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[–] 76 points 1 month ago (18 children)

I have once (1) woken up feeling completely refreshd and ready for the day without any chemical assistance and I still feel revolted thinking that that’s normal for some people.

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  • [–] 34 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    That's me every day. Sleep like a baby every night.

    As a bonus, I have a bizarre talent of being able to wake up exactly when I need to. I always wake up before my alarm, even when I set it for earlier than usual.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    I had that for one summer. Consistently waking 10 minutes before my alarm. So consistently that I stopped bothering to even set an alarm.

    It was great, right up until the clocks went back and I was left waking up over an hour before I needed to.

    Weirdly, the only way I found to break the cycle was to start setting an alarm.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago* (9 children)

    I get that every time I go to bed at around 5-7 AM and wake up 5-8 hours later. Try it

    But also

    Get tested for sleep apnea, that makes you feel more tired after sleeping

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    Get tested for sleep apnea, that makes you feel more tired after sleeping

    Great advice

    I get that every time I go to bed at around 5-7 AM and wake up 5-8 hours later. Try it

    Terrible advice

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    Why? Aren't some people legitimately night owls?

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    There's quite a bit of research on the health of people who work night shifts (eg at hospitals) and the evidence is pretty overwhelming that sleeping during the day contributes to a bunch of negative health effects, no matter how well it's executed.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (1 child)

    Neighbors couldn't give less of a shit. That child-scream powered drillhammer doesn't pay for itself.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    My neighbour's child has no trouble crying at 3 am and waking up everyone in the 2 buildings that sleeps with an open window, so...

    Said neighbour could maybe close their own window at least once the child starts crying but they seemingly don't.

    It stopped for a year but then they presumably haf another child.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Also try a different pillow. I lucked into a good one and I've slept substantially better ever since. Or I did until I had a kid, I should say.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    I'm a side-sleeper who is tall with wide shoulders, and I was 40 years old before I discovered I needed a significantly thicker pillow than average to support my head at the right angle. I sleep better and it completely eliminated my neck pain

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  • The most fantastical part of dungeons and dragons is the 8h long rest that heals you up and gives you all your skills back.

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  • [–] 20 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (7 children)

    I just started using that feature on some smart watches that wakes you up when you're in light sleep within 30 minutes of your alarm, and DANG--game changer, seriously. For the last few mornings I've woken up feeling better after six hours of sleep than on a lot of mornings where I've had a hard wakeup after nine.

    EDIT: It's called "Smart Wake" on Android and Garmin watches, it's an app like "AutoWake" for Apple Watch, and it's "Smart Alarm" for Pebble.

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  • [–] 19 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    My brain has a better feature.
    If I am supposed to go somewhere, I just wake up every 15-30 minutes until I finally see the right time on my watch. Doesn't even need to be smart one.
    Do I feel light-headed and tired? Yes. But it's for free!

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (1 child)
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    When I was looking into this a while back, iirc the only way you could use that one for free was on a phone and the watch version had a subscription. I kind of need it to be on my wrist so that I don't wake up my wife, and I'm not going to pay a subscription fee for an alarm clock.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Second this. Android app called Sleep Cycle changed my life.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago

    I looked a while back, and I couldn't find any non-subscription apps (I don't mind paying a one-time fee, but I'm not going to pay a subscription for an alarm clock). But they just added it natively to the Pixel Watch alarm app, or at least they just rolled it out to my Pixel Watch 3. Love it.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 month ago

    If you have trouble sleeping but don't have an obvious medical causes for it, I highly recommend simply abstaining from caffeine entirely (sub for decaf) and try reading for an hour before bed, no phone usage. It's miraculous how much of a difference it makes. I still sometimes have caffeine as a treat on the weekends, but only before noon.

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  • [–] 23 points 1 month ago (10 children)

    I get 8 hours sleep and consistently feel tired and awful every time. 10 hours, 6 hours, far better experiences.

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  • [–] 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    You want to try waking up at a multiple of 90 minutes, or using an alarm that wakes you up in line with your sleep cycles. Eight hours usually wakes you up in the middle of deep sleep

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    Also consider caffeine intake and eating too close to bed time. Both can be disruptors. "I can drink caffeine any time if day and it doesn't mess with my sleep." I lied to myself too for years while working 2 jobs and horrifically stressed. I get it, we deal with our struggles when they exist. But during 2020 when I wasn't working I decided to figure out how to sleep. Turns out stopping caffeine around 1-2 pm and not eating within 3hrs of going to bed made CRAZY improvements. If possible, reduce room lighting/no overhead bright lights the hour before bed too.

    Life doesn't always let us make these changes, but if you can it can help.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    What if you don't drink coffee and go hungry if you don't eat just before bed and can't fall asleep?

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    I mean, there's other sources of caffeine. Assuming you're not drinking caffeine, then that's not disrupting your sleep.

    As for food, like I said - our lives aren't always conducive to healthy habits. Working third shift is bad for our health, but sometimes it has to be done. If possible, a meal with protein and fiber will help keep you satisfied longer. Potatoes are good for that too. If I'm still hungry before bed I try to eat something easy like a protein shake, piece of cheese and a handful of crackers. The idea is really just to not eat heavy too close to going to bed, as it's disruptive to sleep.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    ”If possible, reduce room lighting/no overhead bright lights the hour before bed too.”

    Laughs in Finnish summer nights.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    When you finally get 8 hours of sleep and it genuinely starts making sense why they recommend it

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  • [–] 11 points 1 month ago

    I either get 4-1/2 hours or 12 hours, there is no in between.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)
  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago* (2 children)

    Sleeps 3 hours - tired

    Sleeps 6 hours - tired

    Sleeps 8 hours - tired

    Sleeps 10 hours - tired

    Sleeps 12 hours - tired

    Sleeps 18 hours - tired

    Sleeps 20 hours - maybe operational for 30 minutes

    People: "YoU hAvE tO dO sPoRtS!1!1"

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    I always go to bed early enough to get 7-8 hours of sleep, but according to the sleep tracker on my watch, I sleep like shit. It's no wonder I'm always so fucking tired.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I second getting a sleep study. The CPAP seems like a medieval torture device, but after you push through the anxiety attacks, you start to feel so good in the mornings.

    Also, since you already use a watch, I have to recommend the feature that wakes you up in your lightest sleep phase within a half hour of your alarm. It's called Smart Wake on Android and Garmin watches, it's an app like AutoWake for Apple Watch, and it's Smart Alarm for Pebble. I've only been using it for a few days, but it's already a game changer.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago* (2 children)

    big sigh I miss those days so much and they are only a few months in my past.

    After a lifetime no sleep issues, I’ve been sleeping like shit without medication for the last few months. I get 1 good sleep in without medication and it feels amazing. Then the next night I barely get 3 hours of broken restless sleep.

    This sucks and I don’t know how anyone can do it long term 😕

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago

    I can't imagine being unable or unwilling to sleep. Sleep is my go-to favorite method of escapism. I can fall asleep anywhere, anytime. And my dreams invariably fill the voids in my life, like cuddling with soft fluffy loving precious housepets that I don't actually have, my children when they were in their adorable toddler stage, love & romance, family, big clean white house that I don't actually live in, but always do in my dreams. I've never tried drugs & never will, but the bliss I experience from sleeping seems comparable to how people describe heroin. Except sleep costs nothing, is always available, causes no trouble, & is a whole lot healthier than heroin 😄

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    Eh, after a couple years of doing 5-6 hours, 8 hours is no longer doable. For some reason my hip and back start acting up if I sleep longer than 7 hours. Doesn't seem to matter what sleeping position or what bed I use, after 7 hours of inactivity my muscles seem to just start to strain themselves.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago* (1 child)

    One of the less discussed side effects of getting old. If you sleep deeply, there's a good chance that something hurts in the morning because you slept on it awkwardly and it didn't wake you up. The worst injury I've had as an adult was a "sleep injury" to my shoulder. A fucking sleep injury. I used to jump off an 18' cliff into a rocky lake as a teenager.

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  • The worst injury I've had as an adult was a "sleep injury" to my shoulder

    I've definitely done something similar more than once. You would think at some point you'd stop having to learn more about your body, but then your body keeps on changing.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I have the same, but back only. If it's at the base of your back you could try some stretches before bed that focus on the area - my pain is much less when I remember to do this. And sleeping with a firm pillow held between the knees made a world of difference too.

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  • Nah, mines a hip and lower back combo. I have a limb length discrepancy from an accident a long time ago that gives me a lateral pelvic tilt. Basically flares up if I haven't done enough or if I have done too much activity. So sitting or laying down too long will start fucking with it.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    I got treated for sleep apnea, got treatment for my chronic insomnia, I stay off my electronics for at least an hour before bed, I don't have any caffeine except a cup of coffee in the morning, and all that and I still get god awful sleep and wake up feeling like shit.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago

    i have do 8-10hrs, anymore will make me groggy throughout the day, and wierdly ill.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago

    I sleep fine. It's waking that's hard. If it's not when my body wants to wake, I hate life for the first sixish hours of the day. Doesn't matter if I had 3 hours or 10.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    Damned! I was about to go to bed and instead I read that thread. Now I won't have my 8 hours… :(

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago

    I wouldn’t know

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Envious. Maybe one day ill have enough time, insurance, and motivation to see a psychiatrist again.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    I would simply be too powerful if I ever got a full night of restful sleep!

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    After years of waking up to get the kids ready and to school, I have mastered the art of sleeping early and waking on time out of pure necessity. Even corona couldn't mess up the pattern anymore.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Oh shit..well good luck..I have insomnia everyday🥺

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (1 child)

    I can sleep 1-2 hrs and be ready to go for a while. I will fade later in the day, the problem is I will convince myself that I can do that regularly. Requiring myself to get around 7hrs of sleep is really really good for me. For some reason getting closer to 8 makes me not feel so good.

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    [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    I feel better with 7 or 9 hours of sleep. I I get 8, I feel terrible.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    Tell that to a hot flash

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    My new place creaks a lot. My roommate paces the house all night and doesn’t sleep. Which means I don’t sleep.

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