I didn’t think there was anyone left on Reddit but bots
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I miss some of the people on Reddit, but I don't miss Reddit.
In time, they'll appear here (or in similar places).
I'm never going back.
they are too forgettable to memorable, the only ones i missed were the ones in a niche sub, now defunct.
I know a handful of people that tried Lemmy at my insistence but found the overall culture even more insufferable than reddit and honestly I don't even blame them. I fear that a lot of folks here are so desperate to "beat reddit" that they are willing to tolerate the most repulsive behaviors and it's only going to push the mature people away.
I hope I'm wrong, but for someone who doesn't care about decentralization, being "not reddit" is really all I can see that we have going for us.
Culture in what communities? Because I mainly subscribe to tech and games and haven't noticed a difference.
Same on reddit where people here talk about how they've been banned, but I just follow tech, games, and niche hobby subs there and not the big subs.
But, if someone is engaging in news related communities I could see how culture might be more negative. But, that's been the case for all social media for that matter when it comes to heated topics.
People like that exist, but I just block them and move on and i really can't overstate how much that changes the experience.
Unfortunately, Lemmy doesn't have great mechanisms for avoiding harassment or toxicity - the ethos of free speech prevents the creators from wanting to allow users to hide their posts from others (a common solution implemented on other platforms).
Because of that, I get inbox notifications from blocked users sometimes (that I can't see unless I unblock them), so I just -> Mark all as read. Negativity gone.
On the flip side of toxicity, I've found fewer toxic mods that rule comms like their own little fiefdom to arbitrarily police (only a single one so far) - on Reddit it was pretty common to encounter.
Yeah I fully agree re: blocking at an individual level, but I'm just saying I also understand why someone may encounter the fediverse and be turned away at the prospect of putting in so much work just to even see if they like it. Admins need to step up too.
Yeah I get it. I dunno what the balance is. It needs to be fun for admins too - else they get burned out and you get the Reddit style power-trip types as the ones that stay. I'm generalizing heavily.. But my point is I guess if the community takes the lead in reporting and blocking bad users we can all help the load of the mods, while working around the limitations of Lemmy's design.
Hopefully it will improve in time, because Im not disagreeing that those elements exist and are a deterrent to newcomers.
The bad ones can be banned 🤷♀️
reddits own bot/slop tells them what they want to hear thats why. i think the thing is reddit still has niche subs, that hasnt been impacted by the bots that much, hence its better than some ways. lemmy is too small and the largest communities are politics mostly.
It's better here anyway. Spez has banned everyone and there's only bots left.
I already made this account a while ago, but never really got into Lemmy so much, since it's so damn hard to post videos here - that is the main reason I still used Reddit more - you can just drop videos there without having to use other video platforms that require you to make an account too,...
ehhh. the nsfw community is a bit lacking. which, like it or not, drives user engagement and boosts content creation.
We defederated the NSFW instance because they allow a fauxbait community.
What is fauxbait, you may wonder? Well, you've probably heard of jailbait, which is nudes of children who look like adults. Fauxbait is faux jailbait. It's nudes of adults who look like children who look like adults.
And often these are regular consenting adult porn models, who look like adults, but some pervert went "nyehehe these women look like children" and posted them to this community. And I think that's degrading and harmful to these women's livelihoods. I wouldn't want someone to look at My boobs and decide I looked like a kid.
Furthermore, according to Australian law, framing a picture as child porn (or fake child porn) makes it child porn. It's kinda the same problem as the 4000 year old dragon who looks like a little girl.
Is it better than r/jailbait and all the pedo shit on Reddit? Sure. But it's still pedo shit, and I want a social network with zero pedo shit.
debatable that it's better here, the ideal is to use nothing.
sure, it's a lot less fashy on lemmy, but goddamn there are some shockingly dense motherfuckers on this website that are worse than redditors. the top comment on basically every article posted to lemmy is someone aggressively and angrily asking a deeply ignorant rhetorical question for attention, and it's usually answered by the article. at least reddit sometimes has a decent comment at the top.
i swear half of lemmy is just people going "i literally don't understand this simple thing and it's also the stupidest thing i've ever heard" when in reality it's just a bunch of people inside of a social bubble that don't understand the actual world around them, like, at all. and i don't mean just politically, i mean generally.
never going back to reddit but there are just so many shamefully stupid people on lemmy, it's grating.
I literally don't understand how you could just come out and say the stupidest thing in the world ;)
Yeah lemming's brains are melted. Literacy in the bit.
Commenting on an article without reading it should carry the penalty of a day in the stocks.
Sometimes I want to know what actually happened in the article to know if it's worth reading without giving some clickbait bullshit the benefit of my clicks.
you can block those instances, and communities. tankies are the worst, and a few instances for some reaso blahaj will ban you for anything too.
Honestly, a VPN is a good investment in your online safety anyway and would bypass this age verification bullshit. We have it in Australia too. Philippines don't.
Reddit blocks a shit ton of vpns
I've used mullvad and airvpn recently and both worked fine for me
I tried signing up with a throwaway protonmail via mullvad browser and VPN and was shadownbanned from day 1.
VPN works for me so far, but like I said in another comment: I use reddit mostly on my work laptop and am not allowed to use VPN there ..
Can you not install browser extensions? I can on my work laptop (on either Edge or Chrome - they don't allow other alternatives), but obviously they're all locked down differently
I will not play games that require tpm and secure boot, and I will not use software that requires any sort of identity verification to use. the internet is simply a tool for entertainment for most of my uses, communication is optional.
It's always interesting to see what it takes for someone to leave reddit. It wasn't all the bullshit before, but this is was over the line for this user. How much more can they keep getting away with before a tipping point? The standards people have today are so eroded.
The last straw for me was getting rid of sorting by Hot on my main feed, effectively making it useless. I don't want to sort by Best that shows posts from days ago, get that Facebook shit out of here. Also there was a new tab that interspersed "recommended posts" in your main feed. It's an option now but I doubt it would be in the future. The point of having a curated feed is to see shit you're subscribed to, not whatever engagement slop is on r/popular.
For me it was new reddit, saw what was coming and spent a lot less time there (yes I used old mode still), then the API changes and mass banning of subreddits sealed the deal. Never returned.
on mobile they are far more intrusive, when you backspace they reload the page, and sends you to the top of the feed on old mobile, and zooms in for no reason, its designed to make old reddit as unpleasant as possible so you are forced to use the new reddit UI, which is worst, because in the newer one, it eventually slows the loading page for so long you have to close the browser to reset it. they eventually want people to use the APP, so they can datamine your device as well.
ah! That explains why I had day-old posts suddenly creep up in my feed, I was already wondering about that ...
reddit definitely made a change months ago , that shows you old post. they want people to engage with older posts, that are useless.
There's no use in interacting with posts, say, 8 hours old or so. Maybe less. Everybody has already moved on.
Edit: that's why I like the slower pace of the Fediverse, it's like the old messages boards I grew up with, with posts that simmered for days/months and there wasn't endless scrolling to steal your attention.
Proves that convenience is the stopper. Steam and netflix can attest. Make it hard, I'll hit the high seas.
It's like the boiling frog problem
You need to remember there's addiction involved too. That will cause people to accept more awful than they normally would.
The standards people have today are so eroded.
Exactly look at Xbox 360 and PS4 going downhill.
Dude pull your head out of your ass. There are things on reddit that there are no replacements for. Lemmy doesn't hold a candle to the user base of reddit. The standard is simply "is this useful to me" and it's not hard to understand why people find value there.
Fucking holier than though dipshit.
01/01/1901
Yours, too?! Crazy!
Eventually you'll die of old age before you can finger scroll all the way up on wheel from the current year.
That's obviously wrong.
You think that, but scrolling all the way down gets increasingly longer faster than you think.
is it reddit doing something drastic recently? seen an uptick .
they are continuing to digg their own grave.
you need to take a photo of your balls to use reddit now and new accounts cannot login to old reddit as this feature is now restricted to only existing accounts that are older
Even my old account isn't working on old anymore. Except on my phone for some reason (possibly just haven't logged back into it on that since whatever changed). Makes it really easy not to hang around on that site after reading whatever drags me there in the first place.
And that's the end of using reddit, right?
You need to create an alias and not forget it, so you can use a completely different "person" on these shitty sites. I've got a dozen email addresses with names, birthplaces, dates, etc. never know who I am.
Fingerprinting knows
Multiple vpns, paid and free, adblocking and blocking tracking at DNS level, ublock origin, different browsers and operating systems. Good luck. I probably look like some frankenstein user.
And even if you do fingerprint it, you're fingerprinting a useless alias, so who cares.
The more intricate your configuration, the easier you are to fingerprint. Because nobody else has your exact configuration. For it to not matter, you have to have a sufficiently complex unique fingerprint for every instance of being fingerprinted.
Cookies for the masses, fingerprints for everyone else. It is actually quite difficult to truly be anonymous on the internet today.
Well you do you, I'll do me.
IIRC they can fingerprint you based on your writing style and interests.
Use a VPN exit point in Singapore
VPN works for now, but I am mostly online on my work-laptop (yeah I know 😂) and I am not allowed to run a VPN on that one ...
The verification flag might be tied to the account if there's no specific local law. If that is the case wherever they pop out reddit will try id them.
Redlib if you must keep using Reddit. If not, alternative forums, fediverse included, invite you.
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