post
Just use a picture of your dead grandpa, I'm sure he won't mind..
I tried to do that, but some guy ran up to me and shouted something about "desecrating" and graves"
I figure ai probably knows what ai is looking for, so I'm just going to generate a fake selfie if I need to.
Is it even looking for black and white / greyscale photos?
What if I give it a B&W of my own face? 🤔
Should I dump the ashes out or leave them in the urn?
My dad wanted us to roll his ashes into a joint and smoke him.
We respected his wishes to be cremated, but I'm sorry daddy, I don't think anyone's gonna be smoking your ashes..
Coward. I'll blaze your dad, hmu if he starts haunting you over this
Umm, okay. I still have ashes available, you gotta roll it and smoke it yourself though..
Haha I was just kidding, he probably was too. Genuinely down but it seems logistically tricky, if there's a haunting that needs addressed we can talk about flying me in then ;)
Have you seen "How High"?
I was just joking too, but dad seriously said that, almost every time we had friends over and a doobie going around..
He sounds like a cool guy. The bit's at least as old as cheech and chong, and the core premise of "How High" is gaining the knowledge of the dead by smoking their remains to pass college entrance exams. I used to tell the kids they should scrape my lungs for resin, here's Willie Nelson to elaborate the concept :)
They need a phoyo AND valid ID like drivers license
If you use Discord as a forum for your project/game/whatever, this is the perfect time to stop doing that. Seriously.
Just install Discourse, or a commercial product such as XenForo (they have a pay-once self-hosted option), or even phpBB.
We need project forums to be discoverable, easy to access, not tied to a commercial platform.
Discord is shit as a forum anyway - it's a chat room.
It was a lot easier to find answers or reply to questions on phpbb forums.
Not an unpopular opinion, I know, but I will die on the hill of Discord being the worst possible service for anyone who thinks they want to offer support for their software.
It's so comically bad for what SO MANY people use it, and is genuinely a point at which I'll just abandon the software and look for something that has an actual support forum.
Yeah I genuinely can't stand the layout of some of the support sections in discord.
I never understood the appeal of Discord or chat in general. Going all the way back to ICQ, I found it distracting. I'm guessing most people using it multitask, but I don't so I always just sat there staring at the program waiting for a reply.
I literally just did this. Except I'm not trying to drop any money into it at the moment, so I did a free hosting option (flarum).
I'm also going to hijack this comment to shamelessly plug my new forum, in the hopes someone might be willing to come join (https://unfinishedprojects.flarum.cloud/).
Yes! I'm joining "the young people"!
What do we do nowadays? Are we still tubular?
I think it'll be neato.
I hope irc comes back.
Matrix + Element.
It’s open source, decentralized (federated), supports voice/video, roles, persistent rooms, and you can self-host if you want full control. It’s basically the only thing that feels like a real discord replacement without being locked into one company’s servers.
I installed this yesterday and couldn’t find one room related to video games that had any chat messages in the past few years. I put a message in anyway, but not optimistic.
You can't order or group chats on Matrix.
You mean to say XMPP (eg.: Snikket + Conversations), right?
i like how light it is, but its just not sufficient for a 5 person DnD/gaming group like mine.
Not sufficient as in not sufficiently light? IRC (eg.: ngircd) is even lighter!
no no, i mean not sufficient in the way that cant handle voice and video calls with a stable connection between multiple people.
we wanted a discord alternative that allowed us most or all of the features of discord for our DnD campaigns and streaming to one another. it just wasnt stable for more than two or three people. let alone five lol.
not dissing it though, light tools always have their place. its just difficult enough trying to explain to a passive group of 30+ year olds that discord is the devil and we need to own the means of communication without offering a smooth(ish) transition process with similar quality and features.
Oooh!
If it wasn't closed-source I'd actually recommend Teamspeak for that use case. Elsewise, of the ones I've known personally the stablest would be Mumble, but the problem is the clients.
It's also important to recall that if we want to look for alternatives we have to be very willing to look for stuff that's not Discord 1:1 because otherwise what would be the point. Plus, it's unfair of us to ask full equivalence from hobbyist developers to match what a corporation that is selling our data to ensure cash flow can do.
Arent all of us 56 years old this year?
they do facial scanning and then put you in groups based on their assessment.
That's....SO creepy.
Granted he does have a full beard and has a ridiculously deep voice
Reminds me of my high school buddy that had a beard / deep voice, and looked just like his older brother. He would use his brother's old drivers license to buy beer and smokes for us.
Wouldn't mind being a teenager again. Ok, maybe not these days, but in general.
I backed up local copies of a couple of chats with some stuff I actually care about, using Tyrrrz DiscordChatExporter 2.43
You can already pretend to be a kid in a room with other kids on discord! There's a HUGE CSAM problem on it.
I stood my ground on not using this useless software for like 10 years. If there was no in-game chat or voice I just didn't, but almost all games where that is necessary have it.
How validated I feel as it crumples.
i made an acct last week because my lesbian game night group decided to start a ToR clan. none of us are going to age verify, so i guess we're going to get a new app. if i can convince them.
I'm checking out fluxer but it's getting hug of death right now. Root also looks promising but they are closed source and VC backed which gives me pause.
closed source and VC backed
Basically a non-starter at this point.
Maybe used to be these startups would compete for user affections by being more benevolent.
But nowadays the bare basics of even being competitive in the business is having a plan for gaining critial mass and then rapidly enshittifying for revenue before selling your product users to some new private equity overlords.
Open source used to be more of just a preference, or a virtue. Now it's basically the only way to not guarantee your exploitation.
switched straight to teamspeak
I'm 42. My wife is 40. Are we too old for discord?



top 100 comments