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[–] 58 points 11 months ago (6 children)

Biggest mistake in my life was leaving Boston. People weren't unfriendly, they just had busy lives and didn't have time for BS, but if you were waiting at a T stop you could easily strike up a conversation. I lived in Brookline and I can easily think of 5 different places with great food (at reasonable prices) in that area alone. Sure, it was kinda cold in winter; okay it's not as easy to navigate as Manhattan, but it's got character. There are ways to live cheap there but yeah the biggest killer is rent, either you'll be commuting a lot or you'll be living cramped. Still, it's one of my 3 favorite cities in the world.

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  • [–] 36 points 11 months ago

    Boston is my favourite city in the US (that I've been to). Everyone was super friendly.

    I've been to cities where people are "warmer" and more outgoing, but it's that fake American facade everyone wears. Boston was a little rough in places but way more genuine.

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  • [–] 16 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    if you were waiting at a T stop you could easily strike up a conversation

    Horrifying.

    If you tried that in the part of England I'm from you'll end up getting sectioned for your own good.

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  • [–] 14 points 11 months ago

    I find the further you get from London, the friendlier people tend to be with strangers in England. If you go west far enough and end up over the border in Wales, the difference is even more pronounced.

    When I lived in Aberystwyth, cigarettes were basically a communist economy!

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  • [–] 15 points 11 months ago

    I visited Boston from the UK and found everyone to be super friendly. Had lots of conversations with folks who just started chatting to me, and would go out of their way to recommend things to do. I also found the same in NYC. And Paris. I think friendly people are everywhere.

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  • [–] 73 points 11 months ago (5 children)

    There's plenty of good food in Boston.

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  • [–] 15 points 11 months ago (6 children)

    Just came back from a long weekend in Boston, and I loved it. It reminded me very much of Dublin where I live:

    • Expensive as hell.
    • Weather forecast is never right.
    • You can understand the locals only when they are drunk.

    But the food was great, and the T was lightyears ahead of the Dublin metro system.

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    the T was lightyears ahead of the Dublin metro system.

    Wow, Dublin's metro must suck. Boston's subway is good by US standards, but it's one of the worst of any major city I've been in elsewhere. The Green Line is more a tram than a subway line, and has that horrible tight turn under Park Street. For a city the size of Boston it has a decent number of different subway lines, but the whole system is old and poorly maintained.

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Dublin metro was first planned in the 1980s. A definitive plan was finalized last year, and the construction was supposed to start next year, bur at the last possible moment a group of residents near one of the planned terminuses blocked it in court because the construction would "cause them undue stress". So, if we're lucky, the metro construction will begin within 50 years of the original plan. Ireland is thus remaining one of the very few European countries with sizable population, without a metro. Despite running such huge budget surpluses that we sometimes refuse to collect taxes from the multinationals.

    In Boston, I stayed close to Alewife. The red line was decent to get me to the city centre, and I had two good bus connections to Lexington where I also had some business to attend to.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago

    Oh wow. AFAIK Boston's is the oldest one in North America, more than a century old now.

    Yeah, the red line is, IMO, Boston's best line. But, that was also partially based on where I mostly travelled. But, I imagine the red line probably receives a bit more attention than the other lines because it's the line that serves Harvard and MIT.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    Did people start cheering and weeping tears of joy when they heard your accent?

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Haha, no. I was tempted to visit Paddy's Lunch, but being in Boston I opted for clam chowder, a good burger (where you actually get to specify how you want it made), and some Italian. I was mildly amused when I walked by a pub that advertised a band called The Gobshites. Certainly won't help to dispell Irish stereotypes.

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  • [–] 15 points 11 months ago

    Boston is awesome for it's green spaces. Probably my favorite city to walk a far distance. So many parks. So many huge parks.

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  • [–] 41 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    Boston is fantastic. Yes you have the mass-holes but as long as you aren't driving it's great and when you actually look for food there are plenty of great places.

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  • [–] 20 points 11 months ago

    when you actually look for food there are plenty of great places.

    This is the key. In my experience, the larger, more obvious places are mediocre, but the small holes in the wall you could easily walk past and never realize they're there have some fucking amazing food more often than not.

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  • [–] 9 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    How is the public transportation there?

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  • [–] 37 points 11 months ago

    Excellent by American standards for most of Boston and Greater Boston, which is to say mediocre by European standards. It's entirely possible to be independently mobile and car free there. Most places are walkable and there are pleasant old buildings and green spaces or plazas or spots overlooking water to stumble upon. It's a lovely city.

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  • [–] 14 points 11 months ago

    My one visit to Boston (American) was for part of a day. The people were nice, food was good, and the harbor was very accepting of the loose tea I threw in it.

    But I'm glad it was during summer.

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  • [–] 34 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (5 children)

    ‘Channels the inner Bostonian’

    • Expensive? Hell ya.
    • Freezing? Gimme a break, don’t be a pussy.
    • Difficult to navigate? T is always fuckin broke and late, driving blows. Don’t know where you’re going - just ask dipshit, we’ll set ya straight.
    • Unfriendly? Fuck you. We’re wicked nice.
    • Food? You must be fuckin blind son. Food here is pissa!
    • Did you mean the original Boston? I think your tea is done brewing in the harbor.

    ;)

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  • [–] 39 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Unfriendly? Fuck you. We’re wicked nice.

    First time I visited Boston, I was lost somewhere in downtown and walking in circles. Must have passed a postman one too many times because he just briskly walks up to me and, gesturing with a handful of mail, abruptly asks, “whadaya, fuckin lost?”

    He then proceeded to give me very clear and accurate directions to where I was going.

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago

    One of the interesting things about Boston is that the average person you bump into doesn't have the typical Boston accent. There are too many immigrants, international students, etc. for that accent to dominate. But, certain jobs: postal worker, cop, firefighter, public transit worker, etc. that mostly hire locals. So, your announcements on the T are mostly always done with a strong Boston accent.

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  • [–] 17 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Difficult to navigate? The roads are designed entirely around the premise of “FAHK YOUU!! You don’t know how this road works? Moron!” Source: lived there. Want to go to Salem? Nope. One of my favorites is the tollway from the airport to downtown. If you miss the last exit or go the wrong way on 1, guess you’re going downtown because fuck you. Downtown is a mess of one-ways, turn only lanes, and no, two rights will NOT have you going in the opposite direction. Fuck you, you’re now going to Worcester on the Masspike. Have fun.

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  • [–] 12 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    Food was killer when I was there.

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  • [–] 12 points 11 months ago

    Boston has better food than your average city. It's a relatively rich city, which helps. More importantly, it has something like 40 universities in and around that area, and many of them cater to international students. So, you get all kinds of interesting ethnic foods from around the world. Boston also has a small Chinatown, but it has great food. It also has a lot of Brazilian immigrants, so it has restaurants catering to Brazilians.

    Some of my favourites:

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  • [–] 29 points 11 months ago (6 children)

    Don't forget the public transport, which is underwhelming.

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  • [–] 45 points 11 months ago (5 children)

    By US standards it's pretty good.

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  • [–] 22 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    That's like saying your underwear is comfortable compared to being made of barbed wire.

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  • [–] 10 points 11 months ago

    Speaking of my town just outside Boston ……

    The food is just like the British: we have great Indian food

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  • [–] 10 points 11 months ago

    They throw a pretty great tea party. Everything else is as described.

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  • [–] 9 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    The seafood is top notch. Fresher too, especially things like lobstah. And don't forget about the clam chowdah. Try the schrod.

    The people are very nice they just have thick shells to deter assholes. Compare to the rest of the country, where the people are "nice" but secretly want you to fuck off.

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  • [–] 9 points 11 months ago* (1 child)

    I visited Boston 2 months ago for a wedding. Spent almost a whole week making a vacation of it with my wife. Can confirm all of this is accurate.

    And yes, I went to the famous Italian district in the North End. It was way overpriced and it was fine but not particularly memorable. Just generic american-italian fare you can find in any city in America. The only notable food I had was the absolute worst Pad Thai I've ever had in my life.

    I'm a white guy who has lived my whole life in the northeast US, and even I was shocked at the lack of spices or flavor in everything. Even my Dunkin Donuts coffee seemed blander than how it was at home.

    Well, I did get some edibles from the dispensary which included some incredible white chocolate with espresso beans. Not sure if I would count that as "food" though.

    If you do have to eat in downtown Boston I would recommend the South Street Diner. The food itself was just the stuff you would expect from any diner in America, but it was executed well and almost reasonably priced.

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago

    I'm sure there's good Italian food in the North End, but no local would go there to find it. You pay a premium because it's the North End and you and every other tourist had the same idea.

    You may have better luck in Cambridge, Allston or Brookline for food in general. Easier to park and get a table, too.

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  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago (11 children)

    During my visit, I heard from some locals that they prefer thin crust pizza to deep dish. Found that both funny and agreeable.

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  • [–] 11 points 11 months ago (10 children)

    Why is that funny or surprising? Boston is not known for its deep dish; that is Chicago.

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago (7 children)

    Thought Chicago was known for the weird-ass sauce on top of the cheese pizza.

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  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago

    Nah, you're mistaken, making a mislabeled pasta that is mislabeled as pizza is firmly a Chicago thing!

    Detroit Deep Dish is an excellent thicc and crunchy crusted cheese-carmelized indulgence born of factory workers, whist Chicago "pizza" is a shit lasagna the domain of disappointed tourists and locals too dense to realize the sauce goes under the cheese!

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    No, Detroit has (optionally) a couple lines of sauce on top, and most places I know that make Detroit style skip the sauce lines. Chicago style has sauce on top of the entire thing.

    Though I just looked it up and it looks like there are multiple different "Chicago style" definitions.

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago* (3 children)

    Chicago style is a kiddie pool of a crust filled with an alarming miasma of sauce and toppings (bafflingly, placed under the sauce). It’s more of a “savory pie” than a “pizza-pie”. Great for if you want to drown a toddler in a food item; not so great for folding up and eating as you walk around town.

    They can be tasty. I just object to them being classified with the rest of the pizza genus, because they’re wildly different in terms of construction to any other pizza species.

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  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago

    I went in January, cold but nothing I'm unaccustomed to as a Canadian.

    Clam chowder was decent at least what I tried. Public transit was usable. People were nice there in your typical American sense, but NYC shops had more heart for strangers and visitors comparatively. But I was only able to really scratch the surface from my day trip there.

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  • [–] 13 points 11 months ago

    Bwahahahah! Yeah, I live an hour north.. most of it is fairly true, but there is some crazy good food in Boston.

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    There’s that mediocre restaurant chain “Boston Pizza”…but I think that’s only here in Canada.

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago

    Then it really is authentic Boston Pizza!

    (No seriously I found maybe 3 good pizza places while I lived in Boston and I'm pretty sure 2 of them technically weren't even in Boston. The pizza there is mid at best)

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Nah there’s good food in Boston. They have a marvelous Italian neighborhood. Them mfs cook

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago* (5 children)

    I've lived there and liked it. More open than NY with less BS than the west coast. Food was fine but I'm even less of a foodie now than back then.

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  • [–] 5 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    Huh. Had an opposite experience. Boston locals have their families and friend set, if you don’t have 3 generations in the local cemetery you’re not “from there”. Very closed.

    West coast is all chain food. Meh.

    The best restaurants are the local ones in NY and Boston.

    NY? Everyone was chill. That said, the idea that Bostonians are unfriendly isn’t true. You get them talking and they're your bestie.

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    IDK where you went, but saying the west coast is all chain food is absolutely bizarre to me.

    A quick search shows a PBS article where researchers found the southern US and Republican states as a whole have a higher % of chain restaurants, as opposed to more left leaning states where people tend to be more concerned with what they're eating.

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  • [–] -3 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

    I lived there for 20 years. I went everywhere.

    E: why the downvotes? I’ve literally been in every State, and have been all over the entire state of California, from Mono to Crescent City to Blythe. I was there twice last month and I’ll go back again soon. Compared to where I’ve lived like Boston and NYC CA is full of chain restaurants. Not as bad as TX or the South. Y’all need to get out more.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    This man never been in a taqueria

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago

    My friend, the number one thing I eat when I go back to CA is the Mexican food. Y’got me there. CA has huge indy owned Mex food. “My man” loves the taquerias and every other hole in the wall Mexican joint. Just went to El Cholo in L.A. two days ago.

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  • No british people there

    And that's just great.

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  • [–] 9 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Show me a cheap city with a warm climate on a grid system with amazingly friendly people, and I’ll show you hell on Earth.

    Go Sox!

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    Depends on how much of asshole you are. I had no problems the brief time I was there.

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    masshole

    I'm not from there so I can't be a masshole.

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago

    Being part of America, it sure is a place to avoid aswel.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

    I always loved visiting Baastin as a port visit.

    But then again, I was from Halifax.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago*

    Maybe they mean the original one in Lincolnshire.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago

    People who think British food is bad have never had a pie or a fry

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago

    Literally spending Christmas there because of parter’s family in a few weeks. It’s not the worst place I have been to, but it is expensive, the people shout at each other mostly in heavy accents, and there is nothing to do. The food?

    Somehow they messed up seafood.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago

    I find it difficult to navigate in 2287 as well. Food's still not too good either.

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago

    Traffic actually worse after the Big Dig. Aside from Helmand in Cambridge, the food is not good.

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