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[–] 72 points 8 months ago (5 children)

Sports culture. Betting, fantasy leagues, statistics. I immediately flatline if the conversation turns to it

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  • [–] 20 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Some folks get deep into D&D and build encyclopedic knowledge on estoric spell combos, some delve deep into trains, and some memorize how many lifetime touchdowns Joe Namath has. Dumb, but I understand it.

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  • [–] 11 points 8 months ago* (1 child)

    Its that reason why I say everyone is a nerd about something.

    Yah, you may be talking to the former school jock/football star who was barely handed their diploma, but ask them about their sport/the industries around it. You will likely get a better lesson on statistics and managment that you can get out of most text books. (Assuming you can keep the conversation focused)

    People usually like talking about their interests.

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  • [–] 11 points 8 months ago

    Same here. And it used to cripple me during meetings, and basic conversations with coworkers. I’ve worked in sales, construction, and inventory management and the sports convos were inescapable and apparently a huge key to relating to customers and colleagues.

    Just could never get into it, and not the type to fake it either. Unless I’m playing the sport, I could give a fuck less about others who I do not and will not ever know playing a sport.

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  • [–] 61 points 8 months ago (11 children)

    Streamer culture and Vtuber culture.

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  • [–] 14 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Some aspects of streamer culture I get, I do not understand vtuber culture. Youtube started recommending one to me because apparently played a video game I like and watch videos about, and...as far as I can tell her job is to be professionally sexually harassed. Like, men used to whistle at showgirls in saloons, now they throw virtual acorns at anime girls to "nut on" them.

    Fun part is her mom apparently found out, and participates.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago

    Oh, looks like I found mine.

    I know nothing about both but since I suspect vtubbbing brached from anime subcultures I kinda get why they did.

    Streamer though, I weirdly should be their demographic but I'm not.

    I'm an avid gamer, I follow youtuber since vlog brother/smosh era, so I witness Pewds rise to fame but never find any joy in watching it live.

    Like SovietWomble, his bullshitery series is top notch entertainment, I've rewatched the Arma and CS series multiple time, despite never played either one. Still didn't like watching it live.

    I think because it's similar with the one with celebrities. I just don't care with the parasocial aspect of it.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    I have no idea what the difference between those labels are.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

    Vtubers are a subset of streamers, they are subject to all the same drama and content. People just like to separate them because, similar to anime, there are many people who watch vtubers but don't watch other streamers.

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  • [–] 42 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Why people are infatuated with celebrities.

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  • [–] 8 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Same reason people like watching TV dramas. It's escapism. They get to vicariously live someone else's more colourful life - or are glad they're not living the celebrity's real or acted horrible life - for a short while to get away from their own.

    And anyone on a screen is usually better-looking as well, which is a big draw.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago*

    This is a really fair way to put it. I can't understand it personally, but I read fantasy books to escape the real world, and I tell anyone I can that I read fiction only because I live in the real world and I've had enough of its shit. So appreciate your shedding some light on it, because I certainly didn't understand it (celebrity nonsense). Still don't, but maybe I will soon.

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  • [–] 76 points 8 months ago (21 children)

    Furries. No hate, just not even remotely interested.

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  • [–] 24 points 8 months ago (11 children)
  • [–] 12 points 8 months ago (9 children)

    This would have been my top line comment. I wish anime wasn't such a glaring blind spot for me, because it's something so many people connect on. But I see it like reality TV. There's 1000 shows with 1000 episodes each, and some shows are probably great, but I've never been interested.

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  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    There are plenty with just one or two seasons and that’s it.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Reality TV or Anime? Cause either way, the medium just isn't my thing.

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago* (2 children)

    Sure, whatever. I’m just saying it’s a very broad cultural Japanese thing, and not just “hundreds of soap opera” episodes, or Naruto or whatever, I don’t even know myself. A lot of variety is what I’m saying.

    It’s actually pretty interesting. I guess “the west” is kinda prejudiced about what anime really is.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    No, I agree, and I'm not saying I dislike it for a good reason or even a vastly informed reason; I've watched a few, and they felt varied in content and style and tone (at least to me). I'm just saying sometimes it's as simple as "just don't like it". I don't like eggplant either; had it prepared a few different ways. I don't think it's that I just haven't found that magical preparation or mix of seasonings or whatever; just not a fan.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago*

    No judgment since I think many anime shows are not worth the time, but anime is just another medium, like books, more than anything. If there’s a genre of something you like on another medium, then there probably are some decent shows for that genre in anime.

    Lots of anime is written with a specific audience in mind, such as the most well known anime shows being written for teens and young adults. Even more, most anime has a specific gendered audience as its target audience.

    I personally didn’t care too much for anime until I watched some very high quality shows that pulled me more into the medium.

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Yeah it just seems like a random style of cartoon to me, i dont get why ppl are obsessed w this one type. Im probably just too ignorant

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    I find the idea bwhind each show is more compelling and tends to be more mature to what the west peovides in the same (animated) genre.
    You get the odd show like 'Invincible' that is more mature but they are way more rare than on the eastern entertainment domain.
    Can't really say I have noticed much shows that are on the level of 'Avatar the last airbender' in western tv (and that alone is a controversial topic of if it's a western cartoon or more eastern in influence)

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    FLCL has like 6 episodes and is a good entry point

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    FLCL is great, but it is pretty damned weird and better with knowledge of the material it parodies.

    Cowboy Bebop is the entry point to anime. It's mostly episodic so there's no need for a huge time investment. You'll know if you're going to like it or not after an episode or two. The only problem is that it's so damned good, it's only downhill from there.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    I'm kinda in this boat but I have a soft spot for anime that I grew up with in the 90s and early 2000's.

    There's also some more recent stuff that's been generally OK, but I can never keep up with conversations about it because I'm just not in that sphere at all really.

    Hit me with some Gen 1 Pokémon, Avatar: TLA or old Ghibli stuff and I'm waxing poetic instantly lol

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  • [–] 13 points 8 months ago (8 children)

    I'm a furry and even I don't get most furries, haha!

    Like, I'm here to be an animal. I heard "people who like to be animals" and went "whoa, sign me up!" and it turns out a lot of furries DON'T like to be animals, they just... pretend to be animals but "oh that's a character not really me" and they still consider themselves human...?... also they're only half-human-half-animals, not actual animal shape either?... I don't get it

    turns out most of the actual "I'm just an animal" animals are the therians instead (once I found them I decided I'd be both). I'm still a non-character, non-anthropomorphic (the furry jargon for normal animal shape is "feral") furry though, and the anthro furries can just deal. :3

    -- Frost

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  • [–] [S] 48 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Owenfromcanada: I dont want to know anything about furrys

    Forestbeast: super detailed descriptions of furry culture

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  • [–] 8 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    This is hilarious. Don’t get me wrong, @forestbeasts@pawb.social , I appreciate the details - a fascinating glimpse at something I didn’t know - but it’s funny timing with some of the other threads here

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  • [–] 8 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Haha yeah! :3 I uh, misread the critter I replied to as saying "I don't get it" rather than "I'm not even interested in getting it". Cue the massive infodump. >,,>

    I'm not that sorry, though. It's still fun to talk about and also kinda hilarious that it happened.

    -- Frost

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    Nope! I'm a wolf! :3

    I'm trans, but for species instead of gender. Yeah that's a thing. 🐺

    -- Frost

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  • [+] 10 points 8 months ago (1 child)
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    I used to think that, but then I realized human brains are kind of a mess so if weird things happen it's fine as long as nobody's hurting themselves or someone else

    If that's what they feel good for them, validity isn't a pie and more for a weird niche group isn't less for the rest

    And if they're trolling you're failing responding to trolls 101

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  • [–] 37 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    Lifestyle channels and blogs. This type of content is often very consumeristic. Unless it’s in an educational/informative context, I don’t have an interest in watching strangers have experiences that I could be having myself.

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  • [–] [S] 13 points 8 months ago (3 children)
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    Religion. Even when I've taken the time to look up the difference is between a Catholic and a Christian, or a Shia and a Sunni, it seems like within minutes at most, that knowledge just sublimates.

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  • [–] 20 points 8 months ago (7 children)

    difference is between a Catholic and a Christian

    Not sure if the error was intentional to make the point that you don't care, but Catholics are the largest denomination of Christianity, rather than an alternative to it.

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    The Dutch make a distinction between Catholic and Christian.

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago* (1 child)

    looks surprised

    goes to check Dutch Wikipedia

    https://nl.wikipedia.org/wiki/Katholicisme

    Using Google Translate to convert the overview to English, I get:

    Catholicism is considered the largest movement within Christianity. The term derives from the word "catholic" and comes from the Greek (καθολικός - katholikos), meaning general or universal. The term "catholic" was first used in the context of the church by Ignatius of Antioch. In a letter to the Christians of Smyrna in 107, he wrote: "Where Christ is, there is the Catholic Church."[1]

    Catholicism is united by two creeds, the Apostles' Creed and the Nicene-Constantinopolitan Creed, and can be divided into:

    Christians who unite under the Bishop of Rome (the Pope): Roman Catholics

    Other Christians who call themselves Catholic

    That sounds like they're classifying it the same way I'd normally see it in the English-speaking world.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    I'm from New Jersey and we all make a very big distinction between Catholicism and Christian. And lots of us were raised Catholic around here, and Christians all seem to be late-in-life converts, at least where I'm from. And I'm a typical nothinger now, but I'd take Catholicism and it's bullshit (not kid touching) over what I've experienced with the Christians around here, never met a faker bunch of people.

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  • [–] 10 points 8 months ago

    Zeus is the most important but he sucks. Poseidon is in charge of the sea and he really likes sinking ships. Hades is in charge of you when you're dead. Artemis and Athena are both aroace, but Artemis like platonic bathing with her besties while Athena prefers maps. Everyone hates Ares but not as much as Hephaestus, Hera will kill you if you cheat on your wife, and Hestia and Dionysus can't agree which one is more important. Some people say Persephone is a victim, but the truth is she's ruled the underworld a lot longer than her husband has. Demeter is not supportive.

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago

    Usually how those divisions occurred is much more interesting.

    I'm fascinated that certain ideas have persisted over millennia and curious what it is about them that has captured minds so consistently. Religion, but more broadly spirituality, seems to have a constant presence throughout human conciousness and that is quite remarkable.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    Think of it in terms of gladiator movies, the crusades, the fall of Rome. That shit is history, knights in armor, clash of cultures, and is full of drama as game of thrones

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  • [–] 28 points 8 months ago (1 child)
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    Tiktok and most kinds of short form content for me. I have a few friends into Tiktok and I'm sure it's fun but I just don't care to check it out.

    I've tried to see what the appeal of short form content is. Twitter, mastodon, and bluesky have all ended up being a shitty RSS feed interrupted by the opinions of strangers for me. Now I'm just over trying to get it. It's just another weird ass thing that tonnes of people are into.

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  • [–] 26 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    67

    I think it's funnier if I just never attempt to "get it"

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  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago (2 children)
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  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    It has gotten almost impossible to find a practical pickup truck. they're all giant penis enhancent vehicles.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Ugh, yes everything seems to be a four door and way too tall.

    I wish El Camino type low cars with beds made a comeback.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (1 child)

    Other than American pickups, the rest of them have stayed relatively reasonable sized. Toyota Hilux, Mitsubishi L200, Isuzu D-Max, Volkswagen Amarok, Ford Ranger, Nissan Navara, Mercedes X-Class ... There's plenty to choose from.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    Hmm...
    I'd argue against houses/living space (what is reasonable) but the other stuff: Yeah.

    Example:
    I'd like a living space with 3-4 rooms with a nice garden.
    Do I need that much when I could suffice with just 2? No.
    Would I like to, to do my hobbies and interests? Yep

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  • [–] 21 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    The kardashian universe. I’ve never seen an ep, don’t know their names or whatever the fuck they do or say. As a 30 year old woman I feel like a unicorn not knowing shit about fuck when it comes to that whole thing.

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  • [–] 21 points 8 months ago (6 children)

    Much of the outrage culture online is rather foreign to me. It's not necessarily that I don't "get" it but I simply can't relate with the people who engage in it. Writing angry messages about certain people and events, having people pat me on the back for sharing views that they agree with and reading other people sharing these same same views just seems like some kind of fart smelling gathering which simply just doesn't appeal to me. It's all just meaningless noise. That kind of "conversation" could go on forever and it wouldn't ever achieve anything.

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  • [–] 11 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    You've just described 95% of lemmy

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Which is why my keyword-based list of content filters grows by the day. Trying to block the noise feels like a full-time-job sometimes.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    I straight up quit lemmy for almost a year due to people pushing stuff so hard where even unrelated communities weren't safe from anything and no one would care because c/all would act as one feed anyway. It really does feel like people want to be outraged for the sake of outraging rather than wanting to change something for the better while doing it at the cost of undermining what they wish to "protect".

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  • [–] 15 points 8 months ago (2 children)
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    I had a thought while watching the Winter Olympics recently. Perhaps the Olympic Committee could send an every day hobbyist first. As sort of an OMG this course is bonkers. Just watch. Let’s say we take the type of skier hitting the Giant Slalom with nothing but some apres ski big talk & bragging of mogul crushing skills and let the poor mf’er do a gravity and inertia display? I’d watch. Then, the Olympic athletes would showcase their passion, skills & talented dedication towards this common sought goal.

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  • [–] 14 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Whatever the newest slang is, the only exception is if I want to embarrass some kids by using it wrong

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  • [–] 14 points 8 months ago

    Greed. Ignorance. Intolerance.

    Your workout, food, or personal hygiene regimen.

    Exploitation, expropriation, or extortion.

    Your subjective experience of opening a box, playing a video game, or viewing media.

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