I consider profile pictures as a way to be more visually appealing, and a way to be recognizable more easily.

Why don't you have a profile picture?

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[–] 99 points 10 months ago (1 child)

I'm thirty to forty years old, I don't need this shit.

We did just fine in IRC with no accounts just handles. Recognize me or don't!

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  • [–] 78 points 10 months ago

    This is a place to be part of a crowd, not really about being recognized. I'm not here to make personal friends, nor a following.

    I'm here for news and discussion. This doesn't really require recognizability between threads

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  • [–] 68 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Voyager doesn't even show them

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  • [+] 46 points 10 months ago (8 children)
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  • [–] 40 points 10 months ago

    I like not being particularly recognizable. Treat me like everyone else that you don't know.

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  • [–] 38 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (11 children)

    Why would I?

    Why would I want to be recognizable?

    I use link/content aggregators as my social media of choice, because I am interested in content and communities.

    I don't care about curating some kind of online persona or interacting with any. This isn't Instagram.

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  • [+] -13 points 10 months ago (10 children)

    Why would you speak if you didn't want to have a mouth? You have commented now one hundred and seventy eight times

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago (7 children)

    I rather my individual comments speak for themselves. I not building a brand.

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  • [+] -9 points 10 months ago (6 children)

    you want to be able to talk out of both sides of your mouth without anyone noticing

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago (5 children)

    No, I just don't go out of my way to make sure anyone does notice.

    Why does this bother you? It feels baffling to get worked up like this.

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  • [+] -6 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    Why does this bother you?

    when people have negative opinions of my behavior it's because they're mad which automatically means wrong and bad

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago (3 children)

    Why does this bother you?

    when people have negative opinions of my behavior it's because they're mad which automatically means wrong and bad

    What? Are you answering my question or mocking it?

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  • Can't be arsed

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  • [–] 27 points 10 months ago

    I use an app that doesn't show profile pictures by default.

    I apply a user tag to anyone I want to recognize.

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  • [–] 27 points 10 months ago

    and a way to be recognizable more easily.

    I do not desire that.

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  • [–] 25 points 10 months ago* (2 children)

    The app I'm on doesn't show them and I don't care one way or another. And you will recognise me by my posts!

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  • [–] 23 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Voyager doesn't show them, and I don't really use the web version at all.

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  • [–] 22 points 10 months ago

    I never look at anyone else's profile/picture. They aren't shown anywhere obvious in Voyager app.

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  • [–] 21 points 10 months ago

    Because I'm not interested in having a profile picture and idk even what it would be

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  • [–] 39 points 10 months ago

    Because they are pointless and shouldn't exist.

    I don't want random pictures being loaded when I just want to read articles, posts, and comments. This isn't Facebook or Myspace. I'm not building a profile for people to look at. I'm reading and commenting.

    They put extra burden on servers, apps, and mods. Someone has to be able to remove them if someone starts setting offensive pics like porn.

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  • [–] 19 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Wait there's profile pictures? I just see usernames in the comment threads in Lemmy and that seems fine to me

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  • [–] 18 points 10 months ago

    A what now?
    I'm just here to read memes and rant about crap no one else cares about. I can't be arsed to dig into all the random profile crap the developers poured hours of blood, sweat and tears implementing.

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  • [–] 18 points 10 months ago

    My app doesn't show them... I'm just glad I can avoid the visual clutter.

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  • [–] 17 points 10 months ago

    Why bother. I'm here to lurk, post an occasional comment, and enjoy. Not to make a reputation or become visible.

    Haven't even looked into how. I think Lemmy is federated with some other types of fediverse styles, too? The interface I'm on doesn't emphasise individual user pfps. I can see pfps but they're tiny circles on my phone that I only notice if they're pointed out.

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  • [–] 16 points 10 months ago

    Wait, you guys are setting profile pics?

    I simply don't care enough.

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  • [–] 16 points 10 months ago (3 children)

    I never click on anyone's profile, so I didn't think it mattered

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  • [–] 15 points 10 months ago

    Because, I consider profile pictures to be a way to be more visually appaling, and a way to be recognizable more easily (thing that I do not want).

    Why do you have a profile picture?

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  • [–] 15 points 10 months ago

    I don't care enough to have one.

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  • [–] 26 points 10 months ago

    I'm not here to curate an online persona.

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  • [–] 13 points 10 months ago*

    Why bother? Wtf would I even use?

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  • [–] 13 points 10 months ago

    You can have a profile picture?!?

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  • [–] 10 points 10 months ago

    I don't care enough to set one

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  • [–] 9 points 10 months ago

    One less possible data point for tracking

    Also not invested enough in my profile to bother

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  • [–] 9 points 10 months ago (3 children)

    You can set profile pictures on Lemmy?

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  • [–] [S] 4 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Eup, In your profile settings

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  • [–] 16 points 10 months ago*

    As others have said, I use a client that doesn't display them, so it never dawned on me. And in general, profile pics have never been a big deal for me. So if the app or site doesn't make me do it as part of the account set up, my profile pic just stays as the default.

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  • I speak with my words. Sometimes my actions. Pics also carry a shit ton of information I don't want them to.

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  • [–] 8 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    My disinterest in pleasing my fellow Internetians, intersects with my not caring enough to figure out how, or bother to follow through.

    Bottom line: Why should I? What's in it for me?

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  • [–] 7 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    A default letter does just fine, thank you. It's clean, concise and to the point. Less is more.

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  • [–] 6 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    I have one only because it's the one I use everywhere.

    I don't see anyone else's though, the app I use doesn't show them mostly.

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  • [–] 6 points 10 months ago

    Because it's about the discussion and exchange of information & ideas, not about individuals.

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago

    I do have a profile picture, but I don't think it's crucial. Other link aggregators often don't have profile pictures so if you're used to those, you may not think to set one. In any case I've never thought anyone's profile picture on here was particularly consequential to me.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago
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    Sure, let's make the regime's work easier

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago

    Because I would have to go do that.

    I'm not even sure being recognised is a plus.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago

    oh im just such a typical and ordinary eathling that I don't see the point of a profile pic.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago

    I like not seeing people's pictures in discussions.

    I feel like I get a diverse opinion from people of all age, race, and other background. And we are united on our common interests in the topic without an implicit bias.

    It might have shortcomings, and my case is for not having your real picture in your profile.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago

    I work 100% remotely, and my day job doesn't even have profile pics. When we meet, it's a dozen cartoon images or memes as faces. No cams, no pics.

    The side gig I've had for 20 years has never had a pic. These people wouldn't recognize me if I walked in the office one day.

    Why should I? We don't see a value.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago

    I don't know how

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    On social media where it's only anons from all around the internet, I put a silly picture like here.

    But on social media where my friends or my family are, I won't put my face because hell no, and I won't put something silly either because it's hard enough to look normal.

    I rarely use thoses social media so I'm fine without a profile picture at all.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago

    I have been meaning to for over a year, Im just too lazy busy to get around to it.

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    I've had my accounts banned so many times I don't bother anymore. This account I'm on right now is living on borrowed time too lol

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago (5 children)

    A) Self Crit

    B) Lurk until you get it

    C) Fuck off forever

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  • [–] 0 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    You're so mad that I'm here and you don't even know what I've been banned for either

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    One of your most recent comments is about killing stray cats, so I'm gonna go out on a limb and guess that you've been banned for being an asshole rather than righteously speaking truth to power or whatever.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago

    No one is here to cater to you.

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