All of them. My several kids are teenagers, my job is over an hour commute (and I can't find anything closer) and my spouse is working full time and taking night classes. I am pooped.

I used to homebrew beer, bake bread, 3d print, and far more.

I haven't played airsoft in a couple of years. Mostly because I don't have the time anymore. I used to play about once a month, but then I had to move to a different town, so now my preferred field is ~80 miles away.

If I'm using half a tank of gas just to go there and back, I want to make it an all-day thing. But I also travel for work nowadays, I'm only home most weekends. Taking my guns and gear on the road with me isn't really an option; space on my work truck is at a premium, and it wouldn't look good for me, if a DOT or customs agent were to stumble across an M60 machine gun during a level 1 truck inspection. I also have yet to find any airsoft fields that allow 18-wheeler parking. My truck couldn't physically fit on the driveway to my preferred field.

Spending a day playing airsoft means I've only got one other day, if that, to do my chores and run my errands for that week, to say nothing of how physically demanding the game is. If I push myself too hard while playing (something else that happens when I've only got a couple days at home per month), I end up needing the following day just to recover.

I'd pick it up again if I ever get a regular 9-5 job though, or at least something that gets me home every night.

movies, performances, restaurants, basically anything involves going out and spending money

they all go way too expensive to justify anymore. everything is like $100 minimum to leave the house. even a coffee and a pastry is now 10-15 dollars and all the cafes near me have like 15m seating time limits they enforce.

i miss being able to spend an afternoon someplace for like 20 bucks. so now i'm either in the woods, which is still free, or at home cooking and watching TV

Admittedly, D&D (and other TTRPGs)

I used to do a lot of DMing but its a lot of work to keep the campaign up, dealing with players who just don't show, and a million other frustrations.

I reached a point where I finally stopped and said "Am I even having fun playing this?" The answer ended up being generally, no.

Tabletop RPGs. I'm sick of DND. Hard to find good groups for other games. There's a meetup I go to every once in a while but I want a regular group building a big story together

Me with ADHD: Where should i start? Alphabeticly, Chronologicly, Amount i spend on it? deep breath

Animation Drawing Painting Gaming Steampunk propbuilding Making a study of why union numbers are down in germany and is there a link to american culture influence Classic theater acting and playing instrument (i just dont find anywhere and for the last 4-5 years didnt have time due to job so i dropped it but to get back into it i have to train my entire lip tension back up, also i noticed last year as i unpacked my insttumend for one hour to see if i still go it, i apperently positioned the mouth piece wrong all those many 14+ years! Nobody ever corrected me!!) Sound design (but i might pick that back up due to creating video games and mods) Cosplaying Singing Story writing

Gaming

It's not even because of a bad thing there, it's just that my now wife and I spend so much time together that we don't really have time for much else

I may take long breaks, but I've never fully given up on a hobby.

None.

I mean, nearing my 60s, I've already trimmed down a lot of my hobbies. For example, since my childhood I have been on and off into plastic models (small plastic planes and vehicles to glue and to paint) but I let go of that hobby completely maybe 4 years ago. It still liked it, I just had to decide where I really wanted to spend that time, and I had other things to do.

What won't go away, for as long as I'm able to at least, is reading/writing, sketching and painting (watercolor), long walks, listening (playing too, but barely) to music, and making stuff with my hands.

I don’t foresee myself coming back to the comic universe any day soon.

I don't know your age but don't be surprised if that does not go as planned. I will stick to my plastic model hobby: I had been off for almost 20 years at one time, I was just too busy after College but then, one day, out of the blue, and certainly not thinking the slightest about plastic kits, I stumbled upon a shiny box in some shop, looked at it and felt a familiar thrill in my spine, thinking this, I would like to build and paint I put it back on the shelves, could not resit going back to look at it after I finished shopping, put it in the cart with some glue and paint and, well, I was back at it ;)

I have deliberately taken a break from painting, because we adopted a kitten and I am waiting for him to become less of a feline tornado before I break the acrylics out again

Beer brewing. I simply do not have the time. Or energy.

I stopped doing Brazilian JiuJitsu after I got injured like 3 times over 6 months where as I've been lifting weights for 15 years and haven't gotten injured once. It was fun but I don't want to do it at the expense of my health. Also there's always the one guy who takes it too seriously and ruins it for everyone else.

Gaming is another one. I get into it for a month about once a year but I'm just not particularly drawn to it anymore.

Stepmania but only because I need a new pad now that the old one is too much a pain in the ass to fix and have it working properly.

I mean I guess technically racing motorcycles. However it's more of a circumstance thing, getting back into it would take, pretty easily, almost $10k. So I'm getting into MTB and BMX instead now. I absolutely will be back into it the second I'm able to though, up until very recently, I'd spent more years on a motorcycle than off of one. Age 4 to probably 23 I raced. 0-4 and 23-35 I haven't. Miss it dearly every day, but I'm still very involved in it when I can watch it in-person.

Movies. The plots are all the same. It's most drivel. And it's too expensive. Tickets are reasonable but popcorn, drinks, etc? Also streaming is becoming too much money.

TV. Too much and I can't keep up.

It's expensive to much of anything these days. It's also unsafe to do things. I already have fears as a black guy with this political climate, but my daughter is half black, half Puerto Rican, and is about to hit puberty...

Sickos prey on little girls so it's like I can't just take her anywhere.

And this is why this 40's male here mainly plays video games after work and plays Legos with his kiddo.

I was an avid RPG player, collecting games and running with friends at clubs and stores and everybody's houses. But as many of these friends have fallen away and trends have shifted, and as I get older it's harder to make new friends for hanging out, I need to start reevaluating my hobby.

All of them.

Sorry that's a bit glum but that's how it is.

I've got a lot going on.

Magic the gathering. I haven't really been much interested in playing current stuff since they started doing universes beyond. I'll still keep my cube put together, and I still think commander is fun. I just am really not interested in playing what's essentially just ads for another IP.

I dont play my bass hardly anymore. My hands got bad, and idk. Used to play for hours each day, and now I pick it up twice a year.

Used to hike twice a week at least too, but I havnt gone in years at this point.

I do, yes, feel like im dying. Been putting music on while im home alone more often, its helping a bit, least ive started to dance again.

Is basketball a hobby? I have been playing less and less the past couple of years. With my knee and back problems becoming more frequent now, I decided it was time to quit. The only time I’ll probably play is with my highschool friends who are at the same level of fitness and physicality, and we meet only every few years or so. I can’t show up at the rec center to play with randos anymore, because you never know how hard people play, and I can’t keep up anymore.

Tbh, more less gaming

I would game all day and night but these days , I just have no energy for games and would blatantly decline invitations regarding it (⁠^⁠^⁠)

Comics aren’t just Marvel and DC. Check out Image, Boom Studios, Ablaze, Oni, and whatever the hell Vertigo is now. Pick up Something is Killing the Children or Department of Truth (both by James Tynion, but I like most everything he does). Look for Hopeless Savages and We Only Find Them When They’re Dead. Go read Scott Pilgrim, Locke and Key, Deadly Class, Resident Alien, Die, or Phonogram. There is so much out there that doesn’t have to do with dudes in tights fighting each other. You’ve got a lot to explore once you get away from Summer Crisis Events.

I was super into the Star wars unlimited tcg, but I've really fallen off. Just didn't find the play lines interesting. Now I'm getting back into Netrunner which you can play for free online.

Magic the Gathering. I love the game but it just seems that something always take priority. Hanging out with my wife, working on the house, or playing video games with some friends of mine.

I'm glad that I've stayed away from the release cycle of a new set every month. That would have been tiring.

Gaming, it's so hard not to view it as a complete waste of time at my age. But all my social life is driven through it. So I'm playing games to hangout with friends but the entire time I'm bored of the game and resenting spending my time and energy on it.

Video games, 3D printing, and movies/television.

Modern video games are nothing more than a linear hand holding experience with hours of pre-rendered cut scenes. If I am interested in a game, I watch a streamer play it long enough for me to be bored then I read the plot on Wikipedia.

I used to have multiple 3d printers going. But after one broke down, I didn’t have the motivation to fix it.

Movies and television shows are the same slop with tired tropes. I watched Con Air with my son the other day and he was amazed with the difference between the acting and presentation in the 1990s compared to today.

Gaming.

Don't have the mental energy for it anymore... depression...

Re: Comics

I've gone through phases of the same. Just give it time, something will come along that catches your eye. For me, it was a bunch of indie comics. Look into the more indie publishers, and you'll find something you like.

There's a lot of good stories out there, just not in the mainstream Marvel/DC universe.

Playing the piano. Not because I don't like it. I just found it to be another thing I mostly do alone and I have more than enough hobbies where I do that already and enjoy more. Instead I picked up some hobbies to do with friends.

Anything to do with Warhammer 40k after being into it for decades, even playing competitively, going to the big info dump events, weekly gaming with friends, etc.

I still have all my models, tens of thousands of points in multiple armies, just lost all desire to play with the newer rulesets as they became too simplified and even more focused on buffing the latest new shiny models stats. Plus latest models are often very limited poses, sure the overall detail is up but the scope for personalization is way down without major work.

Then due to infighting the Horus Heresy line of rules and models got intentionally road blocked after Blighs death, which I had been relying on as a more crunchy outlet and to protect my investment in my models.

Oh, and they started the long road to sunset normal Marine models, which when you have over 50k points of marines you collected and painted over the past 35 years stings more than a little.

For the company its been an enormous success, sales are hugely up, so I don't begrudge them too much after the mismanagement of Kirby post LotR.

This year I've hardly watched any movies on my own so far. I think my other hobbies simply demand more time and there is nothing I urgently want to watch currently. Even the movies I only slightly desire to watch are just some of my favorite movies like Akahige that I haven't seen in a long time.