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[–] 60 points 9 months ago (6 children)

I got my girlfriend partially because I drove a 91 Accord in almost mint shape, not in spite of. She realized I value and take care of things and don't just throw them away because I'm bored or "they're old, I want new". Green flag.

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  • [–] 11 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    my 'new' car is four years newer than my older car

    I've had my older car for like seven years now

    the jump from ~2012 to whatever my next car is will either be an even bigger relative step backwards in age, or be huge because of how many years of vehicles are simply not an option due to shitty tech, touchscreens, bad UI design, and LED headlights

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  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago

    I'm trying to fix up my parents old 01 Toyota sequoia. Gonna use it as our family vacation vehicle. 14mpg, but seats 8 with trunk space and a hitch cargo thingy. Split the gas between 6 ppl and plenty of room for everyone.

    Plus there's actually room to work on the vehicle and no proprietary computer stuff that needs to be done at the dealer.

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  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago* (3 children)

    How fuck is it possible? I ride not that old Kawasaki Vulcan S from 2014 and I just can't keep up with the repairs.

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago

    Don't abuse it and do all your own work. I keep most of my stuff running by inspecting frequently and doing repairs before it's an "oh shit will this get me to work" kind of failure. Also motorbikes are a bit different than cars, they run way closer to their mechanical maxes and are just lighter overall. They typically break down quicker.

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago (1 child)

    Other than brakes, tires, oil, maybe a chain+sprocket when they start to look sad, what kind of repairs?

    Maybe start looking at used Hondas?

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  • [–] 18 points 9 months ago

    2004 was not the best looking years but a 1994 hatch? That is a classy ride.

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  • [–] 15 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    My first 2 cars were 1990 Honda Civics!

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  • [–] 11 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    I miss my old 1992 Accord. Should have kept it instead of selling it when I got my 2012 Civic.

    Even with the weird start issue, turns out it was probably just a bad clutch safety switch that somehow multiple mechanics missed... Had the exact same issue come up with the brand new Civic.

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  • [–] 8 points 9 months ago (1 child)
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    Mom being the best wingman ever

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  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago

    Moms just like to slide those burns into conversation.

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  • [–] 6 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    Oh yeah. A car shows your social status and you want to impress others. If you drive an expensive car, of course women will want to be your girlfriend.

    I wonder what his father drives? Did he also give his mother cookies because he didn't have the correct car to impress?

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  • [–] 8 points 9 months ago

    Oh yeah. A car shows your social status and you want to impress others. If you drive an expensive car, of course women will want to be your girlfriend.

    I mean it IS true, but you don't want those women anyway.

    Drive a shitbox and the women who still like you will have much better personalities.

    Not sure what the equivalent is when you reverse the genders. Put as little effort into your appearance as possible for the first date? Idk. I think superficial men judge women by their appearance more than their wealth.

    But I also think the mom in this exchange was joking

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago

    A 2004 Honda civic? In this economy? Shit that's a roof and reliable transpo dudes a catch

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    A civic after the 2011 redesign is a decent car. At least with the 2.2L engine

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    chat I drive a 1.5L, am I cooked

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago

    Thats a turbo right? Tbf I didn't know Honda had turbo engines on their civics.

    I had a 2008 (Hatchback) 1.8L VTEC and loved it. (2.2L was never imported to Norway by the importer because of high pollution tax) Stiff suspension, sort of bucket seats and low profile tires.

    You in the US? Is the 1.5L turbo the same as in EU?

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  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago

    "you need to prove your worth because you don't waste your money on bullshit. Also, I'm a terrible mother"

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    [–] 61 points 9 months ago (11 children)

    90s/early 2000s Civics were great. Comfortable ride and well maintainable. WTF is mom on about here, an ‘04 Civic is a great car.

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  • [–] 12 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Never been in one but they definitely seem nice. driving any 90s/2000s sedan would definitely make me like a date better, especially given how many people I know drive horrible modern SUVs

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  • [–] 6 points 9 months ago

    Definitely. I miss driving sedans and small hatchbacks, up until a few years ago they’re all I’d ever driven.

    I currently have a Kia Sportage only because I moved to a rural area and needed something that could deal with country roads and off-road. Otherwise I’d still be driving my old ‘07 Accent, that thing gave me zero problems in well over 100k miles.

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  • [–] 9 points 9 months ago (4 children)

    I sometimes miss my '01. Don't miss the leaking taillight seals causing humidity problems.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    My '10 Versa's having the same humidity problems from so many rear end collisions. The cabin smells so moldy and nothing seems to work. It's a shame really because that thing can drive for another 100k miles easily.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago* (2 children)

    Get some of these and it should take care of the moisture issues. One should last at least 3-4 months. Replace as needed. Then just find some kind of fabric cleaner and air freshener and you should be good to go.

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  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Oh it's worse than that. The rainy season just ended and for a long while I could hear water sloshing around in the undercarriage by braking too hard. It's not something than can be easily fixed with some dessicant at this point. I sprayed the shit out of the cabin with room deodorant and left the windows open for a while. It helps a little but it's like coating shit with sugar.

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  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    I dunno. My mom was in a wreck with one and bit off her bottom lip when she hit the steering wheel because the air bags didn’t go off. We later found out that was a surprisingly common problem for that model year.

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  • [–] 18 points 9 months ago (5 children)

    Those are some nice fat cookies.

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  • [–] 16 points 9 months ago

    That's a classic car by today's standards 

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  • [–] 14 points 9 months ago

    What's wrong with a Civic?

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  • [–] 23 points 9 months ago (8 children)

    Are ‘muricans really this obsessed with cars that the model or car you drive affects your dating prospects?

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  • [–] 17 points 9 months ago* (1 child)

    Yes and it cuts both ways. Prior to transition when I was driving an Infiniti I got female attention but driving beat up Hyundais and Fords the only attention I got was from the police, like driving around with a sign that says, "pull me over".

    Post transition my life circumstances are much better but the cars affect my dating prospects totally differently. Driving a brand new performance model EV in 2022 I had at least two dates where the guy would lose all interest in me once they saw I was driving a car that costed several times their annual income.

    You could literally see all interest melt off their face, "my car is the white sedan, can you drop me off there?"

    Immediate flip from being warm and engaged to this cold, "gtfo out of my Nissan" vibe

    You can't have a shitty car as a man and you can't have a nicer car as a trans woman

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  • [–] 11 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

    Driving a brand new performance model EV in 2022 I had at least two dates where the guy would lose all interest in me once they saw I was driving a car that costed several times their annual income.

    Sounds like you dodged at least 2 bullets.

    Wait "performance model EV" wasn't a Tesla, was it? They may have been in fear for their lives.

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  • [–] 13 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Are you really so arrogant as to believe that perception of socio-economic class is exclusively an American consideration when it comes to dating?

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago

    No, but the fact that a car is seen as an indication of socio-economic class is.

    Plenty of people who drive really nice cars who are broke as fuck and plenty of people who could easily afford a luxury car who drive a 20 year old piece of junk.

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  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago*

    It’s a class war thing more than anything. Cops will pick on you more if you drive certain models of cars or a car that’s a total clunker with a busted window that’s taped up. Most people here don’t really care what you drive in the dating world unless you come from a wealthier background and are a snooty dick about it.

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  • [–] 16 points 9 months ago (20 children)

    I forgot straight people exist and was confused why a 2004 Honda Civic would be a problem

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  • [–] [S] 30 points 9 months ago (19 children)

    Unfortunately classism is ever prevalent amongst us queers too. Typically more tolerant though which is nice.

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  • [–] 25 points 9 months ago (17 children)

    a 2004 Honda Civic is like a personal green flag for me, it's actually hard to wrap my head around that being a bad thing

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  • [–] 15 points 9 months ago (11 children)

    You live in an appearance obsessed fantasy world full of people who say that "YouTuber" and "Influencer" are their #1 career choices.

    Sensible people don't see anything wrong with a Civic.

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  • [–] 11 points 9 months ago (10 children)

    I also realized if OOP is a man, that sometimes women will judge men on their financial status because the traditional path assumes "the woman" will need to depend on "the man" financially as a stay-at-home mom, and so a desirable man to a traditional, straight woman is usually a wealthy man.

    Since I'm a gay woman and I accidentally assumed OOP was also a gay woman, I found it really confusing why she was worried the girl she is going out on a date would judge her for her old but reliable car.

    The whole meme makes more sense to me with OOP being a straight man 😅

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  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago* (9 children)

    My ex and I were joking about that. I asked her what kind of car would instantly cause her to nope out if someone came to pick her up... "PT Cruiser." No hesitation.

    I am inclined to agree.

    As for the "assumed OOP" thing - we all do that, I think. I know I do constantly and have to check myself, even though I think it's pretty minor in the grand scheme of things. That is, of course, as long as we can all agree about PT Cruisers. ;)

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  • [–] 6 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    I think a Hummer would give me the ick faster; I feel like a PT Cruiser is ugly and poor taste, but I would at least find out if like they inherited the car or someone gifted them the car before nopeing out, whereas a Hummer wouldn't probably get that level of benefit of the doubt, I would be looking for the quickest opportunity to nope.

    I think I would also feel that way about Corvettes and certain other luxury cars. BMW is also a red flag. Lexus is borderline.

    But yeah, I'm also not a typical person who actually went on dates or participated in much courting. At some point it was my goal to never have a romantic partner, and I see it as a fluke (even a failure) that someone found me anyway.

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago (5 children)

    Why its just a car? The only red flag with a car I could think of is like a super expensive or impractical choice. Why would you judge a pt cruiser? Very reasonable car.

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago (3 children)

    Whats impractical? Like a giant pickup or '60 mg mga or similar era italian sports car you need to carry special order parts in the trunk in case it breaks down? 20 year old sports bike?

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    I'll judge over the extended swingarm

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