I was talking to one of my friends and he mentioned staying home on July 4, citing how there are a lot of really ugly things going on in the US.

After thinking about this myself, I'm starting to feel the same way. Instead of being proud of the country, I'm feeling like I'm just another wallet that companies and the government are trying to suck all the money out of.

The cost of living is going up, the housing market is a nightmare, I don't feel very confident in our government at all, the job market is a nightmare...

I think I'll be staying home this year too... anyone else?

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[–] 1 point 1 year ago

Considering I dont live in the US, yes

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Yep, not celebratin shit. Wife wants to invite friends over mostly cuz it’s a free day off.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Crossing my fingers for the local firework display barge catch fire in the bay. I just want a fun omen.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    bravely seating down

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  • [–] 26 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Good day to march on your White House, perhaps…

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  • [–] [S] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I thought about this too. In the past I used to go to protests because I felt that if our leaders saw the protest that they might change their mind about something.

    Now, so many of our citizens are so insane, they think you won't actually protest unless George Soros pays you. I also can't picture Trump seeing a protest and saying "I think I'll reconsider..." It feels more futile than ever.

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago

    It’s never futile. Sure, Trump will never listen, never care about anyone whose not himself, never face justice (crap, now you’re depressing me), but what about Al the minion who do his bidding. I mean, they’re evil too, but going deeper ….

    This all can’t happen without supporters. Maybe it’s voters who are low information or easily manipulated finally seeing the truth. Maybe it’s federal employees feeling the support to do the right thing. Maybe it’s law enforcement growing shame at how they’ve been used. Maybe it’s judicial branch standing up from being marginalized and corporatized, fighting back against legalized bribery and corroded ethics at the highest court.

    The billionaires big bill was passed in the senate on a tie breaker. It would have take only one more senator to be swayed. Big elections coming up in a little over a year- your peers might elect someone who will actually serve them. Various states and cities, corps and law firms are standing up for what’s right: maybe you can get one more

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  • [–] 52 points 1 year ago (9 children)

    Celebrating America hasn't been something to be proud of since before 2001. We had a couple of high points during Obama, but nothing that tipped the scales.

    I'm personally disgusted by this place, and anytime I see someone with an American flag anywhere on their person or property, I immediately assume they're a conservative and I think lesser of them. I know that this isn't a reality, but that is what the American flag means to me, and I assume quite a few others.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Absolutely like that for me. Or Christians. If I know you're a Christian within 15 min of meeting you, we are not going to be friends.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    In my lifetime, I’ve met ONE very religious Christian who wasn’t a hypocrite. ONE. He was a very nice guy, though, and I hope he and his family are doing well.

    The remaining 99.9% of the time, I’m absolutely with you.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    There a very few notably religious people that I associate with. I have a coworker that was a pastor for years and is still religious. He approaches it in the way I think it should be. We discuss religion as a theory, he doesn't push or tell people what to believe. His belief is that God has his plans and that's between him and each person. If every religious person lived like him, I'd have a lot less issue with it. I don't agree with many of his other beliefs that are born from his religious background, but he's not trying to impose them on anyone or prevent anyone from living their lives.

    Other than him, and even still sometimes him, I agree with you. It's like a scarlet letter that was put on volunteerily to say, "hey, I'm a dick and my beliefs are correct and apply to everyone."

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    Honestly as a religious person myself I'm constantly disgusted this isn't the norm.

    If the topic of religion ever comes up, the theory is my favourite conversation. I'm not here to sell you on my view of God, and I don't want you to sell me on yours. It's two sides of the same frankly quite interesting coin, and I like learning about the different ways people do things - but I'm not here to make you do things my way. That would be wrong.

    And unless the topic comes up organically, it doesn't fucking matter. We can work together or be best mates or whatever and unless you asked, you'd never have to know I was religious.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

    If those people didn't have hippcrasy hypocrisy, they'd have nothing.... Well, they'd still have racism, bigotry, and a bunch of other shitty attributes I guess.

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  • [–] 41 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    I've said it before and I'll say it again, but HOW THE FUCK could I EVER be proud of this country anymore??? We've done nothing to deserve respect or patriotism.

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  • [–] 31 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Why are you attaching a person who obviously is opposed to the current administration? Like, I understand your sentiment, but this person ain't the one.

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    [–] 39 points 1 year ago

    I haven't felt patriotic for July 4 since I was a teenager. And I grow more aliented every year.

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    Flags have become a warning over the last decade or so about the person waving it. It no longer has the hope of a better America, solidarity, or welcome; it’s a symbol of a myopic, selfish, aggro, uneducated person full of performative nationalism and real hatreds.

    Our independence was supposed to free the people of kings and tyrants. It’s been 249 years since 1776, we have undone what the Constitution authors fought for.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    Our independence was supposed to free the people of kings and tyrants. It’s been 249 years since 1776, we have undone what the Constitution authors fought for.

    That's what happens if you stick with a quarter-millennium old prototype of a semi-democratic system.

    The constitution was revolutionary and ground-breaking, a quarter millennium ago. But still running that old piece of toilet paper as the basis of a democratic system in 2025 is like driving a Ford Model T today and claiming that it still is the latest and greatest automobile ever created.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I always find irony in the fact that the US helped set up better forms of government in the countries it fought in WW2, Japan and Germany, than it could make better in its own country.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    It does make sense though. The main motivator for politicians is power. That means, naturally political systems flow towards maximizing power for those in power, that's just the natural progression.

    To change this, major political upheavals are necessary, so basically events where the whole old leadership is tossed out and the new leadership can try to setup something to stop the same thing from happening again.

    WW2 was perfect for that. All those countries were in need of a completely new political system and thus they could be built better from the ground up.

    The US never had any event like that (apart maybe from the civil war).

    To change the system without such an event, two thirds of all relevant politicians would have to vote for changing the system that brought them to power. Not likely to happen.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    This is why we have constitutional amendments. It's been extended a good bit over the last centuries. The tools are there but nobody wants to, or can agree on how to, use them.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    Have you looked at the amendments? So far there have only been 27 of them over 236 years. Ten of them were created within a year of the constitution being created. They were basically Zero-Day-Patches, not actual amendments, and two amendments only exist to nullify each other (18 and 21) which leaves 15 amendments over 235 years (one of which was actually also created within the first year and only ratified 200 years later).

    The last time an amendment was proposed was 54 years ago and the last one ratified was 33 years ago.

    Not counting the Zero-Day-Patches, not a lot of these amendments actually change anything fundamental. Notable ones are 12 (governs the election of VP), 13-15 and 19 (civil rights), 17 (election of senators), 22 (president's term limit) and 25 (succession of the president).

    Notably absent from the amendments is anything that changes the core political system or electoral system.

    Compare that to other countries. In the time that the US constitution hat 15 minor amendments, France had a total of 15 complete constitution re-writes, not even counting amendments. 15 full new constitutions.

    Germany had 69 constitutional amendments since 1949 (76 years, so almost one amendment per year, compared to the 1/16 amendments per year in the USA).

    But by far the biggest issue is that a constitutional amendment cannot actually fix fundamental systemic issues. The people who have the power to change the constitution came to power within the current system, so if they fundamentally change how the system works (e.g. by repairing the electoral system in a way that more than two parties can be relevant), they are directly cutting into their own power, so of course they won't do that.

    That's what you need major constitutional crises for (like e.g. Europe after WW2), so that the constitution can be re-written from scratch, fixing the issues that lead to the crisis.

    But the US has been too big to fail for too long and thus there never was anything big enough to take down the US so that it needed to be restarted from scratch. The closest they came to was the civil war, but they didn't take the opportunity to actually overhaul the system. Probably because it was still too early and there wasn't much of a precedent of how to build a better democratic system.

    But who knows, at the current rate it might be likely that the US is quite close to another chance to re-write the constitution.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    I’ve never been more ashamed to be an American.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 year ago

    As an immigrant to the US, I've always found the blind patriotism commonplace here to be very strange. It feels even more alienating now than ever before.

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  • why celebrate independence day?

    it was supposed to be about gaining independence from tyranny.

    We're back with kings and tyrants.

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  • [–] 20 points 1 year ago

    Havent felt proud to be an American in a long while. I'm proud of loving thy neighbor as myself, not lining the pockets of billionaires. I hate that I'm powerless to do much. Representative democracy? My ass. No one represents me. They're all aristocrats. "it's one banana, Michael. What could it cost, $10?"

    I'm not bitter about it at all. /s

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  • [–] 40 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    I'm a USAF vet. My ancestors literally fought in the revolutionary war, and signed The Declaration of Independence. I'm going through the motions this year, but I don't feel it at all. I'm pissed that we're multiple stages into a nazi regime. I'm profoundly flabbergasted at how anyone could be for this. How anyone that is for it, can't see that they're going to be the "out" party. Some already are seeing it.

    I'm incredibly disappointed that the news has gotten so out of touch that they just rolled over and lapped up the rhetoric. Local news is all sunshine and rainbows while ICE kidnaps people, and a corrupt POtuS breaks the constitution left and right. While he deploys military against its own citizens. While rights are stripped, aided by a corrupt SCOTUS. While the rich get richer off of our backs. While the checks and balances are obliterated.

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    I see where you're at. I take no offense. I definitely could be doing more. I can't work either, so it isn't like I don't have the time. Physical issues are my only real hold back. My enlistment was fear of being trapped in an abusive home, as well as feeling like high school didn't offer enough of an education to prepare me. We both have the luxury of doing what we're doing.

    However, I offer a few counter points.

    What does killing 1 ICE "officer" accomplish? How does that affect change in the right direction? Does this cause others to do the same and follow suit?

    We need more that I don't think we're at the point of accomplishing yet. We need a full on civil war. One that I'm not sure how we get to kick off, all at the same time, all across the nation, without it fizzling out quickly.

    The problem then comes in how to coordinate that. How do we communicate, nation wide, in a way that is not vulnerable to monitoring and disruption by the very place we're trying to change? How do we coordinate arming and supplies? How do we coordinate movements and operations?

    We can't stop at just POtuS either. 99% of it needs to go. Dem leadership has been largely sitting on the bloody nubs that they try to "reach across the aisle" with. SCOTUS and most all other courts are compromised. Plus the billionaires, the behind the scenes assholes, and even state and local governments. It all needs a clean sweep.

    We have too comfortable of a life. We're too complacent. We were too far removed from the fascism that spilled over in Europe. We were too padded. It didn't really hit us, in either world war, back here. Our troops came back home and went back to regular life as usual. We had a civil war, but we didn't punish any of the perpetrators. That led us right back where we're at. At the time though, you could survive on your own. Support a family off of the land. There wasn't much of an infrastructure. There was no pain to be felt by the general populace (loss of life aside).

    I do think we'll get to full on armed conflict. I feel as though mid terms will be the kicker. I just don't know if armed conflict is where we're at yet. Not that I don't think we should be. It's that the general populace is too comfortable. We, apparently, need our lives to hurt more. To be affected more. Is it sad? Absolutely. Is it very much against everything that the founding fathers envisioned, especially when drafting up the 2nd? Absolutely. They would be completely disgusted with all of us. Myself included.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

    The fix is not killing ICE officers.

    The civil rights movements of the 60s, Jim Crow, etc, won by being willing to be beaten. By voluntarily entering a cafe and sitting there waiting to be served like a human being, meanwhile being willing to be called names, dropped food and drinks onto them, burnt with cigarettes, abused.

    That willingness and perseverance in wanting to be recognised as the human beings they are awoke the rest of the population.

    Pacifist demonstrations and matches are a way to achieve that. They are displays for your fellow colleagues, not for the government you want to depose. Make clear that they are pacifist. Prepare and inform the people going. Sit down if you are charged. Stop violent people there. Etc. Make obvious that the fascist are fascists that way and say and invigorate people to your side.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago*

    The first act that started the Tunisian "Arab Spring" was just one street seller being killed by the police.

    There is no "correct" spark. And nobody knows what will spark a war until it has happened.

    Maybe some guy that gets shot by ICE, maybe some guy that kills an ICE thug, maybe something else.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    Absolutely no shade my friend. I am absolutely as pissed off as you are. I really wish it would make a difference. Many of us do. It just isn't quite there yet. The stew is close, we just need the vegetables to get ready.

    I love the discourse as well. We don't get a feel for everyone's feelings towards things when we don't. Others may even bring up things we hadn't thought about, or an angle we didn't see.

    Good luck to you as well!

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    I find the bit about believing the lies we're fed as somewhat naive. We're all on a journey, and everyone starts in a different place, with unique foundations.

    My current opinions vary wildly from those held 20 years ago. Change is a good thing, and I think it should be expected as the norm.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    If you want to be effective at changing the system, killing random ICE Nazis won’t do it. Everyone here is advocating peaceful protest, but that also won’t do it - or at least, not by itself.

    Instead, consider direct action - sabotage of the means of production that prop up the fascist state.

    Take a listen to Rev Left’s interview with Palestine Action to learn what I’m talking about: https://revolutionaryleftradio.libsyn.com/size/5/?search=Palestine+action

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    [–] 128 points 1 year ago (36 children)

    Not being American I always found the whole thing very creepy. Like, North Korean military parade-creepy.

    For the record, we don't have anything like that where I'm from, but the closest things we do have are also very creepy. Patriotism in general is extremely not cool, honestly.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    I mean, it's just fireworks. The US does a lot more creepy jingoistic things than fireworks. How many other nations celebrate things by scaring all the local pets? It can't be that uncommon...

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Things, yeah. National symbology, not as much.

    I'll say that I agree with you, though. Americans do way creepier stuff. The first time I attended a US sporting event it felt exactly like being trapped in some ritual for a religion I don't understand. They may as well have been ripping off some poor guy's still beating heart before lowering him into lava and watching it spontaneously burst into flame, for all I cared. I genuinely didn't know what to do with myself for the entire duration of the thing.

    I've never been to school there, either. I imagine watching a bunch of children recite their daily indoctrinations must be creepy AF. I'm not sure if it actually happens, though. It's never in American movies.

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  • [–] 93 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I screencapped this many moons ago on Reddit, I feel that it's apropos

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  • [–] 17 points 1 year ago

    The USA started cracking at the foundations when McCarthyism began, demonizing an ideology that was ultimately about sharing resources. You can draw a straight line between the Red Scare and the anti-socialism proudly shouted by modern Republicans and the MAGA movement today.

    For anyone who identifies as conservative, this rabid vilification of socialism has rotted away at even the idea that the government should exist to service the people, let alone advocating for it. So instead they advocate for tearing it all apart and hold firm to the 'rugged individialism', "the Free Market © will provide" nonsense that has never worked as far back in history as we can peer.

    Its so toxic, and it serves only the most wealthy. It's gone so far and for so long now that I don't see the lessons being learnt and course correcting with words alone.

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  • [–] 30 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    As an American I never really liked the holiday, (I agree patriotism sucks) but I wouldn't say it's that it really feels creepy other than the few people who really go over the top with it. Most people just use it as an excuse to barbeque and watch / light off fireworks (which I'm just personally not into)

    Now for some real North Korea shit, look up videos of the “pledge of allegiance“ in schools. I was always the only one not doing it, but it wasn't until I was an adult that I realized how fucked up it is. Creepy as hell.

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  • [–] [S] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Now for some real North Korea shit, look up videos of the “pledge of allegiance“ in schools. I was always the only one not doing it, but it wasn’t until I was an adult that I realized how fucked up it is. Creepy as hell.

    America and North Korea aren't alone in some kind of pledge for the country, are we? I have a memory of Chinese students doing the same type of thing, but I'm not entirely sure.

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  • [–] 14 points 1 year ago

    From a quick search it looks like India, Nigeria, Singapore, and the Philippines do as well.

    Other countries may have pledges of some sort for special occasions or for new citizens. But having a flag in every classroom that children chant to each morning is not normal.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    Over here the only similar events I can think of are related to joining the military and taking elected office. And there was significant legal arguing about the last one, to the point where opt-outs and strict limitations were added.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago (10 children)

    Independence day celebrations are not unique to America.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    In fact, the best ones are about independence from the US

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    Hmm let me see. True former colonies include Cuba, the Philippines and Liberia. The Panama Canal Zone. Hawaii was unceremoniously annexed, as were Guam and Puerto Rico. And a host of smaller islands.

    In a broader sense, Vietnam, Afghanistan and Iraq are also very happy they’re once again independent from the US.

    In an even broader sense, most US allies are working for independence from the unreliable US as we speak.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    We have one of those, and it'd be creepy even if historically it wasn't debatable that the event itself was for the better.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Fair enough, I just disagree. Gaining independence seems to me like a positive thing worth celebrating. I'm happy whenever I see an ex-colony celebrating their day.

    Not saying we Americans don't take it a little far, but hey, it's the one day where you can be patriotic without that creepy vibe.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    America fought for independence from Britain because the wealth of the nation was being sucked away and spent for the whims of a handful of wealthy people, and because the people were powerless to chose who the government was. If you factor in the insane number of insanely Gerrymandered districts and significant quantities of votes going through Musk's servers with no external scrutiny, a broken electoral college and a supreme court intent on deleting the constitution starting with section 3 of the 14th amendment (and now moving on to the rest of it), removing religious freedom, I see everything that the founding fathers fought for and everything that the civil war was fought for being stamped on by one deluded racist moron and his crazy sycophants and enablers. It was never really freedom from slavery anyway when you have such vast numbers of black men working for no wage in profiteering private prisons for decades just for smoking some pot or stealing some groceries while rich men who do drugs or steal tens of thousands get a slap on the wrist.

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  • [–] -1 points 1 year ago*

    Yeah, well, that depends on who gained independence from whom and whether you think you're independent now. Also on whether you'd be indepedendent from any guys who'd like to be independent from the now guys if they were to be independent.

    See, political independence for a group requires that you align with the idea the group has of itself. I don't know that I have that overlap with any particular political delineation, so I may need an organization a touch more nuanced than an independent, sovereign nation-state.

    Also, gonna need some citation on the lack of creepy vibe, as mentioned above.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (9 children)

    Patriotism is very cool. Nationalism isn't, which has mostly subverted the term patriot. A patriot stands up when their nation is doing something wrong. They don't blindly believe they're the best, they recognize that there's things they can improve. They fight to make their country better, not to make others worse.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (8 children)

    That'd be great if it didn't disagree with all available evidence. For all of history patriots have been either cannon fodder or abusive tyrants. On a long enough trajectory, almost inevitably nationalists and eventually imperialists.

    One could argue that, much like some flavors of political utopia, internationalism has the advantage of never having been implemented in any practical sense, so they have less of a challenge proving their positive impact, but I'll take it anyway.

    Regardless, I find that "making their country better" should be a distant second to "making the world better", and perhaps a close third behind "making the crap you have on hand and the lives of those immediately around you better".

    Look, I am not a globalist anarchist. I believe in well structured, effective democratic governments. Maybe I was the right age to look at the EU and think that those don't have to be held to the absurd liberal idea of the nation-state,and that wherever a collective of humans have a common interest there should be governance structured to work with other layers of organization to improve things and enforce rights within that sphere. There is nothing magical about the nation-state layer of government that makes it more spiritually attuned to identity or the needs of the people. It's all administrative stuff as far as I'm concerned.

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    Regardless, I find that "making their country better" should be a distant second to "making the world better", and perhaps a close third behind "making the crap you have on hand and the lives of those immediately around you better".

    I find this statement odd. So you think it's best to start local, right? OK, so next from your immediate community, you should expand out, eventually to country, then to world, right? Isn't that the logical progression. From more influence to less? Why is your priority jumping all over?

    Look, I am not a globalist anarchist.

    Funnily enough, I am an Anarchist. I don't know if I'd call myself a globalist, but probably. I also believe in well structured democratic governments. Those aren't at odds with each other.

    Maybe I was the right age to look at the EU and think that those don't have to be held to the absurd liberal idea of the nation-state,and that wherever a collective of humans have a common interest there should be governance structured to work with other layers of organization to improve things and enforce rights within that sphere. There is nothing magical about the nation-state layer of government that makes it more spiritually attuned to identity or the needs of the people. It's all administrative stuff as far as I'm concerned.

    I think we're in agreement. This isn't counter to what I said. I'd say it's in unison with it. People should work to improve their governments in any way they can. They should try to reshape it to better represent them. That's what a patriot would do, not just settle for the status quo and assume they're the best possible version there can be.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago* (6 children)

    Well, then what fatherland is the patriot beholden to?

    Cause that's what the word means.

    I get it, particularly in countries where the nation state has overlapped more or less perfectly for a long time it's hard to shed the emotional attachment, but there's no need for it.

    See, the reason I go from small to international is precisely that the nation state takes care of itself. The world has agreed that it's the natural resting place of sovereignty and every other scale of governance or administration os derived from it. I don't like that much. I don't resent it, but I also don't give it immediate precedence over any other scale of government.

    A patriot may care for whatever arbitrary definition the XVIIIth century put on their identity and be well meaning enough about it. I'm not a patriot. The historical borders of what some consider a nation today have no particular relevance, beyond the fact that they happen to drive some level of administration. If anything, it's the level where the most people decide to infringe on each other's business just because they feel they have a right to ownership over that national identity. I have no particular interest in whitewashing any of that into some supposedly healthy version of patriotism that has very rarely existed in any way.

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    Well, then what fatherland is the patriot beholden to?

    Cause that's what the word means.

    The land (and people), but not necessarily the state.

    (The term state ahead is really annoying.)

    Maybe part of it comes from being in the US, where we have a weird form of double governance of the "state" and "federal" governments. Which state are we loyal too, because they're both ours? It makes things more malleable. The states could agree to form a totally new federal government if they wanted to.

    A patriot may care for whatever arbitrary definition the XVIIIth century put on their identity and be well meaning enough about it. I'm not a patriot. The historical borders of what some consider a nation today have no particular relevance, beyond the fact that they happen to drive some level of administration.

    There are multiple definitions of country. Some don't care about the state that defines the borders. Your country is the land where you were born, not the state necessarily. One example that comes to mind in the US, which spans multiple states, is "Appalachia." Appalachian people are a broad culture group who live in the Appalachian mountain region, and are distinct from the states they reside, and the larger US obviously. They are countrymen of each other.

    I have no particular interest in whitewashing any of that into some supposedly healthy version of patriotism that has very rarely existed in any way.

    No, the problem is some other people have changed the term to mean nationalist. For example, in the US, people were called patriots for fighting for the people in the colonies against the state that controlled them (Britain). They didn't approve of the state and wanted to improve it, so they fought to change it and left the former state that was controlling them. Patriotism doesn't have to be blind support of a state, and I'd argue that isn't patriotism, because you aren't defending it from bad actors/actions.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (4 children)

    The etymology of the term is certainly much older than the nation-state, but also entirely disconnected from modern meanings (or ironic/facetious, which I do appreciate). There is just no original, clean, virtuous instance of "patriot" dislodged from the nationalist undertones. It simply has never existed.

    The mistake you're making is assuming that US revolutionaries weren't nationalists or were praiseworthy or fundamentally different than British colonists. We're going to disagree on that one. I mean, never mind that they didn't invent the term or that their whitewashing of it was self-serving. Even if your timeline of events was true, I despise their patriotism as much as anybody else's. US revolutionaries weren't some ideal version of a patriot, they were nationalist independentists who happened to borrow some French revolutionary ideas about the liberal democratic state-nation organization slightly earlier than their previous administration did (and perhaps due to the first draft nature of the thing, slightly worse, too).

    I won't judge them by modern standards, but I also absolutely, entirely refuse to sacralize them or idealize them. They were what they were, and they are absolutely not the thing that's going to give patriotism a good name.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (3 children)

    You're putting words in my mouth saying that I said American revolutionaries were great people. I never said such a thing, nor would I. Stop reading more into what I said than I actually said please.

    They were people willing to lay their lives down for something they thought was worth fighting for. Not out of some ignorance that the status quo is the best option, but because they wanted to make changes to improve things for their community (and their self too, sure). That's what patriotism is.

    I'd argue that it's necessarily not pristine. You have to be willing to get dirty. You don't win a war with honor. You win it by killing other people until the other side isn't fighting anymore. The same is true for any fight (not the killing necessarily, but being willing to do what needs to be done).

    I just brought them up as an example of patriotism though. I'm not saying they're a perfect example, just an example. This isn't about the US, like you're making it to be. You're not arguing against the point. Your entire comment can be boiled down to "American revolutionaries are bad" but it doesn't say really anything about patriotism.

    Anyway, my point is, don't let nationalists take the term. Maybe you don't, but most people have positive opinions if the term. It's easier and more useful to take the term back, because it isn't necessarily a nationalist term. There are plenty of leftist patriots throughout history and the world. The right is good at using language as a weapon. We should be too, and we shouldn't back off every time they try to use it.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

    OK, so it's just nationalism, then.

    I have a real problem trying to wrap my head around where you're drawing that line. Is the problem that "patriots" honestly believe they're making things better? Because it seems to me that the difference that leaves between a nationalist and a patriot is whether you agree with them.

    From the side of the victors it's easy to see slightly morally flawed patriots where, had things gone the other way, people would see nationalist zealots.

    I'm also surprised at you bringing up left and right divides. There are plenty of violent nationalists across the spectrum. I mean, it's definitely true that traditional leftists were internationalists (hell, left-wing movements organized in "internationals" and that's also the name of their anthem). So historically yeah, right wingers are more patriotic/nationalistic, but there's no shortage of left wing nationalists, either.

    I don't know, man, I struggle to share your very US-centric view, but also to see how anywhere in there is a distinction between those two terms. If patriots are just nationalists you like then you start to sound a lot like one.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    The difference is basically a nationalist thinks they're superior. They don't care about facts or anything, the just know they are the best. A patriot knows they can learn from others and improve things. They're trying to improve things, not just force themselves on others.

    I know I've said this so many times now, but you keep just wanting to say it's the same as nationalism. This is my last reply I think because you just keep insisting I'm saying things I'm not.

    I don't know, man, I struggle to share your very US-centric view...

    I used examples from the US. None of what I said had anything to do with the US outside of examples. I didn't say this is only the case in the US or anything like that. Again, you keep putting words in my mouth. Argue in good faith or don't at all. You're just wasting both of our time.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

    OK, so the difference is a nationalist is a supremacist and a patriot is not.

    So I'm back to my original statement, then. Patriotism sucks. Call it what you want, but allegiance to specifically a nation, nation-state or whatever construct you're assigning special status is bad and I actively oppose it.

    I'm not arguing in bad faith, I'm disagreeing. But you made it seem like we don't actually disagree and like you had a distinction that made patriotism not match the thing I'm saying is bad, so I want to understand if that's the case. It doesn't seem to be the case. You think patriotism is not a problem and think my negative characterization is of nationalism instead.

    Let me be clear, it is not.

    The patriotism you're talking about? The lovey-dovey "improve your country and learn from others" patriotism? It sucks. That's what I'm saying here.

    I'm also saying it's just whitewashed nationalism and that your distinction between supremacist nationalism and patriotic nationalism is superficial at best an non-existent at worst. Sure, not all nationalists or patriots are equally toxic, but that doesn't mean the concept of patriotism is salvageable into something positive.

    You owe no allegiance to your nation, beyond what ties you culturally to the groups of people that live within it. Just like you don't owe allegiance to your hometown beyond the same concerns. Or, you know, to the planet.

    You wanting to improve any one of those scales of human organization isn't any better or worse than the other, and the mere fact of implying any special relevance to one of them is a brand of nationalism I just don't find justified. It's a bit like religion. It can be well-intentioned and genuine, but in the long view of history it is undeniably an irrational, toxic force at the core of many atrocities. I will respect it and your right to participate in it, because the alternative is worse, but I won't take part in it and I don't think it's a good thing.

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I don't know, it's kind of like how people like to support their local football team. I think tribalism is somewhat ingrained in our brains. I can't say it's entirely logical, but it seems kind of baked-in to people at some level, like a leftover from pre-history.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Well, yeah, but so are plenty of other gross things and you don't see me out there raiding coastal villages just because we've spent longer taking things from each other by force than enforcing some peaceful, democratic social contract.

    To be clear, I'm not disagreeing, we have tribalism baked into us. It just happens to suck and we should strive to break past our built-in biases.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Patriotism can be cool, there are (I hope) many things about your nation, it's achievements and communities that you might be proud of.

    Nationalism however, not so much. They're closely related (and bad people will try to sneak Nationalism under the radar as Patriotism) but are very different things.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

    I don't know that I agree with this.

    Perhaps coming from a place where the notion of "country" and "nation" don't overlap one to one makes it easier to see. I wouldn't really be able to tell you what "my nation" even is, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

    I respect and take pride in culture in all its diversity and complexity, in democracy and in the general sense of human decency. Screw all the so-called nations trying to get me to vouch for them as a political unit, though. Political organization is for buiding roads and hospitals, not for pride.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    Patriotism is the little sibling of nationalism, and the boundaries are fluid. I will never understand why people are proud of other people's accomplishments and make them their own. Or is it because people were shat on somewhere else in the world than everyone else? Makes absolutely no sense.

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  • [–] 36 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    What the fuck would I have to be proud of? The US has been on a downward trend for a long time and that's accelerating

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago

    What, exactly, should I be proud of?

    A nation that is moving backwards on human rights, increasing wealth inequality, and got really “mask off” about supporting genocide. A nation that is inherently dysfunctional and wreathed in corruption.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago*

    I think that’s normal considering everything going on.

    By the way, I live in the CA bay area. Interestingly I went grocery shopping today and no kidding -I felt like I was in a small town in the midwest or something. I looked around and it was mostly older white people shopping, like you couldn’t help but notice. I told my bf, wtf are we in Idaho or something lol this doesn’t feel like the bay area?

    I think there’s a combination of people being tired of increasing inflation and burnt out by the barrage of shit going on in the news. I don’t imagine minorities, particularly immigrant families are feeling very patriotic right now. Or people are straight up worried about ICE kidnappings. Which by the way, I heard from a neighbor that ICE has been walking into the hospital she works at and waiting outside to snatch people. Terrible…

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