Getting a CPAP. It's made such a huge difference. If you snore loudly, get a sleep study done!
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As regular as possible bedtime routine.
No caffeinated drinks in the second half of the day.
Regular exercise.
Actually not sleeping too long in the morning either.
Melatonin.
Boxed breathing in some rare cases.
Being tired as hell. Improves my mood too by reducing overthinking.
When you kiss me goodnight
Cannibis Indica.
Random thought that occurred after this comment, which I 100 percent agree with take breaks when you can.
Which medicine doesn’t have side effects? We balance the benefits with the risk in all things we consume.
I tell my father every time he brings up my consumption. You stop taking your blood pressure medication I’ll stop taking mine. It would be an interesting race to the bottom for both of us.
Well it is obvious your comment hits something deeper in me. So sorry to unload all my stuff here.
I didn’t take yours as judgement just “hey be aware of this effect where the solution could make your specific problem worse”.
Hope you don’t take this combative. Just sharing my experience.
Side effects of Xanax, valium and every other antidepressants and serotonin regulator were absolutely horrible for my wife.
Indica, in the other hand, amazing with almost zero side effects for her. It also works literally within 20 seconds when smoked
Not sure if I'm just weird or if this is a general rule for insomnia, but for me, what works will vary and there's no foolproof recipe to make me sleep, but below are some things that do help me.
- Exercise
- Consistent wake up time
- No screens 2 hours before bed
- Blocking sunlight early (sun currently sets after 10 pm)
- No food for at least 6 hours before bed
- Stop liquids 3 hours before bedtime
- White noise during sleep (I prefer the sound of rain)
- Don't leave things unfinished before bed, especially tasks that will make you worry or have anxiety
- Decluttered bedroom
- Clean bedsheets
- Air purifier
- Aromatherapy diffuser with lemongrass
There is a perfect combination of booze and depression that can get me to sleep for 10-12 hours in a single sleep cycle. Could probably sleep longer if I didnt wake up because I was about to piss myself from the copious amoont of alcohol consumed prior to sleeping.
I'm so sorry, my wife is pregnant and i hope things will not get worse. I hope you can find a solution with your family!
my wife is pregnant and i hope things will not get worse
I have bad news regarding sleep. "Things will not, calm down, Daniel Jackson. They will, in fact, calm up." ;) Chin up, it's not forever.
Gummies with CBN
Yikes
Tried those once and I felt like I got weaker and weaker until I couldn't stand, I felt like I was dying and we ran to the hospital. Wasn't until entering the ER that it passed and I started feeling better
Probably won't try those again
But yeah, in general, those can be a huge help for sleeping and general anxiety
My wife has wrestled with anxiety for decades now and every now and then she'd tried the valium and what not, and every single time it was a horrible experience for her in a wide variety of cruel ways. Since the past two years I started having anxiety symptoms as well.
Weed, THC and moreso CBD has been a godsend for us both. Anxiety shows up, and it's an anxiety-be-gone for us.
It's important not to over do it, especially when using it regularly, use low doses, just to cut that edge off, but after 2 years, it saved my wife's life, our marriage, our sex life, and our sanity. We actually ended up firing my wife's family doctor because she had great results with weed, super happy and she registeredy wife as an addict and simply wouldn't take no for an answer on the valium and Xanax and other crap
I myself now do have issues with PVC, my heart every now and then had a cylinder misfire which feels shit, and I've cut weed off completely for a while to let that pass and then we'll see. Still though, zero regrets
PS: this is not an "ignore your doctor and do my thing" thing, this is our own personal experience, GREAT experience, but ours nonetheless. Whatever you do is your decision, be careful, listen to your doctor.
White noise. I have "sleep headphones" which are a fabric headband with very flat bluetooth speakers in them.
Various white noise types (rain on a tent, being on a train, spaceship engine noise - though sometimes also stuff like "sleep meditation for anxiety") seem to get me asleep in 15 minutes (it helps turn off my wild thought spirals), and generally staying asleep until morning.
There's probably a ton of other factors about room temperature, eating times, reading e-book instead of phone before bed etc, but I think the white noise was the most noticeable and immediate change.
I use a site called MyNoise which has a ton of white noise soundtracks. My favourite soundtrack for sleeping is called "rice fields" and consists of frogs, cicadas and water sounds. If I'm struggling to sleep I go "ok, froggy time" and put this on. Works 99% of the time.
Sleep earbuds and a science-y audio book at 90% speed
Vitamin d helped my family quite a bit. Apparently we were all deficient when we talked to our doctor about it.
Mitigating things that prevent sleep mostly. If there are things that are keeping me awake I just get up and deal with them, it's faster than trying to ignore them or push through. Light bothering me? Block it or turn it off. Stuffy nose? Netti pot or go outside for a bit. Noise I can't stop? Create white noise. I get shin splints at night so I either compress them with bandages or sleep on my stomach with my feet hanging off the end of the bed and squish my shins. If I can't get my mind to stfu sometimes I'll get up and doze off on the couch or read a book, NO SCREENS! If the dog is laying next to me having a hand on her gives me the relaxing time brain chemicals, sometimes even if she is already leaning on me she'll do the crab scoot closer thing and that feeling helps too. Once in a while there is nothing I can do and I know I won't be sleeping, fortunately I have a job where I can take time off with little notice.
Prolanolol, side effect from the aim at reducing migraines. You can try Physiological sigh, they're great at completing the stress cycle. Detoxing from light sources for a couple of hours before sleep. No screens, dim all lights. Theres one where you tense every muscle, hold and then relax and imagine its super super relaxed, one at a time, all the way from feet to head.
Personally I have to listen to a show that's just interesting enough to keep my attention and not too interesting that it'll keep me awake to see what happens. (And without a super boppy intro outro, or it'll wake me back up.) I can sit there for hours and not sleep, trying without a show, turn a show on and I'm out in less than 5 minutes. It's insane.
Not a helpful answer, but I started taking a psych medication and I guess some people use it off label as a sleep aid. Soooo suffice to say I definitely sleep like a rock nowadays lol. Trouble is that I have to actually be disciplined enough to get into bed first!
BUT what has always helped me actually fall asleep is to actually use my phone in bed. I know people say not to, but it helps me fall asleep every night. What I do is put on a lengthy YouTube video that is not too interesting and not too boring. I fall asleep to them.
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