure as fuck didn't, and I worked. Their parents bought them, and these are kids, so it's 100% blame on the parents here.

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  • [–] 55 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Even if the kids bought them it is still the parent’s responsibility to keep their kid from being an obnoxious pervert.

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  • [–] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 child)

    That's what really sucks about this.

    There's no institutional backlash. (At least not yet. That could change.)

    We're depending on parents who park these little shits in front of screens and expect to be left alone while their kids are radicalized.

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  • [–] 16 points 2 months ago (7 children)

    I had thousands as a teenager from around 15 years old working part time evening and weekends at barely above minimum wage.

    When you have no expenses from living at home, you can save everything (and in my case blow it all on electronics lol)

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (6 children)
  • [–] 9 points 2 months ago (5 children)

    Parents with more money than sense

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  • [–] 0 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    It's not much different than a kid asking for a playstation or iphone for Christmas

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    It is because you dont use your playstation to harass girls at school

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  • [–] -1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    they can already use their phone for that

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  • [–] 9 points 2 months ago*

    When I was 16 and started working, I quickly had enough money saved from working minimum wage, part time, to buy myself a car. It's not impossible.

    Also, these may be kids/young adults, but they should all know right from wrong. Blame is absolutely on the students who use these too.

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  • [–] 58 points 2 months ago (10 children)

    I guarantee most of these schools protect the bullies and punish the victims. Like if a girl being harassed broke the glasses, she would get expelled. The world is the way it is because people enable and worship bullies across the board.

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  • [–] 38 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    This. My friend in HS went to guidance multiple times to complain about being bullied by another classmate. After the 2nd or 3rd time requesting thy switch his class, they decided to resolve the issue by forcing them to be partners for an assignment in class. He complained again, and was told to deal with it. One day my friend finally cracked and broke the bully's nose because he had enough and clearly the school was only willing to make this worse, so they called the police on my friend. It's pretty insane how some things get dealt with sometimes.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago

    I wish they called the police when I stood up for myself. It was sexual harassment/assault but I didn't know that at the time, I just knew I didn't like it so used violence. He stopped and ran off bleeding all over the place.

    Totally valid self defence from a legal perspective. But they only used the threat of calling the police and I was absolutely terrified so just shut down.

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  • [–] 23 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    Schools don't care about bullying or sexual harassment as long as it doesn't look bad on them. If it can be swept under the rug, they will ignore it.

    At least that is my experience from schools in the UK.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    For parents in America, we have an escalation path: school board, media, lawyer. Depending on the situation, the orders may change.

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  • [–] 20 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    In a different video, the same boy films another upset girl approaching him with a metal stool in her hands. An adult intervenes before anyone is hurt.

    Exactly, they always protect the bullies.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago*

    Humans suck at looking at things on a long timeline. "Sticks and stones". You don't usually see the effects of years of bullying until adulthood. Or at least not immediately. A TBI, that'll get you fucking sued. Emotional trauma? What's that?

    Fuck they still try to blame school shootings on videogames and now tiktok.

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  • [–] 42 points 2 months ago

    Teen Boys Terrorize Girls at High Schools and Middle Schools in Very Public and Easily Tracable Ways and Still No One is Stopping Them

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  • [–] 35 points 2 months ago

    From the opening part of the article, the problem is not just the glasses. The glasses are definitely an issue that needs to be sorted out society wide, but there is a problem with how these boys are raised. Badly raised boys have always been an issue but now they are being raised by manosphere incel influencers. The glasses just let them record their harassment to post for clout and to draw others into their bullying.

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  • [–] 113 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (18 children)

    In my eyes anyone wearing one of these is a pervert. I simply don't see who else could be the audience for a purposefully discreet camera built into a pair of glasses. Even Google's attempt at glasses were more overt that these. I'd say Meta is shameful, but that's not exactly a shocker to anyone at this point.

    Edit: Seen a few suggestions, but my counterpoint to all of them is - you don't need the camera to discreet fir any of these purposes. You'd only need it to be discreet if you didn't want people to realise you were filming, which just seems aimed towards perverts in my mind.

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  • [–] 62 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    I would have loved glasses that could detect advertising with a camera and block it out so I don't see it, but instead we got AI nudes and stalking.

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  • [–] 35 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    And probably even more ads sent directly to your eyeballs. If they're not there yet they're already on the roadmap.

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  • [–] 16 points 2 months ago* (2 children)

    What matters is who controls the tech, not just the capabilities.

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  • [–] 28 points 2 months ago

    I remember seeing a video of a blind woman using them, in combination with some earbuds, so she could get her surroundings described to her, as well as have objects she picked up described. But you're right, glasses with discreet cameras on them, aren't necessary for a situation like that - Something more overt would be fine for that use case.

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  • [–] 15 points 2 months ago* (1 child)

    I would love overt google glass style glasses that are obvious as a solution for a dashcam like system for when i am driving, or tracking where I left mg keys etc. But as you say, the discreet camera is for perverts.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 months ago

    It's probably the clearest if a built-in camera is not allowed for glasses and the camera is an external unit they have to clip on. Functional the same, but socially making it clear you're filming.

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  • [–] 12 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    So much potential. Face lookup of contacts so I get reminded of people's names. Lyrics to any detected song so I can sing along. Virtual post-it note reminders in 3D space. Alerts or navigation while walking. Virtual monitors put on any surface.
    But humans are too hung up on sex, so it's not going to happen.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    I don't understand how these are fundamentally different from the phone cameras that everyone points at everyone else already. holding a phone up isn't exactly conspicuous at this point.

    schools should probably ban them for the case above, but schools should probably ban phones as well. in the US at least there's so expectation of privacy anywhere public and smart glasses are a tiny fraction of the doorbell cameras, security cameras, etc that are everywhere

    it feels like we're approaching a circlejerk level of being against smart glasses in general, which do have a ton of interesting use cases that aren't recording related (but still require a camera for position tracking etc). the "pervert glasses" position is intentionally obtuse

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  • [–] -1 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    Phones and glasses can nudify girls and women in real time. Pervert glasses is not an exaggeration.

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  • [–] 29 points 2 months ago

    By there not being enough consequences for these boys, not only are you making more boys like this, but not doing those boys any favours either. No one mentally healthy is going to want to be with that kind of boy.

    Weak parents. Weak schools. Weak government. Failing everyone.

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  • [–] 28 points 2 months ago (1 child)
  • [–] 17 points 2 months ago

    "Hey everyone, this asshole is wearing smart glasses and recording us all. Question is: are they going to remove them right now, or are we?"

    https://techcrunch.com/2026/03/02/nearby-glasses-new-app-alerts-you-wearing-smart-glasses-surveillance-meta-snap-bluetooth/

    https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=ch.pocketpc.nearbyglasses

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  • [–] 18 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Here they're not even allowing students to carry mobile phones inside of schools. How is this even allowed?

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  • [–] 25 points 2 months ago (8 children)

    People are being disgusting, using technology that was designed to be stealthy on purpose by others for disgusting reasons (to normalize allowing ever greater data collection by tech companies - no surprise the privacy protections are trivially easy to defeat), and are posting videos online for a reason - that they get satisfaction from it.

    I guess I don’t care if this makes me sound old or callous, but we need to bully these people. Make the people who post and share these videos embarrassed. Tell them they look like stupid losers who can’t get dates or talk to people. Make them feel bad for not being kind and socially connecting with others. Give them no community or understanding until they stop breaking the social contract.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (6 children)

    the only 3 usecases for these are:

    Assholes

    Perverts

    Blind people - sucks for them, because the first two are going to ruin it before it benefits anyone with disabilities

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (5 children)

    Yeah recording ICE activities might be another valid one

    Though that could be done with another type of concealed camera I guess

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    so I've given that one some thought and came away with this: if ice / pd detains you, they're going to take your recording devices. I need my glasses to see enough to walk around.

    also, even more gross: they know what to look for, because until recently, ICE was using these devices. That's been banned, but probably only because they're making their own.

    https://www.yahoo.com/news/us/articles/ice-banned-meta-glasses-now-154840012.html

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago

    Oh look, they’d know and I’ll be honest, I saw someone else post that on here in another thread, liked their point and I’ve given it no thought other than looking like an observer, not recording. And, I’ll add, I’m not in the US so I don’t have local knowledge.

    I’d support their use case for it though.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (1 child)

    these might not have cell plans, but it wouldn't be hard to make one with esim support and a panic livestream button so they can't delete the recording.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    perhaps? actually sounds like a project aaaand a privacy nightmare, unfettering these devices from whatever protections for the public meta engages in....

    I'm all about surveilling ICE and law enforcement but... I don't see these devices as an alternative at the end of the day.

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  • [–] 25 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    Can someone explain why this isn't actually a solution to an old problem? We used to have issues with various forms of harassment that were not addressed because they relied on unreliable testimony. Now we actually have people creating hard evidence of their actions.

    The behaviors described in this article are banned in every school I or my children have ever attended. How difficult would it be for the parents of any of these victims to hire a lawyer to absolutely wipe the floor with these people? Don't these videos basically put the perpetrators heads on silver platters?

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  • [–] 11 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Crime usually comes before punishment. Right now the system is working it's way into figuring out how to deal with this new social dynamic. Like you, I think it's pretty straightforward. We won't solve the core reason for the bullying dynamics though. I think humans that adhere to gendered thinking will be behind on that for a good long while yet.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago

    It would be pretty messed up if the punishment came before the crime.

    My point, in this case is that the crime has been ongoing. Bullying and harassment aren't new. What's new is that we now have a lot of it recorded. This gives us an unprecedented ability to prosecute a class of crimes that people have been committing with impunity.

    The biggest downside is that it would likely be short-lived. If there were a bunch of headlines about people getting giant civil judgements, bullies would probably learn to be more careful about generating evidence of their crimes.

    That would likely initially focus on attempting to hide the videos from the general public but I suspect they would eventually learn that doesn't work; courts can compel discovery. They would probably also try to modify their on-screen behavior so it doesn't technically qualify as a crime but I expect they would mostly fail at that.

    That said there would likely always be some cohort of dumb criminals who continue to record their misdeeds. We still see cases where people discuss their crimes over unencrypted email and we still see cases of criminals taking selfies with their crimes

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    You assume that action will actually be taken on the perpetrators here.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago

    Sort of.

    I am making an assumption that there are some people who are likely highly motivated to take action. Parents often care about bullying of their own children, even when the rest of the school doesn't. We wouldn't need all parents to care, just a few of them.
    I'm not assuming that lawyers are generally willing to work for free but I do assume that they like money and are willing to take cases on contingency, if they think the case is strong enough.
    I'm also going on my understanding that video evidence tends to be fairly strong and that this translates into a higher probability of a favorable judgement with less work on the lawyer's part.

    So it's less that I'm making an assumption than that I'm asking where the gap in the above reasoning chain lies.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 months ago

    Sit them in a dunce corner full of mirrors until the battery runs out.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

    If I saw them I would call the police. Especially if there are kids around. No 4th amendment here and no local police departments that can easily be bought off. The police might not find something incriminating every time.

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  • [–] 14 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    It's ok, their parents will take care of the situation.

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  • [–] 13 points 2 months ago (9 children)

    Why is the minimum age not 18?

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  • [+] -10 points 2 months ago (6 children)

    in what world is age restricting a relatively normal camera a reasonable decision?

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  • [–] 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 child)

    How the fuck is this a "relatively normal" camera, or ANY kind of "normal"? People like you are the reason these companies get away with shit like this.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    When it breaks laws. My area has two-party consent laws, so recording someone, whether audio or video, without their explicit consent is against the law. Children are often not held to the fullest extent of the law, and if they cannot be held responsible, then they shouldn't have access to such devices until they can be.

    I'm not naive to think that these devices will just go away or that the genie can go back into the bottle. But that is where regulation must act to protect people's privacy rights.

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  • [–] 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Yeah no shit letting people go around with concealed recording equipment is resulting in problems. Especially in a fucking school!

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  • [–] 9 points 2 months ago* (1 child)

    So the same bullying that always happens is now visible and that's the core problem people see. The glasses, not the bullies wearing them or the bullying recorded. Watch teachers and schools fight the recording, that make evidence fall right into their laps, so they can go back to ignoring bullying in their schools and then act shocked when serious fights, or worse happen.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

    just grab a pair of cheap Clark Kents. girls will avoid you.

    use a james bond pen if you only want pictures.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Maybe we can get our hands on some of those Volvo lidar modules to combat all these cameras around us? "Your assumed right to record me doesn't overrule my right to make high resolution 3D scans of everywhere I go."

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  • [–] 43 points 2 months ago (5 children)

    Stop blaming the kids, it’s the corporation’s fault. Title should be Meta glasses are recording and enabling harassment of underaged school children

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  • [–] 11 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    these boys need their mother's to whoop their asses and their dads to whip them into shape.

    "oh boys will be boys"

    no. boys will be whatever you let them be, and if you let them be perverted pieces of shit they grow up to be perverted pieces of shit.

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  • [–] -2 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    And if you physically abuse them, theyll become physically abusive.

    Grow up.

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  • [–] -3 points 2 months ago

    more ways than one for an ass whoopin.

    ever bailed hay in 100° heat?

    ever cleaned a septic tank out?

    ever sorted recyclables at the garbage dump?

    I would gladly take an ass beating over any of those.

    grow up, there's punishments worse than getting beat.

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