[–] 1 point 8 hours ago

Success I was talking about (also in the video) is not about floating above poverty. It's about breaking in higher middle class tier. I believe chasing this tier of income starting from poverty will do a number on you. In the process of getting to higher income you'll exchange your health, family and empathy for opportunity to earn progressively higher income


For the context, I grew up in a hood, had quite limited social safety net, worked about a dozen jobs paying fraction of minimum wage before turning 18. I felt miserable most of the time -- in hindsight I realize I was often simply hungry & cold but at the time it felt like world simply hates me.

I moved to local capital and had experience in success chasing game. I earned several times the average country average while working clean & prestigious office jobs. Yet despite the money, success chasing brought me to the lowest low of mental health until I couldn't go on. Therapy, medicine and vacation just weren't extreme enough to help me recover in some reasonable time frame. Experience of my peers shows similar story: while playing the success chasing game, everyone eventually breaks, get traumatized, get cynical or simply isolate away

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  • [–] 3 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

    I find it weird that success is conflated with (large) income. Authentic personal success is at best tangential to income and at worst contradictory to it

    Do you want healthy living? Income will run you into your grave

    Want a close joyful family? Income will keep you away from them

    Wanna be a better version of yourself? Income will train you to be exploitative tyrant

    Success is a trap

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  • [–] 5 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    Bros, the stupidity of headline is intentional. Don't spread around their talking points just to mock it.

    They produce those mockable headlines specifically so you'd boost the reach. Don't feed the trolls

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    How to Access the Public Beta Branch The Public Beta is an optional branch separate from the current default version. This update will not automatically replace the default version of the game on Steam. If you'd like to try out the new features and improvements, follow these steps:

    1. Right-click Torchlight II in your Steam Library and select Properties.
    2. Go to Betas and select the public_beta branch.
    3. Wait for Steam to download and install the update, then launch the game.
    [–] 3 points 2 weeks ago

    Antidepressants

    Seriously, when you're depressed to the point of self unaliving ideation it's inconceivable to be optimistic. But when you're not depressed it's hard even to imagine the level of misery depressed person is going through. All of this to say, hopelessness and despair isn't normal -- even in modern times.

    A lot of people I know is on antidepressants or used to be at some point. Talk to random acquaintances about potential psychiatrist visit and some of them could actually get you some leftover drugs for free. Sometimes taking just one week course is enough to feel that it's working.

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  • [–] [S] 20 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

    In relation to this game I don't really know anything about their dev process so I don't try to claim anything besides devs own words

    Game is decade+ old, original dev studio is claimed to be dead, franchise is taken over by capital, last patch is decade old. Some fairly good news is nice anyway

    I just noticed that noone at Lemmy brought up the news, so here it is

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