Oh good. Now they know what it's been like for the rest of us for decades.

As a heterosexual cisgender white man, I have to be careful that what I say does not insult or offend those around me. Doing otherwise would be rude. Back in the day, we called that etiquette.

Now, some people might be thinking "well I am not racist/sexist/homophobic/whatever so I never have to think about what I am saying." Good for you. I am approaching 40. When I was growing up, there was no such thing as trans inclusive language. You were an ally if you did not call LGBTQ+ people "fa***t" and super inclusive if you did not use "gay" as a generic negative adjective/adverb (i.e. "The teacher gave us homework even though we also have an essay due at the end of the week? Gay!"). A few years ago, a gay friend (and here I literally mean that my friend is homosexual) called me out and made me realize how my speech patterns on sexuality were super heteronormative.

We have to periodically reexamine how we talk, especially around sensitive topics, and make sure we are not implicitly saying things we did not mean to.

Nope, it’s pretty easy to navigate work and life in general while actively not being a shit head.

I’ve unfortunately been a part of workplaces where people have complained about this type of thing. Typically it’s because they weren’t allowed to make demeaning jokes targeted at a specific class/race/gender/etc.

White man here - No, I just don't say racist or sexist stuff. It's pretty easy really.

No. I'm kind of an asshole who also works in a sector that is shared with all variety of people and often work side by side with people who ignorant people might call "sensitive". I really am not careful at all. Sometimes I ask questions I really shouldn't point blank because I'm dumb (is it safe to be trans here? Do you get harassed?). I've deadnamed and misgendered by accident. I don't get the vibe that people want to make a big deal out of these social faux pas unless you seem malicious. I've fucked up a trillion times apologize and move on. Now I have friends who I've accidentally insulted calling me up to hang out sometimes. It's fine. Just don't be malicious. Most people who complain about walking on eggshells aren't just not careful like me, but unwilling to change or learn.

I'll tell you a secret, no matter where you work you need to be a little careful what you say and how you phrase it but generally you can treat it all the same. Your personality isn't the problem, your biases, your willingness to learn and adapt, and your attitude are.

Sort of I do. I really suck at real-time communication. I usually can't even respond to "Hi", there's not enough time for me. "What? Was that said to me? Probably. I should reply. What exactly? Hello? Hi? That's shorter, but repetitive. How loud? Just say something. (Output) Hi. (End of output) Did they hear me? That was too quiet, right? Should I try again? What if they did hear me? FUCK! Maybe next time."

Same goes for when and how to say thanks and sorry. I don't have half an hour to think it out. I need text.

Other things are complicated too, and I often say things that get misunderstood or aren't appropriate on second thought, or I interrupt someone because I thought they were finished, or I am probably not heard, but repeating something for 4th time is awkward because what if it was, but it just wasn't ACKed. But usually that doesn't happen, as I can't manage to time my talking at all.

So in a sort of way, yes.

If not starting some uncomfortable talks is the point, then that's rather just a problem with few specific coworkers.

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If by “walk on eggshells” you mean “avoid using racial stereotypes and commenting on people’s bodies” then sure.

I’m a white guy and I feel comfortable talking about a wide range of topics at work and I don’t feel like I need to be overly cautious about what I say.

I would say that you dont need to walk on eggshells but that straight white men ARE held to a different standard.

Ive lost count of the times I've heard "Women are better at multitasking" or "Sorry, you know us Latinos are a passionate people" and stuff like that and that shit is just normal and accepted. But if I were to respond with "Yes, but men are better at focused tasks" or "Well I'm white so I have better emotional control" that would be FUCKING WILD and straight to HR. I wont even make a lighthearted joke about my heritage because I dont look like my grandparents fled Berlin in the 30s (which they did, I'm Jewish by heritage not by practice/belief)

I dont "walk on eggshells" but theres shit I just dont touch with a 10 foot pole.

Whilst I wouldn't call it "walking on eggshells" - I've had my perspective invalidated in discussions based on my perceived identity (majority culture, male) on more than one occasion.

I'm also part of an "invisible" minority which does necessitate actually "walking on eggshells" in certain contexts.

It is a bit disheartening that my being part of an invisible minority somehow makes my personal perspective "more valid" to some people. Every person is an individual, and personal, lived experiences are so much more important than demographic markers and groups.

Being white and male hasn't ever had anything to do with me personally walking on eggshells at work. Just depends on who is involved and where I am. I just call it masking.

I walk on eggshells at work because I need to keep my corporate professional mask on at work. Like everyone else I need to put on my work persona and attempt to mask things that might be "unprofessional". Same with keeping a calm cool collective mask on even if I am frustrated, sad or tired. This is true for everyone though.

Any individual is at risk when situated in specific circumstances that can endanger their well-being.

Hatred is about discrimination, but hate itself doesn't discriminate.

Nope not going to let this crappy station dictate the taking points. Next

I tend to use a rolling pin to crush the eggshells before distributing them to the garden. A moderately coarse grind can help to repel snails and slugs, as it's appears to be uncomfortable for them to crawl over. I don't think I could get the same level of coarse grind by walking on them, besides, it would probably be uncomfortable for me, as well.

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No, but people don't have as much patience with me as with other stereotypes, and they do not care about me a lot of the time.

Which can be complicated because some mental predispositions make socializing hard for me, and I could really do with some more patience from other people.

It's funny because normal white guys have no issues speaking our minds because we aren't racist, misogynist assholes. However, those guys (and there are more than I would like to see) don't really give a shit about what they say because they're complete douche nozzles, many being narcissistic and think the world revolves around them. They should be the ones walking on eggshells. However, they're more likely to brand the eggshells as woke libtards and crush them on purpose.

Not particularly. I don't have too much crazy stuff to say. Certainly not in a work environment. Actually, the main group I have to censor myself around is my Mormon family. My mother, this is a real thing that has happened multiple times, cries when she hears the word "fuck". So they get a worse, straighter, less difficult version. Any of that would happen regardless of my race and gender. I personally cannot stand the overly sensitive, nor those that attempt to "trigger" them. If someone becomes unreasonably emotional after something relatively mild, that sounds like they need to develop thicker skin. If someone is trying to anger someone else, then they're just a dipshit. I try not to piss people off (I go further with my nonoffensiveness than I'd like), but I won't personally get pissed if someone insults me.

Had a real hard time in life prior to the military.

Understanding the chain of command and where I fit within it was one of the most valuable things I learned.

Keep it professional and tight when the HMFIC is in the room, assume every microphone is live, and that there is someone you didn't notice in earshot.

When with your small crew you can be a bit looser, but always keep it professional and pleasent.

People who focus heavily on this, tend to have issues with being racist / sexist / mysoginistic / etc, or at the very least saying things that are considered that these days.

However, this sentiment is not 100% out of nowhere or without context. Everything in life is a gradient / spectrum / bell curve, and there will always be some minority of people that take things too far.

I've experienced people dismissing my opinion because I appear to be strongly in the privileged class, and while some of those times I've reflected and realized my input really wasn't needed and I was too excited to talk, there have been others where the point I was making had nothing to do with class or privilege, and others where people have not realized that I'm a silent minority and I've still been dismissed out of hand.

I do also feel bad for the generations older than me, as there does seem to be biases towards:

a) assuming that older looking people are more prejudiced

b) focusing on using modern correct language rather than processing the intent of what they're saying.

For example, as my grandma got older and older, she reverted more and more to the language she grew up with, using problematic terms like mulatto etc. and she was an active gay and racial rights campaigner in the 50s and 60s who had stopped using words like that by the 90s and 00s. But people are fallible and stuff from our upbringing does get ingrained in us on a deep level.

Everyone would do better with trying to be more understanding, including us men when we feel slightly targeted by people taking privilege correction a little too far.

What are they too afraid to say?

Turn it upside down. Do white men need to walk all over everyone with no regard whatsoever for their feelings?

It's more like walking on a football field and there are three eggs of endangered species on it, each surrounded by a dozen red flags. Normal ppl don't have a problem not stepping on them. You'd have to go out of your way and be a total ass to step on one.

Internet group think means everyone has to walk on egg shells or be ostracized with downvotes pointless disagreements, ect...

Social media has put society into packs, with a pack mentality. It's often just better to not comment... And yes these things flow through to real life, and how shit goes down there too.

Nope, not a bit.

In fact, I have to intentionally avoid dominating conversations accidentally.

walking on eggshells should hurt quite a bit, no?

10 or 15 years ago? No

Now. Yes. Esp if I'm in company with people who are insecure/unstable. They love to demonize even innocuous things that I say. It's bizarre and bad faith. I've been liberal/progressive my entire life. Only in the pats 5 years have I been told now that apparently I'm a Nazi/sexist/racist/bigot for having a penis and white skin. It's insane. Just saying something like 'people should be treated fairly and equally' gets me labeled as alt-right these days.

There are simple a lot of unhinged ignorant and awful people who have been poisoned by social media and identity politics and they do not think men are people, and white men are especially not people. I avoid them as much as I can. Most regular people just think of me as a person. It's just the nutbags who get all hellbent on whiteness and maleness, but they want to control everybody anyway. The type who believe that the point of life is to create a genderless communist/anarchist utopia...

also a lot of it has to do with just activities I like. I like to read, i like to ride bikes, i like to hike. I get so much unwanted commentary and lectures from people about how I do these things 'wrong' because I'm a white guy now. It's just bizarre to me. and they all wnat to tell me to do them the 'right' way that is 'inclusive'. Pretty sure me riding my bike has nothing to do with other people... but accord to these nutbags I'm 'oppressing' others by doing these things.

No, if matching your words to your thoughts would hurt someone the correct solution is to change your thinking.

Fuck Fox NEWS. They're stirring the pot.