I moved and had my computer shipped via sea. Literally 8 months with no update, update was massive, no issue at all (arch BTW).
Most of my update problems were either a keyring or a problem with an AUR package that had to be uninstalled, update ran, and reinstalled again because of a dependency loop.
I run bazzite now just because I literally don't have to remember to update, but arch-based is completely fine.
The only major problems I every had were on Mint and Opensuse, 12 and 5 years ago respectively. All distros are pretty care-free nowadays I think (except manjaro).
