90s/early 2000s Civics were great. Comfortable ride and well maintainable. WTF is mom on about here, an ‘04 Civic is a great car.
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Those are some nice fat cookies.
They don't even look baked
I know right? I’m desperate for the recipe
Are ‘muricans really this obsessed with cars that the model or car you drive affects your dating prospects?
Decades of propaganda by the auto industry, especially through cinema and TV, has programmed people to think that if you don't have a nice car you won't get laid.
Yes and it cuts both ways. Prior to transition when I was driving an Infiniti I got female attention but driving beat up Hyundais and Fords the only attention I got was from the police, like driving around with a sign that says, "pull me over".
Post transition my life circumstances are much better but the cars affect my dating prospects totally differently. Driving a brand new performance model EV in 2022 I had at least two dates where the guy would lose all interest in me once they saw I was driving a car that costed several times their annual income.
You could literally see all interest melt off their face, "my car is the white sedan, can you drop me off there?"
Immediate flip from being warm and engaged to this cold, "gtfo out of my Nissan" vibe
You can't have a shitty car as a man and you can't have a nicer car as a trans woman
Driving a brand new performance model EV in 2022 I had at least two dates where the guy would lose all interest in me once they saw I was driving a car that costed several times their annual income.
Sounds like you dodged at least 2 bullets.
Wait "performance model EV" wasn't a Tesla, was it? They may have been in fear for their lives.
Are you really so arrogant as to believe that perception of socio-economic class is exclusively an American consideration when it comes to dating?
It’s a class war thing more than anything. Cops will pick on you more if you drive certain models of cars or a car that’s a total clunker with a busted window that’s taped up. Most people here don’t really care what you drive in the dating world unless you come from a wealthier background and are a snooty dick about it.
I forgot straight people exist and was confused why a 2004 Honda Civic would be a problem
Unfortunately classism is ever prevalent amongst us queers too. Typically more tolerant though which is nice.
a 2004 Honda Civic is like a personal green flag for me, it's actually hard to wrap my head around that being a bad thing
You live in an appearance obsessed fantasy world full of people who say that "YouTuber" and "Influencer" are their #1 career choices.
Sensible people don't see anything wrong with a Civic.
I also realized if OOP is a man, that sometimes women will judge men on their financial status because the traditional path assumes "the woman" will need to depend on "the man" financially as a stay-at-home mom, and so a desirable man to a traditional, straight woman is usually a wealthy man.
Since I'm a gay woman and I accidentally assumed OOP was also a gay woman, I found it really confusing why she was worried the girl she is going out on a date would judge her for her old but reliable car.
The whole meme makes more sense to me with OOP being a straight man 😅
My ex and I were joking about that. I asked her what kind of car would instantly cause her to nope out if someone came to pick her up... "PT Cruiser." No hesitation.
I am inclined to agree.
As for the "assumed OOP" thing - we all do that, I think. I know I do constantly and have to check myself, even though I think it's pretty minor in the grand scheme of things. That is, of course, as long as we can all agree about PT Cruisers. ;)
I think a Hummer would give me the ick faster; I feel like a PT Cruiser is ugly and poor taste, but I would at least find out if like they inherited the car or someone gifted them the car before nopeing out, whereas a Hummer wouldn't probably get that level of benefit of the doubt, I would be looking for the quickest opportunity to nope.
I think I would also feel that way about Corvettes and certain other luxury cars. BMW is also a red flag. Lexus is borderline.
But yeah, I'm also not a typical person who actually went on dates or participated in much courting. At some point it was my goal to never have a romantic partner, and I see it as a fluke (even a failure) that someone found me anyway.
Why its just a car? The only red flag with a car I could think of is like a super expensive or impractical choice. Why would you judge a pt cruiser? Very reasonable car.
They're not the only person who thinks a PT Cruiser is poor taste ...
Whats impractical? Like a giant pickup or '60 mg mga or similar era italian sports car you need to carry special order parts in the trunk in case it breaks down? 20 year old sports bike?

I'll judge over the extended swingarm
Like it? Did it myself, keeps the bike on the ground, since it goes so fast now I straight-piped the cat, removed the mirrors, and the license plate holder.
And you're really cool if you also have a 2004 printer.
https://www.tumblr.com/biggaybunny/166787080920/tech-enthusiasts-everything-in-my-house-is-wired
I got my girlfriend partially because I drove a 91 Accord in almost mint shape, not in spite of. She realized I value and take care of things and don't just throw them away because I'm bored or "they're old, I want new". Green flag.
my 'new' car is four years newer than my older car
I've had my older car for like seven years now
the jump from ~2012 to whatever my next car is will either be an even bigger relative step backwards in age, or be huge because of how many years of vehicles are simply not an option due to shitty tech, touchscreens, bad UI design, and LED headlights
I'm trying to fix up my parents old 01 Toyota sequoia. Gonna use it as our family vacation vehicle. 14mpg, but seats 8 with trunk space and a hitch cargo thingy. Split the gas between 6 ppl and plenty of room for everyone.
Plus there's actually room to work on the vehicle and no proprietary computer stuff that needs to be done at the dealer.
How fuck is it possible? I ride not that old Kawasaki Vulcan S from 2014 and I just can't keep up with the repairs.
Don't abuse it and do all your own work. I keep most of my stuff running by inspecting frequently and doing repairs before it's an "oh shit will this get me to work" kind of failure. Also motorbikes are a bit different than cars, they run way closer to their mechanical maxes and are just lighter overall. They typically break down quicker.
Other than brakes, tires, oil, maybe a chain+sprocket when they start to look sad, what kind of repairs?
Maybe start looking at used Hondas?
2004 was not the best looking years but a 1994 hatch? That is a classy ride.
My first 2 cars were 1990 Honda Civics!
I miss my old 1992 Accord. Should have kept it instead of selling it when I got my 2012 Civic.
Even with the weird start issue, turns out it was probably just a bad clutch safety switch that somehow multiple mechanics missed... Had the exact same issue come up with the brand new Civic.
Yet another alt?
Oh yeah. A car shows your social status and you want to impress others. If you drive an expensive car, of course women will want to be your girlfriend.
I wonder what his father drives? Did he also give his mother cookies because he didn't have the correct car to impress?
Oh yeah. A car shows your social status and you want to impress others. If you drive an expensive car, of course women will want to be your girlfriend.
I mean it IS true, but you don't want those women anyway.
Drive a shitbox and the women who still like you will have much better personalities.
Not sure what the equivalent is when you reverse the genders. Put as little effort into your appearance as possible for the first date? Idk. I think superficial men judge women by their appearance more than their wealth.
But I also think the mom in this exchange was joking
A 2004 Honda civic? In this economy? Shit that's a roof and reliable transpo dudes a catch
A civic after the 2011 redesign is a decent car. At least with the 2.2L engine
chat I drive a 1.5L, am I cooked
Thats a turbo right? Tbf I didn't know Honda had turbo engines on their civics.
I had a 2008 (Hatchback) 1.8L VTEC and loved it. (2.2L was never imported to Norway by the importer because of high pollution tax) Stiff suspension, sort of bucket seats and low profile tires.
You in the US? Is the 1.5L turbo the same as in EU?
"you need to prove your worth because you don't waste your money on bullshit. Also, I'm a terrible mother"
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