Now, 404 Media reports that Quittr leaked data about hundreds of thousands of users' masturbation habits as well as lied about its security issues.

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[–] 189 points 8 months ago (8 children)

Huh, I wonder if I should share intimate potentially embarrassing and blackmail worthy details with some random tech company who had an app

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  • [–] 73 points 8 months ago (6 children)

    Blackmail? There’s an app for that!

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  • [–] 31 points 8 months ago (5 children)

    Blackmailr? Shoot, sign me up! Intake question 1: Have you ever whacked it on a plane to join the “half-mile-high club?”

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  • [–] 27 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (4 children)

    My cousin Walter jerked off in public once. True story. He was on a plane to New Mexico when all of a sudden the hydraulics went. The plane started spinning around, going out of control. So he decides it's all over and whips it out and starts beating it right there. So all the other passengers take a cue from him and they start whipping it out and beating like mad. So all the passengers are beating off, plummeting to their certain doom, when all of a sudden, the hydraulics kick back in, and the plane rights itself. It lands safely and everyone puts their pieces or, whatever you know, away and deboard. Nobody mentions the phenomenon to anyone else.

    • Brodie Bruce
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  • [–] 12 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    If they never shared the story, how in fuck did Brodie know‽

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago

    I figure he means they all shuffled off the plane looking at the floor. Unless they all kept in touch after beating off together on a plane they have no way to know if anyone told someone else afterwards.

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  • [–] 18 points 8 months ago

    Well, that depends, are they also charging you a ludicrous sum of money each month? It would make me feel a lot more confident sharing my intimate details if they also required my credit card. The only thing that could set my mind more at ease would be extensive biometrics

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  • [–] 62 points 8 months ago (32 children)

    Holy fuck TIL there is an anti-masturbation app.

    Wtf

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  • [–] 48 points 8 months ago (11 children)

    The US speaker of the house Mike Johnson has mentioned many times how he and his son monitor each other’s masturbation habits through an app

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  • [+] 6 points 8 months ago (5 children)
  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    I think the porn addiction thing is that you train your brain to seek the reward of sexual pleasure through the cheapest means possible: porn. Cheap as in fast, efficient, and often focusing on exactly what you want. Brain learns, “gee, this is a lot easier this way” and suddenly it’s more difficult to feel engaged with the more natural processes for sexy time.

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  • [–] 25 points 8 months ago (6 children)

    Can you believe the developers of that app are paying real money for ads for it? I get Quittr ads online and Facebook all the time. Someone is paying money to try and convince me to not to wank. I can't imagine a bigger waste of money.

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  • [–] 12 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    The part that really blows my mind is that someone is paying for this app..

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  • [–] 10 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

    Same but then I found out that most people I know pay close to $500/year in subscriptions alone. Some don't even remember all the subscriptions they have! A guy at my work was saying that money was really tight and he saved a ton just by cancelling his Adobe and Capcut subscriptions. That's on top of at least 3-4 streaming platforms as well.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    I mean in a way I get it. It's easier to just pay subscription services and to have to try and deal with the utterly terrible torrent sites which by the way are no better now than they were 20 years ago.

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago (9 children)

    Yeah, what does that even mean? And why would anyone want it?

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  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago (5 children)

    Because porn addiction is a real thing and some people who suffer from it want help.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    As someone who dealt for way too many years with a heroin addiction, I keep reading things like this and wanting to say stuff like 'porn addiction isn't a real addiction.' But TBF I've never had a porn addiction and don't know what it's like, so I can't say that. But there are undeniable differences.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    That's a reasonable position that doesn't invalidate the experiences of others [genuine]. There are definitely differences between heroin addiction and porn addiction, but either can be life ruining. Heroin tends to be more dangerous, but that can depend on what kind of porn the person is addicted to, just ask David Carradine.

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  • [–] -2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

    the similarities are far more numerous than not.

    porn/masturbation addiction targets the pleasure receptors in your brain and excites your brain to release dopamine.

    heroin does the same thing but "louder".

    you're not addicted to the drug, you're addicted to the dopamine rush and feelings.

    edit: downvote all you want, doesn't make my comment any less factual.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (1 child)

    I'm not downvoting you, but this doesn't explain why you get extreme physical withdrawals from heroin and not from porn.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    not porn alone.

    I guess somebody hasn't masturbated for 10 hours straight before. let me tell you, the backlash is insane enough to call in to work and then feel better enough to start all over for a whole new 12 hour marathon.

    besides that, the withdrawal from heroin is the bodies dependency on not only the heroin itself but the dopamine slingshot as well. again, you become addicted due to dopamine not the heroin itself. the drug is simply a vehicle to get the dopamine boost.

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  • [–] -3 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    I have always had a very high sex drive until I went on some medication that actually kills your libido(side-effect).

    At one point I was consuming porn 16-18 hours a day(including sleep). I was going to sleep playing nsfw asmr glucking just to get some restful sleep. I had collected almost 20tb of content. sufficient to say, I had a problem.

    my addiction was so bad that at one point I was listening to audio erotica on my way to and from work. you don't know shame until you look at the car next to you at a stop, and there's a disgusted mother staring you down while your car is screaming to "breed me daddy".

    Not long after I started my meds, I deleted my entire fap cache. if it wasn't for the meds, I would probably still be doing the same shit. an app like this would have been a nice tool to keep me in check.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (1 child)

    It is incredibly hard to believe that.

    I had collected almost 20tb of content.

    What were they all in 4K? 20 terabytes of video at 4K is around 7 days of non-stop content. But pretty much all pornography is not high quality stuff so we're looking at more like 22 weeks of content. Also who has 20 terabytes worth of storage anyway?

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    in erotic audio alone I had close to 2tb, close to 80k files if I can remember. most of it you probably couldn't even get anymore since the creators removed them from online.

    tens of millions of pictures.

    hundreds of thousands of clips/cam rips.

    and probably a couple thousand HD videos.

    at one time I had software that would watch cams of my favorite models that would fire up a browser and screen record their streams.

    I had it spread out across a raid array.

    honestly I probably could have started my own porn site if it weren't for all those pesky copyright laws. I did write a frontend too just to make browsing it easier. it had features like slideshows+audio mixing so I could have images of audio content with visual feedback. my favorite was creators that would post both audio and images. something about seeing the person I'm hearing made it way more intimate.

    I also had a collage mode for clips and video content. I would pre-select videos/clips and have them automatically fill out the entire page to maximize playing space. from there I could change the volume and size on each video. I wanted to make it so when a video stopped, another video on the list would play, but I was happy enough with looping them.

    of course everything could be saved as a playlist and viewed later too.

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  • [–] 87 points 8 months ago* (14 children)

    "Porn addiction," like "sex addiction," isn't recognized by the DSM-5, which classifies mental disorders. While porn-viewing can be compulsive, like other behaviors, research suggests that perceived porn addiction predicted distress over actual porn use itself. Yet, the idea of "porn addiction" persists in the U.S., which lacks comprehensive sex education requirements in many states; only 37 percent of states require sex education to be medically accurate, according to Boston University.

    What a perfect example of how sexuality is suppressed, controlled, then monetized in the US, and the harm it causes.

    Get ready for age verification data breaches like this, except on a worldwide scale.

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  • [–] 20 points 8 months ago (9 children)

    What a perfect example of how sexuality is suppressed, controlled

    You reminded me of a post I saw in r/catholicism. OP wanted to stop masturbating, but wasn't able to overcome the urge and felt very bad about it, knowing it was wrong, and was asking advice. All the comments were in the line of "Just trust and submit to Jesus and he'll help you".

    WTF... I felt bad for OP and other people in a situation like that.

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  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    All the comments were in the line of "Just trust and submit to Jesus and he'll help you".

    Stupid sexy Jesus

    Climbs onto the St Andrews Cross to submit

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    The subtext there is basically that if you're still not able to shake the habit, you haven't trusted or prayed enough, and that's why Jesus isn't helping.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    It's like people who reply "rtfm", except these people actually think they are helping, while the rtfm replier just thinks the question asker isn't worthy of their knowledge (or wants to hide that they don't know while maintaining their "I am wise" persona).

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  • [–] 8 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Sometimes RTFM is valid advice. Still condescending, but also valid.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    Yeah, though getting useful information out of documentation is a skill on its own that not everyone possesses. But I agree that "it's in the manual" can be useful, especially these days with how common useless manuals are.

    Like I just bought a motherboard and the paper manual it came with was useless, like it didn't even differentiate between installing Intel or AMD coolers, so clearly didn't contain much specific information for that particular board.

    The online manual had more useful information, unless you want more info about uefi settings, where you'll be lucky if it has full information of uefi options for the release uefi, let alone the latest version.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    My point wasn't to attack the people just saying "Go to Jesus" but there whole narrative that masturbating is seen in such a bad way. Complete control and supression of sexuality, where the OP felt genuinely bad for that, and the comments simply followed the wagon.

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  • [–] 11 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    A lot of things take decades to make it into the DSM even after identified and labeled by professionals, and a lot of things take decades to be removed after professionals say it's not a pathology.

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  • [–] 11 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Yeah. The DSM isn’t the final word here. Obviously any superstimulus will have extreme addictive potential. There’s no reason why pornography would be any different than, say, junk food in this regard.

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  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 child)

    These are great points and are important to consider for mental and sexual health. I also think that the risks accompanying age verification’s mass surveillance and capitalism’s exploitation of America’s institutional sexual repression have a far greater and more harmful impact than porn and masturbation.

    Of course, it’s not a bad thing that there is support for people in the form of this app, but I fear that legal policy is expanding to suppress sexuality without consent. For example, data from period tracking apps has already been used to persecute women who seek abortions. If the extreme religious right in America gets their way, could data from anti-masturbation apps or age verification services be used to help prove you accessed “illegal” pornography?

    It sounds insane, because it is, but I believe this is where we’re headed in a fascist, sexually repressive America. :/

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago

    That's who we've always been. The boomers and silent generation had a glimmer but we're given treats that required toeing the line, treats they guaranteed their children and grandchildren would never see, perhaps in ignorance/myopia, many of sheer selfishness and malicious intent.

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  • [–] 34 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    what a jerk off thing to do

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  • [–] 34 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Leak? Surely they mean "unintended emission."

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  • [–] 28 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Is this the one Mike Johnson and his son use?

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  • [–] 18 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    I think they use covenant eyes, which sees every web page that you view and analyzes text and pictures on every web page. When there is something flagged as sexual on the web page, it sends a report to your "accountability partner". Not sure exactly what's on the report, but safe to assume it shows web address, date, and time that the web page was loaded.

    Huge security breach to be on the Speaker's computer.

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  • [–] 27 points 8 months ago

    After the initial amazement, reason kicked back in: of course there would be an app for that, and of course some people would use it and share their intimate life with a company they know nothing about, because it has a bold line "We value your privacy" somewhere on its website.

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  • [–] 19 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Oh no, someone might find out they jerk off EVERY DAY!

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  • [–] 17 points 8 months ago

    ❌ antifa

    ✅ antifap

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  • [–] 16 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    I'm probably wrong but I could swear I messaged them on reddit years ago to ask if they'd release a generalized quit addiction app and they basically said they only cared about nofap.

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago* (1 child)

    Are these guys part of that litigious pseudo-cult? The one whose founder sued his own mother for talking about the extremist elements?

    Apparently there was a disavowal based on legal threats, but that doesn't mean much considering they seem to speak only in lawsuit

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  • [–] 14 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    when no nut november turns into no privacy april

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  • [–] 12 points 8 months ago

    Their security was a bit wank.

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    Mama didn't raise no quitter!

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  • [–] 8 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Doesn’t Mike Johnston and his son use this?

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    CovenantEyes, which is basically a surveillance app that you set up between you and an "accountability partner" who can see every webpage you browse and be alerted if it's potentially pornographic.

    Basically "JESUS IS WATCHING YOU".

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago

    Bunch of wankers

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    [–] 8 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    It's good that the article mentioned that pein addiction isn't real (or at least isn't a specific addiction), but weird that it left out the ties between no-Fap and the alt-right/incel community.

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago* (3 children)

    Oh no, is that what they're doing?

    They're convincing incels to nofap?

    I never really thought about the overlap but you're totally right on that.

    God, that explains so much.

    My dudes, rub your dick for a bit before you listen to Trump. Trust me on this. You need that pent-up PNC now in order to realize how batshit insane he is.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago

    Well sonny, do you whack off? Well I won't tell anyone for 3 bit coin.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago*

    The fuck kind of headline did I just read? Only in this timeline...

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    I bet it did.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago*

    That's why if I use apps to track sensitive data (can also be heath related, bad habits etc) i use a generic app (not things like HeartBeat or SpankTheMonkey), with secret codes and acronyms instead of plain labels

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