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[–] 116 points 7 months ago

Not a lifehack, just a reminder that legality is not an indicator of whether something is ethical

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  • [–] 92 points 7 months ago (5 children)

    Torrent everything. If it's legal for a company to cancel my subscription then torrenting isn't unethical.

    Use the free tier if you are low-income. Privacy and security shouldn't be for those with money.

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  • [–] 72 points 7 months ago (4 children)

    If it's legal for the Zuck to torrent all the books, it's legal for me to torrent a few books.

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  • [–] 17 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Books are one of the few things I am more than willing to pay full price for.

    Sure the publishers eat a lot of the money, but the authors don't do too badly.

    The very nature of a book (unless something is published as an e-book only) keeps it from being enshittfied like streaming audio and video services. If someone were to print an ad in the book, I could just rip it out and throw it away.

    Books are one of the last places where you just will not see an ad or be tracked, or have popups, and other irritating "features".

    Books are good.

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  • [–] 7 points 7 months ago

    I've seen some children's books with popups.

    Slightly more seriously though, I do have some books that have an advertisement for something else from the author or publisher.

    I feel like being I am pedantic on the points here so I will make a point of saying that I agree with the spirit of your comment.

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  • [–] 23 points 7 months ago

    Alternative option is not to pirate the books and instead read the public domain ones that are just free. Project Gutenberg is a good completely legit source of free books.

    If libraries didn't already exist and you tried to make one now, you would be arrested and likely get pretty hefty sentencing for copyright infringement.

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  • [–] 79 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    I'm not sure about unethical, but blocking ads is a big one for me. The WWW is unusable without blocking ads.

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  • [–] 66 points 7 months ago* (13 children)

    When I wanted to start using contact lenses, they gave me a pair of those that last one month for free to try them out, I didn't find them entirely comfortable so they gave another pair of another brand, and a third one. Then I started again on another place, and another, I think I went a full year without paying for contact lenses.

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  • [–] 34 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    you wouldn't download contact lenses.. /jk

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  • [–] 14 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Worked as a lab manager for some of those one hour shops to pay for college. The drs would tell me horror stories where people would go to the strip malls and get these cheap “contact” lenses that had smiley faces or some shit on them. They wear them then swap them with friends. Basically not taking hygiene into account. They’d get some serious eye infections. Like nearly lose your sight serious eye infections.

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago

    Oh wow, another former optical lab tech in the wild.

    I switched fields years ago and I'm glad I did. Visiting glasses shops today, there's almost no on-site lab to speak of anymore. Maybe some finishing machines, but I haven't seen a full surface lab in years.

    I don't have anything to add to the contact lens story except - wow, that's nasty.

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago (6 children)

    The optometrists over here change an extra fee for lens fittings on top of the fee for an eye exam. I think it's $80 for us after insurance.

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago (5 children)

    This might be specific to Spain then. I don't know how the shop that sells prescription glasses is called, here they are called óptica. Their margins are big enough that they don't charge you for the eye exam, the fitting or the test contacts.

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (4 children)

    In America, they have the big profit margin, AND they still have up charges for everything else. It's the American way.

    Years ago, before everybody had a printer with a scanner, I went into an office supply store to have a document scanned. They charged me $10, scanned my document, returned my document, and said Thank You.

    I asked for a copy of my scan, but that was another $15. I had assumed that the original $10 also included a copy of the scan on some form of media, but No, the $10 was just to scan it into their computer. It was another $15 to take it home with me.

    BTW, I spoke with the manager, who acted like I was being totally unreasonable to assume that paying $10 for them to scan a document they have no interest in into their computer was a weird thing to sell, and that ANYONE would assume that it includes a copy of the item you scanned. He eventually refunded my $10, and I got it done somewhere else.

    That's how things are done in America.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    Doctor offices used to charge a dollar per page to transfer records.

    Circuit City used to charge a 25% restock free if you bought something and it wasn't right.

    Banks here used to charge a fee for writing too many checks, another fee for having not enough activity, or another fee for just having an account.

    A family member of mine gets charged for sticking their own finger.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    A long time ago, before car keys with buttons were common, I had a car with one key with buttons. They didn't work well, so I went to the relevant dealership to get another key.

    They charged me $80 and gave me another key, which admittedly did have functional buttons, but in so doing they further broke the original key - the buttons no longer worked at all. They then told me that I should not have expected to pay $80 and come out with more than I'd brought in.

    I guess I shouldn't have been surprised. The first time I went to that dealership, I asked to test drive one of their cars ... The salesperson to whom I spoke claimed that they didn't have any license plates to spare while visibly holding one in his hands.

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  • [–] 55 points 7 months ago (8 children)

    If you get junk mail with a return envelope, it's automatically paid by whoever sent it, so you can mail back whatever you want, like vulgar imagery or blank forms

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  • [–] 11 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    It's paid by weight and thickness so fill it with trash like pieces of cardboard and sand.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    I recently used such an envelope to return a sheet where I had just written "poop", using my left hand for extra aesthetics. I also added some screws and nuts I had laying around in case it'd increase the postage. My GF called me childish. I call it the result of ignoring the no-spam-registry everyone in my country is legally bound to follow.

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  • [–] 182 points 7 months ago* (4 children)

    Pirate everything, block ads, guillotine billionaires

    💯 2
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  • [–] 39 points 7 months ago (9 children)

    Watch youtube through other apps like Grayjoy If people are having a conversation in a dumb spot, walk through the middle of them

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    This one is good, but one issue (and I hope someone has a fix for me please I'll love you forever):

    GrayJay

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    Reason: Sign in to confirm your age
    

    NewPipe

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    Ytdlnis

    ERROR: [youtube] OC49ZUiuidc: Sign in to confirm your age. This video may be inappropriate for some users. Use --cookies-from-browser or --cookies for the authentication. See  https://github.com/yt-dlp/yt-dlp/wiki/FAQ#how-do-i-pass-cookies-to-yt-dlp  for how to manually pass cookies. Also see  https://github.com/yt-dlp/yt-dlp/wiki/Extractors#exporting-youtube-cookies  for tips on effectively exporting YouTube cookies
    

    (Note, using these cookies requires an acct, not an effective bypass.)

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  • [–] 37 points 7 months ago (6 children)

    If you really want to piss people off, treat every individual with compassion and dignity. Even (especially) if they don't treat themselves like that.

    Also, corporations are not people, my friend. So use the above to help guide your social engineering tactics.

    Not unethical or illegal, but avoiding a barrier, if you have a problem that a company won't solve using regular customer service means, spend time to find their email formula (FnameLname or FLname or FnameL @company.com) do some online searching, and then email your unhelpful CSO person and start to CC senior people in the company "to bring this error to their attention."

    If the unhelpful CSO person hasn't messed up, then it's no heat on them and their supervisor will just say "ugh, just get rid of this guy," and solve your problem. I've used this method a dozen or so times, works well.

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  • [–] 17 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    When I have an issue with a corp and have to talk to a human I start with an apology to that individual.

    "Hey I have an issue with X about Y, but I have nothing against you as a person. You're just trying to do your job and probably deal with a ton of verbal abuse. I apologize in advance if I get upset or use crude language during this call. Be aware that I'm not upset at you I'm upset at the company policies."

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  • [–] 7 points 7 months ago

    This works so well. I've been on the receiving end of that, and I wanted more than nothing more than to help resolve their issue. I felt acknowledged and validated, and wanted nothing but to return the favor. Do this.

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Having been of both sides of this situation, this is excellent advice and will get you much better results on average because you get the CSR on your side and invested in a positive outcome almost every time.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago

    Yeah nearly every time they end up on my side.

    My latest issue that didn't help at all with with a Verizon call to a CSR in India. She was a human robot reading a script. Didn't listen to me at all just following her prompts. An AI would've done a better job.

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  • [–] 15 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    This is called the corporate carpet bomb. And yes, it is often very effective because the upper management doesn’t like being bugged by small things like this. So they’ll often acquiesce just to get you to go away. And it usually only takes one upper manager to bother. Even if nine of them ignore you, the tenth will tell their underlings “hey, what’s the problem here? Why am I being CC’ed? Just fix whatever it is so I can stop getting emails about it.”

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago

    Having worked corporate c-suite level escalations this is absolutely the case. It was fun dressing down directors and managers well above me because I had a mandate from above them to hold their feet to the fire and get shit done.

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  • [–] 99 points 7 months ago (31 children)

    For the US: The Supreme Court has ruled that flashing your lights to alert other drivers of an upcoming speed trap is protected by your First Amendment rights.

    Flipping off a cop is also protected, but that's less helpful to others.

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  • [+] -31 points 7 months ago (30 children)

    Why would you help someone driving dangerously and putting others at risk?

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  • [–] 70 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (11 children)

    Going 5 over the limit and feeding money to pigs via ticket revenues is not "dangerous driving"

    If someone's doing 105 im not flashing them obviously

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  • [–] 7 points 7 months ago (7 children)

    I guess it probably varies by location but 5 over the limit doesn't usually result in anything either. It's normally just people going significantly over that get fines.

    Also it's a limit, not a target. Plenty of roads have a limit that is too high to actually drive at safely too.

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  • [–] 0 points 7 months ago (6 children)

    Something tells me you're one of those who parks it in the passing lane going at or below the speed limit.

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  • [–] 7 points 7 months ago (5 children)

    I don't drive, it's bad for the environment and costs loads of money.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (4 children)

    You have a lot to tell drivers for someone who doesn't drive. Consider that your perspective is heavily biased and likely inaccurate

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (3 children)

    Inaccurate? Its a fact that you are more likely to die or be seriously injured if a car hits you at a higher speed.

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Over a certain speed, yes, but I'm referring generally to your perspective

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Going 35 vs going 30 on collision increases chances for pedestrians to die by up to two times btw

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  • [–] 22 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    I do get where you're coming from, but there are a lot of roads where the speed limit is artificially low (or temporarily lowered for no legitimate reason) for the sole purpose of collecting income from speeding fines

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago

    This part. I live in a rural area near a city; lots of people commute into town, and the main road there is flat, wide, straight, not residential, not even any livestock near the road, just open fields. The limit is 35, and half the people I know have gotten at least one $375 ticket for doing 40. It's literally just a cash grab designed to take money from poor people trying to get to work.

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    US drivers do it regardless to help other drivers avoid getting unfair/unjust tickets. We’ve been ticketed 275$ going 1mph over the speed limit (it was down hill bruh) when we were 19 in the middle of no where Texas.

    Also we no longer drive because we were never supposed to drive and we hate doing it anywho

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Also we no longer drive because we were never supposed to drive and we hate doing it anywho

    What do you mean? Do you live in NYC or something? I drive 4-6 hundred miles a week

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    We lived in nyc, Pittsburgh, middle of no where Maine and rn in Spain. In USA we either took the bus, rode a bike or walked. Can’t drive because of disabilities but did it when we were 16-19 because we were forced to while temporarily living in Oklahoma and Texas

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago* (2 children)

    Yeah such an American take lol

    In EU I would be glad that anyone going over speed limit is fined, even 1kmph, these rules are there so drivers don’t kill pedestrians. If someone is afraid to be fined for going 1kmph over limit, just slow down a bit

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Especially when you keep in mind that the speedometer reads higher than your true speed, so if your true speed is over you were clearly speeding intentionally.

    Drive at 30 in a 20, end up killing a child with your massive SUV - which is another problem in its self..

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago* (5 children)

    You're a disgusting law enforcement shill. Cops have too much money as it is. If they've got time to sit on the side of the road and steal from us, then they must have cleaned up ALL the crime in the city, so their services are no longer required. Go be a school crossing guard.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago* (3 children)

    Speeding cars kill like, so many people. Am I also a disgusting law enforcement shill now?

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (2 children)

    And if my flashing lights slow down somebody, so they don't get a ticket, then it's a great outcome for everybody but the cops.

    Besides, nobody's getting actively killed in my example, stop being so dramatic. I'm just flashing my lights in the neighborhood to alert my neighbor, and save him a ticket. That's who I owe my loyalty to, not the cops.

    Obviously, if it's the guy who is always speeding through the neighborhood, I'm going to let that guy blow on past the cop. They deserve each other.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 child)

    stop being so dramatic

    disgusting law enforcement shill

    🙄🙄

    Don't speed, don't normalise speeding. Acab yes, but not because of speeding tickets lol

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  • [–] 31 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    If you are working as a contractor and make above a certain wage it can be worth it to setup your own LLC/S-corp. I did it one year at the advice of my CPA and it immediately knocked off 30% of my AGI. Lowered my pass thru income and tax liability. Saved me many thousands over 20 years. Its what every corporation in America does.

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    What did you do just pay yourself in options and drive the stock price up with buy backs? I guess you could buy your competition and load them up with all of your debt while paying you and your friends bonuses.

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago

    I'm pretty sure that doesn't work for small corporations where no one else even knows you exist. The share value is likely just going to be the company's net asset value.

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  • [–] 57 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    None, I strongly advocate for ethics in all things.

    Now if we want to talk about illegal lifehacks, that's a different ballgame.

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  • [–] 13 points 7 months ago* (2 children)

    do you have any ethical but illegal life hacks in mind?

    other than Internet piracy

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  • [–] 25 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Fake stupidity or ignorance, just a little. Otherwise, you risk getting people on their defensive sides (e.g., doctors, lawyers, architects).

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    I learned way too late in life that no one likes a know it all. Pretending you don’t know stuff makes people more willing to help you.

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  • [–] 24 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    Tell the truth all the time, be the most honest person everyone knows. That way when you really fuck something up they'll believe you when you say it wasn't you

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  • [–] 7 points 7 months ago

    No, it'll backfire spectacularly, and I've lived it. When someone's a habitual liar, people will get accustomed to them and nobody bats an eye. But if you're always honest and one day you fuck up and they find out, word will spread, the rumor will grow, and it'll create a bigger ripple. You'd have broken a realiance where people will feel the need to adjust their views on you.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago*

    Until it’s discovered and pinned on the regular fuckups that you’re just that much more methodical and that makes you much worse if not the main dangerous sociopath of the friend group.

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